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Furious with DH’s new England flag

136 replies

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:03

NC’d for this. About half the houses on our street put flags up during the big football tournaments. DH put one up with his teams badge on at the weekend, and took delivery of a new flag today. He’s proudly displayed this - it’s a St George’s cross with ‘In Farage We Trust’ printed across the middle 😫

I’ve told him to take it down and that the neighbours will judge but he’s standing firm. Would it be wrong of me to tear it down myself?!

OP posts:
tommyhoundmum · 17/06/2026 17:42

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:06

No I had no idea, he’s clearly taken inspiration from a house two down who have a similar flag with political messaging although not that party.

Paint over it.

Happyjoe · 17/06/2026 17:44

Cut it up into a hundred bits, burn it, bury the ashes. Hopefully that would work for Farage too, he's one of satan's spawn.

andthat · 17/06/2026 17:44

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LaMarschallin · 17/06/2026 17:45

Happyjoe · 17/06/2026 17:44

Cut it up into a hundred bits, burn it, bury the ashes. Hopefully that would work for Farage too, he's one of satan's spawn.

Tbf, that would work even if he wasn't Satan's spawn.

Londonwelshie · 17/06/2026 17:46

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:40

No it’s not a case of opposing other flags. He said it will ‘get all the right people frothing’ so he knows it will wind some neighbours up.

And what neighbours are those? Immigrants by any chance?

Either way, his desire to wind up his neighbours is not very neighbourly... and you will be judged the same as him by your neighbours.

Eideann · 17/06/2026 17:47

saveforthat · 17/06/2026 17:37

I know you will say that racism is the worst crime anyone could ever commit but I'm sure most voters ignore bits of policies they don't agree with. Like the Greens supporting assaults on the police. I wouldn't vote Reform by the way and don't like Farage, just sick of the holier than thou attitudes on mumsnet about some political parties.

I really cannot think of anything more abhorrent than racism @saveforthat

but then I may very well be holier than thou...not, perhaps educated?

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 17/06/2026 17:47

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:40

No it’s not a case of opposing other flags. He said it will ‘get all the right people frothing’ so he knows it will wind some neighbours up.

🙄🙄 fucking hell tell him to do some online trolling if he insists on being like that, that way you’re not implicated. Was there some kind of mix up when you married him? Did they send a 16 year old boy to the ceremony instead?

My uncle has recently gone a bit mad like this, he’s got divorced and spent too much time online and now he’s unbearable to be around so you have my sympathies. I’d strongly consider leaving him since he sounds like a fucking muppet, but I know that’s not always an option.

BridportMarket · 17/06/2026 17:48

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:40

No it’s not a case of opposing other flags. He said it will ‘get all the right people frothing’ so he knows it will wind some neighbours up.

You seem to find yourself married to a man who spends time and money putting up flags in order to make your neighbours 'froth'.

He's a total nobber I'm afraid.

Locutus2000 · 17/06/2026 17:50

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:40

No it’s not a case of opposing other flags. He said it will ‘get all the right people frothing’ so he knows it will wind some neighbours up.

I'm afraid your husband is a child.

Dweetfidilove · 17/06/2026 17:51

Leave it up so the neighbours can judge him accurately. Why do you want him to hide who he is?

Pistachiocake · 17/06/2026 17:52

saveforthat · 17/06/2026 17:22

Jesus all these racist accusations flying around. I actually believe that @JuliaMaesa may be joking here but not all Farage supporters are racists.

A lot of the Reform voters seem to want Zia Yusuf as PM, from posts I've seen, so if you take racist to mean only wanting white people in the UK, agreed. And no, I'm not a Reform voter, but the only people I know who say they're voting Reform are minority ethnic.
I don't put flags up myself, but it's only very recently that some people seem to think of it as problematic (yes, OP, your flag is a new one, but I mean that I don't remember anyone complaining, or thinking I should be offended, by the normal England flag).

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:56

Londonwelshie · 17/06/2026 17:46

And what neighbours are those? Immigrants by any chance?

Either way, his desire to wind up his neighbours is not very neighbourly... and you will be judged the same as him by your neighbours.

Any ‘woke lefties’ is what he said.

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BridportMarket · 17/06/2026 17:59

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:56

Any ‘woke lefties’ is what he said.

Is it his witty repartee that got you/AI into bed?

KatiePricesKnickers · 17/06/2026 18:02

Farage will be the next PM so he’s ahead of the game.

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 17/06/2026 18:03

Grim.

MasterBeth · 17/06/2026 18:06

KatiePricesKnickers · 17/06/2026 18:02

Farage will be the next PM so he’s ahead of the game.

Well, pretty obviously Andy Burnham will be next PM, so not sure we can trust your political knowledge.

PetiteParakeet · 17/06/2026 18:07

“In Farage we trust” is such a mad slogan. I was just reading an article the other day about the negative impact Brexit’s had on the UK economy. And yet the politician whose whole career was based on conning the country into unilaterally imposing tariffs on itself as a massive act of national self-harm somehow gets a platform to spout more crap and convince people that yet again everything is the fault of migrants, climate science is made up, etc. - plus lack of scrutiny over his dodgy donations.
In a sane world he would have retired from the public stage in ignominy. Sadly we don’t live in a sane world.

Blueplant · 17/06/2026 18:09

MasterBeth · 17/06/2026 18:06

Well, pretty obviously Andy Burnham will be next PM, so not sure we can trust your political knowledge.

I don't think he will. I think there's every possibility he won't win a leaderhsip challenge, even if he wins the by-election.

I am not a Conservative, but I think Badenoch is doing really well (surprisingly well for me) and fully expect that by the next GE, Reform will have self destructed and the Conservatives will be electable again.

saveforthat · 17/06/2026 18:11

Eideann · 17/06/2026 17:47

I really cannot think of anything more abhorrent than racism @saveforthat

but then I may very well be holier than thou...not, perhaps educated?

Not even assault or murder, really?

TemperanceWest · 17/06/2026 18:12

Pistachiocake · 17/06/2026 17:52

A lot of the Reform voters seem to want Zia Yusuf as PM, from posts I've seen, so if you take racist to mean only wanting white people in the UK, agreed. And no, I'm not a Reform voter, but the only people I know who say they're voting Reform are minority ethnic.
I don't put flags up myself, but it's only very recently that some people seem to think of it as problematic (yes, OP, your flag is a new one, but I mean that I don't remember anyone complaining, or thinking I should be offended, by the normal England flag).

A lot of the Reform voters seem to want Zia Yusuf as PM, from posts I've seen

Yes I have seen a couple of posts like that too. Their ignorance is a bit cringe worthy. It is to be hoped they are bots, really.

saveforthat · 17/06/2026 18:13

saveforthat · 17/06/2026 18:11

Not even assault or murder, really?

Or rape? Obviously the authorities who ignored the grooming gangs agreed with you.

olivepicanto · 17/06/2026 18:13

JuliaMaesa · 17/06/2026 17:12

YABVU for not posting a link to the seller so real patriots can buy one for themselves.

Real patriots? How embarrassing

SingtotheCat · 17/06/2026 18:15

What would happen if you took it down, OP?

DeLaLune2022 · 17/06/2026 18:16

I would leave him.

Lexy2345 · 17/06/2026 18:20

Take it down for goodness sake, you can’t have that hanging up. Unless you too, are a right wing racist?

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