To expect everyone at my wedding to stick to the colour scheme?

[Autumnalbride]

I'm having an autumn themed wedding. I've asked everyone, all the wedding party, family and all the guests to wear autumn colours - brown, orange, yellow, red etc.
Some of the men want to wear grey suits but I am upset by this because I don't see grey as an autumn colour. They say they will wear autumn coloured ties and accessories but I said I want the suits to be in Autumn colours
Is this unreasonable?

Did Sinitta not wear something like that many moons ago on the X Factor? 😳

Is there a rage bait contest on here tonight? Seems unlikely that this many deranged people
walk among us all at the same time.
Anyway OP. You don’t win. Too obvious. Go back and work on your content because this is a bit poor.

Surely another joke thread, good one OP. Expecting your guests to buy brown, orange or yellow suits (!) solely for your wedding (as they certainly won't be able to wear them to anything else) -good luck there.

Yes, suits cost a fortune - hundreds in bright red and orange. And they’re not colours they will wear again, they’re not Laurence Llewelyn Bowen 😂

you are COMPLETELY UNREASONABLE

Good grief. MN gets madder every day

Bridezilla!

If you’re not paying for their outfits, it’s unreasonable to expect people to buy something they might not already have, to attend your wedding

People will be laughing about you behind your back OP. Your wedding will be remembered as the most ridiculous one they’ve ever been to.

YABU brown suits look awful. Grey is neutral.

Send them your dress as inspo

Haha, the thread gallery is wonderful.

YABU
what colour is your dress

Such an increase in YABU posts recently. It used to be only for the real conundrums. Was it the polling option that changed things? I’m talking years ago having been on MN since early days.

😂
is all I can muster.

Unless you are buying all the clothes you absolutely do not get to tell anyone what to wear and even if you did buy them they can still opt not to wear what you buy. Have you lost sight of why you're getting married? You sound unhinged.

Good grief!
Were you paying for their outfits? If not, YABU.
I don't have a dress that is brown, orange or yellow that is suitable for a wedding.

Assuming this is a reverse and you're a guest, just ignore the mad Bridezilla and turn up wearing whatever colour you like, other than white.

Sorry but that is ridiculous. If you insisted on a colour scheme I would decline to attend.

If this is serious i would expect plenty people to not attend. What is more important sharing the day with your friends/family or a good pic for instagram 🙄

Grey is definitely an autumnal colour because of cloudy skies!

You've not seen relentless grey rain from relentless grey skies on relentless grey asphalt in the autumn?

You and I are on the same page! 😁

Please tell me this is fake? 😂😂😂