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To think people in gender pay gap discussions who say women should go into trades to get a higher paid job ignore that a lot of trades are physically too demanding for a large number of women to do (though of course some do and can)?

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QueenSophia · Today 02:12

In a lot of gender pay gap discussions I've seen here & elsewhere, people note that male dominated jobs like building, plumbing etc are higher paid than female equivalents like the 5 Cs so women could improve the gender pay gap by going into those.

To me this is unfair as it ignores that a lot of women are not physically strong enough to do these jobs long term. Obviously some can & that's great but a lot will not be able to. Just saying women who would otherwise go into caring, cleaning etc should be plumbers, electricians etc is not reasonable for many.

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Shedmistress · Today 08:32

OtterandaRock · Today 08:30

The women run away screaming?
Or the men's work culture is backwards and hostile and forces them out?
The men need to be socialised to keep up with workplace change.

Good luck with that!

OtterandaRock · Today 08:32

Imdunfer · Today 08:29

Have you tried repeatedly lifting a float full of wet plaster up to a wall for hours on end?

It would wreck most womens shoulder joints because the muscles holding them together are nowhere near as strong as mens.

Edited

Is this thread about the gender pay gap at all or about MEN. STRONG. BRING HOME BACON?

WaryCrow · Today 08:32

what absolute rubbish.

The bigger problem is sexism and established power. Men push women out of work by making it impossible for them to stay in, by sexually harassing them and insisting they go and work on the customer frontline where they can make other women feel rather more comfortable and flash their tits and flirt at the men to get higher pay out of them - this is what some of us who tried to work in male-dominated sectors were and are still told. Women are preferred in frontline positions dealing with people because we are better humans.

The only place you might have an inkling of a point is in transport where machines are built to be driven by ‘the standard human’ ie men who are slightly bigger than women on average. And that’s nothing to do with capability and everything to do with sexist design.

OneThreadOnlybyN · Today 08:32

HelmholtzWatson · Today 06:04

Great, maybe go and start your own thread somewhere about "Awww Little Woman sinister cultural ladybrain drift" so we can discuss pay.

Agree!

OneThreadOnlybyN · Today 08:33

mustardgarnish · Today 06:06

I'd say lifting patients as a carer is far more physically demanding

Noone should be "lifting" anyone in care- thats what hoists and OT equipment is for and if people are doing this then they are not following manual handling procedures correctly.

Exactly.

WaryCrow · Today 08:35

Those who insist women are weaklings are aware that it is women who are predominantly employed in healthcare and especially the frontline, yes?

Or is it the increase in bariatric patients you’re trying to ignore?

Women are left every day to haul huge bulk around. And if we weren’t managing it, there’d be scandals all over the papers, men would be preferred, and wages would be much much higher in healthcare.

Equipment does not do everything in healthcare. Come look after these bariatric patients with us. Or even the smaller man who fell out of his chair the other day and we had to haul him off the floor in an awkward spot while watching his head.

Jackiepumpkinhead · Today 08:35

Shedmistress · Today 08:31

Have you ever loaded a bag of tiling adhesive into the back of a truck?

Now load 25.

Then drive for an hour and do a full day's work on your knees.

You do know that women are capable of building extra muscle and resilience? Plus, every bathroom fitter (I’ve never had a plumber do tiling) has worked with someone else. It’s a physical job and most people need someone with them, regardless of their sex.

OneThreadOnlybyN · Today 08:36

Wishing14 · Today 06:20

@OtterandaRockI haven’t done care work but I have attempted some of the things I have listed, alongside men and struggled with many aspects of it! I am strong, do weight lifting, and could do a lot, but not consistently, not as much or as fast as the men. I don’t think many people fully understand some of the aspects of these jobs. That’s my point. Have you worked as a ground worker or similar?

👍🏻exactly!!

CalpolOnToast · Today 08:38

ColinOfficeTrolley · Today 08:31

I think people are misunderstanding the gender pay gap. It's not about women bricklayers being paid less than male bricklayers for example.

It's about equal value jobs where women are paid less.

For example - a dominantly male warehouse job for say a large supermarket is calculated at a Grade 4 and is paid £30k a year

Said supermarket hires cashiers (mainly female) and job is advertised as a Grade 4, but the salary is £28k a year

That's a gender pay gap.

Yes and my point is that men vote with their feet in those situations and women won't or can't

CheddarBiscuit · Today 08:39

Shedmistress · Today 08:28

There most certainly IS alot of proactive work to get women into construction. Has been for decades.

I worked on many of them in my latter days before retiring.

The problem is that once women are in those jobs, they tend to run away screaming unless they have ovaries of steel. There are a myriad of things that go wrong for women in construction due to the ingrained sexism in the industry.

Sorry, this was a follow on to my other post. I agree, the industry itself is doing a lot from a central and organisation pov but its the on the ground experience of women in the workforce that remains the problem because a lot of men have an issue with it and make their loves difficult, whether that's at work, customers or possessive insecure boyfriends. Even at college it is an unusual choice and the start of being seen to do something different.

Jackiepumpkinhead · Today 08:39

Imdunfer · Today 08:29

Have you tried repeatedly lifting a float full of wet plaster up to a wall for hours on end?

It would wreck most womens shoulder joints because the muscles holding them together are nowhere near as strong as mens.

Edited

For the love of god, women have muscles, their arms and necks aren’t made of twigs. Yes, it’s hard psychical work but it’s something women can do if they want.

Some of the idiots on here really need a lesson in biology.

Morepositivemum · Today 08:41

Cheese55

If someone falls near to you, aren't you meant to let them fall? If someone is trying to leave a ward where i once worked medication was used, they weren't being manhandled.
Do firefighters actually lift humans out of burning buildings, I thought equipment is used for this.

She crumpled near me and I caught her as she was going down, I didn’t think at the time and helped keep her up but it was so hard and she was tiny.

Id guess equipment doesn’t cover every scenario in life ti be honest but I could totally be wrong. When I was in the us all the firefighters were muscly and bulky when a fire alarm went off. I’m just saying I’d rather see them than someone like me, I’d assume if something significant happened that needed strength things would get a lot more difficult.

OtterandaRock · Today 08:41

If only I had read this thread when the delivery men left 2 bedsteads at the bottom of the stairs and refused to attempt the stairs.

Then I wouldn't have moved the bedsteads myself.

Using applied maths to make the turning force work with me.

I should not know maths.

Eliminate me quick, I am an enemy of the newly manly state.

CheddarBiscuit · Today 08:41

Grghf · Today 07:51

Women have got into strength training as notions of fuckability have changed.
Sure they blather on about the "empowerment" and health aspects but ultimately they are working on their glutes for the same reason they're getting fillers, nkt because they aspire to take on traditionally male employment opportunities

And it's super telling that out of my whole post you pick up on one section where you can diminish women by assessing their desire to be fuckable rather than their experiences at the hands of men. Well done, you must be so proud.

WaryCrow · Today 08:42

OtterandaRock · Today 08:41

If only I had read this thread when the delivery men left 2 bedsteads at the bottom of the stairs and refused to attempt the stairs.

Then I wouldn't have moved the bedsteads myself.

Using applied maths to make the turning force work with me.

I should not know maths.

Eliminate me quick, I am an enemy of the newly manly state.

😂😂😂

Imdunfer · Today 08:44

ColinOfficeTrolley · Today 08:31

I think people are misunderstanding the gender pay gap. It's not about women bricklayers being paid less than male bricklayers for example.

It's about equal value jobs where women are paid less.

For example - a dominantly male warehouse job for say a large supermarket is calculated at a Grade 4 and is paid £30k a year

Said supermarket hires cashiers (mainly female) and job is advertised as a Grade 4, but the salary is £28k a year

That's a gender pay gap.

And that's the lunacy of equal pay.

Who is anyone to decide that two completely different jobs are of equal value?

I've worked with job evaluation schemes and I can tell you that it's really easy to work out what's getting awarded the points and adjust things so they come out where you want them to be. I wouldn't trust any person to make the judgement about when two jobs are equal when they aren't remotely the same job.

The example you wrote is not an example of the gender pay gap, because men and women both do those jobs.

It's a reflection of the fact that it is far easier to recruit people to work in a bright and airy shop where they interact with others than it is in a windowless dusty warehouse where socialisation is very limited.

Two retailers are currently appealing that ridiculous judgement.

The only fair way to pay people is to give everyone a decent education, set a living wage minimum, and then pay people what they are happy to accept being paid for doing the job.

untamedheart · Today 08:44

Jackiepumpkinhead · Today 08:39

For the love of god, women have muscles, their arms and necks aren’t made of twigs. Yes, it’s hard psychical work but it’s something women can do if they want.

Some of the idiots on here really need a lesson in biology.

I’m 5ft 10 and built like a brick shithouse. Never encountered anything a man can lift that I can’t. Before health issue I was happily deadlifting 130kg and leg pressing over 200kg. I am taller and much broader than most women though
but I lift because it’s fun, I like being strong and it’s good for my mental and physical health

Morepositivemum · Today 08:46

For the love of god, women have muscles, their arms and necks aren’t made of twigs. Yes, it’s hard psychical work but it’s something women can do if they want.
Some of the idiots on here really need a lesson in biology.

I don’t think it’s a case of if they want. Honestly do you think you might just know a lot of more muscly , stronger women? Because I work in a supermarket and a lot of us struggle with heavy lifting and was talking to friends and they were all saying more men should be hired in. At Christmas time we’re all in bits due to the amount of potatoes, water and 24pks of cans we lift. Yes if we had a specialist work one to one, access to a gym etc we could become buff machines but the majority of women can’t do this

CheddarBiscuit · Today 08:47

untamedheart · Today 08:44

I’m 5ft 10 and built like a brick shithouse. Never encountered anything a man can lift that I can’t. Before health issue I was happily deadlifting 130kg and leg pressing over 200kg. I am taller and much broader than most women though
but I lift because it’s fun, I like being strong and it’s good for my mental and physical health

Surely not!? You're doing it for fun amd wellbeing? According to @Grghf the only reason ypu might want to workout is to be "fuckable" in the eyes of a man 😉 🙄

There you go @Grghf. Good enough for you? Or still entrenched in your sexist views?

OtterandaRock · Today 08:47

untamedheart · Today 08:44

I’m 5ft 10 and built like a brick shithouse. Never encountered anything a man can lift that I can’t. Before health issue I was happily deadlifting 130kg and leg pressing over 200kg. I am taller and much broader than most women though
but I lift because it’s fun, I like being strong and it’s good for my mental and physical health

I am not very big. I admire you.

Imdunfer · Today 08:48

Jackiepumpkinhead · Today 08:39

For the love of god, women have muscles, their arms and necks aren’t made of twigs. Yes, it’s hard psychical work but it’s something women can do if they want.

Some of the idiots on here really need a lesson in biology.

For the love of god the average woman's upper body strength is massively less than the average man's, and YOU obviously need a lesson in that biology.

I'll ask again, have you ever lifted a float full of wet plaster and had to sweep your arm in big arcs across a wall repeatedly for hour after hour?

curious79 · Today 08:49

Women did all these manually intensive jobs in WWll. You soon build up strength and know how

Morepositivemum · Today 08:49

ColinOfficeTrolley
I think people are misunderstanding the gender pay gap. It's not about women bricklayers being paid less than male bricklayers for example.
It's about equal value jobs where women are paid less.
For example - a dominantly male warehouse job for say a large supermarket is calculated at a Grade 4 and is paid £30k a year
Said supermarket hires cashiers (mainly female) and job is advertised as a Grade 4, but the salary is £28k a year
That's a gender pay gap.

They do different jobs though? Warehouse staff are in at 5 and in till 12 in our supermarket, we’re between half eight and half nine. They’ve more wear and tear so harder to recruit, everyone in our job says they’d love to be on tills (I’m a cashier).

StandingDeskDisco · Today 08:49

HelmholtzWatson · Today 06:02

Don't assume what I do and don't know.

You can set up as many strawmen as you like, but the market sets the rate of pay and it turns out that you have to pay people better if they are more likely to die doing their job.

the market sets the rate of pay

The market does not operate in a vacuum. It operates within the context of patriarchy.
There simply is no market in which gendered 'men's' work and 'women's' work are treated equally. The market assumes, a priori, that men's work is more valuable, so this work is paid more.

Sartre · Today 08:51

OtterandaRock · Today 08:10

I am a whisker away from reporting this as misinformation.

May I ask if you are a woman?

Would you consider assertiveness training? A woman colleague of mine benefited from this. She wanted to move up at work and earn more, and be heard with respect. All of which happened.

Not because women are naturally unassertive but because we need to be extra assertive against workplace and other bias.

Yes I’m a woman, no I don’t need assertiveness training. I’m pretty successful but have got to this level with an element of being disagreeable and yes, assertive… Social conditioning programmes us to generally be more passive is what I should have said perhaps.

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