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Where do you think Jewish people come from?

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BlessedIsTheFruit · 23/09/2026 20:07

Antisemitism is at full volume at the moment and I caveat this post with saying that I have absolutely no wish to make Jewish MNers feel uncomfortable but as an an atheist with no connection to Israel this really makes my blood boil.

I see so many SM posts about the Jews having 'colonized' Israel and Judea & Samaria, not having any claim to the land, not being indigenous and of course being 'Europeans settlers'.

They can't answer where they actually come from though so I thought anyone on here who shares their views might be able to give an answer and how they came to that conclusion.

I understand that Jews are an ethnicity with Judaism as their religion. Being Jewish is not a religion. Jews are still today spread out all over the world with the majority living in Israel and the US.

This has come into focus since the UK Government sanctions on Jewish businesses in Judea & Samaria recently with Jewish communities living there classed as 'illegal settlers'.

It's almost as if Jews and Judea have no connection at all.

So AIBU to ask where the Jews originated from if not from there?

I don't feel this belongs on the CITME board as although the war in Gaza has amplified beliefs, this not directly about that.

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GarlicSomething · Yesterday 14:43

Oh, FFS, @BlessedIsTheFruit! They're as bad as each other. But unequal. Israel's richer and has stronger international support - as was the case in the 1940s.

Was three-quarters of the Jewish population displaced? As far as I'm aware, a dozen Jewish villages were depopulated and 400 Arab ones.

A one-sided perspective is all you'll accept, I see. So much for your wide-eyed introductory post. You can't even hear anyone looking at both sides. I'll take my smell elsewhere.

Darkcarpark · Yesterday 14:44

GarlicSomething · Yesterday 14:18

Same reason Gypsies have. Scapegoating.

People have always scapegoated selected groups. When it's an ethnic group, endogamy helps the bad actors to claim that they consider themselves better than everyone else - yet they force endogamy on them by forbidding intermarriage.

There are African tribes/races that suffer this within their regions, but I'm too lazy to check details. The point is that it's depressingly easy to 'other' a group and rally hatred against them.

Thank you, that makes sense.

Darkcarpark · Yesterday 14:45

Jane3212 · Yesterday 14:19

A big reason is that they were often forced to be middlemen minorities in European societies. Amy Chua and Thomas Sowell have written about the way these kinds of groups can be unfairly targeted-Chua in World On Fire, Sowell in Race and Culture & Markets and Minorities.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Middleman_minority

Sowell explains his theory here. I don't fully agree as I think religion was a big factor but I think he has a point.

https://www.hoover.org/research/anti-semitism-generic

Another is that they are Abrahamic religion so historically Christians and Muslims have seen them as threats often. Indian Jews and Chinese Jews experienced virtually no prejudice historically because they were in societies where Abrahamic religions were not the majority, among other factors.

Wow such a helpful reply. Thank you!

ErroltheSwampDragon · Yesterday 14:48

DeftGoldHedgehog · Yesterday 14:36

I'm not anti-semitic. If my comments are something that would be recorded as anti-semitism then, yes there would be a lot less anti-semitism if such comments were not counted as such.

You stated my reaction to your comment was increasing the hate, my reaction stems from:

  1. People deny that Jews have a connection to Israel as a way to delegitimise Israel.
  2. The same people push for the abolition of the state and the removal of the Jews (or for them to be ruled by others).
  3. This (in their view) legitimises attacks on Israel.

I don't care if you thought the comment was light hearted and I'm pleased to hear you don't hate Jews, but your comment supported the perception above and has real world consequences for Jews. It was made on a thread where large numbers agree with the above narrative and supported that argument, intentionally or otherwise.

Humour can bring people together, but not when it pits them against each other.

Verv · Yesterday 14:49

OldCrohn · 23/09/2026 20:34

It's all whataboutery. Mass starvation and bombing of civilian children is a genocide and needs to stop.

It is this dishonest hyperbole that needs to stop.

ginkhao · Yesterday 14:49

GarlicSomething · Yesterday 14:43

Oh, FFS, @BlessedIsTheFruit! They're as bad as each other. But unequal. Israel's richer and has stronger international support - as was the case in the 1940s.

Was three-quarters of the Jewish population displaced? As far as I'm aware, a dozen Jewish villages were depopulated and 400 Arab ones.

A one-sided perspective is all you'll accept, I see. So much for your wide-eyed introductory post. You can't even hear anyone looking at both sides. I'll take my smell elsewhere.

wait, who had the power in the 1940s?

Yes, more Arabs were displaced because the Jews won. However, the Arab intent was very clear. If you look at % displaced in the areas held, the Arabs cleared the areas they held of 100% of the Jewish population, Israel did not displace 100% of the Arab population.

But if you're worried about making it fair, fear not! Because after Israel won, the Arab countries turned on their Jewish populations and displaced them. 800,000 of them!

ginkhao · Yesterday 14:52

Verv · Yesterday 14:49

It is this dishonest hyperbole that needs to stop.

Also it has stopped (not that there was mass starvation but anyway there's plenty of food there now).
Btu Sudan and Yemen? Yep, genocide going on there. Actual ongoing right now gencoide. Kids being bombed and starved. crickets
Apparently there is only ever one "genocide"

CarbootJunction · Yesterday 14:54

Hendon.

5MinuteArgument · Yesterday 15:01

Balagan · Yesterday 11:54

I am a Mizrahi Jew. I can trace my maternal lineage in what is now called Israel through multiple generations. My paternal lineage is Kurdish but still very much Middle Eastern. As a family we speak both Hebrew and Arabic and have many Muslim family members too. This has not stopped the ‘antizionists’ labelling me a ‘white coloniser’ though.

I also have Ashkenazi family by marriage and their DNA has as much in common as mine as it does with Europe. I have mixed feelings about the right of return (I used to be very against it but seeing the rise of antisemitism in the west I now think it’s necessary to ensure our survival, with the caveat that I still have some ethical questions over it).

Palestinians and Jews share a lot of Canaanite DNA. But Palestinians also have large amounts of Arab DNA and ethnic and cultural ties to the surrounding countries such as Egypt and Jordan. I struggle with the fact that often it’s the same people denying that Jews are indigenous to Israel because they define Ashkenazis as Europeans who refuse to recognise that Palestinians also have a mix of DNA. We both have deep historic religious and cultural ties to this land.

Yes, I agree with that and that's why the problem can't be solved. It's a zero sum game. Very unfortunate. I can imagine in a thousand years time the Israel-Palestine conflict will still be going on because neither side will give in.

BewaretheIckabog · Yesterday 15:05

GarlicSomething · Yesterday 13:38

They didn't start the most recent war as an expansion intent, despite claims on this thread - it was in response to the mass terrorist attack.

If you believe in an eye for an eye, as both cultures do, an appropriate response would've been approx 2,000 Palestinians killed or injured. It's been rather more than that. It wasn't a 'response' but an excuse.

As to 'what now?' - Fuck knows, but I'd take a guess that the richer side will defeat the other one. It already has, more or less. A new generation of Arab survivors, having grown up under attack, will convert their collective trauma into aggression and the whole thing will miserably continue in various forms.

Funny how often people use the collective trauma of Arabs or Palestinians to justify their hatred of Israel.

What about the collective trauma of many Israeli’s whose ancestors were persecuted for millennia or killed in the holocaust? Do the declarations of war by neighbouring states, calls for the destruction of Israel or the eradication of Jews excuse Israeli aggression? Maybe the slaying of their athletes, hijacking of planes or constant barrage of rockets by people who want them dead has an effect on them.

By your ‘eye for an eye’ should we have allowed them to kill a few million antisemites after the holocaust?

No, you think the Israeli’s should be held to higher standards and make peace with those who would destroy them.

Also holding ‘Arab survivors’ to a lower standard and suggesting they should automatically be expected to become aggressors rather than look for a diplomatic solution is racist and infantilising.

GarlicSomething · Yesterday 15:06

ginkhao · Yesterday 14:52

Also it has stopped (not that there was mass starvation but anyway there's plenty of food there now).
Btu Sudan and Yemen? Yep, genocide going on there. Actual ongoing right now gencoide. Kids being bombed and starved. crickets
Apparently there is only ever one "genocide"

Likely because we don't have dozens of Burhan, Dagalo, Houti or Saudi supporters here, proclaiming moral superiority or unique victimhood.

Actually those two wars are so bloody complicated, I'd be surprised if the people stuck in the middle of them even know who's fighting for what nowadays 😢

ginkhao · Yesterday 15:11

5MinuteArgument · Yesterday 15:01

Yes, I agree with that and that's why the problem can't be solved. It's a zero sum game. Very unfortunate. I can imagine in a thousand years time the Israel-Palestine conflict will still be going on because neither side will give in.

So I think we need to move away from seeing it as a zero sum game. What's good for the Palestinians can be good for Israel and vice versa. At the end of the day, peace and prosperity will benefit everyone.

OakleyAnnie · Yesterday 15:12

Theresawaytobehonestandkind · Yesterday 01:36

I am not ok with what is happening. Yet your point is lost on me. I’m a white Christian, where do I “come” from? You are suggesting you must “come” from an area or country to live there - which is hysterical.

Either an ignorant or a disingenuous post. Nobody is telling you a White Christian to go back to where you came from. But Jews are being told to “go back to Poland“ or to leave Israel because ‘they don’t come from there.’

OakleyAnnie · Yesterday 15:14

canklesmctacotits · Yesterday 02:57

Mecca and Medina 🤦‍♀️

I don’t understand your point

ginkhao · Yesterday 15:14

GarlicSomething · Yesterday 15:06

Likely because we don't have dozens of Burhan, Dagalo, Houti or Saudi supporters here, proclaiming moral superiority or unique victimhood.

Actually those two wars are so bloody complicated, I'd be surprised if the people stuck in the middle of them even know who's fighting for what nowadays 😢

No, it's because no one cares. There's not been one march for Yemen or for Sudan or for Nigeria or for Congo.
There weren't marches when the Rohingya gencoide was ongoing.
I remember Tamils despierately throwing themselves in front of buses to just get some attention during the Sri Lankan genocide.
Outrage is very selective apparently. And a keffiyeh looks cool. So....

OakleyAnnie · Yesterday 15:21

smooththecat · Yesterday 03:26

What I thought broadly aligns with what’s on Wikipedia so I’ll link. Hope that helps but not sure thread is in good faith.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jews

I’d avoid getting information from Wikipedia entirely, particularly about anything related to Jews. according to a 2025 report by the anti-defamation league there’s been a network of Wikipedia editors engaging in a coordinated campaign to introduce anti-Israel bias and antisemitic narratives on the platform. This has included removing references to Jews having a homeland or being a nation of people and to historical examples of Jews or Hebrews living in the land. Hebrew has been changed to Canaanite to avoid indigenous people being associated with modern day Jews.

ErroltheSwampDragon · Yesterday 15:25

OakleyAnnie · Yesterday 15:21

I’d avoid getting information from Wikipedia entirely, particularly about anything related to Jews. according to a 2025 report by the anti-defamation league there’s been a network of Wikipedia editors engaging in a coordinated campaign to introduce anti-Israel bias and antisemitic narratives on the platform. This has included removing references to Jews having a homeland or being a nation of people and to historical examples of Jews or Hebrews living in the land. Hebrew has been changed to Canaanite to avoid indigenous people being associated with modern day Jews.

Yes, its really concerning https://blogs.timesofisrael.com/from-neutrality-to-bias-wikipedias-quiet-war-on-israel/

There have also been reports on similar happening regarding other groups (e.g. exaggerating Russian historical ties to other territory) but I don't know the history/details well enough.

OakleyAnnie · Yesterday 15:26

SpottyPyjama · Yesterday 03:57

The question in the title of this thread is missing the point. No one denies that Jewish people came from
the are that is now known as Palestine, Isreal and surrounding areas. Jewish people absolutely have the right to live there. But so do other people, and there is no need for Jewish people to hold all the power, especially given how badly they treat the Muslims and Christians
who came from exactly the same place and who
have equal right to live there.

‘ There’s no need for the Jews to hold all the power’
After all, why are the Jews deserving of self government and autonomy? Surely that’s only the rights of Christians, Muslim and other ethnicities/religions who hold the power in many many countries.

There’s so much antisemitism on this thread. It’s unreal.

OakleyAnnie · Yesterday 15:31

samthepigeon · Yesterday 04:21

My understanding is that they don't have exactly the same status as Jews though. For example, Arab Israeli citizens who marry Palestinians from the West Bank or Gaza can face restrictions on bringing their spouses to live in Israel. Also the Arabic language has 'special status' rather than being regarded an official language.

What languages have official status in the UK? Or are the rules different for us?

Arab Israelis hold official citizenship with legal rights like voting and carrying passports. They occupy highly prestigious high ranking positions in many professional sectors, particularly healthcare and the judiciary. If that’s what people call apart, then they don’t understand the meaning of the word.

GarlicSomething · Yesterday 15:33

Antisemitism and Islamophobia have taken on the same air as transphobia, it seems to me. Unless you unconditionally agree with everything the group in question says & does, you're anti/phobic.

Oh, hold your nose, I'm being smelly again! Tsk.

Gentlework · Yesterday 15:35

SoManyTshirts · 23/09/2026 20:22

Totally agree with Bloodysquirellls. I would hope that Jews born and resident in Europe consider themselves Europeans, not Israeli.

Millions of Jews did - or tried to - consider themselves European. Unfortunately for them, Europe set them straight about that. As a school boy in 1920s Germany, my grandfather was told "go back" to Jerusalem, that "all the Jews should be rounded up and gassed" (yes, that was an idea already doing the rounds in the 1920s).

67% of Europe's jews were killed during WW2. Shouldn't be hard to understand why a vast number of them lost faith in the concept of assimilation.

NancyThompson · Yesterday 15:42

GarlicSomething · Yesterday 13:57

Come on, you said it was a response to Oct 7.

Israel has its Iron Dome, which seems pretty effective. I wished long ago that Palestine - or Gaza at least - could have one, too. If they won't stop having a go at each other, it'd be better to be equally well defended.

While repeating that I think Hamas is awful, it's difficult to buy the portrayal of Israel as victim. This is a very unbalanced conflict in which Palestinians are, yet again, suffering greatly.

As I also keep saying, though, I don't think it will ever stop completely.

I never saw Israel as the victim either. They were bigger, better armed, so surely the bad guy. But when I saw as I scrolled X on 7 October three years ago made me realise what they were up against, and why they have to be so defensive. It was horror beyond imagination.

PurpleThistle7 · Yesterday 15:45

ginkhao · Yesterday 15:11

So I think we need to move away from seeing it as a zero sum game. What's good for the Palestinians can be good for Israel and vice versa. At the end of the day, peace and prosperity will benefit everyone.

Well for a start the Palestinian people could have avoided voting in Hamas. I think people forget that Hamas didn't appear in a mysterious way - they were voted in. The people voted for a terror organisation with the goal to destroy Israel, encourage worldwide jihad and align with the Muslim Brotherhood and all the rest of the terrorists. I have no idea how to negotiate with that and have yet to see any suggestions. Agree that probably plenty of people regret that, but it's not like they were secretive about what they intended.

All 'I' actually want is to live my slightly boring life, raise my kids and watch them thrive in life. However I am spending a lot of my time on the phone with their teachers about various incidents, driving my daughter back and forth to self-defense classes so she can protect herself against the violent bigots who attacked her at school, checking the news for the latest shooting / stabbing / whatever and comforting my children who are too scared to go to synagogue. While simultaneously defending my right to exist or have a place to run to when all this gets to be more frightening than exhausting.

My workplace is a cesspool of hate marches and a mess of a union covered in Palestinian flags and I am too scared to wear my Jewish star necklace most of the time (sometimes I'm too angry not to which is new. I think I prefer angry).

I promise, I hate war too. I really do. But even I struggle to see how to stop fighting against an enemy who will stop at nothing to destroy you. Hamas isn't going to stop because xyz civilians are massacred. They won't stop because the UN asks nicely. They will never stop. I have no idea what to do about that.

NancyThompson · Yesterday 15:48

But so do other people, and there is no need for Jewish people to hold all the power, especially given how badly they treat the Muslims and Christians
who came from exactly the same place and who
have equal right to live there.

Did you actually just say that?
Also there are Muslim politicians in the Knesset, FYI. Jewish people are the population majority in Israel, is that what you mean by "holding all the power"?

Re treatment of Christians, the Gazan Christian population has plummeted in the last two decades. In the same time period, it's risen from 146K to 184K in Israel.

Downloadfilms · Yesterday 16:09

This thread still going then!
Have a good Sukkot everyone - hopefully without being too cold.