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Crash on A66 that killed two police officers and 5 others…

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bookworm1982 · 22/08/2026 18:53

Am I correct that the other victims were 5 lads travelling in one car the wrong way up the motorway? EXACTLY the same as the 5 Irish lads who died a few days ago travelling the wrong way up a motorway too? Surely not twice in a week? Is there some sort of mental social media thing going on, telling kids to drive up the wrong way? Like a dare? Just cannot believe it happened once, let alone twice. Just devastating.

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JellySky · 23/08/2026 09:47

The Mum of the 18 year old baby is gettong threats made at the baby, which is truly awful, I wonder where this comes from - perhaps he was the driver and is being blamed for the other 4 and is why disorder and Section 60 last night?

As much as I remind myself that the other 4 could have been telling the driver to stop, I feel they probably day to day egg each other on. As Mumsnet says, FAFO

XX getting my house smashed up from ya nutty ward over a boy that can’t defend himself if I want to post MY BABYS DAD I WILL get back to ur 14 year old girlfriend XX XX saying ur getting a ONE YEAR OLD BABY KICKED ALL OVECER OVER HIS DAD funnt hiw u have waited for the day hiw dad can’t defend him

Mistachio · 23/08/2026 09:51

JellySky · 23/08/2026 09:47

The Mum of the 18 year old baby is gettong threats made at the baby, which is truly awful, I wonder where this comes from - perhaps he was the driver and is being blamed for the other 4 and is why disorder and Section 60 last night?

As much as I remind myself that the other 4 could have been telling the driver to stop, I feel they probably day to day egg each other on. As Mumsnet says, FAFO

XX getting my house smashed up from ya nutty ward over a boy that can’t defend himself if I want to post MY BABYS DAD I WILL get back to ur 14 year old girlfriend XX XX saying ur getting a ONE YEAR OLD BABY KICKED ALL OVECER OVER HIS DAD funnt hiw u have waited for the day hiw dad can’t defend him

What is all that gibberish meant to mean? Who typed that and with what? Did they get a dog on a bit of string to bash the keyboard with its paws?

MotherHenPeck · 23/08/2026 09:53

Metalmotha · 23/08/2026 09:42

But it’s part of an ideology isn’t it? Why do they have low levels of literacy in a society with free education for all? Where there’s so much help? Is it because of the rejection of society’s ideals, rejection of their institutions? Rejection of the discipline required to learn. A lack of parental support of the child to make themselves into the best version of themselves to be the most use to society? Ultimately a rejection of the larger society itself.

We need to stop pandering to “communities” if you live in this country, abide by its laws, morals and values. Teach your kids how to become the most useful members of that society. We need to stop pussyfooting around. Kids need disciple. They need boundaries. Yesterday I encountered a group wandering across Dartmoor blaring our music. It’s not the first time. And it’s never a bunch of kids doing their DofE..I thought about saying something them thought twice as I was isolated on my own. And knew Id prob be accused of racism.

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It always comes back to the same thing- parenting.
In the vast majority of cases. Uneducated, not valuing education, not disciplining their kids from an early age, having no experience of good parenting themselves. The cycle repeats itself.

HarshbutTrue2 · 23/08/2026 09:54

OneHangryGoldDeer · 23/08/2026 09:41

And the congenital conditions arising from widespread consanguinous marriages. Ireland, a tiny, tiny country has one of the highest rates of life-limiting Hurler syndrome in the world.

Just one of the many, many congenital conditions effecting the traveller community.

And the fact the infant and childhood mortality rates are 3 or 4 times the rate of the general population.

And the overall life expectancy for males in particular is shockingly low, in the 60s. One large contributory factor being the alarming number of boys and young men killed in RTAs.

The elevated rates of suicide which in no small way is also linked to genetic factors. I have extended family members where 6 out of 7 adult children have schizophrenia and if they were tested, all have pretty profound intellectual disabilities.

Didn't stop some poor traveller women being married off to the men who can't read or write or count past 20 and who watch kids films while the wives clean the vans and look after their similarly disabled DC.

In a culture where according to the pioneering traveller health study only 10 or so years ago, traveller women didn't know marital rape exists, let alone it being a crime.

They just had sex they didn't want, violent at times. It didn't occur to them that was wrong, abuse or rape because they thought men can't rape their wives - the idea is men need sex and the wives have to provide it whether willingly or not. They literally didn't know their consent came into it.

This is very interesting. I didn't know a lot of this.

I can draw comparisons with some, not all, Muslim communities in the Uk.

OneHangryGoldDeer · 23/08/2026 09:57

HarshbutTrue2 · 23/08/2026 09:18

Any comments i have made about travellers refer to the Irish crash. The Irish funeral was a travellers funeral.

The comments about spelling from other posters - the travelling community very often completely refuse to engage in education. Governments and councils fall over backwards to provide education. They don't want to know.

I am amazed that mumsnetters have never watched certain wedding programmes on TV. It is the aim of the females in this community to marry ASAP and then start having kids. I don't know what happens when the kids grow up.

I am amazed that mumsnetters have never met travellers in real life. Our local petrol station has a shop. When travellers are in the district, a whole family will go into the shop and use distraction techniques whilst stealing off the shelves. They are taught this from an early age.

I recently looked at the prison statistics for ethnicity. One of the largest groups in prison in the UK are Irish. I think they are the third biggest ethnic group. Possibly a large proportion of that group are travellers.

Paris Fury, probably the best known self-proclaimed representative for Irish Travellers proudly states her DC are pulled out of school at year 8 as 'it's the traveller way'.

She says they then have home tutors which may or may not be true but she fails to acknowledge that for the traveller community who aren't DC of multimillionaire public figures, home tutors are simply not an option.

Same as proudly waving off her DD to be married at 16 and live in a caravan with a barely literate teenage husband as it's the 'traveller way, and she's really mature'. Her DD will have the option of leaving and moving back into the mansion with her multimillionaire parents which the rest of the traveller girls married as teenagers just don't have.

I know the traveller site Paris was brought up on in Doncaster. It's a shit-hole which elevates local crime rates. Some traveller sites are okay, this one is not.

I think Tyson Fury put it quite well in a clip I saw where Paris was extolling the virtues of maintaining traveller culture and he said 'you've lived like a premier football WAG for 20 years, WTF are you on about?'.

ComeBackTo · 23/08/2026 09:59

HarshbutTrue2 · 23/08/2026 09:54

This is very interesting. I didn't know a lot of this.

I can draw comparisons with some, not all, Muslim communities in the Uk.

But none of this is related to the death of two police officers. It isn’t known that the youths killed were even travellers.

These youths were criminal, scum, regardless of their heritage. There families are disrespectful regardless of background.
There is a danger of blaming communities ‘not like us’, it shouldn’t matter. They are UK citizens with attitudes and behaviours created in our society.

itsallaroundus · 23/08/2026 09:59

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 09:41

It doesn't matter if travellers or not!
They were clearly thugs and their family no better if they're praising their behaviour

I think the fact they’re “travellers” is entirely relevant, sorry.

They have pretended, for years, that they’re some hard done by minority who face horrible hardship and discrimination. In actual fact they’re a bunch of layabouts who make their money by criminal means and terrorise communities. You only need to think of Clarkson’s Farm, where the police refused to do anything about them racing their poor horses up and down a dual carriageway, to see that. They’re so protected in pursuit of not being “racist” that they have been allowed to get away with whatever they want.

When I was 16 I worked at a beach cafe and we had “travellers” set up camp in the car park by the beach. They would threaten and abuse the young women there, but the police wouldn’t do a thing. Within days of them arriving we had to change rotas to ensure we weren’t alone there, because they were getting increasingly violent and angry that we wouldn’t bow to them. They’re just a group of people who have been so used to getting whatever they want that they can’t cope with not.

ERthree · 23/08/2026 10:00

HoraceCope · 23/08/2026 09:37

Boys all in their late teens

Such an awful thing to do, pointless waste

I don't see it as a pointless waste at all. I am devastated for the families, friends and colleagues of those two Police men that lost their lives but as for the other 5 it's not a waste at all, they would never have contributed anything positive to society, in fact it would be the opposite. They had already caused so much harm to society. Good riddance to bad rubbish that had been raised by rubbish.

ComeBackTo · 23/08/2026 10:00

MotherHenPeck · 23/08/2026 09:53

It always comes back to the same thing- parenting.
In the vast majority of cases. Uneducated, not valuing education, not disciplining their kids from an early age, having no experience of good parenting themselves. The cycle repeats itself.

Across many parts of society too, not just travellers, the notion which seems to have derailed this thread.

Slipstream01 · 23/08/2026 10:00

Name changed. I’ve spent the last few months working with a young man who moves in the same circles of this group. Being honest, I’m still waiting to see if he was in the car. This is a cohort of society with poor role modelling, lack of parenting, drug use and knife possession. This isn’t just recent failures, it’s from day one and multiple professional interventions.

ComeBackTo · 23/08/2026 10:01

itsallaroundus · 23/08/2026 09:59

I think the fact they’re “travellers” is entirely relevant, sorry.

They have pretended, for years, that they’re some hard done by minority who face horrible hardship and discrimination. In actual fact they’re a bunch of layabouts who make their money by criminal means and terrorise communities. You only need to think of Clarkson’s Farm, where the police refused to do anything about them racing their poor horses up and down a dual carriageway, to see that. They’re so protected in pursuit of not being “racist” that they have been allowed to get away with whatever they want.

When I was 16 I worked at a beach cafe and we had “travellers” set up camp in the car park by the beach. They would threaten and abuse the young women there, but the police wouldn’t do a thing. Within days of them arriving we had to change rotas to ensure we weren’t alone there, because they were getting increasingly violent and angry that we wouldn’t bow to them. They’re just a group of people who have been so used to getting whatever they want that they can’t cope with not.

Except they are not travellers!

Walikota · 23/08/2026 10:01

A lot of criminality in that A66 corridor area involving nightly raids into industrial sites ,i remember in the 70s criminals would camp in good numbers at night along it and almost getting myself stabbed by some bloke when i was around 5 there.Incidentally,it was about a kilometre or so from where Ann Heron was murdered a few years later.The police never found any trace of her killer.

JamJar187 · 23/08/2026 10:02

ERthree · 23/08/2026 10:00

I don't see it as a pointless waste at all. I am devastated for the families, friends and colleagues of those two Police men that lost their lives but as for the other 5 it's not a waste at all, they would never have contributed anything positive to society, in fact it would be the opposite. They had already caused so much harm to society. Good riddance to bad rubbish that had been raised by rubbish.

Hard to disagree with this post. Its accurate.

Anyone driving the wrong way down the road - well, there are always consequences and those consequences have come to pass.

As the saying goes....FAFO.

HarshbutTrue2 · 23/08/2026 10:03

ComeBackTo · 23/08/2026 10:01

Except they are not travellers!

The ones in Ireland were! Many posts on this thread are referring to the Irish crash and funeral.

hattie43 · 23/08/2026 10:07

Mistachio · 23/08/2026 09:51

What is all that gibberish meant to mean? Who typed that and with what? Did they get a dog on a bit of string to bash the keyboard with its paws?

Illiterate , just as you’d expect . That baby should be taken off her to break this generational cycle of feral upbringing . 10 yrs and that baby will be as bad as the ‘ dad ‘ .

MsGreying · 23/08/2026 10:11

My sympathy is with the families of the police who died and their colleagues who have to sort the mess out.

It needs to be a harah sentence for evading police when asked to stop. And that sentence applied equally to all in the car.
I know it's inherently difficult to catch them though.

LondonLass2026 · 23/08/2026 10:13

JamJar187 · 23/08/2026 10:02

Hard to disagree with this post. Its accurate.

Anyone driving the wrong way down the road - well, there are always consequences and those consequences have come to pass.

As the saying goes....FAFO.

Can't disagree. My partner and I also both hold this view. "Well they only would have grown up to cause destruction and misery to others so good riddance". The only sympathy is for innocent victims.

That's a very scary way we're heading now if young people are killing themselves and others for social media likes.

Æthelred · 23/08/2026 10:16

Seriously, if it had only the occupants of the VW who were killed, I'd want this to be a non-story. My only thoughts are with the families and colleagues of the deceased police officers - as @EssCarGo put it so succinctly, the 5 people in the VW removed themselves from the gene pool and that is a good thing.

BarbieKew · 23/08/2026 10:19

We had travellers pitch up on a local playing field recently, right in the middle of a primary school sports day which had to be scrapped. Aside from all other sporting events having to be cancelled on the fields that weekend, they moved on after a few days. All good on the face of it, it’s their way of life blah blah, but the scumbags left a load of human shit around the edge of the field and two dead puppies.

And they wonder why decent communities dread them turning up. About time they were called out.

HPoolMam · 23/08/2026 10:20

Nothing had been released about that lads yet so noone could assume it was the same scenario... this morning however the internet has gone crazy, the family and friend have been posting pictures and theyre receiving alot of focus. People are furious

MrsShawnHatosy · 23/08/2026 10:21

Pedallleur · 22/08/2026 19:31

They are possibly adults and with that comes certain responsibility. Certainly the driver should be aware of that but obviously they believed everything was ok. Young men and cars are not a happy mix

I’ve said it before and will say it again - 17 is too young to be in charge of a potential lethal weapon on the roads.

Messedupmyusernameagain · 23/08/2026 10:22

Æthelred · 23/08/2026 10:16

Seriously, if it had only the occupants of the VW who were killed, I'd want this to be a non-story. My only thoughts are with the families and colleagues of the deceased police officers - as @EssCarGo put it so succinctly, the 5 people in the VW removed themselves from the gene pool and that is a good thing.

Unfortunately one of the fuckers had already procreated and his son now being dragged up by an illiterate teenager.He has no chance.

Cheetoo · 23/08/2026 10:24

It is a horror story ... those poor policemen and the family in Ireland ... while joyriders can't expect much sympathy it s a tragedy on every level... in catriona OSullivans book "poor" she talks about getting into stolen cars as a teenager and the risktaking and "high " of it numbing her from the horrific abuse and neglect she d been through ... must be the case for a fair portion of those willing to take such extreme risks

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/08/2026 10:26

JellySky · 23/08/2026 09:47

The Mum of the 18 year old baby is gettong threats made at the baby, which is truly awful, I wonder where this comes from - perhaps he was the driver and is being blamed for the other 4 and is why disorder and Section 60 last night?

As much as I remind myself that the other 4 could have been telling the driver to stop, I feel they probably day to day egg each other on. As Mumsnet says, FAFO

XX getting my house smashed up from ya nutty ward over a boy that can’t defend himself if I want to post MY BABYS DAD I WILL get back to ur 14 year old girlfriend XX XX saying ur getting a ONE YEAR OLD BABY KICKED ALL OVECER OVER HIS DAD funnt hiw u have waited for the day hiw dad can’t defend him

The doesn’t surprise me, even in death these families look for trouble, don’t want to take responsibility, it’s always someone’s fault. they’re will be war between the families.

Just to say this is a low life teenager trend, it is not just travelling people.

Two of the five in Dublin were travelling people.
Last week similar scene, thankfully no deaths, 8 young lads were in the golf car driving down the opposite side of the motorway, they hit a young apprentice driving to work, only 3 of the 8 were travelling people, so it’s definitely a mix.

kierenthecommunity · 23/08/2026 10:26

Makai Saddington is the one has a one year old child albeit I wouldn’t be astonished if more of this group were ‘fathers’ too. In the loosest interpretation of the word.

I’ve seen a post from two years ago where his mum is displaying a scan picture saying ‘she couldn’t be happier’ and is ‘so proud’ of her 16 year old son who’s got someone pregnant

Shame it didn’t make him grow the fuck up. Why was he not at home looking after his child? Presumably that’s his baby mum’s job 🙄

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