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I didn’t realise Starmer was viewed so badly ,,

325 replies

aurpod1980 · 21/06/2026 00:01

He came into government at a challenging time - I didn’t realise his confidence score was so so The fatal flaw that brought Keir Starmer crashing down to earth

https://www.thetimes.com/article/8e98de80-1d48-4d1a-8408-ff4d48e1957c?shareToken=44bb913634621653058dd12f864e3eff

The fatal flaw that brought Keir Starmer crashing down to earth

How did a prime minister who won a landslide become the most unpopular in modern times?

https://www.thetimes.com/article/8e98de80-1d48-4d1a-8408-ff4d48e1957c?shareToken=44bb913634621653058dd12f864e3eff

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gamerchick · 21/06/2026 10:19

Nickyknackered · 21/06/2026 07:27

Unfortunately this is UK politics now. The same will happen to Burnham and the next guy and the next....

So much instability is awful. Thr media and general public love the pantomime of it all and drama. So here we go again....

Yes. Why the fuck anyone actively wants that job is beyond me constant abuse from all sides? No thankyou.

I think part of the problem is the public is accostomed to performance PMs. He's a get your head down behind the scenes type.

People bang on about how he came for the disabled and yet cheer on far right parties who have made no secret of the fact they hate the disabled. We got a reform council recently and they're closing down all the Stanleys. Its horrifying..

People were sold that the EU was something that was done to them by the media so they made a vote on that. Things have got worse for them so the compass is swinging elsewhere to find blame.

Personally I don't think that the general public should be told so much information. Collectively people are thick.

Personally I'm terrified of more instability in government. Starmer kept us out of trumps war. That takes stones. I feel far safer with him in charge than I would with anyone new.

gamerchick · 21/06/2026 10:21

And OP, how you can come on here with a faux innocence and write that title is laughable. I assume you don't live under a rock and probably just trying to stir the pot.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 21/06/2026 10:21

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 21/06/2026 09:47

Wasn’t it more of a case of his backbenchers refusing to back any cutting of the colossal welfare bill?

IMO Starmer is basically a good, honest bloke, but he’s lacking on the personal front - not an inspiring speaker, no air of optimism, and he always looks worried! (As well he might, admittedly) - OK, it’s possible to err the other way (Boris) but there should be a happy medium.

Edited

Of course it’s the back benchers, many of whom oversee communities where the majority of their constituents are reliant on benefits and have large families. They were never going to be in favour of it.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 21/06/2026 10:23

gamerchick · 21/06/2026 10:21

And OP, how you can come on here with a faux innocence and write that title is laughable. I assume you don't live under a rock and probably just trying to stir the pot.

Are you suggesting OP is a troll because you don’t like the thread? Now that’s never happened before. Weird.

Karma2023 · 21/06/2026 10:27

ilovesooty · 21/06/2026 10:10

I'm basing it on the fact that in my real life interaction no one ever mentions the issue. I don't think the wider electorate even thinks about when they consider how they feel about Starmer and the current government.

I disagree. Anyone with teen children are very aware of the issue. Certainly when it was at peak popularity it was a big issue for parents. It however wasn't safe to discuss outside a close circle for fear of cancellation, which is why you might not not have had it raised around you.

However Kier stating women can have a Penis and Lammy saying a man can grow a cervix, rightly lost enormous credibility. We all knew Kier didn't believe what he was saying but felt he had to say it to shore up his cool kid credentials. Worryingly I think Lammy actually thought it was the case!!

Whataflippincircus · 21/06/2026 10:28

I remember clearly on Mumsnet, the optimism posters felt that we were getting a Labour Government. Posters genuinely felt that things were going to get better quite quickly.

Instead it’s been a shambles. The only thing Starmer has got right was not being bullied by Trump into joining in with the Iran war.

I think my biggest bugbear is how the government have penalised small businesses. This has been a disaster for those businesses, people’s livelihoods and the economy. How can they not see that?

ethelredonagoodday · 21/06/2026 10:31

Flatinbed · 21/06/2026 08:46

Nearly every thing he has said he'll do/or his cabinet he has backtracked on. Now it's coming out that the net zero policy they are pushing isn't what it says it is. They are coming across as expensive conmen instead of being the workers friend.

This is not true. Unfortuantely, it is only the negatives that have been highlighted.

Google or chatgpt the u turns made by Starmer versus the decisions/legislation made. The ratio is very different to what has been reported.

I would have thought MN would have been delighted with the legislation to end gazumping. To give one example. Also, with the employment rights act, they have hugely strengthened protections for workers.

Lots of things have been going on in the background. Yet, "Starmer is a wanker" is what is reported. Why? Hmmmm....

Agree.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 21/06/2026 10:33

ilovesooty · 21/06/2026 10:18

The thread is about the public perception of Starmer. And I think the general electorate have other priorities.

You appear to have appointed yourself as speaker for ‘the general electorate’ in dismissing something that quite a large part of the electorate do have concerns with on a thread where we are discussing our concerns with Keir Starmer.

What is your agenda in dismissing that as a valid criticism of him? Can you refute that criticism and prove that he is trying to make his government follow the law and support women’s rights to single sex spaces?

gamerchick · 21/06/2026 10:34

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 21/06/2026 10:23

Are you suggesting OP is a troll because you don’t like the thread? Now that’s never happened before. Weird.

Cool, did you not know that starmer was viewed badly either?

ilovesooty · 21/06/2026 10:41

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 21/06/2026 10:33

You appear to have appointed yourself as speaker for ‘the general electorate’ in dismissing something that quite a large part of the electorate do have concerns with on a thread where we are discussing our concerns with Keir Starmer.

What is your agenda in dismissing that as a valid criticism of him? Can you refute that criticism and prove that he is trying to make his government follow the law and support women’s rights to single sex spaces?

No. I'm commenting on the general concerns I see raised in the media and by people I speak with. And those concerns don't reflect the one you raise as a priority.

godmum56 · 21/06/2026 10:45

I said at the time he was he "Rebound Guy" "naice" background, smooth enough not to frighten the swing voters, a response to the anti semitism issue, not tied to any extreme policies, no hidden scandal (until Lord Ali popped up) hes the kind of bloke that makes your parents sigh in relief when you bring him home after you break up with Mr Wild and Sexy.

godmum56 · 21/06/2026 10:48

gamerchick · 21/06/2026 10:19

Yes. Why the fuck anyone actively wants that job is beyond me constant abuse from all sides? No thankyou.

I think part of the problem is the public is accostomed to performance PMs. He's a get your head down behind the scenes type.

People bang on about how he came for the disabled and yet cheer on far right parties who have made no secret of the fact they hate the disabled. We got a reform council recently and they're closing down all the Stanleys. Its horrifying..

People were sold that the EU was something that was done to them by the media so they made a vote on that. Things have got worse for them so the compass is swinging elsewhere to find blame.

Personally I don't think that the general public should be told so much information. Collectively people are thick.

Personally I'm terrified of more instability in government. Starmer kept us out of trumps war. That takes stones. I feel far safer with him in charge than I would with anyone new.

Personally I don't think that the general public should be told so much information. Collectively people are thick.

so you are smart and no one else is?

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 21/06/2026 10:50

KateSixer · 21/06/2026 08:44

Yes, but this is down to their failure to actually deal with issues. Instead they just try to look good to various interest groups. And see communication as an alternative to doing the important stuff.

The fundamental issue is that there is no agreement as to whether the UK should be a high(er) tax, high public spending welfare focussed state with next to no defence capacity.

Or a smaller state with more personal freedom and responsibility with lower taxes, lower spending where the government's job is to maintain defence and law and order and regulation but otherwise get out of people's way.

The former is where we are heading but it's totally unaffordable unless taxes go up hugely.

And if taxes do go up hugely it depresses the economy and wealth creators leave the country leading to a spiral of decline.

So the second option is the way it has to be if we want to avoid a permanently worsening economy.

And everything else with respect to life largely flows from the success of the economy.

This isn’t true though. Just look at the countries following the Nordic Model of economic and social policy. They’re not in a spiral of decline. They invest a lot of money in their public services, including education and it’s working out very well for them.

Embracing neoliberalism (including by slashing the welfare budget) is likely to have unintended consequences for the UK. Looking at countries from around the world, there is a strong correlation between a high level of income inequality and high rates of violent crime (including murder), plus a lower life expectancy.

gamerchick · 21/06/2026 10:52

godmum56 · 21/06/2026 10:48

Personally I don't think that the general public should be told so much information. Collectively people are thick.

so you are smart and no one else is?

Dude, people rang the police when KFC ran out of chicken.

EasternStandard · 21/06/2026 10:55

godmum56 · 21/06/2026 10:48

Personally I don't think that the general public should be told so much information. Collectively people are thick.

so you are smart and no one else is?

Apparently so. It’s more a leader issue.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 21/06/2026 11:03

gamerchick · 21/06/2026 10:34

Cool, did you not know that starmer was viewed badly either?

Nice side step to avoid a deletion 👍

GreyCarpet · 21/06/2026 11:16

I think part of the problem is the public is accostomed to performance PMs. He's a get your head down behind the scenes type.

I think there is a lot of truth in this. But I also think that the public view of politicians generally was damaged very badly by the Conservatives over lockdown. People don't trust politicians, including the PM, to be getting on with things behind the scenes.

A lot of the rise in popularity of Reform is that they are talking about things that people are concerned about.

The fact they don't know their own arses from their elbows is irrelevant to a lot of people because they feel heard and that Reform underatand what is concerning them.

ElizaMulvil · 21/06/2026 11:17

Soontobesleeping · 21/06/2026 10:00

I would like her to stop targeting the vulnerable and less well off and tax the super rich, big corporations etc.

Then they leave the country and take jobs and taxes with them - which they have already been doing. You get a bigger tax take by reducing taxes on big corporations so they invest in jobs here.

NO they won't leave. They like it here and 70% actually want to pay more tax. ( They'd barely notice an extra 5%! We have more billionaires than ever.) I think the CEO of Thames Water got £1.4 million last year for polluting our water! He should be prosecuted/jailed and Thames Water taken into public ownership. No compensation.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 21/06/2026 11:19

ElizaMulvil · 21/06/2026 11:17

NO they won't leave. They like it here and 70% actually want to pay more tax. ( They'd barely notice an extra 5%! We have more billionaires than ever.) I think the CEO of Thames Water got £1.4 million last year for polluting our water! He should be prosecuted/jailed and Thames Water taken into public ownership. No compensation.

I’m not sure about that. I was watching one of the Stephen Bartlett podcasts and actually Triggernometry also and they were saying an awful lot of entrepreneurs have gone. I think it’s the crime that’s doing it more than the taxes.

Nicewoman · 21/06/2026 11:25
  1. Reducing payments for disabled people and evicting them to make way for illegals.
  2. Backtracking on frugal payments to Waspi women who are in poverty.
  3. Saying repeatedly on camera that women have a penis. Even after the Supreme Court said gender is biological, what we are born with.
  4. Removing winter fuel payment to elderly pensioners.
  5. Attacking farmers, so much that some farmers committed suicide. We nearly got no food on the shelves.
  6. Putting up employers National Insurance so that businesses went bust & laid off staff, refuse to hire staff.
  7. Removed VAT relief on private schools, so that those kids were dumped on public schools, which then pushed out vulnerable kids from schools. The administrative costs recovering this money costed 5x than the costs it saved.
  8. Sold off the Chagos islands which we had to pay for selling off our own territory! He then said he wanted to give Gibraltar back to Spain and consider giving back the Faulklands to Argentina.
  9. Starmer then prosecuted soldiers for decades who were doing what the government of the day told them to do. Some soldiers committed suicide as they were hounded, harassed, fined through the courts.
  10. In the first month, released one third of all prisoners, some of who immediately went on to kill again.
  11. Allowed 1m mass immigration a year. 1in 1 out failure, stop the gangs lies.
  12. Backtracked completely on the Labour 2024 manifesto.
  13. Brought in scraps to jury service, which means for the average person, better not get fitted up by police on trumped up charges (see local police report using AI to fabricate evidence to convict someone they didn’t like).
  14. Forced in digital ID, again to fit up people they don’t like, like stopping your bank accounts.
  15. Flip flop cowardly pathetic desperation demeanour when he had 14 years in opposition to work out policies. Came to govt with no policies. Policies done in 2 minutes on the back of a fag packet, which they backtracked on when it turned out they were totally unworkable in practice & the population hated the policies & there would be rioting on the streets if brought in.
  16. Outright lies, propaganda and Polit bureau in-fighting within the Labour Party.
  17. Blaming all his Labour policy mistakes on the Tories, Brexit, Ukraine, Iran, Elvis, Elon Musk, Trump, Madonna, the weather. Anyone except himself.
TemperanceWest · 21/06/2026 11:28

Nicewoman · 21/06/2026 11:25

  1. Reducing payments for disabled people and evicting them to make way for illegals.
  2. Backtracking on frugal payments to Waspi women who are in poverty.
  3. Saying repeatedly on camera that women have a penis. Even after the Supreme Court said gender is biological, what we are born with.
  4. Removing winter fuel payment to elderly pensioners.
  5. Attacking farmers, so much that some farmers committed suicide. We nearly got no food on the shelves.
  6. Putting up employers National Insurance so that businesses went bust & laid off staff, refuse to hire staff.
  7. Removed VAT relief on private schools, so that those kids were dumped on public schools, which then pushed out vulnerable kids from schools. The administrative costs recovering this money costed 5x than the costs it saved.
  8. Sold off the Chagos islands which we had to pay for selling off our own territory! He then said he wanted to give Gibraltar back to Spain and consider giving back the Faulklands to Argentina.
  9. Starmer then prosecuted soldiers for decades who were doing what the government of the day told them to do. Some soldiers committed suicide as they were hounded, harassed, fined through the courts.
  10. In the first month, released one third of all prisoners, some of who immediately went on to kill again.
  11. Allowed 1m mass immigration a year. 1in 1 out failure, stop the gangs lies.
  12. Backtracked completely on the Labour 2024 manifesto.
  13. Brought in scraps to jury service, which means for the average person, better not get fitted up by police on trumped up charges (see local police report using AI to fabricate evidence to convict someone they didn’t like).
  14. Forced in digital ID, again to fit up people they don’t like, like stopping your bank accounts.
  15. Flip flop cowardly pathetic desperation demeanour when he had 14 years in opposition to work out policies. Came to govt with no policies. Policies done in 2 minutes on the back of a fag packet, which they backtracked on when it turned out they were totally unworkable in practice & the population hated the policies & there would be rioting on the streets if brought in.
  16. Outright lies, propaganda and Polit bureau in-fighting within the Labour Party.
  17. Blaming all his Labour policy mistakes on the Tories, Brexit, Ukraine, Iran, Elvis, Elon Musk, Trump, Madonna, the weather. Anyone except himself.

"Outright lies, propaganda" is quite amusing, given the context.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 21/06/2026 11:47

So instead of acknowledging that this is a valid criticism of Starmer and like it or not concerns many people in general (especially when they become aware of it), you dismiss all that and want to police the concerns with Starmer that women raise on this thread?

How very Starmeresque.

Soontobesleeping · 21/06/2026 11:53

ElizaMulvil · 21/06/2026 11:17

NO they won't leave. They like it here and 70% actually want to pay more tax. ( They'd barely notice an extra 5%! We have more billionaires than ever.) I think the CEO of Thames Water got £1.4 million last year for polluting our water! He should be prosecuted/jailed and Thames Water taken into public ownership. No compensation.

I think water should be in public ownership but I don’t think it would be better managed if it was.

Liads of companies have moved out of the country both because of high and unpredictable tax regime and because of high energy costs due to ‘Net Zero’ which is a total fraud. Billionaires certainly haven’t left their wealth within the uk! But the big owners of many large corporations are actually pension funds - the places that pay workers pensions.

unistress · 21/06/2026 11:54

AnneLovesGilbert · 21/06/2026 08:11

I read that piece earlier and it’s brilliant. If you follow politics it’s been clear for a long time how unpopular he is and the reasons why. There outlined well in the article. When football stadiums ring out with “Keir Starmer’s a wanker” it’s over.

I'll put money on it that pretty much all the people chanting that could not give one coherent, fact-based reason why they think so. It's like all the Brexit supporters who were so desperate to leave the EU but could not name one law they disliked that was enforced by it or one tangible thing they would be able to do afterwards that membership prevented. It was either made up bullshit like Johnson's bendy bananas, or nebulous bullshit like take back control.

Keir Starmer hasn't been perfect and I don't agree with everything he has done, but broadly speaking he was on the right lines. God knows what will happen now.

EasternStandard · 21/06/2026 11:56

unistress · 21/06/2026 11:54

I'll put money on it that pretty much all the people chanting that could not give one coherent, fact-based reason why they think so. It's like all the Brexit supporters who were so desperate to leave the EU but could not name one law they disliked that was enforced by it or one tangible thing they would be able to do afterwards that membership prevented. It was either made up bullshit like Johnson's bendy bananas, or nebulous bullshit like take back control.

Keir Starmer hasn't been perfect and I don't agree with everything he has done, but broadly speaking he was on the right lines. God knows what will happen now.

Of course people don’t have to vote for Starmer / Labour. And if he’s the reason people are voting everywhere else then Labour MPs will oust him.