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AIBU to feel deeply unsettled by the Southampton protest scenes?

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HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 19:02

Southampton protest against police, huge crowd, Tommy Robinson whipping everyone into a frenzy and saying "this IS about race"

Other speakers declaring that England is a Christian country. The Lords Prayer chanted by every speaker. The leader of UKIP saying he will deport all migrants and make government Christian. The leaders of the protest saying they are being pushed by the police cordon, while the camera angle shows the police haven't moved. The leaders of the protest mocking the female police officer who are taking over a shift from another police officer in the cordon "They're replacing all the men with women!"

This is awful. It feels like the start of civil war. Maybe human beings just aren't supposed to go decades without a fight.

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Gwenna · Yesterday 20:19

Wolverine23 · Yesterday 20:14

Yes but what’s to come will be much worse if people don’t respect the wishes of Henry’s family who made a heartbreaking statement. Many of those protesting will not be doing it for Henry nor concerned about what you just wrote but because that are waiting to cause trouble which will lead to more innocent lives being taken.

Still shouldn’t be a reason to stay quiet about important things. There will always be emotional vampires, but most people who are moved to protest against injustice are not.

frindolion · Yesterday 20:20

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 20:19

They've started attacking the riot police, they are pushing the riot police back, all on a normal residential street. There's glass being thrown. I'm amazed the YouTuber is still streaming this

You are loving this yeah?

Slow 👏to you and your thread.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 20:20

Jellox · Yesterday 20:19

How do these protests come anywhere close to the BLM protests??

No one should be giving that comparison and there’s no need to even mention it when discussing this topic.

It’s like comparing the protests after Sarah Everards death to the BLMs protests - it has absolutely no connection.

The white police officers weren’t heavier handed or delayed medical treatment because they were systematically racist to white people.

Surely you can see the difference in protesting against systemic corruption towards black people or violence against women vs one poor young man being allowed to die??

Half of these people protesting do not even understand why they’re doing it or what changes they’re asking for.

Your very post is part of the problem.

suburburban · Yesterday 20:21

HN seemed to be on his own yet there were 2 brothers at least with one whinging about a supposed scratch on his eyebrow

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 20:21

frindolion · Yesterday 20:20

You are loving this yeah?

Slow 👏to you and your thread.

I'm horrified. My mum lives in Southampton and I'm scared.

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VanGoSunflowers · Yesterday 20:21

Forrdige · Yesterday 19:22

I don’t care if people protest at a police station. As long as they don’t try to demonise Sikh people. This was one unhinged family, and part of the reason the police believe their lies is probably because most Sikhs do have such a good standing in society.

Yes I agree. There are evil people from all walks of life. The killer made it about race though.

youalright · Yesterday 20:21

blubberyboo · Yesterday 20:19

No! they arrested him, forced him to sit up and handcuffed him behind his back.

can you imagine the absolute pain he must’ve felt when they forced him to do that?

They contributed to his pain and suffering

Then when he said he couldn't breath and had been stabbed they laid him onto his side checked for stab wounds and called an ambulance. Can you imagine how hard it is to make a split second decision when every piece of information you was given up to that point was wrong.

StandFirm · Yesterday 20:21

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 19:02

Southampton protest against police, huge crowd, Tommy Robinson whipping everyone into a frenzy and saying "this IS about race"

Other speakers declaring that England is a Christian country. The Lords Prayer chanted by every speaker. The leader of UKIP saying he will deport all migrants and make government Christian. The leaders of the protest saying they are being pushed by the police cordon, while the camera angle shows the police haven't moved. The leaders of the protest mocking the female police officer who are taking over a shift from another police officer in the cordon "They're replacing all the men with women!"

This is awful. It feels like the start of civil war. Maybe human beings just aren't supposed to go decades without a fight.

They're sadly the same thugs that have been pushing for this shit here and in the US. They see this tragic death as the perfect opportunity to wreak havoc. Very depressing and morally bankrupt.

frindolion · Yesterday 20:22

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 20:21

I'm horrified. My mum lives in Southampton and I'm scared.

🙄

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 20:22

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 20:16

See the thing is people still remember when George Floyd’s death was used to stir up hatred against white people including in this country where it didn’t even happen. Over a year straight of being told we’re all implicitly evil and privileged and we all descend from plantation and slave owners even though 99% of us descended from farmers who died at 40. I mean obviously we’ve been getting small doses of this shit for a few decades now but it really ramped up then. You remember Starmer taking a knee for Floyd an American citizen? And the English football team taking the knee for an American citizen. World Cup in a few weeks do you think they’ll do the same for a British teenager?

Anyway did you complain about Floyd’s death being used to create division or were you posting black squares on your Facebook page in 2020? I think I can guess

👏 👏 👏

Imaginingdragonsagain · Yesterday 20:22

Broccolish · Yesterday 19:07

I feel far more unsettled as a parent of white young adults in a country where police are more concerned about being called racist than protecting people against violence.

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Me too

Dollymylove · Yesterday 20:22

shuggles · Yesterday 19:50

@HopelessPessimist This is the knee-jerk response that happens whenever you have a government that is too lazy to secure borders, and prioritises nonsense like "hate speech" over real crime.

Stupid policies breed extremists.

If we had a common-sense country with common-sense laws, then the extremism you are currently seeing would still be confined to a tiny minority, the way it was a few decades ago.

👏👏👏👏

Pearshapedpear · Yesterday 20:22

Broccolish · Yesterday 19:07

I feel far more unsettled as a parent of white young adults in a country where police are more concerned about being called racist than protecting people against violence.

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This

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 20:22

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 20:16

See the thing is people still remember when George Floyd’s death was used to stir up hatred against white people including in this country where it didn’t even happen. Over a year straight of being told we’re all implicitly evil and privileged and we all descend from plantation and slave owners even though 99% of us descended from farmers who died at 40. I mean obviously we’ve been getting small doses of this shit for a few decades now but it really ramped up then. You remember Starmer taking a knee for Floyd an American citizen? And the English football team taking the knee for an American citizen. World Cup in a few weeks do you think they’ll do the same for a British teenager?

Anyway did you complain about Floyd’s death being used to create division or were you posting black squares on your Facebook page in 2020? I think I can guess

No need to guess.

My one post on the subject at the time was actually quite similar to what Kemi Badenoch has said today.

”Black lives mattering doesn’t mean that white lives don’t. This isn’t a pie that you’re sharing. I don’t give a shit if you’re black, white or purple - nobody deserves to be murdered by the police in the street.”

I stand by that. Henry Novak being white does not make him deserving of being ignored when he said he had been stabbed. It wouldn’t have made him deserving of it if he’d been any other colour either, because nobody deserves that.

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 20:23

There is a pervasive and very nasty narrative that has got a hold in public life.

On a level extremely trivial compared to this murder, but upsetting nonetheless, ds went to a job interview at an arts organisation. At its conclusion, the HR woman said, “Frankly the last person we’re going to employ is a white middle-class male.” Ds, being a nervous nerd, slunk out, but felt gutted, as if he were a criminal.

I don’t hold with any antagonism towards Sikhs (ds’s best friend is a Sikh - they are imo fine people) - the murderer and his family were just evil (and honestly I don’t think really woke people care too much for Sikhs as they’re not victim-y enough or visible) - BUT it’s this general EDI nonsense that has led to the police making a terrible mistake.

A freedom of information request indicated just how many jobs there are in this field and how many millions are spent on what resulted in Henry Nowak’s miserable treatment.

TrampleOnTheRoses · Yesterday 20:23

Goatsarebest · Yesterday 19:49

Exactly what was said about those wanting brexit, those wanting Trump as a leader, and those wanting Reform to run the UK. Yet they keep winning votes and all you do is insult them from a smug position of moral superiority. You, and your like, are part of the problem because you think being morally right and judgemental is all you have to do.
Why not cut the insults and try and use your superior intellectual capacity to understand why Britain has moved from one of the most tolerant societies on the planet to these kind of events in less than a generation. The vast majority of people who support this kind of extreme activity or even parties like Reform wouldn't have dreamed that they would be supporting them 10 or 20 years ago. They have been labelled and ignored, which history tells us is exactly how extreme ideology can gain traction.

You're doing the labelling, which is just what the extremist want.

I think what @PolkaDotPorridge is trying to say is that the protesters are white working class people and therefore should be ignored.

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 20:23

The white police officers weren’t heavier handed or delayed medical treatment because they were systematically racist to white people.

But that's exactly what they were. They automatically believed the non-white person who had said the magic r-word, over the stabbed white boy.

And unlike Floyd, he wasn't a fentanyl addict with a criminal record, either.

Serencwtch · Yesterday 20:24

youalright · Yesterday 19:30

So a couple of officers make a mistake and 100s of other officers should get attacked and assaulted for it because thats exactly what's going to happen. If one of your colleagues made a mistake would you be OK with 1000s of people to come after you for it

It was a bit more than a 'mistake'

If your child lost their life would you say 'no problem we all make mistakes'

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 20:24

frindolion · Yesterday 20:22

🙄

Luckily nowhere near this, but I'm imagining being a resident in that street. I've never been at a protest so I suppose it's quite shocking to see this. I suppise the closest would be the London riots which I saw on TV but still felt distant from me.

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JHound · Yesterday 20:24

Teethyblinders · Yesterday 20:16

See the thing is people still remember when George Floyd’s death was used to stir up hatred against white people including in this country where it didn’t even happen. Over a year straight of being told we’re all implicitly evil and privileged and we all descend from plantation and slave owners even though 99% of us descended from farmers who died at 40. I mean obviously we’ve been getting small doses of this shit for a few decades now but it really ramped up then. You remember Starmer taking a knee for Floyd an American citizen? And the English football team taking the knee for an American citizen. World Cup in a few weeks do you think they’ll do the same for a British teenager?

Anyway did you complain about Floyd’s death being used to create division or were you posting black squares on your Facebook page in 2020? I think I can guess

George Floyd’s death was NOT used to stir up hatred towards white people. That’s a complete. It was used to stir anger at inaction and failure to properly investigate claims of police brutality and police killings. If you think that’s “hatred towards white people” I don’t know what to say except to ask why you associate police killings with white people.

Wolverine23 · Yesterday 20:25

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 19:58

You feel deeply unsettled. Bless. Take a moment to think how Henry Nowak's parents are feeling right now. A dog whistle thread if ever I saw one.

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Did you listen to his families statement?it’s very unsettling but causing more violence won’t be the answer. I feel so bad for that poor lad and his family but I don’t believe tommy Robinson and his mob really care about it.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 20:25

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 20:23

There is a pervasive and very nasty narrative that has got a hold in public life.

On a level extremely trivial compared to this murder, but upsetting nonetheless, ds went to a job interview at an arts organisation. At its conclusion, the HR woman said, “Frankly the last person we’re going to employ is a white middle-class male.” Ds, being a nervous nerd, slunk out, but felt gutted, as if he were a criminal.

I don’t hold with any antagonism towards Sikhs (ds’s best friend is a Sikh - they are imo fine people) - the murderer and his family were just evil (and honestly I don’t think really woke people care too much for Sikhs as they’re not victim-y enough or visible) - BUT it’s this general EDI nonsense that has led to the police making a terrible mistake.

A freedom of information request indicated just how many jobs there are in this field and how many millions are spent on what resulted in Henry Nowak’s miserable treatment.

This is the turning point now for DEI to be scrutinised. It's been a long time coming.

ExitPursuedByABare · Yesterday 20:25

I’m as peace loving as they come, but part of me is secretly glad that riots are taking place about this. After all the taking the knee shite we had to witness after George Floyds’s death I’m pleased the great unwashed have been moved to action.

youalright · Yesterday 20:25

Serencwtch · Yesterday 20:24

It was a bit more than a 'mistake'

If your child lost their life would you say 'no problem we all make mistakes'

No id be mad at the murderer they already made it clear Henry couldn't of been saved no matter what anyone did

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 20:25

Wolverine23 · Yesterday 20:25

Did you listen to his families statement?it’s very unsettling but causing more violence won’t be the answer. I feel so bad for that poor lad and his family but I don’t believe tommy Robinson and his mob really care about it.

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Yes I did.

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