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To think my universal credit feels generous.

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MoonBaby1 · 20/06/2026 14:10

I got to my early 40s without ever needing to claim but circumstances find me single and paying the lions share of child related outgoings.

I work full time on£31,000 and have found out this year thanks to applying that I get on average about £800 from UC. It has been an absolute life changer and will hopefully be able to afford a modest uk holiday actually during the summer holidays and pay the school back some debt im in for after school care.

So many benefits bashing threads so I just wanted to present another side that as a cash strapped mum of two who works full time, UC is making a positive difference to our life. I didn't even think id qualify!

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Urgentbiscuitrequired · 20/06/2026 15:56

randomchap · 20/06/2026 14:11

This will soon turn into a benefits bashing thread. People complaining that UC pays too much.

It's almost as if it meant to be a divisive made up thread. 🙄

REDB99 · 20/06/2026 15:57

Bridgertonisbest · 20/06/2026 14:19

I think that a modest uk holiday is the bare minimum people working full time should be able to have. I’m just cross that the money has to be made up by UC and salaries are inadequate.

Cross is probably the wrong word but I’m pleased that UC has given you a lifeline and things are looking up a bit for you.

No one is entitled to a holiday no matter how many hours they work. I grew up in the 80s, both parents working. We had years with no holidays because, guess what? We couldn’t afford it!
This ridiculous link between working full time somehow equals being able to have things makes no sense. If you can’t afford it, you can’t afford it. It isn’t outrageous to say that.

LovingTelescopes · 20/06/2026 15:58

SinicalMe · 20/06/2026 15:44

Me, I pay £1k in month in tax and no I’m not rich. I shop in Aldi out of necessity, drive a 10 year old. I’m definitely not rolling in it.

Never mind!
You can now benefit from knowing that most of it is taken directly from your pocket and put straight into hers.
Enjoy!

Thank goodness a Poll has been attached to this thread so that, despite all the lovely "You Go Hun" posts, we can see that over half of all those who voted do not share this view.

Pickledonion1999 · 20/06/2026 15:58

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 20/06/2026 15:53

I think it's mad you're getting £800 of taxpayers money EVERY MONTH when you're earning £31k. It's lunacy.

It is crazy. the government should be getting the bloody non resident parent to cough up before giving out tax payers money to this extent. many people not eligible to any benefits cannot afford holidays after working all week in stressful jobs.

Frequency · 20/06/2026 15:58

REDB99 · 20/06/2026 15:57

No one is entitled to a holiday no matter how many hours they work. I grew up in the 80s, both parents working. We had years with no holidays because, guess what? We couldn’t afford it!
This ridiculous link between working full time somehow equals being able to have things makes no sense. If you can’t afford it, you can’t afford it. It isn’t outrageous to say that.

But you should be able to clothe your children and live without being in debt to the school, which OP could not do pre-UC.

youalright · 20/06/2026 15:58

Holdonforsummer · 20/06/2026 15:20

Good for you, OP, but what I resent is that the UC top up now probably means you take home more than I do as a Band 7 in the NHS after tax.

The difference is op universal credit is tim limited being a band 7 nurse isn't

XenoBitch · 20/06/2026 15:59

Upsetbetty · 20/06/2026 15:24

But thats ok because once her kids are old enough THEY can work and make up the loss instead of her trying to earn more… 🙄

She will no longer get the single person discount on council tax. Nothing wrong with charging adult children that live with you money towards bills etc. Adult children are not free to house and feed etc.
She works full time anyway.

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 20/06/2026 15:59

Not gonna lie, I’m jealous 🤣

Recently divorced, two teens, left with more than 20k of debt, and am starting a debt payment plan which means my credit is fucked for 7 years. In the meantime I have not a single penny to spare and earn just a bit too much for any help.

I’m really glad this is helping you. What a relief for you 😊😊

Pickledonion1999 · 20/06/2026 15:59

Frequency · 20/06/2026 15:58

But you should be able to clothe your children and live without being in debt to the school, which OP could not do pre-UC.

Than the ex should be helping out more.

youalright · 20/06/2026 15:59

Pickledonion1999 · 20/06/2026 15:58

It is crazy. the government should be getting the bloody non resident parent to cough up before giving out tax payers money to this extent. many people not eligible to any benefits cannot afford holidays after working all week in stressful jobs.

Why can't someone earning more then op not afford a holiday that makes no sense

Mackerelfillets · 20/06/2026 15:59

My DH and I, probably unwisely, put ourselves down as guarantors for DD and her BF when they rented a flat. A couple of months later BF lost his job. He applied for UC. They did an assessment based on him and DD's income and are getting about £500 a month. This means we are off the hook for the time being atleast. Hopefully he'll get something soon. We've never claimed UC and was surprised it was so much.

Frequency · 20/06/2026 16:01

Pickledonion1999 · 20/06/2026 15:59

Than the ex should be helping out more.

And how do you propose she forces him to do that? Blame the CMS, who don't bother going after non-payers.

I'm still waiting for them to catch up with DD1's dad, and she's 22 years old now.

Non-payment of CM should be a criminal offence, imo, but it's not so what exactly are single parents supposed to do?

Pickledonion1999 · 20/06/2026 16:01

Mackerelfillets · 20/06/2026 15:59

My DH and I, probably unwisely, put ourselves down as guarantors for DD and her BF when they rented a flat. A couple of months later BF lost his job. He applied for UC. They did an assessment based on him and DD's income and are getting about £500 a month. This means we are off the hook for the time being atleast. Hopefully he'll get something soon. We've never claimed UC and was surprised it was so much.

They must have a high rent then as a couple ( assuming no kids).

CoralOP · 20/06/2026 16:01

Frequency · 20/06/2026 15:40

The average salary in Redcar and Cleveland is £28,630, so I don't believe you know lots of people living in that area who are on over £35k, in that area.

The average household income in Middlesbrough is £20,700.

https://ukareastats.co.uk/area/redcar-and-cleveland/

Edit: That was an older link, the latest data suggests the average household income in Boro is now £23k p/a, which is still a far cry from lots of people earning £35k p/a. Jobs paying that in the Teesside/Redcar and Cleveland area are rare. They exist, but they are not the norm.

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I don't live in Middlesbrough, Middlesbrough is well known for being high poverty, high crime, low employment so really shouldn't be used as a comparison for 'the north' where apparently jobs aren't the norm!

I live in a mining town and I absolutely do know many people that earn a decent wage, teacher, HR, civil servant, joiner, plumber, salesmen, police officer, maintenece tech, data analyst, hairdresser off the top of my head.

There's loads of low paid jobs too, all the factories, shops etc but that's still people in employment!

Pickledonion1999 · 20/06/2026 16:03

Frequency · 20/06/2026 16:01

And how do you propose she forces him to do that? Blame the CMS, who don't bother going after non-payers.

I'm still waiting for them to catch up with DD1's dad, and she's 22 years old now.

Non-payment of CM should be a criminal offence, imo, but it's not so what exactly are single parents supposed to do?

Yes the cms need to deduct at source. Ridiculous that they don't enforce this. Why is everyone else paying for op's kids when they have two working parents?

youalright · 20/06/2026 16:03

Allseeingallknowing · 20/06/2026 15:19

It’s a lot more than some get working full time, even with two of them working.

How? If 2 people working full time are taking home less then that between them then thats not even minimum wage

Sayitasitis11 · 20/06/2026 16:05

Thirty one grand and you take eight hundred from the government. What a joke to those who have a small income.
You are really taking the pee

Mackerelfillets · 20/06/2026 16:06

Pickledonion1999 · 20/06/2026 16:01

They must have a high rent then as a couple ( assuming no kids).

No kids. She is on a part time min salary job. Her hours change each week, she keeps trying to pick up extra shifts. This will be part of the reason. They are both applying for better jobs. She is qualified to work in Nurseries and has a good degree. Employment market is rubbish at the moment.

Frequency · 20/06/2026 16:06

CoralOP · 20/06/2026 16:01

I don't live in Middlesbrough, Middlesbrough is well known for being high poverty, high crime, low employment so really shouldn't be used as a comparison for 'the north' where apparently jobs aren't the norm!

I live in a mining town and I absolutely do know many people that earn a decent wage, teacher, HR, civil servant, joiner, plumber, salesmen, police officer, maintenece tech, data analyst, hairdresser off the top of my head.

There's loads of low paid jobs too, all the factories, shops etc but that's still people in employment!

I don't live in Boro either, I live close to there, and the only person in my social circle whose ever earned over £30k p/a or close to it is myself, and that was working remotely for a company based in Wales.

The average household income in my area (Redcar) is just over £29k p/a, that's household income, not salary, it could and probably does include many people with 2 adults working part-time in care/shops.

youalright · 20/06/2026 16:07

Sayitasitis11 · 20/06/2026 16:05

Thirty one grand and you take eight hundred from the government. What a joke to those who have a small income.
You are really taking the pee

If they have a small income they will likely be able to get universal credit to

Differentforgirls · 20/06/2026 16:07

80smonster · 20/06/2026 15:08

Maybe he needs a better job rather than benefits?

For what? Spending on himself?

Jenkibubble · 20/06/2026 16:08

MoonBaby1 · 20/06/2026 14:10

I got to my early 40s without ever needing to claim but circumstances find me single and paying the lions share of child related outgoings.

I work full time on£31,000 and have found out this year thanks to applying that I get on average about £800 from UC. It has been an absolute life changer and will hopefully be able to afford a modest uk holiday actually during the summer holidays and pay the school back some debt im in for after school care.

So many benefits bashing threads so I just wanted to present another side that as a cash strapped mum of two who works full time, UC is making a positive difference to our life. I didn't even think id qualify!

I too qualified when I split with my ex and got a small amount as worked and had two teenagers .

It helped a lot !

The whole point of the system is that it is a safety net and when situations change it is there .

Remember too that you can qualify for discounts on days out eg zoos etc .

Plus , there are tariffs for broadband and also a help to save bank account that the government will match your savings (up to a limit )

Frequency · 20/06/2026 16:09

Pickledonion1999 · 20/06/2026 16:03

Yes the cms need to deduct at source. Ridiculous that they don't enforce this. Why is everyone else paying for op's kids when they have two working parents?

They should, but they don't. Until they do it is sensible for CM not to be included in UC.

curiositykilledthecat0 · 20/06/2026 16:11

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 20/06/2026 15:53

I think it's mad you're getting £800 of taxpayers money EVERY MONTH when you're earning £31k. It's lunacy.

She is a tax payer 🙄

So much bitterness on this thread. Comparison is the thief of joy.

Ginnyweasleyswand · 20/06/2026 16:13

Bridgertonisbest · 20/06/2026 14:19

I think that a modest uk holiday is the bare minimum people working full time should be able to have. I’m just cross that the money has to be made up by UC and salaries are inadequate.

Cross is probably the wrong word but I’m pleased that UC has given you a lifeline and things are looking up a bit for you.

Yes, this.

Salaries are appalling and all the money companies save from providing a proper living wage goes to overpaid CEOs and shareholders.

The big issue here is not the extent of UC but that someone working full time needs it.

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