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Should they describe this menu item better

263 replies

holidaybubble · Yesterday 13:06

Went to a cafe for the first time it’s not for profit and does stuff for the community. I had been wanting to try it out for a while and finally went to day with my toddler I checked the menu to see if he would eat anything and saw baked beans. I ordered him baked beans on toast with a sausage turns out the beans where homemade and spiced Aibu to think they should state this on the menu as there is a big difference between tinned and home made. I said to the girl behind the counter it was my first time coming she could have said did I know the beans were spiced when ordering for my son. Obviously he refused to eat them.

not linked to my Aibu but my full English came with toast and I got toast for him too. The wait for food was long so they gave me my son’s toast early which I hadn’t asked for. I then didn’t revive my toast with my meal and he then had no toast for his beans. I would have said something but my son was screaming as he was hungry and pushing his pot of beans and spitting them out so I just inhaled mine and left. The person that also works there had gone upstairs and I didn’t want to wait.

OP posts:
nocoolnamesleft · Yesterday 18:50

But even ordinary Heinz baked beans contain a spice mix.

Kokonimater · Yesterday 18:52

Ablondiebutagoody · Yesterday 13:17

He should have just eaten the beans if he was that hungry. I can't believe they were that spicey. I like that they've tried to jazz them up a bit.

he should have just eaten them??? Do you have children??

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 18:52

Calliopespa · Yesterday 18:01

I think that is absolutely true actually.

There is an interesting document by the Food Foundation UK which addresses the status of beans - and legumes generally, in fact - in UK diets. You get them a lot more in other cuisines - Mexican obviously (!), but think also of French soupe au pistou, puy lentils, and plenty of Italian dishes, and things like hummus from chickpea, and chickpea tagines etc.

The Food foundation states that "Diets that are low in legumes are associated with up to 9,000 premature deaths in the UK each year (Global Burden of Disease Collaborative Network, 2021)". I'm not sure how they worked that out with exactitude, but I do accept their general point which is that having only an emergency Heinz tin in the pantry is a bit of a blind-spot on what is a fabulous nutritional resource.

They are a superfood, and such a great comfort food too.

Chickpeas are the food of the gods.

Left · Yesterday 18:54

How’s this OP:

Classic cowboy beans on toast £3.50

Perfect for eating round the campfire, or for a light lunch at our cosy cafe. Our home made baked beans have been gently slow-cooked to perfection, with traditional smokey flavours and a touch of heat. Served with sourdough toast and a knob of butter.

Ask your server about our alternative bread selection.

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · Yesterday 18:54

nocoolnamesleft · Yesterday 18:50

But even ordinary Heinz baked beans contain a spice mix.

Everybody is ignoring that.

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 18:57

GeorgeMichaelsCat · Yesterday 17:01

Are you joking?

Double post.

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 18:57

GeorgeMichaelsCat · Yesterday 17:01

Are you joking?

I don't think it it's at all odd to expect that a community café was selling home made baked beans.

GeorgeMichaelsCat · Yesterday 19:08

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 18:57

I don't think it it's at all odd to expect that a community café was selling home made baked beans.

I think it is very odd

JanBlues2026 · Yesterday 19:12

nocoolnamesleft · Yesterday 18:50

But even ordinary Heinz baked beans contain a spice mix.

Lots of things contain spice for flavour but aren’t ‘spicey’- Tomato ketchup for example, or baby foods such as Ella’s kitchen cottage pie. Regular tinned bakedbeans are not spicey. I have had beans at hundreds of places and only one place they were spicey, not sure if they were home made as could well have been tinned with added spice.

RachTheAlpaca · Yesterday 19:13

My 1 year old would've been thrilled to be given spiced beans. Was he actually crying and not eating them or was it you making a big fuss over it to cause a reaction from him?

SleepingStandingUp · Yesterday 19:14

RachTheAlpaca · Yesterday 19:13

My 1 year old would've been thrilled to be given spiced beans. Was he actually crying and not eating them or was it you making a big fuss over it to cause a reaction from him?

lovely for you. one of mine would, two wouldn't. it's like kids have different tastes

SleepingStandingUp · Yesterday 19:15

katepilar · Yesterday 17:27

I wouldnt expected baked beans to come out of a tin in a cafe.

you and I hang out in very different types of cafe...

Monty36 · Yesterday 19:16

RachTheAlpaca · Yesterday 19:13

My 1 year old would've been thrilled to be given spiced beans. Was he actually crying and not eating them or was it you making a big fuss over it to cause a reaction from him?

What happened to his sausage he was given and his toast ? Didn’t he eat those.

Very sorry wrongly quoted !

30dayss · Yesterday 19:22

I'm actually with you OP and don't really understand the push back you are getting.

Unless it was a fancy cafe, I'd expect "baked beans on toast" to be normal tinned beans. I don't think I'd have asked for clarification on that.

And it's not ok that they gave him his toast and beans are seperate times. They are literally 2 parts of the meal that need to go together.

Whereas you not getting toast with your breakfast is just one of those annoyances.

I'd probably drop them a polite email just explaining that clarification on the beans is needed. You'd think they'd want to advertise that the beans are home made.

HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:29

30dayss · Yesterday 19:22

I'm actually with you OP and don't really understand the push back you are getting.

Unless it was a fancy cafe, I'd expect "baked beans on toast" to be normal tinned beans. I don't think I'd have asked for clarification on that.

And it's not ok that they gave him his toast and beans are seperate times. They are literally 2 parts of the meal that need to go together.

Whereas you not getting toast with your breakfast is just one of those annoyances.

I'd probably drop them a polite email just explaining that clarification on the beans is needed. You'd think they'd want to advertise that the beans are home made.

The toast is something I can’t believe people are overlooking. She ordered beans ON toast

imagine ordering a burger and they served the bun 20 mins before the patty. It’s mad.

Theunamedcat · Yesterday 19:38

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · Yesterday 18:54

Everybody is ignoring that.

Because they arnt "spicy"

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · Yesterday 20:03

Theunamedcat · Yesterday 19:38

Because they arnt "spicy"

So? The OP describes them as spiced and then mentions cumin, which isnt "spicy".

Shinyhappyapple · Yesterday 20:38

I agree with you OP. I would expect baked beans on a cafe menu to be bog standard out of a tin. And if they weren’t I would expect the cafe to state on the menu as it’s kind of a selling point. Home made baked beans. And I would expect them to cost more too.

ElectoralControversy · Yesterday 20:41

I live in a Home Counties market town and I can assure you that every cafe and restaurant serves beans from a tin...except the Lebanese place which calls them ful medames

If you're messing with the baked beans you need to specify what you're doing - cowboy, Boston, ful medames?

Apart from anything else I bloody hate tinned beans, leaking their bastard orange goop into my fry up, but I'd be happy to try a different style if I knew they were on offer

Calliopespa · Yesterday 21:13

PhaedraTwo · Yesterday 18:57

I don't think it it's at all odd to expect that a community café was selling home made baked beans.

I thought that was part of the vibe of community cafes.

Most people see it as a plus that it isn't just tipped straight from a can - well maybe not on here.

Nettie1964 · Yesterday 21:17

I think they should say the beans are spicy and homemade. You had a whole plate of food surely your child could have shared. Surely having toast calmed his hunger pangs couldn't you have just ordered something else for him. Sounds a bit non avent to me.

Gardenisablooming · Yesterday 21:23

What sort of beans do the Upper Tier of mners eat? Unicorn droppings?

JohnnyFedora · Yesterday 21:43

HoppingPavlova · Yesterday 15:18

No. I’ve never been served canned beans outside of home. Ever. My mum purchased tinned beans from the supermarket for emergency meals, and when I went to uni I would buy tinned beans at times and eat straight from the can, so I know what they taste like, but as an adult, or child I have never had them served to me otherwise.

You may never have been served them, bit you said you never been anywhere that has them, which blatantly isn't true.

SleepingStandingUp · Yesterday 21:48

Calliopespa · Yesterday 21:13

I thought that was part of the vibe of community cafes.

Most people see it as a plus that it isn't just tipped straight from a can - well maybe not on here.

I think it depends on where your community cafe is. a not for profit community cafe, I'd expect cheap and cheerful and easily replicable meals regardless of who was on shift.

but even if your community cafe is all home made baked beans and freshly made hummus with wild samphire all on freshly baked sourdough toast, you need to put a little bracket after baked beans to say home made, spicy.

Lordofthebantams · Yesterday 22:02

Maybe you need to expand the range of food he eats?

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