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Aibu to think that clean eating isn’t that bad?

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arethereanyleftatall · Today 09:36

DD, 17, only eats ‘clean’. She eats like this because she says she feels much better on it, and for her that’s a priority above all else. And, to be fair to her, she’s thriving. Doing well at alevels, volunteering, working, and generally a wonderfully bright and joyous person to be around. This is in stark contrast to the gcse years with school refusal, period pains, excessive sleeping, no homework completed ever.
if it’s relevant, and so as not to drip feed, she ticks every adhd box at the top, but not diagnosed although we’re 4 years in now on the nhs list, and she’s got through the first few stages, and probably autism, but is able to mask so much, that that isn’t noticeable to the outside world.
daily menu for her would be steak, eggs, salmon, about 4 different fruits/veg, honey, all organic, and meat/fish/eggs only cooked in a special non Teflon pan with tallow. Drinks are filtered water only, and a hot drink with ginger, lemon.
I didn’t think this was too bad, expensive yes but I can afford it, but many of her peers are eating junk on the daily, and drinking alcohol, so compared to that, I feel like she’s ok. Yes, I know there’s lots in between that and balance would be key but I can’t force any near adult to eat, and certainly not DD for whom telling her what to do has the exact opposite effect.
anyway. On here last night, i discovered there’s a diagnosis for this - orthorexia, and it scared me. Oh, one last thing, it doesn’t stop her eating out socially, she’ll order steak and chips and I’ll eat her chips.

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ChristmasRager · Today 21:53

I don’t think it sounds bad - you feel great for clean eating and ultimately, that’s the very best way to fell so why would she want to throw that away now she’s in this great habit? Others might find it annoying - some out of insecurity for their own habits I would say - but ultimately, each to their own.

TheWineoftheChicken · Today 21:57

ChristmasRager · Today 21:53

I don’t think it sounds bad - you feel great for clean eating and ultimately, that’s the very best way to fell so why would she want to throw that away now she’s in this great habit? Others might find it annoying - some out of insecurity for their own habits I would say - but ultimately, each to their own.

What’s ‘dirty eating’, just out of interest?

NiftyGreenBiscuit · Today 22:20

You must be absolutely loaded to fund this diet of hers.

TransportNerd · Today 22:34

TheWineoftheChicken · Today 21:57

What’s ‘dirty eating’, just out of interest?

The concept of any foods having a "moral" value as such gets extremely dodgy. We all have different tastes and preferences, and that's fine, but convincing yourself that there's a moral superiority to your diet is an obnoxious and potentially quite dangerous road to go down.

arethereanyleftatall · Today 22:41

NiftyGreenBiscuit · Today 22:20

You must be absolutely loaded to fund this diet of hers.

I can’t decide if it’s better that I can or if I couldn’t. If I couldn’t fund steak and raspberries, would she just have chosen a different cheaper few items.

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arethereanyleftatall · Today 22:43

I’m sorry to have used the word clean. I should probably have gone with ‘single ingredient foods’. Clean isn’t the word DD uses generally, although I did think it was the standard word for single ingredient food.

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Gwenhwyfar · Today 22:57

TransportNerd · Today 21:38

Exactly, if your diet is generally good, then the odd KFC, Maccy D's or microwave meal is going to be completely harmless. Skipping meals because nothing "good" enough is available is a very, very bad sign.

I think not being able to eat socially is a bigger problem.

TransportNerd · Today 23:01

Gwenhwyfar · Today 22:57

I think not being able to eat socially is a bigger problem.

Yeah, I'd consider that an enormous problem. I'll quite happily eat food I otherwise wouldn't in order to socialise.

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