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Crash on A66 that killed two police officers and 5 others…

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bookworm1982 · 22/08/2026 18:53

Am I correct that the other victims were 5 lads travelling in one car the wrong way up the motorway? EXACTLY the same as the 5 Irish lads who died a few days ago travelling the wrong way up a motorway too? Surely not twice in a week? Is there some sort of mental social media thing going on, telling kids to drive up the wrong way? Like a dare? Just cannot believe it happened once, let alone twice. Just devastating.

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Uricon2 · 23/08/2026 15:35

I don't think it is at all clear if the 5 yesterday were travellers or not (seems possibly not) but I live in a small English market town and (through previous work) can come up with half a dozen families who have offspring who could easily do the same thing off the top of my head. Their relatives would also be likely to respond in a similar way on FB etc. In the much larger, much more deprived town a few miles away you can multiply that by several 100.

Getting a grip on the behaviour of disaffected young men from families with a multigenerational culture of lack of aspiration, ingrained joblessness, substance abuse, criminality and total disrespect for anyone who isn't exactly like them is needed, really needed, but it has been for some time and how you actually turn it round on a large scale and break these patterns, I don't know. There do have to be much swifter consequences for antisocial/criminal behaviour and more intervention at earlier stages, whether the families are receptive or not. It would all cost though and it would take time.

Netcurtainnelly · 23/08/2026 15:35

Dont understand fully. Do they think they wont t die if they drive on the wrong side of the road, or do they know they will but don't care.
Thoughts are with the Police officers loved ones.

CandidLurker · 23/08/2026 15:35

MMBaranova · 23/08/2026 13:15

None of the surnames of the 5 in England look in any way Irish. One looks Polish (Matusiak is like 'Matthews'). One has an interesting forename 'Makai' and an English toponymic surname.

I could be wrong but “Cahill” sounds Irish origin to me.

DancyNancy · 23/08/2026 15:37

I agree one of the biggest barriers for children within minority groups (a certain one in Ireland anyway) is their own community.
I've witnessed it.
Young kids from that community mixing with "settled" people and playing and dreaming of what they'll be when they grow up.
Sometimes be excluded from mixing early due to prejudice. However even those who mixed got to a point where they still left school at 13.

The boys particularly don't seem to stand a chance.
Yes there are opportunities for them but it's really not easy to turn against your community and take those. There are so many toxic men in the families I've witnessed. The boys couldn't even step out and change if they wanted to.

The only answer I can see is people from within communities to make themselves better role models.
The Two Norries aren't from a minority community but did have a "disadvantaged ' area to grow up in.
They are now fantastic role models and try to help people to make a life for themselves.
If we could have many more like them.

People look up to their own better than any outside source coming in "preaching ".

Sad state of things.

I'm angry too.

And sick of it.

But it's still sad these kids are born into a pretty hopeless path 😢

Æthelred · 23/08/2026 15:38

Allseeingallknowing · 23/08/2026 15:32

She can’t win, if she’d only mentioned the police officers she’d have been criticised.

You are right but I don't think it was always like this.

I can't imagine a 1980s Home Secretary mentioning the families of the 5 occupants of the Passat if an incident like this had occurred back then. He would have paid tribute to the police and the other emergency services. I also doubt whether journalists would have picked up on the 'omission' - it would be expected.

I wish the local MP had only mentioned the police officers.

MissMappsGardenProduce · 23/08/2026 15:42

Allseeingallknowing · 23/08/2026 15:32

She can’t win, if she’d only mentioned the police officers she’d have been criticised.

Well she didn't just mention the police officers did she.

And ask yourself this and ask no more:

Do you think if it had been two police officers who had lost control of their car and died-no-one else involved-do you think she would have hot footed her hairy arse down there to say anything at all?

Now, while you're scratching your head about that puzzler, I'll give you the answer.

No, she wouldn't.

That's because she cares more about a bunch of shits who are less use to society than the bubonic plague. That's her mindset...look her up.

She is a Bumping Weight Prick

SwirlyGates · 23/08/2026 15:43

Netcurtainnelly · 23/08/2026 15:35

Dont understand fully. Do they think they wont t die if they drive on the wrong side of the road, or do they know they will but don't care.
Thoughts are with the Police officers loved ones.

Young men/teenage boys are risk takers. They are the ones who tombstone, they are the ones who run around on roofs, who do wheelies in and out of the traffic on their stupid e-motorbikes, they are the ones who do most of the stupid and/or antisocial stuff.

MissMappsGardenProduce · 23/08/2026 15:44

Walikota · 23/08/2026 14:47

I mind once being told in Ireland,that travellers were considered to be 'Cromwell's brigrants' and thus very likely to have English and Welsh surnames,the implication being they were camp followers or servants who went on to cause havoc in the wake of Cromwell's invasion and shunned for this role in Irish history.

Yes, I was told this too and I believe it.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/08/2026 15:47

Allseeingallknowing · 23/08/2026 15:27

The parents are giving tributes to their sons in the media. Can’t bear to read them. Best if they kept their thoughts private in the circumstances.,

They might regret it. The amount of abuse on the families pages from the five lads in Ireland. Comments about a dust pan and brush scrapping them up, equal amounts of brain thrown into each coffin to share it out, etc, I understand that there is a lot of anger.
God forbid if I was ever in this position with DS, (highly unlikely) I would have a private funeral and avoid the public.

Allseeingallknowing · 23/08/2026 15:50

MissMappsGardenProduce · 23/08/2026 15:42

Well she didn't just mention the police officers did she.

And ask yourself this and ask no more:

Do you think if it had been two police officers who had lost control of their car and died-no-one else involved-do you think she would have hot footed her hairy arse down there to say anything at all?

Now, while you're scratching your head about that puzzler, I'll give you the answer.

No, she wouldn't.

That's because she cares more about a bunch of shits who are less use to society than the bubonic plague. That's her mindset...look her up.

She is a Bumping Weight Prick

I agree with you, I’m just saying she was trying to be diplomatic, which in the circumstances was extremely difficult. Some of the comments by the five’s relatives are unbelievable in the circumstances . Better they kept quiet.

mydogisthebest · 23/08/2026 15:52

Iheartmysmart · 23/08/2026 15:00

Rest in peace PC Blades and PC Clough. Rest assured Theo, Cole, Jacob, Michael and Makai, you won’t be seeing any angels where you’re going.

They won't be seeing any angles either!

Æthelred · 23/08/2026 15:52

People who have 'ballon' releases don't tend to be big on regrets but I think this one will be an exception - they will regret speaking out.
I really hope the 'ballon' releases can be stopped.

grrrlatrix · 23/08/2026 15:53

Netcurtainnelly · 23/08/2026 15:35

Dont understand fully. Do they think they wont t die if they drive on the wrong side of the road, or do they know they will but don't care.
Thoughts are with the Police officers loved ones.

Neither. There is more info to come out.

Hollyhobbi · 23/08/2026 15:54

CandidLurker · 23/08/2026 15:35

I could be wrong but “Cahill” sounds Irish origin to me.

Yes, Cahill is an Irish surname.

PinkyFlamingo · 23/08/2026 15:55

SwirlyGates · 23/08/2026 15:43

Young men/teenage boys are risk takers. They are the ones who tombstone, they are the ones who run around on roofs, who do wheelies in and out of the traffic on their stupid e-motorbikes, they are the ones who do most of the stupid and/or antisocial stuff.

Exactly. They tend to think they are invincible don't they.

WearyAuldWumman · 23/08/2026 16:01

SwirlyGates · 23/08/2026 15:43

Young men/teenage boys are risk takers. They are the ones who tombstone, they are the ones who run around on roofs, who do wheelies in and out of the traffic on their stupid e-motorbikes, they are the ones who do most of the stupid and/or antisocial stuff.

They think that they're invulnerable.

I mentioned the lad who went racing at 2 in the morning. Never in a million years did he imagine that he'd kill his best friend and leave himself with a life-changing injury.

It's the same with the cases we've had of teenagers speeding on Fife country roads.

I was actually looking for a difference case - which I'll post if I find it - but stumbled across this from 2011. No wonder young men offend: £200 fine and 6 months ban?

https://www.thecourier.co.uk/news/fife/96843/teenager-fined-and-banned-from-driving-for-colliding-with-bell-baxter-pupil/

Teenager fined and banned from driving for colliding with Bell Baxter pupil - The Courier

A pupil at a Fife school was treated in hospital after a teenage motorist ran him over during a lunch break.

https://www.thecourier.co.uk/news/fife/96843/teenager-fined-and-banned-from-driving-for-colliding-with-bell-baxter-pupil/

Allseeingallknowing · 23/08/2026 16:04

WearyAuldWumman · 23/08/2026 16:03

This is the report that I was looking for:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/4243581.stm

I get a message saying this connection is not secure!

OneShyPeachShark · 23/08/2026 16:04

Allseeingallknowing · 23/08/2026 15:27

The parents are giving tributes to their sons in the media. Can’t bear to read them. Best if they kept their thoughts private in the circumstances.,

But their boys are wiv da angles now doncha know.

Allseeingallknowing · 23/08/2026 16:09

OneShyPeachShark · 23/08/2026 16:04

But their boys are wiv da angles now doncha know.

Their comments are ignorant, crass and offensive to the two brave officers

WearyAuldWumman · 23/08/2026 16:09

Allseeingallknowing · 23/08/2026 16:04

I get a message saying this connection is not secure!

I've just looked. Yes, I've only noticed that now. No idea why. The story came up, but it's in the bar.

Apologies.

It happened in 2005. This is the text:

Funerals for teen crash victims
Craig Lawson (left) and Steven Garland
The funerals of three of the four teenagers killed in a Fife car crash have taken place.
The accident happened near Eden Bridge in Fife last Monday and killed Craig Lawson, 17, Steven Garland, 17, Mona Halliday, 16, and Lisa Donaldson, 16.
The funerals of Craig, from Ladybank, Steven, from Pitlessie and Mona, who attended Bell Baxter High School, Cupar, took place on Monday.
A service is being held for Lisa, also a Bell Baxter pupil, on Tuesday.
The youngsters were travelling in a Ford Fiesta on the A92, just north of the Eden Bridge in Fife, when it appeared to lose control on a bend and collide with a Volvo car travelling in the opposite direction.
Mona Halliday (left) and Lisa Donaldson
The Fiesta left the road and crashed into a field.
Fife Constabulary said early inquiries suggested speed was a "significant factor" in the accident.
It is understood Steven Garland, who attended Fife College, was the driver of the car and had only recently passed his test.
His funeral was held at Cults Church ahead of a burial at Cults Cemetery.
The service for Craig, an apprentice plumber, from Roselea Gardens, Ladybank, was held at Ladybank Church before his burial at Kettle Cemetery.
Mona's funeral service took place at Kirkcaldy Crematorium.

LesTaupesMerveilleuses · 23/08/2026 16:23

bookworm1982 · 22/08/2026 18:53

Am I correct that the other victims were 5 lads travelling in one car the wrong way up the motorway? EXACTLY the same as the 5 Irish lads who died a few days ago travelling the wrong way up a motorway too? Surely not twice in a week? Is there some sort of mental social media thing going on, telling kids to drive up the wrong way? Like a dare? Just cannot believe it happened once, let alone twice. Just devastating.

This is absolutely appalling. While I am sorry that five young lads from crime-addled Middlesbrough were brought up to live lives that led them to this terrible criminality that has cost their lives and those of others, I am truly angry on behalf of the families and loved ones of those innocent police officers whose lives were taken. Some of the balloon releasing and eulogising of these young criminals is quite tone deaf. Their parents will be devastated of course but I hope they reflect on the steps and actions or inactions that led to these five simply having no sense of right or wrong; this is a terrible and disgusting event. My heart goes out to the officers’ families.

HenriettaHippopotamus · 23/08/2026 16:30

Netcurtainnelly · 23/08/2026 15:35

Dont understand fully. Do they think they wont t die if they drive on the wrong side of the road, or do they know they will but don't care.
Thoughts are with the Police officers loved ones.

From their POV they’ve done risky behaviour and survived, so death and consequences are things that happen to other people.

LyndaSnellsSniff · 23/08/2026 16:31

There was a double fatal accident local to us on Friday night. 2 late teen boys (driver and passenger) killed in an accident involving 3 identical cars. It was on a straight stretch of road where two lanes merge into one. The assumption is that they were racing at speed and the identical cars are apparently easy to insure for teenage drivers.

Messedupmyusernameagain · 23/08/2026 16:33

LesTaupesMerveilleuses · 23/08/2026 16:23

This is absolutely appalling. While I am sorry that five young lads from crime-addled Middlesbrough were brought up to live lives that led them to this terrible criminality that has cost their lives and those of others, I am truly angry on behalf of the families and loved ones of those innocent police officers whose lives were taken. Some of the balloon releasing and eulogising of these young criminals is quite tone deaf. Their parents will be devastated of course but I hope they reflect on the steps and actions or inactions that led to these five simply having no sense of right or wrong; this is a terrible and disgusting event. My heart goes out to the officers’ families.

Sounds like they have taken no responsibility at all. Their feral kids had form but they did nothing about it and now, as predicted it's all 'Oh my sweet boy. Always helping out his friends!' and balloon releases. No self awareness or sympathy for those they killed.

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