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AIBU to think USA has gone crazy - Karmelo Anthony is a murderer not a victim

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Neutralnames · Today 14:32

From what I have read, Karmelo Anthony (who is black African American) took a concealed knife to a track event. When it started raining he ran to another team's tent to shelter. He was told to leave by a white athlete called Austin Metcalfe. KA refused saying ' 'Touch me and see what happens', According to one account I read he was repeatedly told to leave and replied the same way each time. Austin Metcalfe then pushed KA to get him to leave and KA pulled out the knife and stabbed AM in the chest, killing him.

Apparently sections of America are outraged that KA has now been convicted of murder. Possible sentence range in America is 5 to 99 years for this offence and he got 35 years.

I don't understand how this is not murder. In UK law if you can run away you must, and he didn't. In UK law if you kill someone when you could have run, you will be tried for murder.

KA took a knife. He could have left (even if he thought it was a dick move to ask him to leave when it was raining - you can't murder people for being dickish about their gazebo) but chose to not to, escalating the situation with threatening language and then stabbed a young man in the chest.

I just think something has gone terribly wrong in USA society where this man is treated as a victim, not the person who he killed, and this case is regarded as an injustice against him. I hope the UK does not go down this route.

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SpudGunToo · Today 19:15

MyTwinklyMoose · Today 18:51

And Kyle Rittenhouse murdered two. What difference does make if he was being chased or not? The premise was the same; they both took weapons out and when someone pushed back they murdered them. Why would you ask if he was being chased at all? Why would it matter? They both went out armed and murdered, but you automatically came up with an excuse for the white one (whose first victim was alone and unarmed).

And to say ‘being right wing is fine/nutty left’ in the same sentence is so telling, no matter how many fake flappy ‘oh my goodnesses’ you do. This whistle is so low people over 100 can hear it.

He was acquitted of murder, so no, he did not murder anyone.

Neutralnames · Today 19:15

MyTwinklyMoose · Today 19:10

Okay, make assumptions about me all you want, but then you can’t shout when I make them about you. Only one side calls the left ‘nutty’ and says ‘being right wing is okay’ whilst pretending to be apolitical or centrist.

Yawn. It doesn’t matter how many times you say something, it doesn’t make it true. But lying about what your opponents say is a TM of the nutty side of the left 😁. Hope that helps 😂

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AmberTigerEyes · Today 19:16

It is my opinion that if the races had been reversed, Texas probably would have ruled it to be involuntary manslaughter rather than 1st degree premeditated and planned murder. This would have resulted in a much shorter sentence.

The protesters don’t believe KA is ‘the victim’ they are pointing out the negative racial bias against Black men that numerous sociological studies on the American justice system have uncovered.

SpudGunToo · Today 19:18

AmberTigerEyes · Today 19:16

It is my opinion that if the races had been reversed, Texas probably would have ruled it to be involuntary manslaughter rather than 1st degree premeditated and planned murder. This would have resulted in a much shorter sentence.

The protesters don’t believe KA is ‘the victim’ they are pointing out the negative racial bias against Black men that numerous sociological studies on the American justice system have uncovered.

Should the system let off a proportion of those guilty of murder to even things up a bit?

MissConductUS · Today 19:20

AmberTigerEyes · Today 19:16

It is my opinion that if the races had been reversed, Texas probably would have ruled it to be involuntary manslaughter rather than 1st degree premeditated and planned murder. This would have resulted in a much shorter sentence.

The protesters don’t believe KA is ‘the victim’ they are pointing out the negative racial bias against Black men that numerous sociological studies on the American justice system have uncovered.

Involuntary manslaughter requires a finding that the killing was unintentional. That clearly wasn’t the case in this instance.

Neutralnames · Today 19:21

AmberTigerEyes · Today 19:16

It is my opinion that if the races had been reversed, Texas probably would have ruled it to be involuntary manslaughter rather than 1st degree premeditated and planned murder. This would have resulted in a much shorter sentence.

The protesters don’t believe KA is ‘the victim’ they are pointing out the negative racial bias against Black men that numerous sociological studies on the American justice system have uncovered.

The protestors I have seen do think he was the victim. They may be extreme cases admittedly.

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MyTwinklyMoose · Today 19:22

Neutralnames · Today 19:14

KA wasn’t chased. He was asked to leave. It doesn’t matter how much you pretend this difference is irrelevant, it isn’t. It’s crucial. KA could have walked away. And nothing would have happened. If R was chased, then he was trying to get away, and the chaser prevented that. Obviously, I was not on the juries but based on that fact alone, you can see how that crucial fact could lead to different jury decisions.

Ah Okay, so chased by an unarmed
person = shoot them at close range, pushed by an unarmed person = just walk off.

Oh, and Rittenhouse had an all white jury bar one (which caused a huge controversy) and he has gone on to say some awful stuff.

Honestly, quit pretending.

AmberTigerEyes · Today 19:22

catspyjamas1 · Today 19:11

Oh, lynchings still happening? Wow. Who knew?!!

They’re serious you know. Lynchings still happen.
https://www.axios.com/2026/03/07/lynching-south-black-americans-suicide-report

TheseWordsAreMine · Today 19:23

It's out and out racism.

BLACK LIVES MATTER.

Neutralnames · Today 19:23

AmberTigerEyes · Today 19:16

It is my opinion that if the races had been reversed, Texas probably would have ruled it to be involuntary manslaughter rather than 1st degree premeditated and planned murder. This would have resulted in a much shorter sentence.

The protesters don’t believe KA is ‘the victim’ they are pointing out the negative racial bias against Black men that numerous sociological studies on the American justice system have uncovered.

And I think that if you want to make a case of negative racial bias, forming that around a man who is clearly guilty of unprovoked murder is not a good tactic.

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catspyjamas1 · Today 19:25

MyTwinklyMoose · Today 19:09

Yes, he chased him and grabbed his gun. That’s still an alone and unarmed man. In this case, the victim pushed KA away and shouted at him.

The two are very similar, two armed men went out looking for trouble and When someone, unarmed, stood up to them, they murdered them, except one was convicted of murder and one was not, when they BOTH should have been. Rittenhouse being let off is me of the reasons for the unrest, so it’s important to understand the similarities.

I think what you are missing is the environment and context of the time.... And now. If an unarmed man chased me and grabbed my gun, I'd shoot. I have no idea who this man is, no idea if he has a knife, no idea if he has a concealed weapon etc. etc. I know this is an alien concept to to British people but for people, like me, that come from countries where guns are "normal", we'd shoot.

And to be clear, the unreset was happening before Rittenhouse turned up. That's why he was there. Kenosha was burning after Jacob Blake pulled a knife on armed police. It's really simple: if you live in a country with armed police and they engage you, you comply with orders.

Neutralnames · Today 19:26

MyTwinklyMoose · Today 19:22

Ah Okay, so chased by an unarmed
person = shoot them at close range, pushed by an unarmed person = just walk off.

Oh, and Rittenhouse had an all white jury bar one (which caused a huge controversy) and he has gone on to say some awful stuff.

Honestly, quit pretending.

Yes you’ve got it. Just walk off.

Genuinely confused why you think this is pretending anything.

Your ideological capture is off the scale that you actually think ‘got it, just walk off’ is mocking my position. Genuinely bizarre.

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catspyjamas1 · Today 19:26

TheseWordsAreMine · Today 19:23

It's out and out racism.

BLACK LIVES MATTER.

Welcome to the trolls!

PistolPacker · Today 19:28

TheseWordsAreMine · Today 19:23

It's out and out racism.

BLACK LIVES MATTER.

What is racism?

Doubledutchbuss · Today 19:28

PolkaDotPorridge · Today 16:24

It was an all white jury. That was unfair. The dead man was a bully. Below is a good article on it written by Dr Stacey Patton.

https://share.google/dvPS0FPvFf3la8cuO

Edited

It was not all white - it was a mix of white, Asian, Middle Eastern and Hispanic.

there is no evidence he was a bully and since when did bullying equate to deserving death even if he was

MyTwinklyMoose · Today 19:29

catspyjamas1 · Today 19:25

I think what you are missing is the environment and context of the time.... And now. If an unarmed man chased me and grabbed my gun, I'd shoot. I have no idea who this man is, no idea if he has a knife, no idea if he has a concealed weapon etc. etc. I know this is an alien concept to to British people but for people, like me, that come from countries where guns are "normal", we'd shoot.

And to be clear, the unreset was happening before Rittenhouse turned up. That's why he was there. Kenosha was burning after Jacob Blake pulled a knife on armed police. It's really simple: if you live in a country with armed police and they engage you, you comply with orders.

But you could easily say the same about KA’s defence ‘some guy punched him, he didn’t know if he had a knife or gun, or if he was going to hit him, so he stabbed him’. Sorry, but you can’t use that defence for one and let him get off and then condemn the other. They BOTH should have been convicted. Instead the white man who cried gets hailed as a hero and the black man is jailed. You have to be able to admit there is a difference here? They both should have been done for murder.

Doubledutchbuss · Today 19:31

MyTwinklyMoose · Today 19:29

But you could easily say the same about KA’s defence ‘some guy punched him, he didn’t know if he had a knife or gun, or if he was going to hit him, so he stabbed him’. Sorry, but you can’t use that defence for one and let him get off and then condemn the other. They BOTH should have been convicted. Instead the white man who cried gets hailed as a hero and the black man is jailed. You have to be able to admit there is a difference here? They both should have been done for murder.

No one punched him.

catspyjamas1 · Today 19:31

AmberTigerEyes · Today 19:22

They’re serious you know. Lynchings still happen.
https://www.axios.com/2026/03/07/lynching-south-black-americans-suicide-report

Great- no one can read the article. But what the first two lines that are visible says that black men commit suicide and are involved in accidents = lynching. I'd hazard a guess that in the UK, men make up the bulk of suicides, of all races, and many deaths are noted by the coroner as accidental. This is not evidence of lynchings of black men in the US in 2026 😂

When you have some serious evidence for lynchings of black men in the US in the last few years, please do come back to me. Bye, troll.

Givemeachaitealatte · Today 19:31

I think he should have been convicted for his crime and it is murder. However, if you look at the case of Kyle Rittenhouse or Lucy Harrison's father, both murdered people and are not in prison, they claimed self defense or 'accidental misfire' and were acquitted or not even charged. Instances like this are rife in America, where white men are not culpable but black boys and men are.

I'm not saying his supporters are right, I think they are totally wrong but neither were Kyle Rittenhouse' and he got acquitted.

CheerfulYank · Today 19:32

Chimneyissues · Today 19:10

Apparently his family spent all the money raised for his defence on themselves and left him with the public defender.

That’s not true. His attorney is Mike Howard, who hasn’t worked as a public defender in over 15 years. He’s a private attorney.

MyTwinklyMoose · Today 19:33

Neutralnames · Today 19:26

Yes you’ve got it. Just walk off.

Genuinely confused why you think this is pretending anything.

Your ideological capture is off the scale that you actually think ‘got it, just walk off’ is mocking my position. Genuinely bizarre.

You don’t know anything about my ideology at all, you’re simply making assumptions because I am calling you out on your points.
I have said, repeatedly, that they both should have been convicted of murder and jailed.

catspyjamas1 · Today 19:34

Givemeachaitealatte · Today 19:31

I think he should have been convicted for his crime and it is murder. However, if you look at the case of Kyle Rittenhouse or Lucy Harrison's father, both murdered people and are not in prison, they claimed self defense or 'accidental misfire' and were acquitted or not even charged. Instances like this are rife in America, where white men are not culpable but black boys and men are.

I'm not saying his supporters are right, I think they are totally wrong but neither were Kyle Rittenhouse' and he got acquitted.

Your understanding of the Rittenshouse case is incorrect. HTH.

MyTwinklyMoose · Today 19:34

Doubledutchbuss · Today 19:31

No one punched him.

I meant pushed, typo. Point still stands

Givemeachaitealatte · Today 19:35

catspyjamas1 · Today 19:34

Your understanding of the Rittenshouse case is incorrect. HTH.

He did murder people and he was acquitted - not sure what I got wrong there?

AmberTigerEyes · Today 19:35

Neutralnames · Today 19:23

And I think that if you want to make a case of negative racial bias, forming that around a man who is clearly guilty of unprovoked murder is not a good tactic.

I thought it was common knowledge as it has been widely written about and acknowledged within Sociological circles for decades. The case has been proven. The UK also has a negative racial bias against Black men, although to a lesser extreme degree.

University students at Harvard know it, so why don’t you? You just didn’t bother to read about the justice system before forming an opinion on a conviction being protested as unduly harsh due to a proven negative racial bias?
https://studentreview.hks.harvard.edu/justice-for-a-few-racial-disparity-in-the-criminal-justice-system-of-the-united-states/

Justice for...a Few: Racial Disparity in the Criminal Justice System of the United States - HKS Student Policy Review

We need a system that protects minorities from being victims of unpunished crime and from criminalization. We must become a society that no longer takes skin color as a reason to justify the unjustifiable.

https://studentreview.hks.harvard.edu/justice-for-a-few-racial-disparity-in-the-criminal-justice-system-of-the-united-states/

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