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To think my neighbour is selfish tw*t for lighting a fire

148 replies

Vicksstick · Yesterday 22:21

Ok so how many people, after receiving a government alert about wild fires asking them not to have fires in their garden, would then in fact go against that and light a big F off fire in their garden, well that would be my next door neighbour! We all live in close proximity in terraced houses and my neighbour thinks it’s a good idea to light a fire. The fact the fire is (for now) contained in a make shift fire pit makes no difference, I mean it’s twa**ish behaviour right?

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Vicksstick · Yesterday 22:43

I’ve taken pictures of the fire from my upstairs window and my neighbours turned around and spotted me. I don’t care though. I want proof incase something should happen. We’ve had dealings with this family before, they’re basically nightmare neighbours so usually I try my best not to rile things up but on this occasion I don’t care. It’s reckless behaviour.

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LilyOfTheValley25 · Yesterday 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

Stinkybooks · Yesterday 22:46

I would call 999 and let them know. Let them decide. I think in the circumstances they are highly likely to send a police officer round to get them to put it out.

Boreded · Yesterday 22:48

You’ve called the non-emergency line right?

OneDreamyAquaEagle · Yesterday 22:49

blunderbuss12 · Yesterday 22:39

Our ndn has been firing up the pizza oven this evening and filling our house with smoke.

Won't surprise you to know their lawn is also mysteriously pristine despite the hosepipe ban...

Perhaps it's plastic death carpet....

KayFabe · Yesterday 22:49

InQuiresandplaceswheretheysing · Yesterday 22:35

He’s a twat, but not everyone got the alert. I didn’t.

But surely you have the common sense not to light a fire when the ground is covered in tinder?
I live in a county where there's been several wildfires, and the town pissheads/tramps are still lighting fires whenever they please. Fair enough, they may be disillusioned with society (aren't we all) but dont make the fucking wildlife suffer.

Periperi2025 · Yesterday 22:50

Hosepipe over the fence, what's your neighbour going to do about it... call the police?!

PuzzlingRecluse · Yesterday 22:50

Vicksstick · Yesterday 22:43

I’ve taken pictures of the fire from my upstairs window and my neighbours turned around and spotted me. I don’t care though. I want proof incase something should happen. We’ve had dealings with this family before, they’re basically nightmare neighbours so usually I try my best not to rile things up but on this occasion I don’t care. It’s reckless behaviour.

Have you called the police?

hopefully it stays contained

Hollyhobbi · Yesterday 22:56

About this time six years ago some fucker set the green bin shed belonging to the apartment block beside our house on fire at about 4 in the morning. If my eldest dd hadn’t been awake due to Covid crazy sleep schedules we could have been in serious trouble. As it was over €11,000 worth of damage was caused to our house but luckily everyone was ok. The fire brigade were here in about 7 minutes.

Vicksstick · Yesterday 22:56

They appeared to have put the fire out now thankfully.

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Queenncat · Yesterday 22:57

call the police non emergency

TicklishReader · Yesterday 23:01

Vicksstick · Yesterday 22:56

They appeared to have put the fire out now thankfully.

Good on you.

I imagine they thought it was rather rebellious, then chickened out when they saw you. Twats.

Tillow4ever · Yesterday 23:02

Backedoffhackedoff · Yesterday 22:36

Def don’t do this. They’re extremely over stretched dealing with wild fires.

of course, should it catch/ spread they’ll need to be called

I read that previous poster as being sarcastic. I presumed they were the neighbour or in the 4% that thinks the op is unreasonable.

Shows how easily tone is misconstrued in text - we can’t both be right in how we read it!

Geronimode · Yesterday 23:03

our neighbours did this a few weeks ago and someone called the brigade on them and they came and put it out and gave them a lecture and let the kids have a go on their hose (pre hose pipe ban)

ToastSafeFromMothsAndDogs · Yesterday 23:07

Twat yes. But not exactly selfish, since the house they’re most likely to burn down is their own. Moronic, certainly.

Vicksstick · Yesterday 23:09

ToastSafeFromMothsAndDogs · Yesterday 23:07

Twat yes. But not exactly selfish, since the house they’re most likely to burn down is their own. Moronic, certainly.

We live in terraced housing so it could quite easily spread to others gardens. Once they had a fire and then went to bed and there were still embers blowing everywhere. It’s so dangerous especially in such close proximity to others.

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Kimmers4334 · Yesterday 23:10

Why would anyone even want to have a fire when it’s still boiling hot in lots of places? Might be cooler there but it’s still 21° outside here. Poking or being near a fire sounds horrible

Rachie1973 · Yesterday 23:11

InQuiresandplaceswheretheysing · Yesterday 22:37

Not if it’s not an actual emergency. The fire brigade are busy enough dealing with real emergencies.

My sons working 12 hour nights at the wildfires at the moment because there simply isn’t enough firefighters or equipment.

echt · Yesterday 23:11

ToastSafeFromMothsAndDogs · Yesterday 23:07

Twat yes. But not exactly selfish, since the house they’re most likely to burn down is their own. Moronic, certainly.

Sparks can and do fly.

Vicksstick · Yesterday 23:11

Kimmers4334 · Yesterday 23:10

Why would anyone even want to have a fire when it’s still boiling hot in lots of places? Might be cooler there but it’s still 21° outside here. Poking or being near a fire sounds horrible

Exactly. It was 30 degrees here earlier today. The mind boggles.

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johnd2 · Yesterday 23:11

LilyOfTheValley25 · Yesterday 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

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What, like not lighting a fire?

Iheartpasta · Yesterday 23:11

When that alert came through dp said that was possibly the worst thing they could have done because people will now want to start fires just to be twats

Vicksstick · Yesterday 23:11

Rachie1973 · Yesterday 23:11

My sons working 12 hour nights at the wildfires at the moment because there simply isn’t enough firefighters or equipment.

Aw bless him. He sounds like an amazing lad.

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Wisher88 · Yesterday 23:12

Vicksstick · Yesterday 22:21

Ok so how many people, after receiving a government alert about wild fires asking them not to have fires in their garden, would then in fact go against that and light a big F off fire in their garden, well that would be my next door neighbour! We all live in close proximity in terraced houses and my neighbour thinks it’s a good idea to light a fire. The fact the fire is (for now) contained in a make shift fire pit makes no difference, I mean it’s twa**ish behaviour right?

I would report him. Call the police. It's a national emergency and it would your house that will be burned to the ground as his neighbour.

Anyahyacinth · Yesterday 23:12

LilyOfTheValley25 · Yesterday 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

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Contain sparks that fly up?