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AIBU to say no to neighbours using my garden daily during heatwave?

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notanEverydayThing · 23/06/2026 15:50

AIBU to say no to neighbours about dc playing in my garden every day this week?

I live in an end terrace house there’s a gate onto a small lane and then a block of flats , I know a couple of the families as the dc go to the same school. They have a small shared grass area behind the flats but it’s not totally enclosed and a bit over grown / messy.

Yesterday I had the paddling pool and splash thing out for my dc and invited the neighbours round . I’ve set it up again today and on the way home they asked can they come again and I said ‘not today sorry but maybe on Friday ?’ One of the mums said ‘but it’s boiling !’ I said I know but I wanted to just have a quiet afternoon/ evening and I have work tomorrow and Thu to which she said ‘so you won’t be there at all? Can we use the garden / pool on those days?’ I said no !!!! I feel she’s being rude! I said happy Friday for everyone to come over again after school but she tutted and walked off

I know it’s hot but I don’t want them here everyday and especially when I’m not home tomorrow and Thursday!!!

OP posts:
notanEverydayThing · Today 13:17

Gabitule · Yesterday 12:33

Op, your story popped up on my phone in Apple News. It looks like it’s now an article in the Mirror!! It quotes your words and other people’s replies.
Im guessing they are allowed to use your story without consent?? I don’t use MM much so I don’t know about these things. Either way, it must be stressful for people to post something on here hoping for advice, only to realise that their story is spreading massively when tabloids pick it up.

I wonder if anyone even picked a newspaper/ magazine and recognised themselves in an article (which might have been posted on MM by their relative/ friend/neighbour).

I didn’t know they could do that ? Very lazy journalism??!!

OP posts:
rolloverbeethoven · Today 13:59

That's dreadful, those "journalists" should be ashamed.

U53rName · Today 16:57

What a complete embarrassment to the degree in journalism. A bet their professors are proud. 🤦‍♀️

Pickles16 · Today 17:10

No good deed goes unpunished does it? Suggest to her that she tidy up the bit of garden they have and install a paddling pool as you will be legally liable for any accidents which occur in your absence. Drain and remove the pool when you're going to be away from the house.

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