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To think people in gender pay gap discussions who say women should go into trades to get a higher paid job ignore that a lot of trades are physically too demanding for a large number of women to do (though of course some do and can)?

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QueenSophia · Today 02:12

In a lot of gender pay gap discussions I've seen here & elsewhere, people note that male dominated jobs like building, plumbing etc are higher paid than female equivalents like the 5 Cs so women could improve the gender pay gap by going into those.

To me this is unfair as it ignores that a lot of women are not physically strong enough to do these jobs long term. Obviously some can & that's great but a lot will not be able to. Just saying women who would otherwise go into caring, cleaning etc should be plumbers, electricians etc is not reasonable for many.

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Cheese55 · Today 06:20

Thepeopleversuswork · Today 05:47

Everyone is endlessly being told to become a plumber on here at the moment or to encourage their kids to be one, it’s quite irritating. Its a great job but irs not for everyone. And not everyone can or wants to do it!

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To make good money as a plumber/electrician, you have to be self employed which means having a business brain and knowing how to manage that side of things. Also to be qualified thee are exams to pass. Its not the default job for people who are not 'academic'. Also I have employed many female plumbers, they are everywhere.

HelmholtzWatson · Today 06:21

OtterandaRock · Today 06:10

I am deducing, not assuming.

Are flight attendants with ruined backs, feet, and ankles, and at risk of terrorism, paid lots? Genuinely unsure

What is the lifetime risk of a flight attendant being subjected to a hijacking? Genuinely unsure.

ToffeeCrabApple · Today 06:21

Wishing14 · Today 02:51

There are jobs that are FAR more physically taxing than care work! Drainage work - pulling through liners and extremely heavy equipment, deep excavation by hand, confined spaces, Groundwork’s and trenching, Demolition- breaking out concrete etc, Offshore rig work, Rail track work, Mining and tunnelling, tree surgery, timber work, hauling equipment, concreting and construction, utility excavation etc.
Some jobs involve constant heavy work, with long 10 or 12 hour days in dangerous and often highly unpleasant conditions.
Many woman could not or would not want to do many of these roles. They are literally back breaking and many of these men are in agony with bad backs by middle age. Many men keep the country going, in many ways and men are physically stronger on average, with greater upper-body strength, grip strength, and muscle mass. That is simply a fact that cannot be disputed. It’s not to say women are not important and women cannot do things men cannot do (we can have babies after all!) But it’s ridiculous to say that women work on average physically as much as men do! Me and my partner work as much and as hard as each other, but my job is mentally tiring, his is physically tiring.

The world is changing though. A lot of these jobs used to use heavy labour but are increasingly robot or machinery assisted etc .

HelmholtzWatson · Today 06:22

OtterandaRock · Today 06:13

Nice move with the 'we' versus 'you'.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/guides/z2932p3/revision/5

"[...]

Goebbels said: The mission of women is to be beautiful and to bring children into the world.
Women were important to the Nazis, however, the Nazis believed that the role of the woman was in the home and with her family, not in the world of work.
Marriage and family
Hitler wanted a high birth rate so that the Aryan population would grow. He tried to achieve this by:
introducing the Law for the Encouragement of Marriage which gave newlywed couples a loan of 1,000 marks, and allowed them to keep 250 marks for each child they had
giving an award called the Mother’s Cross to women who had large numbers of children
allowing women to volunteer to have a baby for an Aryan member of the SS
Employment
Measures were introduced which strongly discouraged women from working, including:
the introduction of the Law for the Reduction of Unemployment, which gave women financial incentives to stay at home
not conscripting women to help in the war effort until 1943
However, female labour was cheap and between 1933 and 1939 the number of women in employment actually rose by 2.4 million. As the German economy grew, women were needed in the workplace.
Appearance
Women were expected to emulate traditional German peasant fashions - plain peasant costumes, hair in plaits or buns and flat shoes. They were not expected to wear make-up or trousers, dye their hair or smoke in public. They were discouraged from staying slim, because it was thought that thin women had trouble giving birth.
Revision tip:
A good mnemonic to help you remember the facts about Nazi women is:
C - Children
H - Home
A - Appearace
R - Rewards
M - Marriage
E - Employment
D - Domestic"

Leaving this here and going to unmaternal work :)

Cool story.

Wishing14 · Today 06:23

@ToffeeCrabApplemaybe in some larger firms, in small local companies and with many tradesmen (who often are self employed and earn quite well) this is often not the case. I think robots are far less advanced then say AI and will be for a long time, hence desk jobs being easily replaced and physical jobs not.

TheContoursALittleMisunderstandingNsoul · Today 06:23

HelmholtzWatson · Today 05:52

However you want to cut it, things like death, losing limbs or ending up in a wheelchair impact QoL far more than any kind of assault.

Hence why those jobs are better paid.

Sexual assaults do impact quality of life for a lot of women.
To say one is lesser than another type of injury sustained at work isn't on.

measuretwicecutonce · Today 06:24

Jobs that are physically demanding and require more strength pay more because they are done by men. Jobs requiring different/softer skills are paid less as they are done by women and women aren’t valued as much in society. This is what the Birmingham council payout was about, women getting paid less for doing traditional caring roles.

Pay should not be based on how strong you are, it should be based on skill level, qualifications and resource availability.

Women could do dome trades ie painter/decorater, plumber (although there is heavy lifting sometimes), electrician. That doesn’t take away from the fact that roles traditionally done by women are wrongly imo paid less.

ToffeeCrabApple · Today 06:24

Cheese55 · Today 06:20

To make good money as a plumber/electrician, you have to be self employed which means having a business brain and knowing how to manage that side of things. Also to be qualified thee are exams to pass. Its not the default job for people who are not 'academic'. Also I have employed many female plumbers, they are everywhere.

Ha. Lots of tradespeople find this hard! Several i know have their wife doing the invoicing etc!

Its much easier than it used to be, there are phone apps to manage your stuff, scan a receipt & your accounts can be done largely automatically. Most will also pay an accountant for things like their tax return.

Wishing14 · Today 06:26

@measuretwicecutonce yes this is an argument that makes more sense to me, and as many roles traditionally high paid are being replaced (lawyers, accountants, economists, traders etc) things are likely to change. Physical roles that a computer can’t do will become more valuable

ToffeeCrabApple · Today 06:26

measuretwicecutonce · Today 06:24

Jobs that are physically demanding and require more strength pay more because they are done by men. Jobs requiring different/softer skills are paid less as they are done by women and women aren’t valued as much in society. This is what the Birmingham council payout was about, women getting paid less for doing traditional caring roles.

Pay should not be based on how strong you are, it should be based on skill level, qualifications and resource availability.

Women could do dome trades ie painter/decorater, plumber (although there is heavy lifting sometimes), electrician. That doesn’t take away from the fact that roles traditionally done by women are wrongly imo paid less.

This. With spots on.

Wishing14 · Today 06:31

@ToffeeCrabApple the only problem though is that there is less money to pay for these things. Sorting the infrastructure to a home or building, or keeping services running is economically seen as more important to society. Take child care, for example, we have children and can’t afford to pay to have them cared for at a fair rate (based on the value involved). People get old and haven’t saved money for care fees. So what’s the answer? I’m not disagreeing by the way! Just asking.

HelmholtzWatson · Today 06:31

TheContoursALittleMisunderstandingNsoul · Today 06:23

Sexual assaults do impact quality of life for a lot of women.
To say one is lesser than another type of injury sustained at work isn't on.

I'm not minimising any kind of assault, especially sexual assault.

Nonetheless, these issues are not unique to women. Men are also face sexual harassment and physical assault at work. However when it comes to death and serious injury, men are vastly over-represented.

Wishing14 · Today 06:32

I think the point I mean is that the business or home owner will pay for these things/ services, but the parents and elderly people/ family members either can’t or don’t want to pay for care.

Tontostitis · Today 06:33

AlgaeDreams · Today 02:20

I'd say lifting patients as a carer is far more physically demanding than - fitting a radiator, adding a washer to a leaky tap, installing wiring and screwing in plug sockets.
Even cleaning is sometimes more physically demanding than a trade.

Honestly with respect you are an idiot. Fitting a radiator is done by plumbers who lift boilers and got water tanks and big radiators are very heavy. Electrics is a little bit easier I'll give you that but plumbing is a very hard physical job.

Wishing14 · Today 06:36

@Tontostitisi don’t think they are an idiot but I do agree that most people don’t appreciate how physically demanding some jobs are! I have tried some things so I know!

TheContoursALittleMisunderstandingNsoul · Today 06:37

Tontostitis · Today 06:33

Honestly with respect you are an idiot. Fitting a radiator is done by plumbers who lift boilers and got water tanks and big radiators are very heavy. Electrics is a little bit easier I'll give you that but plumbing is a very hard physical job.

You can't respectfully call someone an idiot.
Most plumbers i knew had apprentices or labourer to do the grunt work.

Mt563 · Today 06:41

Poor delicate women, stay in your place.

Yes men are naturally stronger and have some advantage but women would be strong enough for most of these jobs if they were doing them regularly.

I've been turned down for jobs for being a woman previously (they needed 'strong men'). I should have made more of a fuss of the sexism of that.

Thepeopleversuswork · Today 06:41

OtterandaRock · Today 05:53

This is the first thread I have seen and it is about telling women to stay in our lane. Which boards do you frequent? I lurk on Style & Beauty and What We're Reading. Not seen many boiler suit or hardware manual recommendations.

I’m mainly talking about advice to children as opposed to women.

On every thread about higher education a load of people will tip up and say everyone should go into trades.

I am absolutely not knocking it: these are great careers for many people but they are not panaceas.

rwalker · Today 06:42

I used to work for one of the big utilities with the apprentice team the company itself did an enormous amount of work to recruit and retain women they failed main reasons

outside all weathers all day
lone working
very physically demanding
no flexibility in working hours due to work being dictated by daylight

Grghf · Today 06:44

Mens jobs are more physically demanding and yes including care work.
The pay gap exists because women often prioritise staying home with kids

Morepositivemum · Today 06:46

mustardgarnish

Noone should be "lifting" anyone in care- thats what hoists and OT equipment is for and if people are doing this then they are not following manual handling procedures correctly.

For caring roles in real life though with the nature of it you can’t count on equipment being there the second someone goes ti eg fall and need help though, a bit of security in the person’ strength would be nice!!! I spent a lot of time in the hospice with a relative and it was terrifying at time seeing women carers and nurses trying to help people who had no control over their body, who were falling out of bed, who suddenly decided to leave etc. we don’t live in an ideal world where equipment is ready at any given moment and ideal circumstances are there. I said after there needs to be a lot more people hired relaying to physical strength. We can all fool ourselves on the yes we can front but people like me who are physically weak shouldn’t be doing roles that need a certain amount of strength and fitness (I once had a lady walking by the bed I was at nearly fall and literally I couldn’t keep her up even though she was light as a feather). It’s like the old ‘in a fire, who do you want to arrive to save you’ scenario. Very few women will be able to pick you up.

And my god on actual trades, I nearly cry sometimes when a not very physically strong looking man turns up to fix equipment, struggling with moving and lifting it. It must be hell

Corianda · Today 06:48

rwalker · Today 06:42

I used to work for one of the big utilities with the apprentice team the company itself did an enormous amount of work to recruit and retain women they failed main reasons

outside all weathers all day
lone working
very physically demanding
no flexibility in working hours due to work being dictated by daylight

I always thought that women want to chat to others at work - so won't want to work on their own day in day out like plumbers, decorators etc
But now you can listen to podcasts, nice music this might not be as important.
Also being outside in all weathers - not fun.

Wishing14 · Today 06:50

I mean we can actually just start from the point that many men and many women (I won’t say most!!) actually do work very hard and have it very difficult. I don’t think that is the competition. But some roles are physically too demanding for many women. Also a man who, for example, wanted to work in child care or similar may find it more difficult. Rightly or wrongly I personally wouldn’t hire a male childminder. Many will say they would on paper, but whether they would is another matter.

Franjipanl8r · Today 06:53

Those of us who work in construction will tell you the gender pay gap is alive and well in that industry too!

Cheese55 · Today 06:54

Morepositivemum · Today 06:46

mustardgarnish

Noone should be "lifting" anyone in care- thats what hoists and OT equipment is for and if people are doing this then they are not following manual handling procedures correctly.

For caring roles in real life though with the nature of it you can’t count on equipment being there the second someone goes ti eg fall and need help though, a bit of security in the person’ strength would be nice!!! I spent a lot of time in the hospice with a relative and it was terrifying at time seeing women carers and nurses trying to help people who had no control over their body, who were falling out of bed, who suddenly decided to leave etc. we don’t live in an ideal world where equipment is ready at any given moment and ideal circumstances are there. I said after there needs to be a lot more people hired relaying to physical strength. We can all fool ourselves on the yes we can front but people like me who are physically weak shouldn’t be doing roles that need a certain amount of strength and fitness (I once had a lady walking by the bed I was at nearly fall and literally I couldn’t keep her up even though she was light as a feather). It’s like the old ‘in a fire, who do you want to arrive to save you’ scenario. Very few women will be able to pick you up.

And my god on actual trades, I nearly cry sometimes when a not very physically strong looking man turns up to fix equipment, struggling with moving and lifting it. It must be hell

If someone falls near to you, aren't you meant to let them fall? If someone is trying to leave a ward where i once worked medication was used, they weren't being manhandled.
Do firefighters actually lift humans out of burning buildings, I thought equipment is used for this.