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AIBU to think Mumsnet gives better advice than ChatGPT?

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ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 10:06

Is Mumsnet better than CHAT GPT for advice?
AIBU- Mumsnet is full of genuine advice
AINBU- CHAT GPT is great and/or is on Mumsnet anyway

OP posts:
ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 12:33

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 12:30

It won’t include Mumsnet, Mumsnet is too tiny. I’ve only ever seen Reddit cited as information. And that’s not people’s thoughts, it’s where similar questions have been asked and answered

Do you think it cites all sources?

Not just examples?

OP posts:
ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 12:35

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 12:30

It won’t include Mumsnet, Mumsnet is too tiny. I’ve only ever seen Reddit cited as information. And that’s not people’s thoughts, it’s where similar questions have been asked and answered

So you think ChatGpt is not involved in Mumsnet?

OP posts:
ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 12:37

Anyone at mumsnet here? Can you tell us how is chatgpt or ai involved?

OP posts:
FoxandDuck · 06/08/2026 12:44

It depends on what I want an answer to
Kitchen planning, for example, I’d always choose MN as those posting will have lived with the consequences of their choices (good & bad!)
I asked about washing dog toys recently. ChatGPT had given me a perspective but, again, I wanted practical experience and got just that, both the incredulous “life is too short” and the “this is what I do and it works for me”.

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 12:49

So if.you search does chatgpt use mumsnet- yes it does it will use public answers to formulate what you ask, to answer

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KTheGrey · 06/08/2026 12:51

Chat GPT is pretty good at reading comprehension, which cannot be said for all posters on Mumsnet. You see a lot of posts asking for info provided in the OP.

It is also less vitriolic and convinced it’s right than many human beings.

There are posters on Mumsnet who give advice to ignore what OP has been told to do by Doctors or 111. I think this is pretty dangerous, as posters asking about medical issues are usually in a somewhat vulnerable state and might listen.

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 13:15

@KTheGrey

So you think 111 does not use AI/ChatGpt?

OP posts:
Boreded · 06/08/2026 13:16

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 10:14

God no, 90% of advice on MN is hideous- unemphatic, unknowledgeable and unevidenced. It’s not good at all!

This!

it’s all LTB…what because he said your butt looks big in this outfit when you were the one who asked? Or because he didn’t put the bins out after a long day at work.

ParsleySageToiletDuckAndBinBags · 06/08/2026 13:26

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 12:31

I am wondering how chatgpt will pick up the threads recently of classic/typical mumsnet phrases

How long till chatgpt is telling us to ltb? Eat naice ham?

Edited

It will be obsessively badgering you to get your ducks in a row and panicking you because it's already August and you haven't even started planning for Christmas yet - and it will only finally leave you alone (by flouncing) when you threaten to let a tradesman drop a big nasty log in your bog and then scrape it all off with one of your collection of toilet brushes!

SlushMountain · 06/08/2026 13:41

No I disagree, mumsnet is an awful place especially for advice and very very judgemental!

friedaklein · 06/08/2026 13:43

KTheGrey · 06/08/2026 12:51

Chat GPT is pretty good at reading comprehension, which cannot be said for all posters on Mumsnet. You see a lot of posts asking for info provided in the OP.

It is also less vitriolic and convinced it’s right than many human beings.

There are posters on Mumsnet who give advice to ignore what OP has been told to do by Doctors or 111. I think this is pretty dangerous, as posters asking about medical issues are usually in a somewhat vulnerable state and might listen.

I find it only tells me what I want to hear. A people pleaser.

Cooshawn · 06/08/2026 13:47

ChatGPT is full of absolute shite. But people blindly buy into it the same as they do horoscopes.

And it really pisses me off when someone posts asking for opinions or advice and people take it upon themselves to post ChatGPT bullshit like it's their unique perspective. People are losing all capacity to think for themselves and it isn't helpful to anyone.

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 13:54

SlushMountain · 06/08/2026 13:41

No I disagree, mumsnet is an awful place especially for advice and very very judgemental!

I am not disagreeing but is that on all advice or certain boards?

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SlushMountain · 06/08/2026 13:55

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 13:54

I am not disagreeing but is that on all advice or certain boards?

I’d say most of them tbh mumsnet has definitely gone down hill over the years

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 13:56

Cooshawn · 06/08/2026 13:47

ChatGPT is full of absolute shite. But people blindly buy into it the same as they do horoscopes.

And it really pisses me off when someone posts asking for opinions or advice and people take it upon themselves to post ChatGPT bullshit like it's their unique perspective. People are losing all capacity to think for themselves and it isn't helpful to anyone.

Yes this one- is the comfort of ChatGPT better? And do we believe it has 'the facts'? I think we know individuals on mumsnet have individual experiences but why is chatgpt some agnostic truth?

OP posts:
Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 14:10

ponyprincess · 06/08/2026 12:35

So you think ChatGpt is not involved in Mumsnet?

Edited

What does involved in Mumsnet mean?

cardibach · 06/08/2026 14:16

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 11:50

But you’ve extrapolated that because lawyers or barristers have gone in front of a judge with invented cases (without checking) a lay person can’t use it for legal advice?

I'm in a group full of people going through a legal process. So many people represent themslevs with chat gpt. What risk do you think the fact that a barrister used a made up case in court presents to their case?

the risk is ChatGPT will make up cases to justify its advice to them.

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 14:21

cardibach · 06/08/2026 14:16

the risk is ChatGPT will make up cases to justify its advice to them.

Well obviously. But again, cases are needed in a court of law. In real life, A barrister or multiple barristers have already cited made up cases in front of a judge.

so are you suggesting a lay person should pay a solicitor to use chat gpt and quote made up cases rather than doing it yourself for no money? What’s the difference?

plus, in the 2 court cases I have won - thanks to chat GPT 😀 (and my own brains) zero quoting of cares was required.

all I needed to do was quote the law to the judge, not suggest some cases to advise them how to interpret it.

lay people are also overwhelmingly using chat for less complex legal advice.

cardibach · 06/08/2026 14:24

I wouldn’t trust anything Chat GPT told me, @Backedoffhackedoff .
Plus I have issues with the morality of it stealing people’s work and its use to by pass actual experts. And the environmental issues, obviously. Is literally never use it for anything. I get cross with the AI summaries on google and everywhere else now too. It’s unnecessary and harmful.

dairydebris · 06/08/2026 14:25

SlushMountain · 06/08/2026 13:55

I’d say most of them tbh mumsnet has definitely gone down hill over the years

Why are you here then? Genuine question? If its awful for advice and so judgemental?

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 14:33

cardibach · 06/08/2026 14:24

I wouldn’t trust anything Chat GPT told me, @Backedoffhackedoff .
Plus I have issues with the morality of it stealing people’s work and its use to by pass actual experts. And the environmental issues, obviously. Is literally never use it for anything. I get cross with the AI summaries on google and everywhere else now too. It’s unnecessary and harmful.

Edited

But you’re capable of checking it, right? Using chat got doesn’t mean you lose your brain.

Case law isn’t people’s work. It’s a published public record

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 14:35

dairydebris · 06/08/2026 14:25

Why are you here then? Genuine question? If its awful for advice and so judgemental?

Sometimes that’s quite entertaining

dairydebris · 06/08/2026 14:36

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 14:35

Sometimes that’s quite entertaining

Its why I love it ☺️

SlushMountain · 06/08/2026 14:36

dairydebris · 06/08/2026 14:25

Why are you here then? Genuine question? If its awful for advice and so judgemental?

Basically what someone else said, to pass time when im bored! But I wouldn’t recommend posting
your own thread unless you enjoy being ripped to shreds

cardibach · 06/08/2026 14:38

Backedoffhackedoff · 06/08/2026 14:33

But you’re capable of checking it, right? Using chat got doesn’t mean you lose your brain.

Case law isn’t people’s work. It’s a published public record

I don’t want to use it for all the other reasons I said. It’s immoral that it steals everyone’s work and it’s environmentally destructive. To be inaccurate and untrustworthy on top makes it a no.

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