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Furious with DH’s new England flag

136 replies

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:03

NC’d for this. About half the houses on our street put flags up during the big football tournaments. DH put one up with his teams badge on at the weekend, and took delivery of a new flag today. He’s proudly displayed this - it’s a St George’s cross with ‘In Farage We Trust’ printed across the middle 😫

I’ve told him to take it down and that the neighbours will judge but he’s standing firm. Would it be wrong of me to tear it down myself?!

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MonkeyToez · 17/06/2026 17:06

Of course it wouldn't be.

I'd burn it too so he can't put it back up.

Crunched · 17/06/2026 17:06

Did d you know it said that (or was it on special offer)?

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:06

Crunched · 17/06/2026 17:06

Did d you know it said that (or was it on special offer)?

No I had no idea, he’s clearly taken inspiration from a house two down who have a similar flag with political messaging although not that party.

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TheShed7 · 17/06/2026 17:08

Farage is a terrible football manager. All his attacks go down the right hand side.

Lampzade · 17/06/2026 17:08

I would make judgements about your family based on the message on that flag and they wouldn’t be positive

KojaksLollipop · 17/06/2026 17:11

LTB!

Seriously though, I’d be pissed off too!

MaidMiriam · 17/06/2026 17:12

Grab a red marker pen and scribble out the text??

JuliaMaesa · 17/06/2026 17:12

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:03

NC’d for this. About half the houses on our street put flags up during the big football tournaments. DH put one up with his teams badge on at the weekend, and took delivery of a new flag today. He’s proudly displayed this - it’s a St George’s cross with ‘In Farage We Trust’ printed across the middle 😫

I’ve told him to take it down and that the neighbours will judge but he’s standing firm. Would it be wrong of me to tear it down myself?!

YABVU for not posting a link to the seller so real patriots can buy one for themselves.

Anotherdayofrain · 17/06/2026 17:12

I would leave him for this.

worcesterpear · 17/06/2026 17:13

yes, nothing wrong with england flags during the world cup, though I wouldn't want one up myself, but I would be embarrassed to have one with that message on. I was going to suggest you bought a different country's flag and put that up also if you don't support england, but i would tell dh he wasn't allowed to have this up, it's your house too.

Flamingojune · 17/06/2026 17:13

Its a great form of birth control

Jeschara · 17/06/2026 17:15

Take the flag down. Its disgusting. Farage has nothing to do with English football.
Don't let the neibours think you are complicit in this. He sounds weak does he want to impress these neibours?
A bit pathetic really.

thisoldcity · 17/06/2026 17:16

LTB

Lndnmummy · 17/06/2026 17:18

Is this the first time you realised you're married to a racist? Or have you always known and been comfortable about it as it has, until now, been kept behind close doors? Are you more worried about your neighbours knowing you are racist, than actually being married to a racist?

If you lived on my street, you and your family would be shunned.

Sskka · 17/06/2026 17:19

Just horrific. Everyone knows that the name of your locality is the only thing that should be written across a flag, and the more local the better.

Adding politics to it is the absolute worst. I saw a combined Pride/Scotland flag up last night too, you bet I was judging.

Wauwinet · 17/06/2026 17:19

You could take it down and cut the message out and put it back up with a rectangular hole in it. 😁

Parky04 · 17/06/2026 17:19

I have just put our flag up. It's just a plain St George's cross. I always put the Union flag up during the Olympics as well. There shouldn't be any political messages on these flags.

BillieWiper · 17/06/2026 17:20

Did it come as surprise he was a Farage supporter? Yeah I'd be throwing that in the bin and LTB. No joke.

Lndnmummy · 17/06/2026 17:20

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MeekSqueak · 17/06/2026 17:20

Flagissue · 17/06/2026 17:03

NC’d for this. About half the houses on our street put flags up during the big football tournaments. DH put one up with his teams badge on at the weekend, and took delivery of a new flag today. He’s proudly displayed this - it’s a St George’s cross with ‘In Farage We Trust’ printed across the middle 😫

I’ve told him to take it down and that the neighbours will judge but he’s standing firm. Would it be wrong of me to tear it down myself?!

he is a literal red (and white) flag

Eideann · 17/06/2026 17:21

TheShed7 · 17/06/2026 17:08

Farage is a terrible football manager. All his attacks go down the right hand side.

😉

saveforthat · 17/06/2026 17:22

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Jesus all these racist accusations flying around. I actually believe that @JuliaMaesa may be joking here but not all Farage supporters are racists.

Yetanotherone12 · 17/06/2026 17:22

Anotherdayofrain · 17/06/2026 17:12

I would leave him for this.

I absolutely would as well.

couldn’t be with anyone whose thought processes and values align with Farage.

MasterBeth · 17/06/2026 17:23

TheShed7 · 17/06/2026 17:08

Farage is a terrible football manager. All his attacks go down the right hand side.

Joke Academy:

"Down the right hand side" doesn't work.

Try "down the right wing".

TheDrswife · 17/06/2026 17:23

Good grief! That would be straight down if that were me. What is he thinking?!