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To ask if you think the prime minister has a democratic duty to house asylum seekers in middle class areas

438 replies

CurdinHenry · Yesterday 10:22

By which I mean, would most voters support this as opposed to a change in policy to refuse in greater numbers? I honestly can't tell what "the majority" actually wants. I would prefer fewer having seen how things went in Germany thanks to the Merkel wave but I am willing to believe I'm a backwards old boomer and a majority would be more welcoming.

They (UK governments) tend to say they have no choice due to the echr but this isn't true. There are a lot of operational choices they could make (eg sometimes when people are denied entry at the border they are actually allowed into the country for a few days and instructed to report back to the airport when it's time for the removal flight).

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IAlmostJumpIn · Yesterday 11:29

MargaretThursday · Yesterday 10:43

One of the middle class leafy suburbs near us has a hotel used for refugees. They're a mixture of nationalities and ages, including some families, very keen to volunteer for things like food bank so they can put back into the population.
There has been no crime increase, no sets of "single men hanging about" etc.

They were moved there from a working class area due to the racist violence and abuse they were suffering there.

Yeah I’d be interested to know that stats on the current hotels. Are they less frequently in “middle class” areas? There was a migrant hotel a 5 min drive from the small middle class Berkshire village I live in. You couldn’t have one in the village unless you’re proposing spending a lot more money actually building a new facility - there isn’t a hotel or a nearby unused military base etc.

And like your experience, we had no issues from the hotel, we actually used to live nearer to it in the nearby (also middle class) town it was in, and it never caused me any problems. Wouldn’t bother me if it was reopened.

Although I don’t think that faffing about with the location of the hotels is going to solve any of the actual issues. Whether you’re pro totally open borders, or think all immigrants and asylum seekers should be stopped completely or are anywhere in between, “I’ll move the hotels” is not remotely a solution. It’s a distraction that gets everyone het up bickering amongst themselves. There shouldn’t be people in hotels, or military bases, for god knows how long.

fartoomuchtoblerone · Yesterday 11:30

I’m what some people might describe as a bleeding heart lefty and even I think we need to be accepting less of these young male illegal economic migrants. I will strongly defend the need for immigration, and I work in a very international industry that has been negatively affected by government making it harder for skilled and highly educated immigrants and their families to move here
for the sake of scoring points and looking ‘tough on immigration’. But IMO it’s completely naive to imagine that importing large numbers of single jobless males from highly patriarchal countries, who are not really requiring asylum (and in fact are coming here from a safe country i.e France), is going to be safe.

YourAmplePlumPoster · Yesterday 11:30

Am I wrong in thinking that the duty of the State and the PM is the safety and security of its citizens. Letting in unvetted people and releasing dangerous criminals before their sentence is up, does neither.

MrsMavisPike · Yesterday 11:31

Agreed @Nomoreicecream

DebbieSavage · Yesterday 11:31

I think if most sensible and empathic women opened their homes to an asylum seeking male and kicked their nasty anti-immgrant, right wing husbands out onto the street, there wouldn't be any need for housing them in massive HMO's or hostels.

Are there any prominent Green councillors/activists who could help organise a campaign to raise awareness on this matter?

smallglassbottle · Yesterday 11:31

The middle classes are the ones who appear to be most welcoming to migrants, so yes, they should absolutely be housed in their areas. Spread the happiness 😊🤗😁

IAlmostJumpIn · Yesterday 11:32

Nomoreicecream · Yesterday 11:28

But not white Socialist areas like Kensington & Bayswater, Harrow, or Peterborough or Lib Dem like Henley & Thame,

Haha Henley & Thame might have been Lib Dem last election but it’s been Tory since day dot before then. They even elected Johnson in his pre-mayor days. It’s really not what you’d call a Lib Dem area.

graceinspace999 · Yesterday 11:34

MargaretThursday · Yesterday 10:43

One of the middle class leafy suburbs near us has a hotel used for refugees. They're a mixture of nationalities and ages, including some families, very keen to volunteer for things like food bank so they can put back into the population.
There has been no crime increase, no sets of "single men hanging about" etc.

They were moved there from a working class area due to the racist violence and abuse they were suffering there.

Recollections may vary.

However the anti working class attitude loud and clear.

Cheese55 · Yesterday 11:36

MargaretThursday · Yesterday 10:43

One of the middle class leafy suburbs near us has a hotel used for refugees. They're a mixture of nationalities and ages, including some families, very keen to volunteer for things like food bank so they can put back into the population.
There has been no crime increase, no sets of "single men hanging about" etc.

They were moved there from a working class area due to the racist violence and abuse they were suffering there.

It must be difficult but not impossible to do a DBS check if they volunteer

shiningstar2 · Yesterday 11:36

To answer the original question, yes asylum seekers should be distributed fairly ( but who is to work that out 🤔) across whole country, rural, urban, rich and poor areas. To place the majority of asylum seekers in poor urban areas, where resources are already stretched is going to cause massive problems.
It's no good certain sectors of society having sympathy providing the challenges caused are placed elsewhere. Everybody can come up with reasons why their area is a particular exception but it isn't fair to place the biggest proportion in. the areas of highest social deprivation.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 11:38

CurdinHenry · Yesterday 10:53

I just don't understand why we keep doing it. I'd take a really hard line and not take any single men at all. I don't see the point of all the downsides of Brexit and we are still taking the bad things (uncontrolled borders and those stupid bottle top tethers). The fact that it keeps happening when it seems so stupid makes me think I must be out of step because if I had the power to decide we would be emptying all those guys out toute de suite.

It’s limited by current laws that we’re signed up to. So if the electorate want change they need to give mandate to opt out via votes.

Labour won’t do it as it’s not within their remit.

Nomoreicecream · Yesterday 11:39

DebbieSavage · Yesterday 11:31

I think if most sensible and empathic women opened their homes to an asylum seeking male and kicked their nasty anti-immgrant, right wing husbands out onto the street, there wouldn't be any need for housing them in massive HMO's or hostels.

Are there any prominent Green councillors/activists who could help organise a campaign to raise awareness on this matter?

Good idea.
That could solve the problem of all these sexually frustrated undocumented young men (who are so full of testosterone that they have to sexually assault and rape our women/girls/children) and give them a purpose in life.

How about you contact the Green Party and find out how you can set up such a system ?

BeatrizBoniface · Yesterday 11:40

Cheese55 · Yesterday 11:36

It must be difficult but not impossible to do a DBS check if they volunteer

Yes, one of my colleagues was insistent that refugees worked for a local food bank.
We did question it.
It turned out not to be true.

WildClover · Yesterday 11:43

I don't think bringing other areas down is a great choice.

piscofrisco · Yesterday 11:43

Ablondiebutagoody · Yesterday 10:36

Of course. It is middle class do-gooders who keep voting for stupid numbers of migrants, whilst sneering at the lower classes who object because they feel the impact. High time that everyone shared the consequences. If it is a positive thing, as claimed, there will be no problem.

As a ‘middle class do gooder’ (literally my job is working with people with LD and Im
resoundingly middle class by any metric that can be applied), I can’t recall a time where I’ve even once been asked to vote for or against ‘stupid numbers of migrants’.

Cheese55 · Yesterday 11:43

shiningstar2 · Yesterday 11:25

There are a lot of difficult truths when it comes to asylum seekers

We can't accommodate everybody who wants to come and live here. Unregulated daily boat crossing over a period of years isn't sustainable.

If we allow unregistered asylum seekers with no provable evidence of identity we are weakening our borders, at a time of grave international crisis. Inevitably, as well as those who desperately need and deserve asylum there will be some coming that route who wants to harm us. If you have nefarious intentions or are a dangerous criminal in your home country you're not going to come the legal route and be turned back at the airport.
The safest way for us as a country to take in those who need our help is through legal routes where applications are vetted.
Sadly this does not help the desperate who are stuck for years in the system.
To me the only way forward is to stop the illegal gangs ...how???! and make the legal process more accessible, speedier and fairer.
With AI, the international network etc drastically cutting down jobs, apart from genuine asylum seekers, we need to grasp the nettle and understand that for future generations it increasingly looks like the job market is decreasing, and it is highly lightly that there will be fewer jobs around so we are going to have to make tough decisions about how big our annual intake of others can be.
No easy answers I'm afraid.

How would legal routes help the male economic migrants with no skills to offer as they wouldn't be accepted.

Jerrybalanitis · Yesterday 11:47

I think the government should house its actual citizens in a home, regardless of location before illegally entered undocumented people. Us the money left iver to create mental health services and hospitals to reduce homelessness in the first.place. once this is done and people arent dying of malnutrition and cold, then start offering free housing to non citizens in need.

angelos02 · Yesterday 11:49

What's the problem? Diversity is a strength.

museumum · Yesterday 11:50

Where I live land, property and accommodation are very very expensive, ridiculously so. That makes it quite 'middle class' except for the small amount of historic social housing. Purchasing land or buildings or rooms for immigrants here would be economically irresponsible for the local council or national government, it would cost five times what it would cost elsewhere. Nothing to do with NIMBYism, just economics.

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 11:50

What beggars belief is that to travel abroad I have to - quite rightly - show my passport, do fingerprint/eyeball checks, pass through Immigration - answer questions about length of stay in some places.

And yet, men about whom we know nothing are allowed to roam free. Even when something is known - previous rapes or other criminal activity - they are still housed and not thrown out in their ear.

Furthermore, the “we do not know where they come from” line. Surely you just do a phone check - and find that they’ve been speaking to their mother in Somalia or wherever. There just seems no will do do anything.

Nomoreicecream · Yesterday 11:51

angelos02 · Yesterday 11:49

What's the problem? Diversity is a strength.

😆

Ablondiebutagoody · Yesterday 11:53

piscofrisco · Yesterday 11:43

As a ‘middle class do gooder’ (literally my job is working with people with LD and Im
resoundingly middle class by any metric that can be applied), I can’t recall a time where I’ve even once been asked to vote for or against ‘stupid numbers of migrants’.

Have you ever voted Reform?

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 11:54

@museumum in city near me the council proudly trumpeted they had purchased and done up homes for asylum seekers. Only in a really desirable street of £1m+ Georgian houses!!

piscofrisco · Yesterday 11:54

of course not

MargaretThursday · Yesterday 11:55

BeatrizBoniface · Yesterday 11:40

Yes, one of my colleagues was insistent that refugees worked for a local food bank.
We did question it.
It turned out not to be true.

Ours definitely did. I volunteered too, so I saw them. They walked 3 miles there and three miles back as the money they got wouldn't run to bus fares.

They did the heavy shifting and work packing parcels, never dealt with members of the public so didn't need a dbs.