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To refuse coffee someone else rejected?

167 replies

36Camelliasandcounting · 19/06/2026 07:34

It’s happened several times recently. The barista has made a drink that wasn’t the right specification for whoever ordered it. One of those things right? It happens.

Except several times recently, the barista has then poured that rejected coffee into a takeaway cup from the ‘having in’ mug and tried to serve to me. I’ve refused and been met with a fair bit of eye-rolling. Most recently I just asked for a refund and after I left a review online stating the incident had happened several times recently including twice that week and as a result I wouldn’t be going back.

The manager has since replied stating it’s policy and widely appreciated by customers to minimise waste?!

AIBU to think no one wants someone else’s rejected coffee?

YABU: I’m happy to take other customers rejected coffee.

YANBU: No. Even worse if the coffee isn’t the right spec and/or has been stood on the side whilst the original drink was remade so is then cold when presented to you.

OP posts:
ChopstickNovice · 19/06/2026 19:05

It's a no from me. If I am paying out for expensive coffee I'd like it freshly made as intended please, not decanted from one cup to another. It costs enough!! Make me a fresh one.

ShesGotAway · 19/06/2026 19:28

Coffee shop owner here:

We don't do this. Unless the thing we made wrong is immediately ordered by the next person the drink will have been dumped or claimed by myself or staff to save wastage. Or offered to another customer for free because why throw a perfectly good drink out.

Happens most commonly with a decaf latte type drink where it was made with regular beans or we got the shots mixed up between drinks (but figure it out before it gets to the customer as decaf smells significantly different to normal coffee)

But to have had it happen multiple times in the same shop to you specifically is too much. It happens maybe once for every 50 drinks we send out (less than that but my staff and my self are human and do make mistakes).

Is it a chain shop or an independent?

I can't see that much wastage happening in an indie shop as it would cripple their margins

ShesGotAway · 19/06/2026 19:33

ShesGotAway · 19/06/2026 19:28

Coffee shop owner here:

We don't do this. Unless the thing we made wrong is immediately ordered by the next person the drink will have been dumped or claimed by myself or staff to save wastage. Or offered to another customer for free because why throw a perfectly good drink out.

Happens most commonly with a decaf latte type drink where it was made with regular beans or we got the shots mixed up between drinks (but figure it out before it gets to the customer as decaf smells significantly different to normal coffee)

But to have had it happen multiple times in the same shop to you specifically is too much. It happens maybe once for every 50 drinks we send out (less than that but my staff and my self are human and do make mistakes).

Is it a chain shop or an independent?

I can't see that much wastage happening in an indie shop as it would cripple their margins

We also wouldn't pour from one cup to another unless a customer requested eg ordered to drink in but suddenly had to go with much of their drink left.

What a dumb reason to ruin great coffee

beeble347 · 19/06/2026 19:35

YANBU and I'm quite a tree hugger myself! Offering it to someone else for free? Absolutely fine. Pouring it into another mug for you so there's not even a nice top to the coffee and still charging you £4 for it, jog on.

AnnaNirvana2 · 19/06/2026 20:24

Only if it's been freshly made, is what you want and it's hot. Even then, say yes if it is discounted. The baristas mistake is NOT your problem.

Runrabbitrunrabitrunrunrun · 19/06/2026 20:32

I hope it's a chain coffee shop you left a crap review for and not an independent struggling to compete with the likes of Starbucks and costa

Rachelshair · 19/06/2026 20:43

Letting it sit, pouring it from one cup to another and expecting you to pay full price, no. Why would you put up with that when coffees are so expensive.

Cherrytree86 · 19/06/2026 21:07

Runrabbitrunrabitrunrunrun · 19/06/2026 20:32

I hope it's a chain coffee shop you left a crap review for and not an independent struggling to compete with the likes of Starbucks and costa

@Runrabbitrunrabitrunrunrun

thats irrelevant.. independent or not, this place needs to up their game

LadyVioletBridgerton · 19/06/2026 21:16

As long as it was exactly the same order and the same temperature as it would have been had I personally ordered it then I’d be fine with it.

Terfarina · 20/06/2026 00:18

36Camelliasandcounting · 19/06/2026 07:54

@EveningSpread the coffees aren’t hot. By the time they’ve come back from the table, waited in the cup for the right drink to be remade, the right drink served and then it’s been filled into a paper cup for me they’re stone cold.

That’s also not the point. Tipping a coffee from a proper mug into a paper cup changes the texture of it - the cappuccino loses all the fluffy foam and just turns the regular milk. So it’s not the drink you ordered. And even on the rare occasion it is hot, it’s bloody disgusting because the texture is wrong - it’s no longer creamy but just like drinking tea. I’m not paying £4.50 for that!

Once it has left the servers and gone to a table there’s no way a drink can be returned and given to someone else - of course it can’t. Food hygiene nightmare.

and the loveliness of a made coffee poured from a mug into a takeaway cup hold be gone & the drink cooled by the process.

no one wants to spend a fiver on that

TheRealMagic · 20/06/2026 07:06

Runrabbitrunrabitrunrunrun · 19/06/2026 20:32

I hope it's a chain coffee shop you left a crap review for and not an independent struggling to compete with the likes of Starbucks and costa

Well it's probably right they struggle to compete if they provide an objectively crap service.

TheRealMagic · 20/06/2026 07:06

Runrabbitrunrabitrunrunrun · 19/06/2026 20:32

I hope it's a chain coffee shop you left a crap review for and not an independent struggling to compete with the likes of Starbucks and costa

Well it's probably right they struggle to compete if they provide an objectively crap service.

Sartre · 20/06/2026 07:14

If it had just been made in a paper cup it would be different but pouring it from mug to cup would ruin it and you said it’s been sat there a while anyway so I’m not sure why they’d even offer it…

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 20/06/2026 07:15

nikkianns · 19/06/2026 16:41

The context changes everything here. In the situation you’re describing in your comments where it’s been stood for 5+ minutes, been out of sight and is a drink that doesn’t transfer well (like your cappuccino) then no, YANBU, but if it’s a standard drink that’s fresh and has no issues transferring from indoor to takeaway cup (like this post makes it seem since there isn’t many details) then YABU.

Exactly. There is a difference between a just made drink that the person in front has said ' no I wanted a skinny latte' and you say ' I'll have it, I wanted an ordinary' and the scenario described by OP. Of course the second scenario would be rejected. Also if it's happened : several times' I'd find a different coffee shop. This has never happened to me!

NutkinsTreasure · 20/06/2026 09:33

Exact same order piping hot and already in a takeaway cup - Yes.

Any drink poured from one cup to another - NO.

YANBU

NutkinsTreasure · 20/06/2026 09:38

Runrabbitrunrabitrunrunrun · 19/06/2026 20:32

I hope it's a chain coffee shop you left a crap review for and not an independent struggling to compete with the likes of Starbucks and costa

Chains don’t do this. Only if it’s your drink, and you say you want it to takeaway.

If a small independent has this practice, they should take some feedback.

StolenTeapots · 22/06/2026 23:19

NutkinsTreasure · 20/06/2026 09:38

Chains don’t do this. Only if it’s your drink, and you say you want it to takeaway.

If a small independent has this practice, they should take some feedback.

Ive seen costa do it

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