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AIBU to think Mumsnet gives better advice than ChatGPT?

151 replies

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 10:06

Is Mumsnet better than CHAT GPT for advice?
AIBU- Mumsnet is full of genuine advice
AINBU- CHAT GPT is great and/or is on Mumsnet anyway

OP posts:
Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 14:44

cardibach · 06/08/2026 14:38

I don’t want to use it for all the other reasons I said. It’s immoral that it steals everyone’s work and it’s environmentally destructive. To be inaccurate and untrustworthy on top makes it a no.

But to me this is a perfect example of the low quality of Mumsnet discourse.

“Oh but look I’ve linked a news story that says chat gpt made up a legal case!” “Ok how does that impact me using it?” “Well x” “no it doesn’t” “well Y” “no it doesn’t” “ok well I don’t like it anyway for other reasons”

erm ok… so why were we talking about making up some case law?

KTheGrey · 06/08/2026 16:03

friedaklein · 06/08/2026 13:43

I find it only tells me what I want to hear. A people pleaser.

I can honestly say I have never wanted to be told to go to A&E so I guess these things depend on what you ask it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

cardibach · 06/08/2026 16:08

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 14:44

But to me this is a perfect example of the low quality of Mumsnet discourse.

“Oh but look I’ve linked a news story that says chat gpt made up a legal case!” “Ok how does that impact me using it?” “Well x” “no it doesn’t” “well Y” “no it doesn’t” “ok well I don’t like it anyway for other reasons”

erm ok… so why were we talking about making up some case law?

I’m not sure why you are so hooked up on this. I gave one example. You suggested that wasn’t a good enough reason not to trust/use it. I’ve told you all my other reasons and you are still banging on about how case law can be checked. It’s not reliable if you have to check every little thing.
For the last time. I don’t trust it because it hallucinates, but I don’t use it because

  • Immoral thievery of people’s work
  • Undermining and undervaluing of actual experts
  • Environmental effects

If you’re happy with all that, crack on. I’m not.

friedaklein · 06/08/2026 16:12

KTheGrey · 06/08/2026 16:03

I can honestly say I have never wanted to be told to go to A&E so I guess these things depend on what you ask it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

No, me neither! I just went to A and E..😀
MN will probably be horrified to know I rely on my boomer mum for most advice.

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 16:20

cardibach · 06/08/2026 16:08

I’m not sure why you are so hooked up on this. I gave one example. You suggested that wasn’t a good enough reason not to trust/use it. I’ve told you all my other reasons and you are still banging on about how case law can be checked. It’s not reliable if you have to check every little thing.
For the last time. I don’t trust it because it hallucinates, but I don’t use it because

  • Immoral thievery of people’s work
  • Undermining and undervaluing of actual experts
  • Environmental effects

If you’re happy with all that, crack on. I’m not.

Edited

I’m so “hooked up” on it because you responded to my post saying I would use it for legal advice over Mumsnet with

“You would trust it for legal advice? Really?”
and a link to made up case law being quoted in court. When I asked why that means I shouldn’t use it for legal advice there you have no reason.

So I dont understand why you posted it in the first place, apart from maybe you gave it barely any thought before posting, which at least you can’t accuse chat got of.

friedaklein · 06/08/2026 16:22

Does anyone else think there are a few posters on MN who always give brilliant, sensible, well-articulated, civil advice? I do. I would list their names, except I don't want to embarass them and come off as a creepy stalker. ( They don't seem to change their names).

Boomer55 · 06/08/2026 16:23

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 10:06

Is Mumsnet better than CHAT GPT for advice?
AIBU- Mumsnet is full of genuine advice
AINBU- CHAT GPT is great and/or is on Mumsnet anyway

Well MN depends on the posts. Some helpful, some not. Chat GPT is a waste of time.

Real life advice, from people that know you, is best.

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 16:23

KTheGrey · 06/08/2026 16:03

I can honestly say I have never wanted to be told to go to A&E so I guess these things depend on what you ask it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

In previous post about alleged chat gpt hallucinations a poster claimed she’d been told by chat gpt to go to a&e for her period.

When that was questioned and tested, it had said nothing of the sort.
It had simply said “if you symptoms turn into (bullet points describing a serious emergency) contact your nearest a&e

yet the poster was happy to go around giggling that she’d told chat she had her period and it demanded she rush to a&e.

KTheGrey · 06/08/2026 16:28

friedaklein · 06/08/2026 16:22

Does anyone else think there are a few posters on MN who always give brilliant, sensible, well-articulated, civil advice? I do. I would list their names, except I don't want to embarass them and come off as a creepy stalker. ( They don't seem to change their names).

Edited

There are definitely some whose opinion I value - and equally there are some whose contributions I deliberately skip because I so seldom agree with anything they say that it’s bad for my blood pressure 😄

NarnianQueen · 06/08/2026 16:30

I think one advantage of chat gpt is that YOU are more likely to give it more info and be more open and truthful cos you’re not worried about being judged… whereas on mumsnet you might be more guarded because it’s a nest of (occasionally very kind and helpful) vipers!

Priach · 06/08/2026 16:34

Many on MN just want to have a go at the OP in a very unhelpful way. People don’t read the OP’s posts properly etc. No way is that useful advice.

cardibach · 06/08/2026 17:26

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 16:20

I’m so “hooked up” on it because you responded to my post saying I would use it for legal advice over Mumsnet with

“You would trust it for legal advice? Really?”
and a link to made up case law being quoted in court. When I asked why that means I shouldn’t use it for legal advice there you have no reason.

So I dont understand why you posted it in the first place, apart from maybe you gave it barely any thought before posting, which at least you can’t accuse chat got of.

I gave it the thought it needed. A bit of an aside that it may not be the best idea to use something that’s getting more and more separated from reality (as in my following post, which you don’t seem quite so fascinated by) for something important like legal advice.
I didn’t say that was why I don’t use it. I’ve told you why I don’t use it, but you seem obsessed with it being brilliant despite it being inaccurate, immoral, environmentally damaging and all the rest. You do you, but I’ll give it a miss. One post does not a poster’s whole experience and opinion make.

cardibach · 06/08/2026 17:30

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 16:23

In previous post about alleged chat gpt hallucinations a poster claimed she’d been told by chat gpt to go to a&e for her period.

When that was questioned and tested, it had said nothing of the sort.
It had simply said “if you symptoms turn into (bullet points describing a serious emergency) contact your nearest a&e

yet the poster was happy to go around giggling that she’d told chat she had her period and it demanded she rush to a&e.

She giggled did she? Silly little girl was she? Not as serious as you with your legal ChatGPT advice? You are y coming across very well here. So much so that I’m not responding to you again. Feel free to have the last word if that makes you feel better about belittling others (the giggler, plus me and my ‘low quality…discourse’) and using something which steals others’ work, devalues experts and destroys the environment.

Poppingby · 06/08/2026 18:35

I bet ChatGPT wouldn't tell you you did low quality discourse anyway. That's something to be said for it.

QuickPlumLeader · 06/08/2026 18:41

I’d never post on MN for advice, posters on here are nasty for the sake of it.

nutbrownhare15 · 06/08/2026 18:42

Mumsnet gives you a lot of different opinions mostly by real women. Ai gives you bland opinions which it couches as authoritative but is just based on random sources scalped from the internet.

LipglossAndLies · 06/08/2026 18:45

Depends on what advice you are looking for. Practical with videos to demonstrate it e.g. DIY then AI is great and narrowing down and filtering what you need.

Opinions and suggestions that are more nuanced then less so. Although it is useful to help you find discussions similar or close to what you want advice on so could save some time in that respect.

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 23:16

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 14:10

What does involved in Mumsnet mean?

I guess I mean that they use public posts I tbe algorithm

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MrsOctaviaCharlotteSmythe · 06/08/2026 23:17

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 10:16

@Backedoffhackedoff

Just as a counterpoint- you think what CHAT GPT says is all evidenced, etc?

Edited typo

Edited

i always tell it eg research the internet then answer x question etc

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 23:19

ParsleySageToiletDuckAndBinBags · 06/08/2026 13:26

It will be obsessively badgering you to get your ducks in a row and panicking you because it's already August and you haven't even started planning for Christmas yet - and it will only finally leave you alone (by flouncing) when you threaten to let a tradesman drop a big nasty log in your bog and then scrape it all off with one of your collection of toilet brushes!

Yes but do you disagree around ducks in row?

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MrsOctaviaCharlotteSmythe · 06/08/2026 23:20

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 23:19

Yes but do you disagree around ducks in row?

give me a question to ask it and with the prompts i use ill get the answer

Gooseling · 06/08/2026 23:20

I find the Style and Beauty Mumsnet advice horrific. I’ve never seen more unflattering and frumpy outfits recommend. Along with “statement necklaces” 🤢

But real people do tend to give better advice on real life situations they’ve lived through before.

So -
ChatGPT for style advice!
Mumsnet for everything else.

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 23:20

nutbrownhare15 · 06/08/2026 18:42

Mumsnet gives you a lot of different opinions mostly by real women. Ai gives you bland opinions which it couches as authoritative but is just based on random sources scalped from the internet.

Agree..but what people want?

OP posts:
ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 23:28

nutbrownhare15 · 06/08/2026 18:42

Mumsnet gives you a lot of different opinions mostly by real women. Ai gives you bland opinions which it couches as authoritative but is just based on random sources scalped from the internet.

Hi mumsnet bot... or anyone officially pleaseeereee join

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ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 23:29

Gooseling · 06/08/2026 23:20

I find the Style and Beauty Mumsnet advice horrific. I’ve never seen more unflattering and frumpy outfits recommend. Along with “statement necklaces” 🤢

But real people do tend to give better advice on real life situations they’ve lived through before.

So -
ChatGPT for style advice!
Mumsnet for everything else.

Yes agree...

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