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To think my neighbour is selfish tw*t for lighting a fire

148 replies

Vicksstick · Yesterday 22:21

Ok so how many people, after receiving a government alert about wild fires asking them not to have fires in their garden, would then in fact go against that and light a big F off fire in their garden, well that would be my next door neighbour! We all live in close proximity in terraced houses and my neighbour thinks it’s a good idea to light a fire. The fact the fire is (for now) contained in a make shift fire pit makes no difference, I mean it’s twa**ish behaviour right?

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BitterTits · Yesterday 23:13

He will also be posting on FB about how well he remembers the summer of 1976, wildfires used to be called controlled burning and bemoaning the nanny state. Attention-seeking twat.

TicklishReader · Yesterday 23:13

Rachie1973 · Yesterday 23:11

My sons working 12 hour nights at the wildfires at the moment because there simply isn’t enough firefighters or equipment.

Ugh, poor guy.

I hope your lovely son stays safe.

BitterTits · Yesterday 23:14

LilyOfTheValley25 · Yesterday 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

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Are you going to catch the embers with your bare hands?

XenoBitch · Yesterday 23:14

My local police FB page have posted saying not to call them to report people having a BBQ.

Whenwillitrainagain · Yesterday 23:14

My neighbour did the same, and I went across to try to speak to him. They were completely dismissive and rude. I did threaten to call the police.
He is very thick though, probably genuinely too thick to realise the danger he is putting us all in.

BlossomLeaves · Yesterday 23:16

Please don’t call the fire brigade to report things like this. I get why you’d want to but they’re already overstretched - our local fire service have just put out a message to ask people to stop calling them to report BBQs since the alert.

GentleSheep · Yesterday 23:16

People are just... idiots. Have just seen someone walk past our house, flicking his cigarette lighter and lighting a cigarette, then flicking ash, which was glowing, carelessly towards the very dry grass and vegetation at the side of the road!! Without even a second thought!

NotMeAtAll · Yesterday 23:16

He probably has a small willy thinks it's rebellious.

GentleSheep · Yesterday 23:17

XenoBitch · Yesterday 23:14

My local police FB page have posted saying not to call them to report people having a BBQ.

Which tells us there are still a lot of people going ahead with BBQs even after the warning. So depressing.

Periperi2025 · Yesterday 23:17

LilyOfTheValley25 · Yesterday 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

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It might only be advisory but i think the nationwide government alert will make it very very easy for the CPS to charge anyone 'accidently' loosing control of a fire with arson reckless to whether life endangered which carries up to life imprisonment, so you need to be very very confident that you can contain the fire if you are going to have one, because if you don't contain it you're off to prison!

Queenncat · Yesterday 23:18

Whenwillitrainagain · Yesterday 23:14

My neighbour did the same, and I went across to try to speak to him. They were completely dismissive and rude. I did threaten to call the police.
He is very thick though, probably genuinely too thick to realise the danger he is putting us all in.

Yes. The average IQ in the UK is approx 100 - so there are many (many) people who are below average IQ. 50% of people in fact. Make of that what you will!

rainbowunicorn · Yesterday 23:19

LilyOfTheValley25 · Yesterday 22:44

I tbink its only advisory isnt it. Unless you arr a total idiot you can easily put measures in place to contain it.

Edited

No, you cant always contain fire. One spark from a fire is all it takes. The advice is to avoid any activity that could start a fire.

XenoBitch · Yesterday 23:20

Queenncat · Yesterday 23:18

Yes. The average IQ in the UK is approx 100 - so there are many (many) people who are below average IQ. 50% of people in fact. Make of that what you will!

IQ test is just a test of an IQ test. Nothing to do with common sense.
Some very highly educated people with high IQ are thick as fuck.

lazyarse123 · Yesterday 23:21

We had someone on our local fb page not long after the alert who had lit a fire and him and all his idiot mates laughing about it." Oh at least it's contained". I did comment along the lines of what kind of selfish twat lights a fire when it's 30 degrees, his poor neighbours never mind the risks to life. Apparently i'm a misery. I'd rather be miserable than burnt to a crisp.

Thecows · Yesterday 23:23

God, humans...

HuffandPuffandPuff · Yesterday 23:23

Yep selfish twat box ticked.

Take photos, put your hose on it and loudly shame them. Stupidity needs calling out for this!

29836WW · Yesterday 23:23

Turn the hose pipe on him.

You'll soon get some eejit reporting you for that and hopefully when the powers that be come out to investigate you can point them in your neighbour's direction

Summersorcherisjustsummer · Yesterday 23:24

Periperi2025 · Yesterday 23:17

It might only be advisory but i think the nationwide government alert will make it very very easy for the CPS to charge anyone 'accidently' loosing control of a fire with arson reckless to whether life endangered which carries up to life imprisonment, so you need to be very very confident that you can contain the fire if you are going to have one, because if you don't contain it you're off to prison!

Edited

Is this true and if so I don't think this has been communicated clearly

Rachie1973 · Yesterday 23:25

Vicksstick · Yesterday 23:11

Aw bless him. He sounds like an amazing lad.

Ty, but he’d tell you ‘he’s doing his job’

XenoBitch · Yesterday 23:26

29836WW · Yesterday 23:23

Turn the hose pipe on him.

You'll soon get some eejit reporting you for that and hopefully when the powers that be come out to investigate you can point them in your neighbour's direction

But, a lot of places have a hosepipe ban...

MayaPyjama · Yesterday 23:26

GentleSheep · Yesterday 23:17

Which tells us there are still a lot of people going ahead with BBQs even after the warning. So depressing.

To be fair the warning explicitly chose not to say anything about barbecues, and so it’s not an unreasonable assumption to think there is no issue with having a BBQ.

They could very easily have said “including avoiding barbecues”.

Francestein · Yesterday 23:28

I have lost family members who were volunteer fire fighters here in Australia. Your neighbours are the worst. Can you call the police for this? (We can when we have fire bans)

FlamingoFloss · Yesterday 23:31

AzureCats · Yesterday 22:33

I'd be tempted to report it non emergency police. If they have officers available they may come and have a word with him. What a TWAZZOCK he is.
Autocorrect added all caps, I'm going to keep it as it's very apt.

Definitely this

AlwayAnxious · Yesterday 23:32

Fireworks going off everywhere too

Mrstawnyowl · Yesterday 23:33

The alert said to avoid disposable barbecues. As soon as I saw the alert my cynical side thought that some numpties will now go out of their way to do something involving fire.