You meet the one. They're perfect for you. Then youve got the ick so badly you eant to set fire to yourself. What petty thing did they do?? 👀

[mumofoneAloneandwell]

Eaten tuna 🤢

Monstrous food eaten by those with poor morals.

He wore a polo shirt on a date. Is there anything less sexy on a man than a polo shirt? 🤮

Grandad chic

I disagree and like a polo shirt. Shorts however, just certain types of shorts are 😫

Just saw that @Twonewcatsalready mentioned polo shirts! 😂. A designer polo shirt is even worse. It’s like they think can make shit item of clothing stylish by buying one with a designer label on in it. No - it just means that you overpaid to look that shit.

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They're just so awful 🤢🤢

I might look at the polo shirt with new eyes now

Ok I'm a man (sorry) and I love polo shirts - I thought everyone did!

They would be my first choice if I ever were to have a date but now after all of these anti polo shirt comments I am starting to question that!

What is the alternative to a polo shirt? Surely not a normal long sleeved shirt? I stopped wearing those years ago and only wear them when I "have" to.

My DH just about lives in polo shirts, but they have to be plain (no logos, detail stitching, and the "right" fabric). Long sleeved shirts are fine under a jacket or otherwise worn with the sleeves turned up. The current hot weather is too hot for polos so he's wearing T-shirts - again absolutely plain.

If he ever takes a fancy to patterned short-sleeved shirts (🤢) we'll be heading for a divorce.

My own preference would be something like a plain tshirt and jeans, or a long-sleeved Tshirt or top. Not a shirt.

I got over it but asked me to dress nice on a night out (taking me to a burlesque night over a decade ago) and turned up in… straight leg pin stripe trouser and KICKERS. He was 30.

luckily for him I pointed out his errors, he never wore them again and we married. Even now I remind him and he points out they were real leather, well made and cheap. He will never win.

Driving me home after our date he showed me his party trick. Steering the car with his erect penis.

I like a man in a nice linen shirt, with sleeves slightly rolled up

If you’re over 60 then you might get away with a polo shirt. I’m a millennial, and I think the problem for me is that when I was growing up, everyone’s dad used to wear them, so I tend to associate them with older men, and beer bellies, as well as with retail uniforms worn by people who work in places like Wickes.

A plain t-shirt is much better than a polo shirt imo 🙂.

OMG!!! 😲🤣🤣

It's the thought that he must have practiced this - many times, thinking "No woman could fail to be impressed by my mighty steering knob."
What a twerp 🤣

But you're ok with his (presuming) coke habit?

PTSD perhaps?

Rosacea?

Aw bless him...poor chap

Ohh....I never realized that! You learn summary new every day :)

Summat

Bad breath (first boyfriend, dumped him). Bad spelling (2nd boyfriend, dumped him).

Thanks for the reply - well I am over 60 so maybe I can get away with my polos but I take your point about older guys and the retail uniform thing.

I have tended to think that plain T-shirts do not look good on guys my age but maybe I need a re think.

This thread has certainly made me consider broadening my wardrobe in the shirt / top department. 🙂

The steering wheel guy..... 😱
If it really happened though 🫤😀
I can't stop imagining it. 😂

I wish there was a thread from the men telling of icks they experienced with ladies. 🫣

He wore a polo shirt with the collar turned up. On purpose. Hard no from me.

I got the ick from teddy bears

Had been on a few dates,all good and he invited me back to his

All going well,so we headed into the bedroom

On top of his wardrobe where at least 30 teddy bears (I'm not a fan of teddy bears)

I can handle a few stuffed toys but he then launched into 'i bought this one for my ex','I won this one for ex','this one i bought ex for our anniversary','I won this one from a grabber machine for ex','ex loved this one so much'

I got the ick from the teddies alone,I didn't need chapter and verse about where he got them from too

What makes it worse,is it swear one was possessed-its was a dog/teddy,it had evil eyes and a nasty grin-not a chance was i having a good time with that thing staring back at me

I made my excuses and left (he couldn't understand why)

If his ex had loved them as much as he did,surely she would have kept them!

Needless to say,the teddies where only there to show what a soft side he had and how lovely he was to have kept them

He is a nasty,narcissistic,spiteful,cheating twat who tried to screw his ex wife over in the divorce and tried to pay as little as he could for the kids

But at least he got the teddies in the break up!

You’ve cracked it, it’s because they’re work uniforms! I wondered why I gipped at them but it all makes sense now.

The colour makes a difference. One guy had a burgundy one with an orange trim which made him look like he worked in Sainsbury’s. A different guy had the same shade of brown as a UPS driver. Once you see it…