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To expect everyone at my wedding to stick to the colour scheme?

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Autumnalbride · 15/08/2026 21:39

I'm having an autumn themed wedding. I've asked everyone, all the wedding party, family and all the guests to wear autumn colours - brown, orange, yellow, red etc.
Some of the men want to wear grey suits but I am upset by this because I don't see grey as an autumn colour. They say they will wear autumn coloured ties and accessories but I said I want the suits to be in Autumn colours
Is this unreasonable?

FayeMumsnet · 16/08/2026 10:12

Happy Sunday, everyone! 🌻🌻🌻

Just popping by with a gentle reminder about kindness, please.

It's absolutely fine to have different tastes and opinions about weddings, and not everyone is going to love an autumn-themed celebration. However, there's a difference between sharing your view and being unnecessarily rude about something that's clearly important to the OP.

Happy wedding planning, OP. We're loving the autumn theme! 🍂🍂🍂

Best wishes,
Faye
MNHQ.

FayeMumsnet · 16/08/2026 10:22

Hi again!

Ah, thanks for explaining that it's a reverse. We'd had a few complaints hit the reports queue, so we thought we'd have a check-in and see what was going on!

Thanks for the heads up. 😊

Cheers all.
Faye 😁

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