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AIBU to hope for a fresh start by the sea on £250k

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RussetDreams · 11/07/2026 21:09

I am mid fifties and want a new start. No family support. AIBU to think I can find a house by the sea or in a low-crime market town with a maximum budget of £250k? Any ideas?
YABU - budget is too low
YANBU - these places exist

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PattyCatty · 15/07/2026 09:10

Look at the North Yorkshire coast and Redcar and Cleveland. Moved here 20 years ago and never regretted a moment 😀

Motomum23 · 15/07/2026 09:12

My next door neighbours house is for sale for less than that and we are 1mile from the atlantix ocean in Cornwall
Very little crime.

chirpybird87 · 15/07/2026 09:13

RussetDreams · 11/07/2026 21:41

I read that Rhyl is really rough - admittedly this was on Reddit though.

I’m by Rhyl and it’s not the best. Maybe Llandudno would suit though?

AgileWriter · 15/07/2026 09:14

RussetDreams · 12/07/2026 20:04

I have a job that is fully remote.

In the nicest possible way, what are the odds of you keeping your fully remote job in the next 3-5 years? As a lot of the areas suggested aren’t the best for job prospects

Sheep85 · 15/07/2026 09:18

Scarborough is lovely. Lots going on in the town. The actual Main Street for shopping is tired but I think that’s true of most towns. It has smaller shops on falsgrave and ramshill. The spa and open air theatre. North bay playhouse has just reopened.
Southcliff is the nicest area I think but the old town has been gentrified. Lots of parks and gardens open to everyone, southcliff gardens have a strong community group, often have yoga or music in the gardens
Very friendly town. Safe town. I was on the beach with my kids in the dark earlier in the year and so were lots of other people so cafes on the front were open and the cliff lifts stay open until 10pm sometimes later.

Curlyhairedsheep · 15/07/2026 09:24

Berwick on Tweed is lovely in the far north east. Also easy access to Edinburgh/Newcastle by train if need to shop

Deathinvegas · 15/07/2026 09:34

Floatlikeafeather2 · 11/07/2026 21:31

As far as 2 places on that list go, if the OP doesn't want run down seaside towns, then she had best avoid Ayr, and the Cumbrian coast is definitely extremely beautiful (I live on it), but Workington is definitely a blot on it. It has a reputation locally for being very rough.

I live in the area and I agree, I don’t think the OP would like Ayr. I personally don’t think Ayr is as bad as people say it is but I wouldn’t necessarily choose to live there.
Troon and Prestwick are both nice towns with good reputations Prestwick is popular but I prefer Troon. However, depending where the OP is from they might seem run down to her.
How about Northumberland? It’s got nice market towns that are close to the sea. Not sure about property prices.

Bredaa · 15/07/2026 09:36

Property prices in many second home areas has collapsed as not only do they have to pay much higher stamp duty on purchase if it’s a second home - but in addition local councils are charging either double or triple council tax - so many are being offloaded as people can’t afford the ongoing costs. This won’t have bottomed out yet - and on the change in LL / long term rental and there is a lot of property not sold. Take your time. I would rent in a few places to get the feel for the place (new RR means you can do 3 months minimum each stay) - so sell yours - try out 2-3 places before you buy as buying and selling is a huge chunk of your equity.

Do you have family or friends in any particular part of the UK that you might travel to or they visit a couple of times a year? Do you have any hobbies or particular environments you like?

Deathinvegas · 15/07/2026 09:45

RussetDreams · 11/07/2026 22:19

Yes - a bit too far out and would need reliable WiFi even in storms etc

Port Seaton is mostly ok, I had friends who lived there and had problems but I think that was very localised to the area they lived in, I don’t think you’d have any problems in a house worth £250k.
The area has great transport links into Edinburgh although you do need to drive to the station.

The beach is ok, I suspect it isn’t the beach the OP is dreaming off.

RussetDreams · 15/07/2026 10:11

Bredaa · 15/07/2026 09:36

Property prices in many second home areas has collapsed as not only do they have to pay much higher stamp duty on purchase if it’s a second home - but in addition local councils are charging either double or triple council tax - so many are being offloaded as people can’t afford the ongoing costs. This won’t have bottomed out yet - and on the change in LL / long term rental and there is a lot of property not sold. Take your time. I would rent in a few places to get the feel for the place (new RR means you can do 3 months minimum each stay) - so sell yours - try out 2-3 places before you buy as buying and selling is a huge chunk of your equity.

Do you have family or friends in any particular part of the UK that you might travel to or they visit a couple of times a year? Do you have any hobbies or particular environments you like?

London and West Yorkshire, no particular hobbies except walking and swimming. It’s a good idea to wait as people are selling up. I don’t live in a second home area. Thank you!

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Crikeyalmighty · 15/07/2026 10:28

Bekip1 · 15/07/2026 02:52

how about Teignmouth in Devon it’s a beautiful seaside town lovely and quiet? Although not sure what the houses prices are as I’m from a few towns over but we have plenty of beaches to choose from in this area should we want to visit a beach one day.

Got to admit ) we went last year from Exeter) I thought Exmouth and Teignmouth were both somewhat typically run down seaside towns, not what I expected at all and not that nice ,( and Torquay was just awful) Topsham on the other hand was very nice indeed .

crikeymikey123 · 15/07/2026 10:31

Mumbles near Swansea is absolutely gorgeous! You could find something lovely for £250k. E.G

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/168659483#/?channel=RES_BUY

crikeymikey123 · 15/07/2026 10:34

Laska2Meryls · 14/07/2026 16:21

Isle of wight .. you'll get lots of people saying 'No its way back in the 1950s ', 'the hospitals rubbish 'it isn't.. We have Internet and everything ! (Even a Waitrose!..)
Yeah, ferries can be expensive but residents get percentage off tickets and Portsmouth Southampton have everything you need if you cant get it here ( though we have next day deliveries also!)

www.rightmove.co.uk/property-for-sale/find.html?minPrice=220000&index=0&sortType=2&channel=BUY&transactionType=BUY&locationIdentifier=REGION%5E61521&displayLocationIdentifier=Isle-Of-Wight.html&maxPrice=250000&minBedrooms=2&maxBedrooms=2

I don't recommend personally. The hospital is scary bad. The island is full of racist white people.

Crikeyalmighty · 15/07/2026 10:42

RussetDreams · 14/07/2026 14:44

Thank you - I do need an office to WFH but that could be one of the bedrooms.

The reason I suggested these areas is that they are all easily connected back to London if that’s a plus for you , they are on the train and aren’t remote if ever you need to look for work and some of the better weather in the UK too - don’t get me wrong you could get more for your money in Wales or Scotland or the north east but you have to factor in a fair few things - I’m also going to do you a list of nice market town/non sea side ones too . I think I just wanted to say it’s very doable and doesn’t have to mean middle of nowhere or a grim seaside town so long as you are open minded. - as you are - Can I ask if you are quite ‘boho minded’ and don’t mind a bit of scruff if it’s vibrant and lots going on or do you like neat asa pin and are ok with a bit dull - or ok with a mix - I can’t presume -! everyone for instance always mentions Frome ( not too far from us) or Lewes or Stroud - but they aren’t everyone’s cup of tea

Bredaa · 15/07/2026 11:14

Have a read of this thread …. to consider if you want to avoid living in a tourist town as it’s only going to get worse - it’s considerably cheaper and quieter to live a few miles inland from the coast - and then just drive to the beach regularly - depends if you see yourself walking from your home daily to the beach. But looks like there are plenty of quiet coastal locations. Also with climate change I wouldn’t necessarily be looking for better weather on the south coast - might be intolerable in 20 years time when retired

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5554457-does-your-hometown-get-insane-and-awful-in-summer?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=app_share

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BoogieVoogieAllNightLong · 15/07/2026 11:18

Wiltshirehammy · 15/07/2026 08:50

Which is nowhere near the sea. At least an hour by train to Cardiff Central then on to Cardiff Bay which doesn't have a beach.

OP said she would also consider inland market towns.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 15/07/2026 11:21

poppy24h · 15/07/2026 08:23

Just did a quick google search… try clevedon in North Somerset…

Average house prices in Clevedon are much more than the OP's budget. It's a very desirable area and a lot of young families are moving there from Bristol, where house prices are currently ridiculous, pushing them up further.

Bredaa · 15/07/2026 11:36

I’m loving this thread - thanks for starting - so many affordable properties in out of the way places - my idea of hell would be to be in a coastal tourist town.

RussetDreams · 15/07/2026 12:19

Crikeyalmighty · 15/07/2026 10:42

The reason I suggested these areas is that they are all easily connected back to London if that’s a plus for you , they are on the train and aren’t remote if ever you need to look for work and some of the better weather in the UK too - don’t get me wrong you could get more for your money in Wales or Scotland or the north east but you have to factor in a fair few things - I’m also going to do you a list of nice market town/non sea side ones too . I think I just wanted to say it’s very doable and doesn’t have to mean middle of nowhere or a grim seaside town so long as you are open minded. - as you are - Can I ask if you are quite ‘boho minded’ and don’t mind a bit of scruff if it’s vibrant and lots going on or do you like neat asa pin and are ok with a bit dull - or ok with a mix - I can’t presume -! everyone for instance always mentions Frome ( not too far from us) or Lewes or Stroud - but they aren’t everyone’s cup of tea

Yes I’m quite boho minded!

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RussetDreams · 15/07/2026 12:20

BoogieVoogieAllNightLong · 15/07/2026 11:18

OP said she would also consider inland market towns.

Yes, will definitely consider inland market towns, thank you.

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Minasama · 15/07/2026 12:21

Fab - go you! I went to Brixham in Devon last year, it was fabulous and plenty of property in that price range.

Minasama · 15/07/2026 12:25

Fiddlesticks1 · 15/07/2026 08:18

Is this a forever move because besides looking at areas you need to consider if in the long run a house, bungalow or flat is the best move.
Brighton and Hove are expensive but if you are happy to have a flat there are some within your price range. Hove is imo much nicer than Brighton and both have so much to offer. Alternatively trawl a little wider- Lancing,Worthing, Telscombe, Newhaven etc.

Brighton is very shabby and scruffy though, was really surprised how depressed it seemed last time I went. There are lots of better-kept and smarter places with nice beaches.

HoldMyWine · 15/07/2026 12:26

RussetDreams · 11/07/2026 22:03

Something like this would be perfect.

Narberth is a lovely little town, quite arty.

madaboutpurple · 15/07/2026 12:30

Wherever you end up I would love to be invited for a holiday. I am joking actually.

Year1Mummy · 15/07/2026 12:53

That’s a lovey area. Very rural but probably has everything you need and not far from some beautiful beaches and walks.