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AIBU To be excessively worried about DD’s safety as she leaves for university?

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MimiGC · 25/08/2026 08:24

My DD has grown up in a small, very safe town. She’s a sensible girl, but never really had to be overly concerned for her safety on the streets before - public transport isn’t great here, so we’ve often given her lifts late at night. She’s now about to go to a big city (Birmingham) and I’m so worried for her. Obviously what you see in the media is always the worst of a place and I know I need to get things in perspective a bit more. I am thinking of getting her a personal alarm, for when she she’s walking home in the dark. AIBU?
If your DD has been to university in Birmingham, can you put my mind at rest?

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MajorProcrastination · Yesterday 14:25

MimiGC · 26/08/2026 22:27

I also have no idea how Ubers work. So if my daughter has the app on her phone, how can I track it ? And how does the audio and video recording work?

This feels like a lot. I understand that you're anxious. I am so glad that my parents couldn't track exactly who I was with and where I was at any given time while I was at University in a city.

walrushurricane · Yesterday 15:02

MajorProcrastination · Yesterday 14:25

This feels like a lot. I understand that you're anxious. I am so glad that my parents couldn't track exactly who I was with and where I was at any given time while I was at University in a city.

Parents can only track if the student sends them a link when they get in the car. Mine only do this if visiting me. Otherwise their friends can track them. The point is that Uber cars are tracked and seem to be video recordings in most licensed vehicles now anyway.

EvelynBeatrice · Today 22:09

MajorProcrastination · Yesterday 14:25

This feels like a lot. I understand that you're anxious. I am so glad that my parents couldn't track exactly who I was with and where I was at any given time while I was at University in a city.

Usually a group of friends track each other - not parents!!

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