Hiya, I have name changed for this but have been a long time user on here.
My DP is away this weekend, we live together and share a tablet/device usually for watching Netflix in bed, but we sometimes use it for Facebook. So just to be clear I wasn’t ‘snooping’, as I have always had complete trust in DP.
He had kept his account logged in on the messenger app, which I clicked on as it was an open tab. I saw emoji’s next to a woman’s name (I didn’t recognise this or her photo) so it piqued my interest.
There are various exchanges, not regular and most talk about work but more recent ones seem to cross a line.
Can I just ask whether you’d consider this a form of cheating, I am upset and haven’t mentioned to him yet. I literally found them an hour ago.
Conversation about DP’s new car, started off dull about the salary sacrifice scheme he used. It’s a fairly big car.
Woman - plenty of room in the back of that car 👀
DP - oh yeah, what you thinking
Woman - just saying, amazing what people do in cars these days
DP - I think that would be uncomfortable 😅
Woman - don’t knock it till you’ve tried it
DP - I’m a clean freak, couldn’t be dealing with my backseats covered in lady spray 😂
Woman - you have to be skilled to get that from me 😂
DP - I’ve never had any complaints 😛
Thats just one of them, I can post others. I want to confront him but don’t want to be seen as over reacting.
I’ve found her on LinkedIn, she works for the same company. Also on Facebook it’s obvious she has a family too.