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Crash on A66 that killed two police officers and 5 others…

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bookworm1982 · 22/08/2026 18:53

Am I correct that the other victims were 5 lads travelling in one car the wrong way up the motorway? EXACTLY the same as the 5 Irish lads who died a few days ago travelling the wrong way up a motorway too? Surely not twice in a week? Is there some sort of mental social media thing going on, telling kids to drive up the wrong way? Like a dare? Just cannot believe it happened once, let alone twice. Just devastating.

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Greywizardthewhite · 23/08/2026 19:31

Just seen on Facebook, one of the Balloon release posters!
I hope it’s fake as they can’t spell ‘Balloon’
It’s baloon on the poster!!

Greywizardthewhite · 23/08/2026 19:32

And they say crime is down!

AreYouActuallyForReal · 23/08/2026 19:33

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 19:27

I said not all of Ireland thought "fuck 'em", which just simply is the case. Maybe most Irish people do think that, but not all of them. And on the burials, I was responding to criticism of those. But the original post that mine was following responses to has been deleted. I wonder why.

Ah, you’re right tbf, not ‘all of Ireland’ feel like this… the scumbag families and friends of these kids, who are now glorifying them all over social media, don’t have this attitude.

That’s it though, the remaining 99.9999% of us are sickened and have absolutely zero sympathy, except with the innocent sisters and little boy they ruthlessly ploughed into, the poor young apprentice still lying in a hospital bed, and the 2 officers who lost their lives over the weekend in England.

SleeplessInWherever · 23/08/2026 19:35

DaisyDooley · 23/08/2026 19:27

Eston wasn’t bad at all. It was fine until British Steel & ICI shut down causing mass unemployment in the area.
The Big council estate at Whale Hill had always had its low life shits -but they were few and far between, the police and neighbours knew who they were. They used to get sent to prison for stealing from shops, low level drug deals etc.
Left wing policy is -like the lifting of the 2 child cap ARE in part to blame for this decline in moral standards, Having multiple children , not ensuring they go to school- because the government just gives you money for having kids -is part of the breakdown of the fabric of society.
Pre 1980 when the big industrial companies started making people redundant-the area was fine. People looked after their council houses and tended the gardens!
You try to make it sound like it’s always been dire -so sorry for being the bearer of bad news - it wasn’t. Only evaluating it from your ex husbands eyes from 1985 doesn’t cut it.

Can you just explain for me how lifting the 2 child cap in 2026 had any impact on these men, at least one of which was an only child?

We’re just picking political nonsense arguments now.

If you’re from that area, you know that Pallister Park and South Bank haven’t just suddenly deteriorated in the last few years, and you know that men/boys like those involved have existed there for a very long time.

You can try and convince yourself that “leftism” has ruined certain areas of Teesside, but we know they’ve been ruined for a while.

LoveHalloumi · 23/08/2026 19:36

SleeplessInWherever · 23/08/2026 19:13

Unless those same issues existed in the 80s, 90s, and for every second of the last twenty years - it’s not “lefty” policing that’s making those boys the way they are.

Like I said - not a new issue.

I also think @LoveHalloumi that it’s more complicated than just being “welfare,” and absolutely none of those boys would have been impacted by the 2 child cap.

It’s a shit hole. It’s been a shit hole for a very long time. The schools in that area try, I would know - I’ve taught in them, and continue to work with them professionally. Community centres are put up and then vandalised. Alternative provisions try to intervene.

None of it works, because the issue is systemic and not just because of the current, or most recent government.

welfare has existed since well before the 80s/90s, but you know that
I don't think the 2 child benefit cap was in place when these boys were young- but that wasn't my point -it was just a current example of easy, thoughtless leftist discourse
I do agree that there is more to it than simply welfare but welfare plays a huge part-
economically still somewhat a north south divide though that's a little simplistic- but class is the thing and white working class is the real thing here- vilified, yet pampered with welfare- culturally so very different from metropolitan elite, never has this gap been wider but chattering classes are the media, the taste makers, the arbiters of what is ok politically- Overton's window has shifted inexorably to the left- such that soft right today would have been very much left territory even 15 years ago
white boys being by far the worst performing demographic by any metric but shunted aside by DEI, well they just don't have the same appeal (and photo potential) to Social Justice Warriors- you don't see Lily Allen quietly helping out at a community centre in Barrow or Wigan- it's all pics with "refugees" in Calais
it's no wonder that boys like this exist and it is absolutely liberal policies that have brought us here- have you ever read The Time Machine- Morlocks and Eloi that's where we're at.

Velvasilk · 23/08/2026 19:37

These are being shared about one of these lads called Theo. Glorifying mates in YOIs and criticism of the police.

Crash on A66 that killed two police officers and 5 others…
Crash on A66 that killed two police officers and 5 others…
hattie43 · 23/08/2026 19:38

bafta16 · 23/08/2026 18:15

So much wrong....Tic tok, their stupidity, their lack of boundaries/parenting. They were human beings though.

No they weren’t , they were devoid of any humanity .
Their loss is no loss .

hattie43 · 23/08/2026 19:39

Allsizes8to14 · 23/08/2026 19:23

I tried to post with the link but MN haven’t approved it 🧐 but if you look up Cleveland police federation a go fund me has been set up for the families of the 2 policemen 👏

Off to find it and donate

Summerhut2025 · 23/08/2026 19:39

Really think it’s about time they bring in the law to stop young drivers carrying passengers until they’re at least 21. Young lads, and it is mainly young lads are dying and killing their passengers, they just aren’t mature enough to handle the responsibility in their teens. Full of testosterone and not a brain cell between them when they get together. Sad but true. Their poor parents and those police officers. Heartbreaking 💔

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 19:40

'Unless those same issues existed in the 80s, 90s, and for every second of the last twenty years - it’s not “lefty” policing that’s making those boys the way they are.'

It is lefty policy that is wasting police time now by pursuing online crap and not giving police powers to clamp down. Middlesbrougn is not all bad, many smarter areas just these scrotes community is just feral and thuggish. You know a 2 min drive from Brambles farm/ pallister park there's Ormesby and Normanby. They don't seem to have quite the same number of degenerates.

Sometimes communities are the problem not the place.

doorss · 23/08/2026 19:41

What’s the likelihood that some of the lads were on nitro oxide?

LydiaJayne · 23/08/2026 19:43

Greywizardthewhite · 23/08/2026 19:31

Just seen on Facebook, one of the Balloon release posters!
I hope it’s fake as they can’t spell ‘Balloon’
It’s baloon on the poster!!

It's not fake, it's been up since this morning

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 19:44

0Thatsplenty0 · 23/08/2026 19:10

Where do you actually live? You're most certainly not in Ireland. I am telling you for a fact, the Irish people DO NOT have any sympathy for the 5 boys killed or their families. The only people who have shown any sympathy for them are travellers. Don't you dare try again and tell me what my country is 'thinking' or 'feeling'. There is no 'huge' range of views ffs. I think it's very clear at this stage of the thread you're part of the travelling community, hence the lies and denials.

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I'm not saying where I live, or what I am, but for all you know Ireland is as much my country as it is yours. Either way, I know and love plenty of Irish people, and the ones I know have sympathy for the families of the boys who died, as well as for the police and their families.

I'm amazed that saying that not all of Ireland - 7 million people - are of one view on this has produced such a strong reaction from so many people. Even if I didn't know a single Irish person, it's just not possible that everyone will be completely of one mind on this. Presumably even in North Korea, people think different thoughts on things? Ireland has its fair share of tofu eating snowflakes, doesn't it? I'm sure some of them don't just think "fuck 'em".

What lies have I told? What have I denied? I've said the boys' deaths are their own fault. I've said I feel mostly anger towards them. I just don't think their families or communities are to blame. Even if it was poor parenting that led to these deaths, I really do think the mothers have been punished more than sufficiently for that, and we don't need to also mock their spelling.

LydiaJayne · 23/08/2026 19:45

Summerhut2025 · 23/08/2026 19:39

Really think it’s about time they bring in the law to stop young drivers carrying passengers until they’re at least 21. Young lads, and it is mainly young lads are dying and killing their passengers, they just aren’t mature enough to handle the responsibility in their teens. Full of testosterone and not a brain cell between them when they get together. Sad but true. Their poor parents and those police officers. Heartbreaking 💔

That would have made no difference at all, the underclass these families live in couldn't care less about the law. All that would do it make life tougher for the rest of us

LydiaJayne · 23/08/2026 19:46

Velvasilk · 23/08/2026 19:37

These are being shared about one of these lads called Theo. Glorifying mates in YOIs and criticism of the police.

The JDs on Teeside will be noticeably quieter

Velvasilk · 23/08/2026 19:47

Birds of a feather flock together. These lads would have messed around at school on the few occasions they actually went. No decent kids would want to be mates with them so they all find one another. Simpletons to the power of 5.

madaboutpurple · 23/08/2026 19:50

To be fair to those lads they certainly don't look as though they are the brightest buttons in the box. They were probably ignoramus's of a level of their own. The only way they could stand out was to film for social media. I hope their families are totally ashamed of them but no doubt the papers will let them say they were fine fellows. I won't be reading what their families have to say. Really they have murdered two fine policemen.

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 19:52

'I just don't think their families or communities are to blame'

We know parents and communities influence kids behaviour. Obviously

Of course their upbringing is to blame. Mocking the spelling of the people writing drivel on FB is nothing compared to the damage and destruction that these thugs wreaked.

ItsPickleRick · 23/08/2026 19:53

DaisyDooley · 23/08/2026 19:27

Eston wasn’t bad at all. It was fine until British Steel & ICI shut down causing mass unemployment in the area.
The Big council estate at Whale Hill had always had its low life shits -but they were few and far between, the police and neighbours knew who they were. They used to get sent to prison for stealing from shops, low level drug deals etc.
Left wing policy is -like the lifting of the 2 child cap ARE in part to blame for this decline in moral standards, Having multiple children , not ensuring they go to school- because the government just gives you money for having kids -is part of the breakdown of the fabric of society.
Pre 1980 when the big industrial companies started making people redundant-the area was fine. People looked after their council houses and tended the gardens!
You try to make it sound like it’s always been dire -so sorry for being the bearer of bad news - it wasn’t. Only evaluating it from your ex husbands eyes from 1985 doesn’t cut it.

The cap has only just been lifted, and you don’t know how many children the mothers have.

Can we focus on the fact that two police officers were killed and one little boy is missing his daddy tonight instead of making everything fucking political straight away?

SleeplessInWherever · 23/08/2026 19:55

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 19:40

'Unless those same issues existed in the 80s, 90s, and for every second of the last twenty years - it’s not “lefty” policing that’s making those boys the way they are.'

It is lefty policy that is wasting police time now by pursuing online crap and not giving police powers to clamp down. Middlesbrougn is not all bad, many smarter areas just these scrotes community is just feral and thuggish. You know a 2 min drive from Brambles farm/ pallister park there's Ormesby and Normanby. They don't seem to have quite the same number of degenerates.

Sometimes communities are the problem not the place.

I do know that. I intentionally moved to one of the better areas, when we bought my first house.

The community absolutely is the problem, the non family members on the internet talking about how lovely the lads were throwing cans at the kids on the street. That is their normal, their version of funny.

I’m just not convinced that changing laws that they won’t follow, or cutting benefits, would actually help. One of the men is in a video waving at least a few hundred pounds around in £20 notes. Do we think that’s his UC payment? Obviously not.

I’ve taught boys who can only understand numbers and fractions in drug context, and whose parents just say “not my Billy, he would never!” when they’ve burned a classroom down.

Cut their benefits, they’ll make money illegally anyway, and we can’t exactly start removing people’s kids at birth because they happen to have been born in TS6.

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Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 19:56

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 19:52

'I just don't think their families or communities are to blame'

We know parents and communities influence kids behaviour. Obviously

Of course their upbringing is to blame. Mocking the spelling of the people writing drivel on FB is nothing compared to the damage and destruction that these thugs wreaked.

Yes obviously it does. But it doesn't make the whole family or the whole community culpable, and it doesn't mean it's at all acceptable to mock a grieving mother. I'm surprised more of you don't find it undignified to even discuss the spelling tbh, given the gravity of the context.

NancyThompson · 23/08/2026 19:56

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 19:52

'I just don't think their families or communities are to blame'

We know parents and communities influence kids behaviour. Obviously

Of course their upbringing is to blame. Mocking the spelling of the people writing drivel on FB is nothing compared to the damage and destruction that these thugs wreaked.

Judging by the random unwanted tribute posts to the scrotes that are now showing up in my fb feed, their families and communities are exactly like them, don't think they've done anything wrong, and don't give a fuck that they've killed two innocent men.

Very much to blame, in other words.

Fernticket · 23/08/2026 19:58

@Gatekeeper . So so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family 🙏 💔

paomara · 23/08/2026 20:00

It would be a great tribute to the deceased policemen if all media refused to comment on the perpetrators at all, any aspect of them, their lives, their locality, their families, their funerals, nothing. Blank them.

Focus solely on the sadness, shock, anger, rage and sympathy etc. associated with the senseless loss of two policemen.

I realise we can't stop social media posts, but other outlets can restrict their reporting to the deaths of the police surely?

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