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AIBU to think USA has gone crazy - Karmelo Anthony is a murderer not a victim

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Neutralnames · Today 14:32

From what I have read, Karmelo Anthony (who is black African American) took a concealed knife to a track event. When it started raining he ran to another team's tent to shelter. He was told to leave by a white athlete called Austin Metcalfe. KA refused saying ' 'Touch me and see what happens', According to one account I read he was repeatedly told to leave and replied the same way each time. Austin Metcalfe then pushed KA to get him to leave and KA pulled out the knife and stabbed AM in the chest, killing him.

Apparently sections of America are outraged that KA has now been convicted of murder. Possible sentence range in America is 5 to 99 years for this offence and he got 35 years.

I don't understand how this is not murder. In UK law if you can run away you must, and he didn't. In UK law if you kill someone when you could have run, you will be tried for murder.

KA took a knife. He could have left (even if he thought it was a dick move to ask him to leave when it was raining - you can't murder people for being dickish about their gazebo) but chose to not to, escalating the situation with threatening language and then stabbed a young man in the chest.

I just think something has gone terribly wrong in USA society where this man is treated as a victim, not the person who he killed, and this case is regarded as an injustice against him. I hope the UK does not go down this route.

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Neutralnames · Today 16:44

LilacOpal · Today 16:39

The VAST majority of Americans don't know/care about this case, or if they do, think Karmelo Anthony deserved his sentence. You must be stumbling into some online black supremacist echo chambers and thinking they are more significant than they are. We've got other shit to worry about ... this is a nothing burger.

Edited

I am glad to hear it.

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TomatoSandwiches · Today 16:46

Neutralnames · Today 16:25

Bloody hell. The jury found him guilty.

This thread is about social cultures. Not legal systems.

If you want to talk about cultures then lets talk about the fact that black people in America still get lynched and killed for simply existing....

You cannot discuss and dismiss the self defence aspect without firstly aknowledging the long term historical rascist culture black people and especially black males have to put up with, doubly so in a state like Texas.

This situation did not happen in a vacuum and people shouldn't be putting their hands on someone, that was very much a white male privelge thing to do.

SerendipityJane · Today 16:49

araiwa · Today 15:09

I don't understand any relevance of UK law to an event on a different continent

Given that the US feels qualified to comment on UK legal issues, what's sauce for the goose etc ?

I'm waiting to see what this has to do with parenting. I am sure someone can swing it back to that.

PistolPacker · Today 16:49

This situation did not happen in a vacuum and people shouldn't be putting their hands on someone, that was very much a white male privelge thing to do.

JFC 🙄

The response to a hand on a shoulder should never be a knife in the chest. White male privilege ffs

TemperanceWest · Today 16:49

Neutralnames · Today 15:31

Read my last paragraph again and you will see I am talking about the culture in USA around this, and not wanting the UK to become like this, rather than not wanting UK law over here.

Why and how do you envisage that happening?

coulditbeme2323 · Today 16:52

Only problem was it was only 35 years.

Scum, and so are his parents.

Neutralnames · Today 16:53

TomatoSandwiches · Today 16:46

If you want to talk about cultures then lets talk about the fact that black people in America still get lynched and killed for simply existing....

You cannot discuss and dismiss the self defence aspect without firstly aknowledging the long term historical rascist culture black people and especially black males have to put up with, doubly so in a state like Texas.

This situation did not happen in a vacuum and people shouldn't be putting their hands on someone, that was very much a white male privelge thing to do.

As an unusually small woman, I know all about the feeling of physical vulnerability. I still don't think I am justified in stabbing someone in the chest who pushes me. Its crazy to think I could be justified in doing that.

There was clearly no likelihood that the young white man at the team track was going to lynch this black man. He just wanted him out of their team gazebo. And KA was refusing and and challenging him to ' make me move and see what happens.'

Your line of thinking may well have been what KA was fed all his life which made him feel he was justified in stabbing someone for a really minor event. That thinking served no-one.

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ChipswithMayonnaise · Today 16:55

We are talking politics, not zumba?
ETA this is in response to the right! left! centre! anything goes

Neutralnames · Today 16:55

TemperanceWest · Today 16:49

Why and how do you envisage that happening?

Umm, we have lots of American cultural imports over here. Have you not noticed that? American culture has a big influence.

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ChipswithMayonnaise · Today 16:57

Neutralnames · Today 16:55

Umm, we have lots of American cultural imports over here. Have you not noticed that? American culture has a big influence.

Your thread is manifesting it for sure...

MissConductUS · Today 16:58

steff13 · Today 15:35

The vast majority of Americans agree he's a murderer. It's the vocal minority that disagrees.

Yank here. This is exactly correct. It only took the jury three hours to convict him.

SerendipityJane · Today 16:58

Neutralnames · Today 16:55

Umm, we have lots of American cultural imports over here. Have you not noticed that? American culture has a big influence.

The culture of tax dodging certainly has ...

TemperanceWest · Today 17:00

Neutralnames · Today 16:55

Umm, we have lots of American cultural imports over here. Have you not noticed that? American culture has a big influence.

No need to be rude. I politely asked a question.

That isn't really an answer to my "why and how"question. There are plenty of elements of American culture that haven't been adopted in the UK. What exactly is it that you fear is going to happen in the UK?

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · Today 17:00

From what I can glean it seems that those who share the murderer’s skin colour are outraged off the back of perceived racism and equality. The murderer claimed self defence as he thought a shove was equivalent to a knife in the heart. The all white jury failed to agree that being pushed was similar to a bladed weapon being plugged into a chest and people started shouting.

TemperanceWest · Today 17:01

SerendipityJane · Today 16:58

The culture of tax dodging certainly has ...

And populism.

ChipswithMayonnaise · Today 17:02

tl;dr
Violent non-white people will Get Away with Bad Things. Be Very Afraid.

Whammyammy · Today 17:03

Killed someone with a knife= murderer.
2 families ripped apart.

CrossPurposes · Today 17:03

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · Today 17:00

From what I can glean it seems that those who share the murderer’s skin colour are outraged off the back of perceived racism and equality. The murderer claimed self defence as he thought a shove was equivalent to a knife in the heart. The all white jury failed to agree that being pushed was similar to a bladed weapon being plugged into a chest and people started shouting.

It was not an all white jury! There were no black people on it which is not the same.

Neutralnames · Today 17:04

TemperanceWest · Today 17:00

No need to be rude. I politely asked a question.

That isn't really an answer to my "why and how"question. There are plenty of elements of American culture that haven't been adopted in the UK. What exactly is it that you fear is going to happen in the UK?

That we are going the way of increased racial division, and I think there are plenty of signs of that coming from both sides of the political spectrum. We should aim for a society where people are judged on their actions not their race.

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ChipswithMayonnaise · Today 17:06

Okay, anti-EDI anti-equity schtick

Feetballislife · Today 17:09

araiwa · Today 15:09

I don't understand any relevance of UK law to an event on a different continent

This. And Americans can carry weapons. It’s why the whole country is so bloody dangerous.

SerendipityJane · Today 17:35

Feetballislife · Today 17:09

This. And Americans can carry weapons. It’s why the whole country is so bloody dangerous.

Not as dangerous as London, apparently. (©JD Vance)

chatgptmeup · Today 17:36

I'm a Brit in America, and I feel horrified for the poor family of the dead boy. If you bring a knife it is premeditated in my opinion. Maybe there is more to it, I haven't followed the case. I do feel bad that a 17 year old is going to prison for 35 years. The whole situation is sad, but he did something wrong, and he should serve the time. The family of the deceased deserves that. There is misinformation here, I've seen instagrams saying that the full jury was white, which is absolutely not true. Certain people will use this to try to stir up racial tensions for their own benefit.

SpidersAreShitheads · Today 17:40

Neutralnames · Today 16:43

This made me laugh! There is nothing wrong with being right wing. I know the nutty side of the Left think there is, but really there is not.

I'm not left or right - I'm apolitical. There is nothing wrong with being left or right or centre.

There is something wrong with ideological, unevidenced ideas which are harmful.

You do seem particularly keen to criticise the left though - both on this and other posts. I also seem to recall you being keen to chip in on a post criticising Muslim culture too.

I haven't seen you criticising right wing politics though. And now we have this post/your comments which are more than a tad goady in parts.

I rather suspect you're not as apolitical as you seem to think.

Overtheatlantic · Today 17:41

EasternStandard · Today 16:37

Why? 86% say she’s not being unreasonable

Because she keeps having to explain what it’s about and what it isn’t about. And she’s arrogant.