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To refuse coffee someone else rejected?

154 replies

36Camelliasandcounting · Today 07:34

It’s happened several times recently. The barista has made a drink that wasn’t the right specification for whoever ordered it. One of those things right? It happens.

Except several times recently, the barista has then poured that rejected coffee into a takeaway cup from the ‘having in’ mug and tried to serve to me. I’ve refused and been met with a fair bit of eye-rolling. Most recently I just asked for a refund and after I left a review online stating the incident had happened several times recently including twice that week and as a result I wouldn’t be going back.

The manager has since replied stating it’s policy and widely appreciated by customers to minimise waste?!

AIBU to think no one wants someone else’s rejected coffee?

YABU: I’m happy to take other customers rejected coffee.

YANBU: No. Even worse if the coffee isn’t the right spec and/or has been stood on the side whilst the original drink was remade so is then cold when presented to you.

OP posts:
MuffinCoffee · Today 09:30

How was it found that the coffee did not meet the spec for the customer who rejected it? surely the customer would have taken a sip and then assessed that it is not as per the spec and returned it? It would be very unhygienic in that case? I won’t take a risk and for the price they charge I would want a fresh one always.

ChocolateApples · Today 09:32

If the café is so keen to save on waste they could offer it to you for free. Then everyone gets to feel they are winning.

looselegs · Today 09:33

Reminds me of when I worked in a pub....if the wrong pint was pulled,it got put on the shelf under the bar and when someone ordered that particular drink, it got topped up so it was a bit frothy and handed over! It sometimes sat there for ages..

CanIbeRio · Today 09:35

I wouldn't care as long as it was still hot and no one had taken a sip of it!!

AMumWithWiFi · Today 09:40

I voted YANBU because of the pouring into a takeaway cup. I wouldn’t mind if the drink had just been made and rejected in front of me and it was exactly what I’d ordered. But if they ordered a cappuccino to stay in and I wanted it to take away, it’s not really the same quality if it’s been poured into a takeaway cup, so not what I’d paid for.

OneNewLeader · Today 09:49

If it was exactly as I ordered and to go, yes.

Everyonelikesam · Today 09:49

Can’t vote because your choices are too loaded.

Assuming it’s the type you wanted, still hot and the other customer didn’t taste it, why on earth not? Why should they throw away a perfectly good cup of coffee and then make another one exactly the same?

katepilar · Today 09:59

If I saw it being made and rejected and was happy that noone interfered with the drink, I wouldnt mind. I would ming the re-pouring.

nomas · Today 10:04

36Camelliasandcounting · Today 07:54

@EveningSpread the coffees aren’t hot. By the time they’ve come back from the table, waited in the cup for the right drink to be remade, the right drink served and then it’s been filled into a paper cup for me they’re stone cold.

That’s also not the point. Tipping a coffee from a proper mug into a paper cup changes the texture of it - the cappuccino loses all the fluffy foam and just turns the regular milk. So it’s not the drink you ordered. And even on the rare occasion it is hot, it’s bloody disgusting because the texture is wrong - it’s no longer creamy but just like drinking tea. I’m not paying £4.50 for that!

You are right, OP.

I don’t go to cafés much but when I order a cappuccino, I do not want it to be prepared in a mug and then poured into a takeaway cup. The foam would go all weird.

Cosimarocks · Today 10:06

If someone orders a black coffee and are given a latte by mistake, there is nothing wrong with it, it’s just not what they ordered. If the next person then wants a latte there nothing wrong with giving the latte to them surely? It’s a perfectly fine, untouched, freshly made coffee. That it wasn’t made specifically for you is surely not a problem.
Of course if it’s been sat there for a while then that’s not on.

Rattles1 · Today 10:06

id want a new coffee too. Im surprised it has happened so often though, i haven't seen this. During the times when my local coffee shop has made incorrect coffee for myself, they have just asked if i want an extra for someone, or I / they ask around whoever is in close proximity and someone always takes it - never wasted (or they can drink it)

TheRealMagic · Today 10:09

Cosimarocks · Today 10:06

If someone orders a black coffee and are given a latte by mistake, there is nothing wrong with it, it’s just not what they ordered. If the next person then wants a latte there nothing wrong with giving the latte to them surely? It’s a perfectly fine, untouched, freshly made coffee. That it wasn’t made specifically for you is surely not a problem.
Of course if it’s been sat there for a while then that’s not on.

But that's not what OP says is happening. If they had a latte made seconds ago in a takeaway cup and then gave it to her she'd be fine, as I read it. They're sending it to a table, getting it back and then decanting it into a new container and giving it to OP as if freshly made, which is clearly not ok.

purplecorkheart · Today 10:19

I would not accept a coffee that had been sent out to a table and then sent back. There is no way of knowing for sure that somone had not taken a sip out of it before it was rejected or that the staff member would throw it out if someone had taken a sip out of it.

Flamingcoming · Today 10:30

I would just drink it, but I understand many people wouldn’t. The cafe needs to offer the “recycled” drinks for about £1 IMO.

Hmmmmwineandchocs · Today 10:37

If it’s something I’d drink I’d take it

Whoopiedooo · Today 10:43

If it's gone out to a table and come back then absolute no - it should be thrown away.
If the drink has a structure that is not preserved when tipping then no, obviously, though you could be offered it for free to save on waste.
If it's really to save on waste that you are being offered pre(un)loved coffee then they would not be trying to charge you for it.

Quokka2 · Today 10:46

StolenTeapots · Today 07:39

Ive seen this happen before. It feels a bit shit when it costs so much

This is the nub of it, it's priced as a premium product. I wouldn't mind if it cost £2. so if they are going to recycle they better do it quickly and discreetly.

Autumngirl5 · Today 10:51

If it is freshly made then why not? It minimises waste.

anotherside · Today 10:53

I’m with OP. If I’m paying £3-4 quid for a coffee I expect it to be made correctly and at right temperature etc. Not thrown around between different cups. If it was £1.50 from an icecream van stall then fine whatever. High prices come with the expectation of good, professional service.

Quokka2 · Today 10:55

Katemax82 · Today 08:42

This remeinds me of one time I was at a food van and asked for Thai green curry. The previous person had been given the wrong thing (sweet and sour chicken) so the bloke replied "do you want sweet and sour chicken?!" Thinking I'd take the incorrect thing he had dished up. I didn't of course

🤣 honestly, some people don't deserve to be in business

Puzzledandpissedoff · Today 11:02

ChocolateApples · Today 09:32

If the café is so keen to save on waste they could offer it to you for free. Then everyone gets to feel they are winning.

Don't go bringing common sense into it, ChocolateApples!! Grin

This constant "we're doing it to avoid waste/save the environment" makes me irritable - not because the concept's wrong in itself, more that it's an all too useful excuse for incompetence

ChipswithMayonnaise · Today 11:08

I avoid Pret, Costa, and Starbucks for ethical reasons, and have a reusable stainless steel cup.

It won't save the planet much more to reject someone's cooling, repoured, random.coffee.

They could save it to water plants or add to compost, if it isn't milky. They should be saving the coffee grounds for this, or to redistribute to local people who make beauty treatments from scratch.

YANBU, OP.

TheRealMagic · Today 11:09

Puzzledandpissedoff · Today 11:02

Don't go bringing common sense into it, ChocolateApples!! Grin

This constant "we're doing it to avoid waste/save the environment" makes me irritable - not because the concept's wrong in itself, more that it's an all too useful excuse for incompetence

I also find it so irritating when companies dress up things that save them money as eco-friendliness. 'We're not going to change your hotel room towels everyday to save the planet'.

Shewhoshallnotbenamed91 · Today 11:09

This sounds like the most ridiculous post.
First world problems and all that hey 😂
Would I want a drink that has been touched by someone else? No... But if it was made hadn't been touched and it was the same order as mine I can't see the issue? Seems a bit dramatic

ChipswithMayonnaise · Today 11:12

Shewhoshallnotbenamed91 · Today 11:09

This sounds like the most ridiculous post.
First world problems and all that hey 😂
Would I want a drink that has been touched by someone else? No... But if it was made hadn't been touched and it was the same order as mine I can't see the issue? Seems a bit dramatic

So the company charges twice over for one, deteriorating drink?

Do men or sharply dressed people get offered seconds so often, or is it just 'ordinary women' targeted as paypigs for slops?