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To just want it to be autumn now?

284 replies

cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 15:03

I hate the depths of winter (January and February) with a passion, but my god I am craving those lovely September days where it’s not so hot you feel sweaty by 8am, and you're able to walk around without feeling disgusting.

I want soups and stews and pies back on the menu instead of pasta and salads, I want a piping hot bowl of leek and potato soup with a crusty bit of bread, a steak and ale pie with a helping of buttery mash, a roast dinner.

I’m sick of wearing dresses and sandals, I have a Birkenstock tan line ffs. I want to get into bed and feel cosy, not just have a sheet over the top of me. I’m craving a cosy autumn afternoon, a nice walk through orange woods and coming back to a lovely bowl of stew with a helping of crusty bread, tucked under a blanket reading a book.

I’m just bloody sick of summer!

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cardibach · 02/08/2026 22:03

cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 21:58

So go to the GP and seek help. Don’t be insufferable and goady on a thread that’s about how awful this summer has been - because it has been awful. You’re drawing false equivalences and pretending that Britain is the same as India because you don’t like to admit the reality of the absolute disaster this summer has been.

Im doing nothing of the kind. I’ve said the two heatwaves were unpleasant. I’ve said we need rain. I’ve done it all without insulting anyone, whereas you have said I ‘get a bit sad’, need to ‘learn to deal with it’ (how old do you think I am and how many years do you think I’ve been dealing with it?) and say I’m ’being insufferable’ because I’ve pointed out you can do all the things you like to do in summer while winter makes me ill. It’s a personal attack. I’m not reporting it because it might get deleted and people need to see how unpleasant you are being.

cardibach · 02/08/2026 22:05

Uppity? And other people are insufferable?
Talking about whether you are unreasonable to want autumn or not isn’t derailing the thread. It’s what you asked.

Leavesandthings · 02/08/2026 22:07

There's even a poll and everything.

Wanttogotoamericaagain · 02/08/2026 22:23

frozendaisy · 02/08/2026 21:49

I think people who hate summer and wish it away are fat and/or have no friends.

I'm a size 10, have plenty of friends and hate summer. So there!

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 22:27

I don’t think there’s been a week since May where at least one person hasn’t gone home sick with what appears to be heat related illnesses.

It was a maximum of 17 degrees for the first two weeks in June according to Met Office records.

OnlyUsername · 02/08/2026 22:41

FoxRedPuppy · 02/08/2026 19:34

I love running in cold weather and in the dark 😂. I love the dark, verbally. I do like light evenings too. But I don’t mind dark evenings at all. Cold weather is great to run in, you just dress right and get out. The heat makes me feel sick of if I run in it.

I'm so annoyed about this. I started running in May last year and managed 3 times a week all summer. This summer I've had to do at least 2 out of 3 per week on a treadmill in an air-conditioned gym and it's just shit in comparison.

RampantIvy · 02/08/2026 22:41

Fitsunshine · 02/08/2026 21:32

I’m in north east Scotland, I’ve hardly worn shorts this summer and fed up of grey dull cool days. Someone upthread said it was 22 degrees, it’s about 12 here and I’ve gone to bed. I’m not sure I’m imagining it but I swear it’s duller this year than most. I’ve used my light cashmere jumper loads. Next week’s forecast looks dire though glad for rain. If my post reads miserable it’s because I feel a bit cheated this year!

I suspect most summer hating mumsnetters live in the southern half of the UK and I think they forget that the weather isn't the same everywhere.

While we have had some hot weather in Yorkshire it hasn't been unremitting like it has been in the south east. What we really need is rain. Woodhead Pass has only just reopened after being closed for ages due to the wild fire at Tintwhistle and all the fields are parched

Our nights are much fresher and it is too cold to sleep without bed covers.

SpeedwellBlue · 02/08/2026 23:29

RampantIvy · 02/08/2026 22:41

I suspect most summer hating mumsnetters live in the southern half of the UK and I think they forget that the weather isn't the same everywhere.

While we have had some hot weather in Yorkshire it hasn't been unremitting like it has been in the south east. What we really need is rain. Woodhead Pass has only just reopened after being closed for ages due to the wild fire at Tintwhistle and all the fields are parched

Our nights are much fresher and it is too cold to sleep without bed covers.

I suspect most summer loving mumsnetters live in the northern half of the UK and they forget the weather isn't the same everywhere.

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 23:31

SpeedwellBlue · 02/08/2026 23:29

I suspect most summer loving mumsnetters live in the northern half of the UK and they forget the weather isn't the same everywhere.

I love summer weather. Last time I looked Cambridgeshire wasn’t in the north.

SpeedwellBlue · 02/08/2026 23:36

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 23:31

I love summer weather. Last time I looked Cambridgeshire wasn’t in the north.

Well exactly. I was repeating a silly comment to demonstrate how silly it was.

cinquanta · 02/08/2026 23:37

cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 21:43

Okay. When it’s 35 degrees out, eat a bowl of stew and hot bread and pretend it makes you feel good.

I don’t know why some of you are so offended by this thread!

I have eaten stew at a lot warmer temperatures and it did make me feel good. I didn’t need to pretend.

BabblingBiddy · 02/08/2026 23:45

I love stew in this weather. Mainly because my kitchen is the hottest room in the house in the evenings, so no one wants to cook. So bunging stuff in the slow cooker and leaving it to do it's thing is perfect.

RampantIvy · 03/08/2026 04:14

SpeedwellBlue · 02/08/2026 23:29

I suspect most summer loving mumsnetters live in the northern half of the UK and they forget the weather isn't the same everywhere.

???

Nor sure why you are offended by my pointing out the obvious.

Crushed23 · 03/08/2026 06:37

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 22:27

I don’t think there’s been a week since May where at least one person hasn’t gone home sick with what appears to be heat related illnesses.

It was a maximum of 17 degrees for the first two weeks in June according to Met Office records.

Get out of here with your facts!

The OP isn’t interested in anyone bursting her fantasy. Can we please all agree it’s been 26 degrees plus for two whole months?? It’s uppity and insufferable to suggest otherwise.

Bathroomphilosopher · 03/08/2026 06:41

Where in the UK are you? The heatwave is over. The weather is lovely where I am. Have my window closed at night again and I have my duvet with its cosy cover on again.

Now the excessive heat has gone I feel like we are finally getting a summer we can enjoy.

So YABU. I don’t want our normal British summer to end when it’s only just begun.

Bathroomphilosopher · 03/08/2026 06:41

Where in the UK are you? The heatwave is over. The weather is lovely where I am. Have my window closed at night again and I have my duvet with its cosy cover on again.

Now the excessive heat has gone I feel like we are finally getting a summer we can enjoy.

So YABU. I don’t want our normal British summer to end when it’s only just begun.

maddiemookins16mum · 03/08/2026 06:50

It’s already getting dark before 9pm now. How anyone looks forward to the endless long, grey, damp months is beyond me. Autumn and winter are depressing. Make the most of the warmth and sunlight while you can.

66babe · 03/08/2026 07:04

I get what you mean .. but at the same time I’m loving the nice warm weather, washing dry outside within an hour, windows and doors open , fresh air , lots of time outdoors , cheaper entertainment for grandchildren - park, river and wood trails, no muddy car ( just dust instead lol )

Have got used to it and coping better , not coping above 27 but otherwise I’m loving it and would like it to continue
On the other hand , well aware of the risk of drought , fires and the effect on farming , wildlife and global warming etc so it’s not all good .

Bathroomphilosopher · 03/08/2026 07:20

Nobodyiswatching · 02/08/2026 17:34

Autumn is my power time. I come alive. I feel good, excited, everything is a bit mysterious and changeable. Summer makes me slightly flat. It has a depressive effect on me

You are my soul sister. That is exactly how I experience Autumn.

socks1107 · 03/08/2026 07:38

@Bathroomphilosopher the heatwave isn’t over in tbe south east/London today we are under yet another weather warning for hot temperatures. Yesterday was a hot afternoon but Saturday was a perfect summers day. It hasn’t really cooled down in six weeks now for us

cravingcrispmornings · 03/08/2026 07:39

Bathroomphilosopher · 03/08/2026 06:41

Where in the UK are you? The heatwave is over. The weather is lovely where I am. Have my window closed at night again and I have my duvet with its cosy cover on again.

Now the excessive heat has gone I feel like we are finally getting a summer we can enjoy.

So YABU. I don’t want our normal British summer to end when it’s only just begun.

Not for a lot of the country. It’s also ramping up again this week.

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Crushed23 · 03/08/2026 07:57

socks1107 · 03/08/2026 07:38

@Bathroomphilosopher the heatwave isn’t over in tbe south east/London today we are under yet another weather warning for hot temperatures. Yesterday was a hot afternoon but Saturday was a perfect summers day. It hasn’t really cooled down in six weeks now for us

Worry not, you’ve a mere 2 days until it cools down.

To just want it to be autumn now?
dogsmaid · 03/08/2026 07:59

@Crushed23every time I look at the weather app it tells me in a few days it will be cooler and there will be rain. Then it changes…

RampantIvy · 03/08/2026 07:59

Not for a lot of the country. It’s also ramping up again this week.

Temperatures are dropping significantly on Wednesday for most of the UK

Hopefully we will get some rain.

Crushed23 · 03/08/2026 08:07

dogsmaid · 03/08/2026 07:59

@Crushed23every time I look at the weather app it tells me in a few days it will be cooler and there will be rain. Then it changes…

I pay no attention to weather apps more than 5 or 6 days out (learned the hard way with a holiday a few years back), but they’re usually fairly accurate for the next couple of days. Of course things can always change and it might be 30 degrees this weekend so I can go to my rave without a jacket (yes please 🙏), but across multiple apps it’s showing the UK cooling significantly this week.