To ask about totally inappropriate behaviour at wedding?

[Notallthatx]

Was at a seemingly lovely wedding at the weekend. Beautiful setting and lovely ceremony.

One of my friends was chief bridesmaid and she had put so much effort into making the day perfect for the happy couple. But she started to drink a lot after the ceremony and by the end of dinner she was very tipsy and all over the singer from the wedding band. They had been playing some acoustic songs throughout the day and she kept making requests. It was obvious she fancied him.

Later on, one of the other guys from the band was lovely and asked if I had seen their singer because they were setting up for their evening set. I mentioned that my friend was also missing so went to look for them together. We joked that maybe they had eloped or something.

But nothing prepared me for what I was about to witness. Behind the outdoor toilets, my friend was down on her knees giving the singer from the band oral. I was mortified and the other guy from the band told me his friend had done this a few times. We are not even sure if they seen us and I’ve been too embarrassed to bring it up with my friend.

On the up side, the other guy from the band was really sweet and we danced a bit later that night and swapped numbers.

What is the craziest thing you’ve ever witnessed at a wedding?

Absolutely. I mean, no one got hurt. No horses were frightened in the street. The groom’s granny did not keel over in shock and get blue lighted to hospital.

This wasn’t the apocalypse. Most people, had they felt compelled to go search for a friend it was fairly clear was going to be found having sex, would give a second glance to check she wasn’t so drunk she couldn’t consent, and bugger off, mildly amused.

Sounds like something my own DF would have done, then sulked when called out for it.

Ah this is the truth now... you are judging her, you think you're better than her cos she got drunk and got with the band singer, but you are doing it the 'proper' way. You don't sound like a very nice friend. You're judgy as hell. Hope she had a good time

They should be arrested.

A colleague of mine is from a very conservative family and her brother coming out as gay was very difficult for the parents and whole family. They accepted him and his partner over time (they lived together) but no one really out loud acknowledged they were a couple, even though they attended family events together. Friends grandparents didn't know, thought they were friends. My friend's wedding was the height of tradition, her father had requested she wore a veil (he paid for everything), it was very high brow and elegant, set in a beautiful castle. Day went beautifully. At the evening do, the bride and her father were called forward for the first dance and about three seconds into it her brother and his partner got onto the dancefloor and started dancing and snogging the face off each other.

Perhaps you’ve done the exact same thing. Each to their own I guess.

I agree, its not classy but at least it was in private. Weddings do bring out extreme behaviours in people at times such as fights or drunken antics. But none of those are the case here.

So what if I am. You’re now judging me.

I don’t think I’m better at all than her. She has her ways but I’ll stick to mine thanks.

Pretty much yeah. Never at a wedding though.

What difference does it make to you?
She was single. I don't believe she did it to him in public anyway but it didn't ruin the wedding.
It's the singer who should've refused her advances anyway.

Ahhh - now I have "sitting on a cock in the bay" going through my head!!!

A blow job is prostitute action? It's a perfectly normal part of foreplay, or do you think that lying there and thinking of England is as kinky as it should get?

Totally agree, surprised how many people on here think it’s fine and to be expected when the general consensus is usually that children should be at weddings. That’d be nice wouldn’t it, for children running around outside to witness. It seems anything goes these days.

It certainly reads like something made up.

However... my best friend, when she was 20, did actually shag one of the undertakers at her grandfather's funeral. In a broom cupboard, while everyone else was in the living room tucking into their egg and cress sandwiches and cups of tea.

It sounds absolutely outrageous and unbelievable now, but at the time (we are both 60 now) it was exactly the sort of thing I knew she'd do and I didn't doubt her story for a second. 😂

Sniggered at you also being
“head bridesmaid..” - that’s what this whole thread is about, hahaha.

Sorry - very juvenile of me 😆

Exactly this!! Also imagine if children were in attendance to the wedding - it’s just disgusting behaviour

but OP has met a nice man in the other band member so I guess every cloud?

"To ask about totally inappropriate behaviour at wedding?"

"What is the craziest thing you’ve ever witnessed at a wedding?"

Not sure what OP wants from her post.
Title indicates she wants opinions if the behaviour was appropriate or not, but then ends asking for people to post crazy stories.
She has judged some replies. What's the point here?

Totally out of order. The instrumentalists will be busy setting up their own gear and the lead singer needs to be there for sound checks, getting the vocal mix right etc. Plenty of time for outdoor toilet blow jobs once the work is done.

Hahahahaha. I rarely laugh enough to need to quote someone, but this one got me! Gold star to you.

I must live in a different world if many of you think it's not absolutely mingerish behaviour to suck a strangers cock at the back of a toilet block 😂
Years ago a group of us went to strip show and before the show even started my ds' sil came out the changing room, with a huge grin and wiping her mouth, proudly announcing that she had sucked this random strippers cock.
I've never looked at her the same since 🤑

My son and I witnessed a couple fornicating in a large pick up truck in the train station car park near us...the man had the cheek to confront my son for filming!

It was in public, just behind toilets. It didn’t ruin the wedding but that’s a low bar.

Seems to be so many women here who view this like it’s just a quick snog.

Exactly, the mind boggles!

I think it’s important not to judge people. Sure it would have been better if she hadn’t been caught but hey. It’s not the worse thing in the world! Have you never been in a situation that you really didnt want to wait?

It’s not a proper wedding party unless someone gets drunk and blows someone inappropriate.