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AIBU to feel deeply unsettled by the Southampton protest scenes?

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HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 19:02

Southampton protest against police, huge crowd, Tommy Robinson whipping everyone into a frenzy and saying "this IS about race"

Other speakers declaring that England is a Christian country. The Lords Prayer chanted by every speaker. The leader of UKIP saying he will deport all migrants and make government Christian. The leaders of the protest saying they are being pushed by the police cordon, while the camera angle shows the police haven't moved. The leaders of the protest mocking the female police officer who are taking over a shift from another police officer in the cordon "They're replacing all the men with women!"

This is awful. It feels like the start of civil war. Maybe human beings just aren't supposed to go decades without a fight.

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Skinnysaluki · Yesterday 23:17

womendeserveequalhumanrights · Yesterday 23:12

And there are thousands and thousands of girl children raped and labelled as it being their own fault (they were CHILDREN) whilst the police looked the other way (at best, there are reports they actively enabled the child abuse). And still no inquiry by this Government.

There is a pattern here.

There is a pattern indeed- a pattern of young women being abused by men of every race and nationality every single day, and of people only frothing on about it when the abusers are not white

Dollymylove · Yesterday 23:18

Paul2023 · Yesterday 23:16

Im usually quite pro police but I actually hope all three of these police officers lose their jobs and face possible prosecution..

Surely they can’t continue their jobs as police officers? One has already resigned , maybe to not face justice ?

They can still be compelled to attend the inquiry and give an account of their behaviour

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 23:19

Grammarnut · Yesterday 23:12

The concentration camps of the Boer war were intended to isolate a group of people from engaging in guerilla warfare. That disease and death stalked the camps was to some extend the fault of the Afrikaners who refused to use latrines dug by the British, since they were used to going out to the veldt to relieve themselves - a cultural problem the British could do little about. The Afrikaners invented apartheid - not that this is particularly relevent but it does show that those who are oppressed can also be oppressors and that the victim/oppressor narrative of identity politics is bullshit.
Re recent genocides, the victims are mostly Christian and Christianity is the most persecuted religion. The most recent genocides, of course, are that of Oct 7th 2023, carried out by Hamas and Gazan civilians on Jews, and the atrocities being perpetrated in Sudan, which include mass rape.

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Without wanting to derail the thread further, I do think those camps were a crime against humanity, particulaly as the guerilla warfare wasn't unjustified, and they killed as many again non-white victims as they did Afrikaners (estimates 14K to 20K)... but all that being said, it wasn't done because they were of a particular Christian faith, it was done to win a confict.

Completely agree that Christians are now almost exclusively the victims of genocides, or other mass killings that are still horrendous even if they don't meet the legal definition of genocide.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 23:19

womendeserveequalhumanrights · Yesterday 23:12

And there are thousands and thousands of girl children raped and labelled as it being their own fault (they were CHILDREN) whilst the police looked the other way (at best, there are reports they actively enabled the child abuse). And still no inquiry by this Government.

There is a pattern here.

There certainly is a pattern. When you've got offensive words being prioritised more than rapes and stabbings, you know the country is screwed. A hierarchy of crimes being determined by skin colour has changed from Stephen Lawrence's murder to knee jerk policies and policing which have done nothing to address institutional racism. Instead it's had the effect of shooting fish in a barrel. Consecutive governments have failed to redress this balance - Theresa May getting rid of water cannons, being soft on crime with stop and search. It's all one big political mess. There's no strategy or direction. It's just race race race.

Grammarnut · Yesterday 23:19

idkbroidk · Yesterday 23:08

this is ridiculous. i'm pro palestine and a lot of my friends and family are, and none of us have any issue with jewish people at all!!! in fact, there are multiple jewish people i've met at pro-palestine marches - including incredible holocaust survivor Stephen Kapos. educate yourself and follow some organisations like Jewish Voice for Peace and Rabbis for Ceasefire.

I have educated myself and for that reason I stand with Israel. Telling people to 'educate themselves' is a short-cut to end an argument the speaker can't sustain.

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · Yesterday 23:20

NeuroticGingerCat · Yesterday 23:10

Fair enough, I appreciate your response and am glad that I agree with some of what you've written
(disagree on Palestine- Oct 7th was pure animal barbarity- Israel absolutely has a right to obliterate Hamas -a group that explicitly wants to kill every last Jew- every attempt is made by the Israelis to preserve civilian life- notwithstanding that it is a war situation- though that is difficult when Hamas uses its own people as human shields- but that is on Hamas, not Israel)
But, I do appreciate what you're saying re feeling unsettled and I apologise if I was rude to you- it's just that I fully understand why people are so angry-
There may well be eruptions of violence from the disenfranchised members of the working class- it's worrying but feels like a powder keg
I place the blame firmly at Keir Starmer et al's door.

Edited to add- sorry but I also disagree re nationalism being bad- it's only bad if you're English- other countries seem to be allowed it, even Scotland and Wales! I guess you mean far right type of thing but this is another issue- the far right is far less threatening than the far left- the latter have the media and political classes on board. And "Islamophobia" is in no way comparable to the Jew-hate currently in this country. In fact I'm pretty scared of Islam, it doesn't have the best track record. This doesn't mean I hate Muslims- that would be bad, but, yeah pretty scared of Islam.

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"every attempt is made by the Israelis to preserve civilian life"

I don't wish to derail the thread but simply cannot fathom how people still believe this.

MsJinks · Yesterday 23:21

womendeserveequalhumanrights · Yesterday 23:12

And there are thousands and thousands of girl children raped and labelled as it being their own fault (they were CHILDREN) whilst the police looked the other way (at best, there are reports they actively enabled the child abuse). And still no inquiry by this Government.

There is a pattern here.

There is an enquiry though - this was announced in December - to be headed by Baroness Longfield.

I say there is one - there have been several and the last one published recommendations on 2020 that the Tories didn’t follow up.

OpheliaWasntMad · Yesterday 23:23

MsJinks · Yesterday 23:16

Sub conscious bias is a thing - so it may apply here, it may be a host of reasons built up in the officers’ heads over time or within that week. As someone said upthread it’s generally medically recognised that if you are talking you can breathe ok - wrong here. Police may have heard 20 plus other people this week saying they can’t breathe whilst being cuffed to try avoid the cuffing etc etc.

This bias also is relevant in the higher number of arrests, and searches, of young black people.

It can’t be used here to prove racism to whites or woke police culture - last thing cops are mainly accused of isn’t it - woke culture - the WhatsApp around Everard eg.

It needs reviewing and it is being, but don’t make false correlations and assumptions first.

What’s the false correlation I am making? I am commenting on what another poster said .
It is clear that the police did believe the killer and his family . It is also clear they did not believe Henry ( they actually told him he hadn’t been stabbed !) and they proceeded to handcuff a young man who was clearly in a weakened state.
In contrast they did not handcuff the killer .

That looks like two tier policing to me … What false assumptions have I made?

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 23:24

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · Yesterday 23:20

"every attempt is made by the Israelis to preserve civilian life"

I don't wish to derail the thread but simply cannot fathom how people still believe this.

I believe it too. If you look at the amount of infrastructure destruction in Gaza, the preservation of civilian life is impressive. The IDF would pre-warn and clear areas of civilians prior to heavy airstrikes.

Brinny · Yesterday 23:24

youalright · Yesterday 19:30

So a couple of officers make a mistake and 100s of other officers should get attacked and assaulted for it because thats exactly what's going to happen. If one of your colleagues made a mistake would you be OK with 1000s of people to come after you for it

I agree , what I find in this government are double standards, knife crime is up , anyone and I mean everyone who carries a knife regardless of religion should be apprehended and knife removed, no one walking the streets should be carrying a knife at the end if the day it is a weapon, people should not hide behind religion to commit a crime and think they can get away with it.

NeuroticGingerCat · Yesterday 23:24

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · Yesterday 23:20

"every attempt is made by the Israelis to preserve civilian life"

I don't wish to derail the thread but simply cannot fathom how people still believe this.

Civilians will die- it happens in war- just ask Dresden
Israel actually has a low ratio of civillian to military deaths (for wa)r- I simply cannot fathom why people don't think Israel has a right to defend its people and defeat its enemy

OpheliaWasntMad · Yesterday 23:25

Grammarnut · Yesterday 23:19

I have educated myself and for that reason I stand with Israel. Telling people to 'educate themselves' is a short-cut to end an argument the speaker can't sustain.

FFS - does every thread have to come back to Israel and Palestine.

Opril · Yesterday 23:25

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 20:38

Nothing to see here folks. It's only a young promising white boy who's the victim. Just like the shit the Jewish community have to put up with. You wouldn't mind but the very people who tell everyone else they are racist have shown fk all empathy over 3 threads today.

You def have a bias as to which communities you support and you don’t ever show any empathy to some other communities. It’s clear on every thread. Don’t be a hypocrite.

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 23:25

LoopyLoo1991 · Yesterday 23:11

Just double checked. Roman Britain also had a 80 span of relative peace. Here:

'The longest sustained period of peace in Roman Britain lasted approximately 80 years, occurring along the northern frontier from the 2nd century to the early 3rf century. Following the severe campaigns of Emperor Septimius Severus in Scotland around 208-211 AD/CE the region experienced pre-modern pre-eminence of sustained quiet, largely solidified by the subsequent implementation of Hadrian's Wall.'

The hundred years between 1815 and 1914 were hardly quiet for the British Empire, with Crimea, Indian Mutiny, troubles in North Africa and of course Boer War.
Doubt our culture and collective psyche is prepared for such long periods of peace without the more aggressive men kicking the shit out of someone or some country?

This has been a very heavy thread, and I've really appreciated all the opinions, it's kept me company while I had my panic. But it's also nice to have a little lightness at the fact that the Scottish/Picts caused the Romans such a headache that the all-conquering empire said "Right, we need some rest and relaxation after that". Proud of my blue painted ancestors there!

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dottiehens · Yesterday 23:26

Imaginary86 · Yesterday 20:03

A bit like the “free Palestine” lot

Yeah like Gays for Palestine. The idiocy of those protesters.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 23:27

Opril · Yesterday 23:25

You def have a bias as to which communities you support and you don’t ever show any empathy to some other communities. It’s clear on every thread. Don’t be a hypocrite.

Which other threads are you talking about? Thanks for taking such an interest in me.

Opril · Yesterday 23:28

Quokkas · Yesterday 20:56

@LuckyHazelFox why are you comparing Henry Nowak’s murder to the antisemitism that Jewish people faced? What are you trying to say?

She/he shoehorns it into every thread. A clear agenda.

SpiritAdder · Yesterday 23:29

trueredstart · Yesterday 23:08

Tell me more about Gladstone. It's been a long time since I studied History at school but I'm pretty sure he was involved in the international intervention of the Armenian genocide, rather than committing a genocide himself..?

He was deputy behind the British fabricated Great Hunger in Ireland as a proponent of free markets. He was against government ‘interference’ and criticised all relief efforts. He also saw the Great Hunger as a religious divine retribution on Catholics. Directly after the famine, he then introduced new taxes on Ireland to pay for their own starvation.

Thirty years later, while dying of cancer, he felt guilty and advocated for Irish Home Rule.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 23:30

Opril · Yesterday 23:28

She/he shoehorns it into every thread. A clear agenda.

Once again, which threads are you referring to? What's your agenda? Those two questions I think are reasonable. Thanks.

Sadcat22 · Yesterday 23:30

Jellox · Yesterday 20:52

You think the white police officers were racist towards the white male?

Do you know what racism means?

So why was brexit racist then? As Europe is mostly white yet it was called racist. not trying to be difficult just want to understand how it works

Quokkas · Yesterday 23:32

NeuroticGingerCat · Yesterday 23:24

Civilians will die- it happens in war- just ask Dresden
Israel actually has a low ratio of civillian to military deaths (for wa)r- I simply cannot fathom why people don't think Israel has a right to defend its people and defeat its enemy

If Israel wants to preserve human life, how do you explain what it’s doing in Lebanon right now? And its 2.5-years-and-counting bombing of Gaza? That is not a sign of an army wanting to preserve human life.

MsJinks · Yesterday 23:33

OpheliaWasntMad · Yesterday 23:23

What’s the false correlation I am making? I am commenting on what another poster said .
It is clear that the police did believe the killer and his family . It is also clear they did not believe Henry ( they actually told him he hadn’t been stabbed !) and they proceeded to handcuff a young man who was clearly in a weakened state.
In contrast they did not handcuff the killer .

That looks like two tier policing to me … What false assumptions have I made?

The two tier policing - that the police deliberately and consciously made a decision to believe the Sikh family and not Henry Nowak due to skin colour.

We can’t know (yet at least) the full thought processes of the police involved or why they made those decisions. There could well be sub conscious bias to believe the Sikh family over Henry - similar to a well dressed presentable and middle class family maybe being believed over a badly dressed erratic lower class single person - just unfortunate normally but it happens every day and everywhere - people judge on appearance, context, experience, background.

It is appalling what happened of course, not just unfortunate, and it needs a full enquiry. However, I don’t think we should assume the decisions taken were on a fear of being thought racist - it isn’t that simple probably.

SpiritAdder · Yesterday 23:33

@Grammarnut
The concentration camps of the Boer war were intended to isolate a group of people from engaging in guerilla warfare.

Yes, the objective was to stop the men in militias defending against the British Invasion by kidnapping the women and children and putting them in concentration camps with no hygiene, insufficient food, and no medical care.

TriesNotToBeCynical · Yesterday 23:34

Sadcat22 · Yesterday 23:30

So why was brexit racist then? As Europe is mostly white yet it was called racist. not trying to be difficult just want to understand how it works

If you read the Equality Act, racism can be against other nationalities, including East Europeans. Indeed our Tommy was quite keen on whipping up racism against East Europeans ten years ago, though now he has decided he is on their side.

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CagedBirdInACage · Yesterday 23:34

dottiehens · Yesterday 23:26

Yeah like Gays for Palestine. The idiocy of those protesters.

Yeah why wouldn't gay people be behind the killing of 20,000 children, idiots Confused

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