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Crash on A66 that killed two police officers and 5 others…

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bookworm1982 · 22/08/2026 18:53

Am I correct that the other victims were 5 lads travelling in one car the wrong way up the motorway? EXACTLY the same as the 5 Irish lads who died a few days ago travelling the wrong way up a motorway too? Surely not twice in a week? Is there some sort of mental social media thing going on, telling kids to drive up the wrong way? Like a dare? Just cannot believe it happened once, let alone twice. Just devastating.

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BlueFahrenheit · 23/08/2026 08:51

BreatheAndFocus · 23/08/2026 07:29

Not to this extent, I feel. Many of these young men spend their lives playing stupid video games where they’re the main character. They hone their avatars; they take risks in the game; they’re the star - and these games are addictive. The games become their lives and they almost become the game character.

Then, you have TikTok and similar as a continuation of the imaginary blockbuster movie they’re starring in. They emulate risk-taking behaviour they see in the games they play. Then they post these clips for Likes, which just build their egos and their false personas as stars of the show. They don’t think about dying and they don’t think about hurting others. It’s all a game, and in games everyone can get another Life.

This behaviour needs to be come down on like a ton of bricks. Should we ban TikTok? No, but we should hugely limit the kind of videos on it. We should also have police in schools more, showing the consequences of dangerous driving. Not just the deaths, but injuries, and testimonies from the injured and permanently disabled who regret their utter stupidity.

RIP to the two police officers.

Have you seen what these young boys do with their main characters?

Stalking
Shooting
Killing women
Stealing cars
Joyriding

I saw a community centre allowing kids to play Grand Theft Auto. And yet, we wonder why young men are violent.

RelaxAndDetox · 23/08/2026 08:51

Allsizes8to14 · 23/08/2026 08:20

Apologies that’s it’s a daily fail link, but reading this (I’m local to the incident) just fills me with anger 😠

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-16072745/amp/Teen-crash-killed-TikTok-high-speed-police-chases-rap-music.html

Edited to add - not angry with the article - angry at the lifestyle this lowlife led

Edited

The occupants of the other vehicle – three sisters and a seven-year-old boy – suffered serious injuries in the crash and remain in hospital. Yesterday, the mother of Mr Saddington’s one-year-old son posted on social media: ‘What am I supposed to do without ur daft phone calls and u torching (sic) me life’s so cruel.’

Other victims were named locally as Michael Ray, Theo Rae and Cole Worthy.

It is understood Mr Saddington and his companions had close links to the traveller community.

No mention of the poor family seriously injured in hospital and how life was actually very cruel to them. Cruel due to the stupid behaviour of these young men.

OneHangryGoldDeer · 23/08/2026 08:52

DeathNote11 · 23/08/2026 08:27

I've had a similar one recently, except it was a lorry he was working on. Forgot to put the brake on apparently. Terrible for his family, but a life-changing, positive event for the many others he used to target & terrorise.

Indeed.

The awful person I knew even had a go fund me made to help his wife and kids. Since he was domestically violent, never worked a day in his life and was in and out of prison, I'll bet his wife and kids were helped enormously just by him being dead.

The Go-fund me was made by his sister who hadn't spoken to him for years, none of his family had. Attached was a photo he'd used on one of those thug-life social media posts. He looked rough as f* and had one of his illegal hare-coursing dogs that he had had confiscated by Police on a lead.

Some people have no shame.

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 08:52

NeverKnowinglyUnderstated · 23/08/2026 08:38

Oh stop with the mawkish rubbish, please! Toddler cuddles??? I
I couldn't give a fuck about any of the scum in the cars that were deliberately driving the wrong way, every scrap of my sympathy is entirely for the three sisters, the little boy and the two police officers.
Their mothers may well be heartbroken but those boys brought it all on themselves. Their families are entitled to grieve but those huge "traditional" funerals are a disgrace and an absolute fucking embarrassment. Literally rubbing it in the faces of the bereaved families.
They should be ashamed but they couldn't even spell the word.

Why is their bad spelling relevant? This sort of snide disdain is part of why minority cultures close ranks, and make a show of closing ranks, at times like this. If you can't find any empathy for a grieving mother, partly because she can't spell, of course she's going to stick to her own, and quite possibly hate you back.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 23/08/2026 08:52

BlueFahrenheit · 23/08/2026 08:42

Something seems amiss with many young men these days. I have yet to see a young woman behaving so recklessly on an electric bike.

I have witnessed a number of these thoroughly unpleasant youths come off their bikes, and I simply continue driving without a second glance.

We need more prison capacity. These brats should be held accountable, with no suspended sentences.

Might be the weed.

AlvisParsley · 23/08/2026 08:53

ForestHog · 23/08/2026 04:53

One of the boys who has been named as Makai Saddington has a tiktok full of videos showing him driving stolen cars in police pursuits.

Also open court records show just over a month ago he was in court for assaulting a police officer amongst other things.

Perhaps now the law will become more stringent? Surely they would have checked is public social media around his court appearance

And surrounded by family and friends who think the sun shines out of their bum. The whole culture is wrong. These are not travellers btw.

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 08:53

BlueFahrenheit · 23/08/2026 08:46

They did a terrible job of containing their headache.

It is staggering isn't it. No, he wasn't 'their' headache because he tragically was involved in killing police officers. The childish minimising is sickening. 'Our headache' ffs.

ForRedPoet · 23/08/2026 08:54

Is there a GoFund Me yet?
I feel a balloon release coming on....

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 23/08/2026 08:55

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 08:48

I really am not trying to cause an argument, and I'm definitely not trying to be funny. I agree that what happened was awful - that the boys who did it behaved dreadfully - were quite possibly awful people. I feel awful for the police who died and their families. I'm just saying - I also feel awful for the boys' families. And I don't extrapolate from what they did to their community. There are huge problems between travellers and non-travellers, some of which create the conditions in which this kind of behaviour happens (including possibly callousness to the victims, because they're "outsiders"). But pejorative discourse about "them" compounds the problem.

There are huge problems between travellers and non-travellers, some of which create the conditions in which this kind of behaviour happens (including possibly callousness to the victims, because they're "outsiders")

ah, “look at what you made me do! Infamy infamy they’ve all got it in for me!! What else can I do but rob, assault and steal!! It’s not MY fault!!!”

BlueFahrenheit · 23/08/2026 08:55

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 08:30

The rationale is just that that's what funerals do. If you start to make exceptions, it's not a tradition or a custom any more, it's just a choice - and those singular exceptions to the custom accumulate into an erosion of a whole culture. Minorities don't let one bad act (or even one bad person) within their ranks undermine the whole culture.

Also - of course those boys ruined peoples lives, and it is despicable that they did that - but they did also light up people's lives as well (different people, obv). I don't expect anyone to feel sad for the boys' families, but I do. The fact remains that their mothers are going to be heartbroken. Almost no one is wholly bad, even "career criminals", and those boys who did this awful thing will also have done beautiful things too. Their mums will remember toddler cuddles that will feel like yesterday.

Their mums will be asking - as any mother here would - what could I have done differently? All of you may think it's obvious what she should have done, and be certain it's her own bad parenting that's to blame. Just imagine - she may well be thinking the same, and it's her own son she's lost. I think - if her parenting was to blame - she's gotten enough punishment, without her whole community then denying her son what they consider a proper funeral.

They should have raised them better.

If my DS were entertaining such deplorable behaviour, the consequences would be most severe. I'm not afraid to parent.

Keep your legs shut if you are too lazy to parent. It's very simple.

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 08:56

ForRedPoet · 23/08/2026 08:54

Is there a GoFund Me yet?
I feel a balloon release coming on....

Oh balloon release for 24th already been posted. Yep, GoFundMe will be next.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 23/08/2026 08:57

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 08:52

Why is their bad spelling relevant? This sort of snide disdain is part of why minority cultures close ranks, and make a show of closing ranks, at times like this. If you can't find any empathy for a grieving mother, partly because she can't spell, of course she's going to stick to her own, and quite possibly hate you back.

Which you seem to support and champion? No wonder these communities feel untouchable when others are always painting them as the hard done to

Meldrewreborn · 23/08/2026 08:57

A car in the wrong hands is a lethal weapon.
Taking a vehicle without consent should be punished with harsh mandatory sentences in order to protect the community and the individuals concerned. When will we wake up to the fact that excusing criminality just doesn’t work?

NancyThompson · 23/08/2026 08:58

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 08:52

Why is their bad spelling relevant? This sort of snide disdain is part of why minority cultures close ranks, and make a show of closing ranks, at times like this. If you can't find any empathy for a grieving mother, partly because she can't spell, of course she's going to stick to her own, and quite possibly hate you back.

Oh stop lecturing people.
These scrotes make towns and cities shit abd people's lives less pleasant and safe on a daily basis even when they're not killing decent people in head on collisions.
People are fed up and don't need mealy-mouthed tellings off.

JaniieJones · 23/08/2026 08:58

BlueFahrenheit · 23/08/2026 08:55

They should have raised them better.

If my DS were entertaining such deplorable behaviour, the consequences would be most severe. I'm not afraid to parent.

Keep your legs shut if you are too lazy to parent. It's very simple.

I do think the best parenting in the world cannot always stop criminality. It's the pride these parents have in their 'top lads' which is appalling. Demonstrating why they were such little shits with mummy and daddy waving them off on their next joy ride.

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 23/08/2026 08:59

PrizedPickledPopcorn · Today 07:22
Gwenna · Yesterday 23:20
It’s things like this that make me think we should bring back national service or something along those lines, especially for the boys - so they can put all that teenage pent up energy into something useful.
Edited

Not sure I want these lads better trained. They’ll have the same values, but more skill.

And potentially with access to weapons, in the midst of a civil society that does not carry them.

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 08:59

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 23/08/2026 08:55

There are huge problems between travellers and non-travellers, some of which create the conditions in which this kind of behaviour happens (including possibly callousness to the victims, because they're "outsiders")

ah, “look at what you made me do! Infamy infamy they’ve all got it in for me!! What else can I do but rob, assault and steal!! It’s not MY fault!!!”

I did try (obviously failed) to make clear that I think the fault is in both directions/ comes from all sides.

NancyThompson · 23/08/2026 09:00

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 08:59

I did try (obviously failed) to make clear that I think the fault is in both directions/ comes from all sides.

The fault isnt in both directions hth.

Rosemariebear · 23/08/2026 09:01

MissMappsGardenProduce · 22/08/2026 19:36

I'm sad to say that you are part of the problem.

Wringing your hands, blubbering into a greasy hankie and saying, "Don't judge."

Let's hope, next time, it isn't you or yours at the wrong end of a car speeding the wrong way.

You won't be so quick with *they're only children" bollocks then.

Indeed, and I absolutely knew , even at 13, that it would have been wrong to get in that car.

ThreadGuardDog · 23/08/2026 09:01

DaisyDooley · 22/08/2026 20:46

Well yes -you are here.
Just because we don’t agree with your views doesn’t make us ‘dregs’.
Deploring individuals who go out, break the law and murder innocent people doesn’t make us ‘dregs’.
I would argue that you can see who the responsible parents are here.
Maybe go & spread your faux compassion elsewhere.

This poster actually ended their comment with ‘yay for the gene pool’. Not sure the sentiment was all that compassionate tbh.

NeverKnowinglyUnderstated · 23/08/2026 09:01

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 08:59

I did try (obviously failed) to make clear that I think the fault is in both directions/ comes from all sides.

Please enlighten us as to how any of this is the fault of the two police officers killed by this scum?
Are you serious? If so, I despair....

BlueFahrenheit · 23/08/2026 09:01

DontBuyAnotherBook · 23/08/2026 08:52

Might be the weed.

Most likely.

The disdain I feel when walking past a group of young boys smoking weed.

Fry your brain cells.

OneHangryGoldDeer · 23/08/2026 09:01

Puffinsandcoffee · 23/08/2026 08:52

Why is their bad spelling relevant? This sort of snide disdain is part of why minority cultures close ranks, and make a show of closing ranks, at times like this. If you can't find any empathy for a grieving mother, partly because she can't spell, of course she's going to stick to her own, and quite possibly hate you back.

The Irish Government making travellers a minority group was a spectacular own goal.

So now any justified criticism is only provoking accusations of racism and prejudice instead of examining behaviour and the negatives of the culture.

My Great Grandmother was an Irish traveller who got out after my Great Grandfather (her husband and 1st cousin) was murdered by another traveller. Took her kids and moved to England. Even changed the surname.

Best thing she ever could have done. Not only did I go to school but to University. I cringe whenever I see our former family name in the press, it's never a good story.

ownedbymydogs · 23/08/2026 09:02

NancyThompson · 23/08/2026 08:58

Oh stop lecturing people.
These scrotes make towns and cities shit abd people's lives less pleasant and safe on a daily basis even when they're not killing decent people in head on collisions.
People are fed up and don't need mealy-mouthed tellings off.

Edited

I think this is the nub of it. @Puffinsandcoffee may be genuine (but I have my suspicions), but unfortunately simply sounds like they have just written an A level essay on Social Identity Theory and is bursting to tell us of their knowledge.

Like I have already said, this thread, on this morning, is probably not the place for that.

ThreadGuardDog · 23/08/2026 09:03

NeverKnowinglyUnderstated · 23/08/2026 09:01

Please enlighten us as to how any of this is the fault of the two police officers killed by this scum?
Are you serious? If so, I despair....

They were taking about the incident in Ireland, not the one in which the two police officers died.

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