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To ask what scares you /freaks you out that you would not consider common? Mine is a children’s book!

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elm26 · 09/07/2026 19:51

My 3 year old is obsessed with “We’re Going On A Bear Hunt” after having it read to her at preschool, she knows all of the words and we bought it as one of her gifts for her birthday.

We read a book every night at bed, whenever she reaches for this it gives me such bad goosebumps!

I don’t know if it’s the way it’s written, the pictures, I genuinely feel panic when they’re trying to get away from the bear and he’s in the background of the pictures and then at their front door and they’ve forgotten to lock it. I absolutely detest it 🥴 it gives me the right creeps!

This is baring in mind that all I read myself is psychological thrillers and I’ve watched so much true crime I could probably commit the perfect murder 😂 why do I have such a panicky/spooked response to a children’s book fgs!

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peebles32 · 10/07/2026 23:11

Mine is mushrooms or toadstools when they grow on the lawn! I feel sick. I also don’t like big rhubarb type plants.

WhiteCat13 · 10/07/2026 23:11

UnNiddeRides · 09/07/2026 20:01

I read The Owl Sevice when I was a child though maybe 8/9. Scared the shit out of me.

To be frank, as a child I read all the Alan Garner novels I could get my hands on. They were all pretty creepy. As an adult I won't watch any horror films, but I have reread The Owl Service and the Weirdstone of Brisingamen

Bellpick · 10/07/2026 23:12

HNRTFT so apologies if already mentioned but I cannot go into woods/ countryside on my own . Feel isolated and vulnerable!

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 10/07/2026 23:19

Horseshoe crabs. They fascinate me and horrify me at the same time. They're not even real crabs! They're an unnatural cross between army tanks and spiders. And their blood is actually blue.

VerifiedAccount · 10/07/2026 23:20

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 10/07/2026 23:02

Ooh the intrusive thoughts that a PP mentioned is familiar, and i get a lot of terrible ones in my mind just before I go to sleep. Mainly they involve awful things happening to my lovely DC, which really upsets me (horrible unspeakable things like them dying horribly in an accident or something else scary happening involving pain and distress that I'm unable to stop 😢💔).

I'm often a bit of an anxious person so these thoughts run amok at bedtime when there is nothing else to distract me in the dark 😬😱

I'm sorry to hear that.
I've read that some people find sleepy podcasts helpful. There is a story one that is designed to quieten thoughts. Luckily most of my intrusive thoughts are ridiculous (like snakes in the toilet or having to keep pressing the light switch until it makes the right "click" sound) so they aren't traumatic like yours. X

theproudgeek · 10/07/2026 23:23

Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · 09/07/2026 20:16

It was meant to be scary - but a YA novel from the 80s still occasionally gives me sleepless nights.

Empty World, John Christopher

Yes, this.
Way back in 1989 (aged 9) I couldn't finish it and made my teacher write a warning on the inside cover for everyone else. I also became an obsessive radio listener, as that was how they knew people were dead as the radio stopped broadcasting, so if it's still going it's all right.
I still don't like end of world stories, all due to this book.

zen1 · 10/07/2026 23:25

cornflakecrunchie · 10/07/2026 23:10

@zen1 That actually happened in our previous house after my youngest blocked the loo.. :-0

Shock Terrifying!

Rubberduck76 · 10/07/2026 23:37

I don't like bear hunt. The ending is ominous, the bears just left at the door.

I really don't like fur/animal skin clothing or accessories, Fake or real. Makes my skin crawl. I won't touch real fur. I know it's dead but it really gives me the creeps.

baorhausfrau · 10/07/2026 23:40

GinToBegin · 09/07/2026 20:06

Not me, but threads like this always bring up clusters of holes and empty swimming pools. I think the former even has a name.

Again not me, but I had a friend who couldn’t even looK at spiral staircases.

Mine is niche, but if I’m up on the gods at the theatre and there’s a light fitting/chandelier straight ahead that hangs over a three ‘floors’ of emptiness, to look directly at the light gives me huge colly-wobbles.

I am terrified of circular staircases. Especially the open work ones where you can see through the treads. Metal ones are a complete "not today Satan" event.

girlswillbegirls · 11/07/2026 00:02

DaveWatts · 09/07/2026 21:02

Photos of space - like planets and galaxies. Totally give me the shudders. I didn’t have it as a child though, I think the trigger might have been from about 15 years ago and being out in the mountains in Central Asia at night, I’ve never seen stars so clear and close looking. It was like actually being in space, I was so scared I had to run back under cover.

This is very interesting. I can understand this even though I don't share your fear. My fear is big mammals in the sea. While I'm typing this I can feel my heart racing. Seals, whales, orcas. It's the size of them. The inability to swim faster than them. And yes I swim in the sea, this thought paralyses me.
I think the ocean is a bit like the space. It's fascinating and scary at the same time.

forgivingfiggy · 11/07/2026 00:42

When I was little it was the Ladybird Three Billygoats Gruff. The troll under the bridge. His nose. Peeking out from underneath. I hated it but couldn’t pull myself away. Fear of turning the pages. The ultimate relief when the goat fucks him into the river.

Miaminmoo · 11/07/2026 01:01

CoffeeBooksRats · 09/07/2026 20:09

Mine is Watership Down. Absolutely terrifies me.

I watched it as a child, scarred for life - it was terrifying.

TheShyMumX · 11/07/2026 01:17

I am petrified of birds of prey!! I don’t mind a little tweety bird or a generic little garden bird but birds of prey are a massive nope for me. Not sure if it’s the beady eyes or the big wing span or what. Great big swoopy bastards can’t stand them😭😂

whojamaflip · 11/07/2026 02:22

Siamese cats………….freaked out watching Lady and the Tramp as a child and still freak out if I see one in real life. Out lovely neighbour had 2 indoor Siamese and she used to shut them in the bedroom as I couldn’t physically bring myself to go into her house if I thought they were roaming about!

WhatTheHellsGoingOn · 11/07/2026 03:09

SofaEmporium · 09/07/2026 20:05

I’ve never really liked Bear Hunt. It feels like a metaphor for something but I’m not sure what. It’s creepy, and just feels wrong somehow. The animated version suggested the bear was a reincarnation of their grandfather which was a bit weird.

I hated the animated version. Why bring the death of a grandparent into what is a very commonly read children’s story with nothing of that nature in it in the first place? I think children’s books dealing with different issues such as grief are great to help them process things and for adult support, but why add an unnecessary layer of deep sadness to the film which changes the whole tone?

Also, if you’ve seen Michael Rosen perform the book it will probably freak you out more!

SapphireSeptember · 11/07/2026 06:08

Saltysweetspicy · 09/07/2026 20:59

There is a demon in my bedroom. Every so often I have to sage the room.

Bloody hell.

I remember having to move into my in-laws house not long after getting married and being baptised into my church. Little things kept going missing and I had some horrible nightmares about demons (and think I woke up screaming a few times, although that could have been part of the dreams.) Something reflecting in the dark window looked like a demon once as well. I was convinced I was under spiritual attack, until I smelt lily of the valley perfume, which I think was my recently deceased nan coming to help. Probably sounds a bit crazy, but it was a very weird time.

JMSA · 11/07/2026 06:26

This really random and weird, but a friend gave me a bunch of sunflowers yesterday as a gift. Really kind of her and I am grateful. However the heads are just so BIG and it feels like they’re staring at me from their vase 😆 I have always liked sunflowers so I’m not sure why I’ve reacted in this way!

To ask what scares you /freaks you out that you would not consider common? Mine is a children’s book!
Phineyj · 11/07/2026 07:26

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 10/07/2026 23:19

Horseshoe crabs. They fascinate me and horrify me at the same time. They're not even real crabs! They're an unnatural cross between army tanks and spiders. And their blood is actually blue.

Oh! I am with you on this.

They have one at a Sea Life I went to.

Argh!!!

JJMama · 11/07/2026 08:00

Baby dolls. All of them but worst is Tiny Tears. I was given one as a child back when you were still meant to play with such things if you were a girl. I was terrified of its vacant staring eyes and weird mouth:

Found it disgusting that it cried and wet its nappy.

Fast forward to now and this year went to Edinburgh where there’s a fantastic free museum of childhood toys.

I had to run through the room filled with dolls. I’m 50.
The stuff of nightmares for me.

Sunloungerhogger · 11/07/2026 08:38

Fascinating thread!

When I was a child I was as terrified of Puddle Lane - I used to hide under the table whenever my childminder put it on.

elm26 · 11/07/2026 08:46

JMSA · 11/07/2026 06:26

This really random and weird, but a friend gave me a bunch of sunflowers yesterday as a gift. Really kind of her and I am grateful. However the heads are just so BIG and it feels like they’re staring at me from their vase 😆 I have always liked sunflowers so I’m not sure why I’ve reacted in this way!

Nope! I am also not a fan of sunflowers, my sister had one that was taller than me and I refused to walk past it in her garden. The big black bit in the middle has always freaked me out, why do they have to be so huge!

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vichill · 11/07/2026 08:48

I get this feeling with the BFG. I have to turn away from the TV when the Sainsbury’s Christmas advert comes on. I think it unlocks some childhood fear of the cartoon. I also hate the sight of those big novelty slimy gherkins (snozzcumbers) because that’s what he eats.

Blossomingx · 11/07/2026 08:50

Chocolatebunny61 · 09/07/2026 21:52

I’m absolutely petrified of butterflies and big moths. I’ve even locked myself out of the house with my toddler daughter inside because of a butterfly! I had to go and get an off duty police officer who lived locally to climb in an upstairs window for me and get rid of the butterfly! Luckily my daughter was fine. My husband thinks it’s hilarious but I can’t even stand them fluttering outside.

I'm scared of butterflies - and this heatwave means butterflies and moths galore. I'm sure plenty of people have seen me swerving them on the streets and wondering what is going on with this person...

Also slugs and snails. I especially feel traumatised by real-life photos of them. Just thinking of them makes me feel sick.

vichill · 11/07/2026 08:51

Sharks, horseshoe crabs and armadillos always seem too prehistoric to exist in the age of man😄

Blossomingx · 11/07/2026 08:55

JJMama · 11/07/2026 08:00

Baby dolls. All of them but worst is Tiny Tears. I was given one as a child back when you were still meant to play with such things if you were a girl. I was terrified of its vacant staring eyes and weird mouth:

Found it disgusting that it cried and wet its nappy.

Fast forward to now and this year went to Edinburgh where there’s a fantastic free museum of childhood toys.

I had to run through the room filled with dolls. I’m 50.
The stuff of nightmares for me.

Oh this too! My mum likes to reminisce about how afraid I was of dolls and how I threw mine away... My brother was afraid too as a child, so there must be something there!

Reflecting back on childhood, I was afraid of random things. I was terrified of babies too, I didn't like to go near them.