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To think my neighbour is selfish tw*t for lighting a fire

148 replies

Vicksstick · Yesterday 22:21

Ok so how many people, after receiving a government alert about wild fires asking them not to have fires in their garden, would then in fact go against that and light a big F off fire in their garden, well that would be my next door neighbour! We all live in close proximity in terraced houses and my neighbour thinks it’s a good idea to light a fire. The fact the fire is (for now) contained in a make shift fire pit makes no difference, I mean it’s twa**ish behaviour right?

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Ereshkigalangcleg · Today 01:01

It’s clear that they don’t mean people’s back garden barbecues. They would have said so, and they didn’t. I’m not sure why people think it isn’t clear? They specifically say in the alert that “disposable barbecues” and fire pits are the problem, and on the government site they say you have to make sure your household bbq is fully extinguished. So they want people to be careful but they know banning bbqs entirely won’t be adhered to.

LadyWiddiothethird · Today 01:02

I have seen two fires in the past 24 hours,one a garden shed,destroyed 6 gardens and one person hospitalised with burns,second I have no idea what happened,saw the fire engine and hose,property in the country,that one hasn’t even made the local FB pages.Presumably all was well.
Before yesterday I can’t remember the last time I saw a fire.

francy99 · Today 01:06

I would call the Fire brigade and explain your neighbour has started a fire in the garden and you are concerned this will spread to neighbouring houses. I think the Fire Service might come round and give your twat of a neighbour some advice.

CallUpMyMamaSaidImInLoveWithTheStripperYo · Today 01:07

francy99 · Today 01:06

I would call the Fire brigade and explain your neighbour has started a fire in the garden and you are concerned this will spread to neighbouring houses. I think the Fire Service might come round and give your twat of a neighbour some advice.

Do you not think they might have enough to do?

rainbowunicorn · Today 01:24

Ereshkigalangcleg · Today 01:01

It’s clear that they don’t mean people’s back garden barbecues. They would have said so, and they didn’t. I’m not sure why people think it isn’t clear? They specifically say in the alert that “disposable barbecues” and fire pits are the problem, and on the government site they say you have to make sure your household bbq is fully extinguished. So they want people to be careful but they know banning bbqs entirely won’t be adhered to.

It explicity says to avoid any activity that could start a fire. I guess the only mistake they made was assuming that the general public weren't all as thick as shit.
We have had replies on threads saying gas bbq fine, home bbq fine, use a camping stove instead. I genuinely cant understand replies like this. Nobody needs to be lighting any kind if fire. It should have to be spelled out for every possible scenario.

XenoBitch · Today 01:36

CallUpMyMamaSaidImInLoveWithTheStripperYo · Today 00:42

God don’t some people just love a wee opportunity to snoop and tell on others. Not saying he should have lit a fucking fire but I bet some of the Covid curtain twitchers on here will be rubbing their hands with glee

Yep, I have already seen pics of people with BBQ on local FB groups. Taken before the alerts went out, as it was broad daylight 🙄
A lot of people miss the Covid restrictions, and it shows.

XenoBitch · Today 01:38

rainbowunicorn · Today 01:24

It explicity says to avoid any activity that could start a fire. I guess the only mistake they made was assuming that the general public weren't all as thick as shit.
We have had replies on threads saying gas bbq fine, home bbq fine, use a camping stove instead. I genuinely cant understand replies like this. Nobody needs to be lighting any kind if fire. It should have to be spelled out for every possible scenario.

Well, there was a post on here from someone who turned the oven off in her own house after getting the alert.
How long until we get people rant on about not using any electricity at all in case it sparks and causes a flame and the emergency services to come out?

CallUpMyMamaSaidImInLoveWithTheStripperYo · Today 01:47

XenoBitch · Today 01:38

Well, there was a post on here from someone who turned the oven off in her own house after getting the alert.
How long until we get people rant on about not using any electricity at all in case it sparks and causes a flame and the emergency services to come out?

It’s giving “you can put cheese in your coffee”

Ereshkigalangcleg · Today 01:49

rainbowunicorn · Today 01:24

It explicity says to avoid any activity that could start a fire. I guess the only mistake they made was assuming that the general public weren't all as thick as shit.
We have had replies on threads saying gas bbq fine, home bbq fine, use a camping stove instead. I genuinely cant understand replies like this. Nobody needs to be lighting any kind if fire. It should have to be spelled out for every possible scenario.

They clearly went out of their way to say disposable barbecues when they obviously could have just said barbecues. Your personal opinion about what people should be doing is your own.

XenoBitch · Today 01:50

CallUpMyMamaSaidImInLoveWithTheStripperYo · Today 01:47

It’s giving “you can put cheese in your coffee”

Same.
Avoiding lighting a firepit is not enough... you need to close all your curtains in case the sunlight comes in and glances off of a wine glass and starts a fire... turn that air fryer off too. #saladstosavetheUK

CallUpMyMamaSaidImInLoveWithTheStripperYo · Today 01:52

XenoBitch · Today 01:50

Same.
Avoiding lighting a firepit is not enough... you need to close all your curtains in case the sunlight comes in and glances off of a wine glass and starts a fire... turn that air fryer off too. #saladstosavetheUK

😂😂 (I mean you can only laugh, really…)

Ereshkigalangcleg · Today 01:56

What I really hated about Covid was the making up the rules in your head tendency and expecting people to adhere to your made up rules despite them only being in your head.

Ereshkigalangcleg · Today 01:57

XenoBitch · Today 01:50

Same.
Avoiding lighting a firepit is not enough... you need to close all your curtains in case the sunlight comes in and glances off of a wine glass and starts a fire... turn that air fryer off too. #saladstosavetheUK

No wine, that’s non essential in the first place.

XenoBitch · Today 02:00

Ereshkigalangcleg · Today 01:56

What I really hated about Covid was the making up the rules in your head tendency and expecting people to adhere to your made up rules despite them only being in your head.

I think that will happen now too.

CallUpMyMamaSaidImInLoveWithTheStripperYo · Today 02:01

XenoBitch · Today 02:00

I think that will happen now too.

Yes. Mercifully it is unlikely to last as long as Covid though.

Although some people may never go back to normal…

XenoBitch · Today 02:02

Ereshkigalangcleg · Today 01:57

No wine, that’s non essential in the first place.

Ha, during Covid times, I went to a local shop and bought food for my dog.... pretty essential. I also picked up a bottle of wine, the shelf of which was on the way to the counter anyway. The security guard pulled me up on it and said it was not essential. Fucking twat.

Ereshkigalangcleg · Today 02:09

XenoBitch · Today 02:00

I think that will happen now too.

I agree. “Of course you can’t have a bbq in your garden, didn’t you understand?”

As I said, the government deliberately didn’t ban bbqs entirely, I think they knew that would be counterproductive because if that was widely ignored (like hosepipes etc), so would everything else be.

Ereshkigalangcleg · Today 02:10

XenoBitch · Today 02:02

Ha, during Covid times, I went to a local shop and bought food for my dog.... pretty essential. I also picked up a bottle of wine, the shelf of which was on the way to the counter anyway. The security guard pulled me up on it and said it was not essential. Fucking twat.

I can imagine.

FluentOP · Today 02:15

He’s a twat.

lemmein · Today 02:29

i didn’t get the alert, neither did DP. If it wasn’t for it trending on X I wouldn’t have even known about the wildfires.

Saying that, lighting a fire in the height of summer when everyone has their windows open is twattish behaviour anyway.

Chickadee26 · Today 02:34

Rachie1973 · Yesterday 23:11

My sons working 12 hour nights at the wildfires at the moment because there simply isn’t enough firefighters or equipment.

People like your son are absolute hero's. ❤I hope there will be relief from the fires soon.

Pinkchickenwine · Today 02:54

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · Yesterday 22:43

I'd be knocking on the door asking him to put the fire out. I'd give him the benefit of the doubt and assume he hadn't received the alert and simply hadn't thought.

But actually, I'd put money on him being the kind of arsehole who doesn't like to be told what to do and this is an act of rebellion. So maybe trying to be reasonable would (literally) fan the flames.

Edited

I think this is spot on!

ScarletLisa · Today 03:21

Why are some posters banging on about Covid & people missing it?
It's a completely different situation.
If someone is stupid enough to have a bonfire in the garden after the wildfire alert went out then they deserve all the flak they get.
Personally I'd have watered my garden with the hosepipe & accidentally on purpose watered the the neighbours and said fire,

Zanatdy · Today 04:34

People who sit in their garden with a fire pit on a hot evening, hours after being told not to are t*ats. Even without the warning, neighbours have windows open. Some people just only think of themselves.

MrsVBS · Today 05:37

Why anyone would light a fire in these hot dry conditions is beyond me, absolute idiot.