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AIBU to feel deeply unsettled by the Southampton protest scenes?

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HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 19:02

Southampton protest against police, huge crowd, Tommy Robinson whipping everyone into a frenzy and saying "this IS about race"

Other speakers declaring that England is a Christian country. The Lords Prayer chanted by every speaker. The leader of UKIP saying he will deport all migrants and make government Christian. The leaders of the protest saying they are being pushed by the police cordon, while the camera angle shows the police haven't moved. The leaders of the protest mocking the female police officer who are taking over a shift from another police officer in the cordon "They're replacing all the men with women!"

This is awful. It feels like the start of civil war. Maybe human beings just aren't supposed to go decades without a fight.

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Jellox · Yesterday 22:35

EddyF · Yesterday 22:31

They love having Black people in their mouth and thoughts. What the fuck has this thread got to to do with Black people? The absolute obsession is crazy. I see it so often on so many threads. What has the death of this young man (may he rest in peace and I am so sorry for him and his family) got to do with Black people?

I know it drives me mad!!

None of the police officers, victims or perpetrators were black in this scenario.

Yet there are multiple posters claiming George Floyd was a criminal a drug addict - it literally has no bearing on this case what so ever.

I don’t understand how anyone sees this situation and immediately uses it as an excuse to insult black people.

NameChangeForTheWeek · Yesterday 22:35

Albuhup · Yesterday 19:52

But it is about race. A white, 18 year old boy was left dying on the ground, disbelieved due to his race. His dying pleas that he couldn't breathe, dismissed

Henry Nowak's family deserves full justice

Was he definitely disbelieved because of his race though or because people can claim to be injured when they're being cuffed? I watch a lot of cop shows and they're always yelling that they can't breathe.

Owlsintheforest · Yesterday 22:36

Anonymouseposter · Yesterday 21:20

It’s sad to see a distortion of Christianity just used by people who are intolerant of other religions. They could do with reading the sermon on the mount. Same in the States where Christianity is being used to justify the most unchristian behaviour.
I don’t think the traditions of any religion should lead to exemptions from the law though (e.g. carrying knives). Perhaps something symbolic could replace it.

What happened is terrible and very distressing. The police involved need to be held responsible and police training needs to stress that EVERYONE should be treated without prejudice.

Stirring up division and hatred is helping no one.

Intolerant of other religions? You mean like how the muslim attacked the jews a few weeks ago? Don't see Christians going around stabbing people, also don't see any Christians on terror watches.

PlayingDevilsAdvocateisinteresting · Yesterday 22:37

Quokkas · Yesterday 21:40

I’m very aware of the experiences of Jewish people on these marches and how awful they have sometimes been.

And I don’t think I’m contradicting myself at all. What I’m trying to say is that the marches are not intended to be antisemitic. Lots of march attendees are against antisemitism whilst also supporting Gaza. If the marches were really antisemitic, the government would have banned them years ago.

So, do you actually believe your own hype (I'm being polite here) @Quokkas?

You said
"Lots of march attendees are against antisemitism whilst also supporting Gaza."

Can you please explain to me exactly where/how/why you got your 'belief' that many of the march attendees are against antisemitism, even though they are protesting about the Jewish people, and in doing so they are supporting the atrocious attack by Hamas on the Jewish people on 7th October 2023? That attack has been described by our own - British - Government as "the worst attack on Jewish people since the Holocaust..."
Any person with any sense knows that all of those march attendees hate the Jewish people. Therefore, Quokkas, you are either being very disingenuous by trying to suggest anything else, or you are being incredibly naive?

As for your statement that

" If the marches were really antisemitic, the government would have banned them years ago"

I really don't know whether to laugh hysterically, or to cry incredulously!
I really am still struggling to decide whether you are just incredibly naive, but possibly with a misguided good heart, or whether you have so little regard for your fellow Mumsnetters, that you think you can deceive us with a few ridiculous posts on this thread? If the latter is in fact true, I would have to believe that instead of having a naive but basically good heart, that you actually have a heart not far off from being, well, evil. So I am hoping that you are almost unbelievably naive!

MsJinks · Yesterday 22:37

Whysnothingsimple · Yesterday 22:31

What are you on about?

I was answering @SleeplessInWhereverwho wondered about whether Sikhs were added to racists’ agendas - that is what I was on about - the changing focus of high profile racists.

MistressoftheDarkSide · Yesterday 22:37

BeanQuisine · Yesterday 22:28

Go back to those medieval Christian times, and you will find in many respects they are even worse than the worst Islamic states of today.

Which is hardly surprising given a society "built on" ancient Abrahamic superstition, which is what Christianity essentially is.

The modern West, in contrast, is built on secular democracy, liberal humanism, rational philosophy and science. We have largely managed to push Middle Eastern religion into the realm of "personal belief", and progress in that secular direction can be expected to continue.

We need to be just as wary of those who would re-impose Christianity as we are of those who would impose Islamism - there's little actual difference.

Spot on. Any religion can become a useful tool of oppression and brutality.

SpiritAdder · Yesterday 22:37

Msmfailedusbad · Yesterday 22:26

I think the full statements from Henry’s parents paint a really devastating picture. Why was Dingwa treated so well even after the police all knew he had murdered Henry and lied about it in such a callous , wicked way. Dingwa was never handcuffed when he was arrested.
I haven’t felt this sick to my stomach since Southport , Manchester , Nottingham , and also Lee rigby. The mood music is so grim and the country is at a tipping point I’m afraid.

Simples, the immigrant gets poor treatment while the British person gets a pass.

The kicker here is that the immigrant in this event was white, and the British person was not.

Accent indicating Britishness trumps skin colour.

FatEndoftheWedge · Yesterday 22:38

I've just read that two tier policing is actually a thing !!

Twisterlollies · Yesterday 22:38

NameChangeForTheWeek · Yesterday 22:35

Was he definitely disbelieved because of his race though or because people can claim to be injured when they're being cuffed? I watch a lot of cop shows and they're always yelling that they can't breathe.

Well I have worked in crime for years and never once have I seen handcuffs being applied to an incapacitated person, nor have I seen anybody claim to have been stabbed when they haven’t. But what do I know…

Owlsintheforest · Yesterday 22:38

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 21:52

Actually yes, I'm distressed by all of it. The treatment of Palestine, the horrific Hamas attack on Israel, Netenyahu's response, the terrorisation of Jewish people since, racism, Islamaphobia, the rape of girls in the North, the Southport murders, the increase in Nationalism since those, it's all shit and scary and feels like it's careering out of control. I just want to live in less volatile times.

You've just summed up that multiculturalism doesn't work.

trueredstart · Yesterday 22:39

The modern West, in contrast, is built on secular democracy, liberal humanism, rational philosophy and science. We have largely managed to push Middle Eastern religion into the realm of "personal belief", and progress in that secular direction can be expected to continue.

Where has this got us, @BeanQuisine ? Liberal humanism has created societal dissonance, whereas Christianity gave us common ground. We don't have entirely secular democracy, although since Charles came along it certainly feels that way.

BMW58 · Yesterday 22:39

Msmfailedusbad · Yesterday 22:26

I think the full statements from Henry’s parents paint a really devastating picture. Why was Dingwa treated so well even after the police all knew he had murdered Henry and lied about it in such a callous , wicked way. Dingwa was never handcuffed when he was arrested.
I haven’t felt this sick to my stomach since Southport , Manchester , Nottingham , and also Lee rigby. The mood music is so grim and the country is at a tipping point I’m afraid.

You need to sort out your muddled thinking.

Consider that he need not be handcuffed in the situation he was in.

He is scum, as is anyone who claims Victim when they are in fact the aggressor.

He has disgraced his family, faith and community. He has set back their Social Standing by years. Decades

He may be responsible for more deaths as time goes on - not least their own.

I'm glad at least one officer has resigned. I cannot imagine the awful guilt those dealing with Henry must endure.

footbeds · Yesterday 22:41

I watch a lot of cop shows and they're always yelling that they can't breathe.

If you are yelling you normally can breathe.

It’s the people who are quiet who are usually in the most precarious position. I learned that in a first aid course at school, I’m sure the police have a tad more training?

NeuroticGingerCat · Yesterday 22:41

TriesNotToBeCynical · Yesterday 22:22

The Southport killer was a Christian - does that aid your narrative?

Edit wrong seaside

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Ah the Welsh choirboy narrative?
Are you aware that his previous headmistress was concerned about his potential for knife violence but was shut down when she tried to escalate due to concerns about perceived racism
I know that doesn't fit with your narrative.
This is the problem- an inability to even address issues because being called racist is the worst thing in chattering circles- worse even than murder.

JHound · Yesterday 22:42

Jellox · Yesterday 22:35

I know it drives me mad!!

None of the police officers, victims or perpetrators were black in this scenario.

Yet there are multiple posters claiming George Floyd was a criminal a drug addict - it literally has no bearing on this case what so ever.

I don’t understand how anyone sees this situation and immediately uses it as an excuse to insult black people.

I don’t get what George Floyd has to do with the case of a Sikh man killing a white man and having white police officers immediately believe his and his family’s accounts. No other ethnic groups are involved in this yet they are dragging them into it.

MsJinks · Yesterday 22:42

PlayingDevilsAdvocateisinteresting · Yesterday 22:37

So, do you actually believe your own hype (I'm being polite here) @Quokkas?

You said
"Lots of march attendees are against antisemitism whilst also supporting Gaza."

Can you please explain to me exactly where/how/why you got your 'belief' that many of the march attendees are against antisemitism, even though they are protesting about the Jewish people, and in doing so they are supporting the atrocious attack by Hamas on the Jewish people on 7th October 2023? That attack has been described by our own - British - Government as "the worst attack on Jewish people since the Holocaust..."
Any person with any sense knows that all of those march attendees hate the Jewish people. Therefore, Quokkas, you are either being very disingenuous by trying to suggest anything else, or you are being incredibly naive?

As for your statement that

" If the marches were really antisemitic, the government would have banned them years ago"

I really don't know whether to laugh hysterically, or to cry incredulously!
I really am still struggling to decide whether you are just incredibly naive, but possibly with a misguided good heart, or whether you have so little regard for your fellow Mumsnetters, that you think you can deceive us with a few ridiculous posts on this thread? If the latter is in fact true, I would have to believe that instead of having a naive but basically good heart, that you actually have a heart not far off from being, well, evil. So I am hoping that you are almost unbelievably naive!

They’re not protesting Jewish people though are they - they’re protesting the Zionist government of Israel.

I said upthread there are quite a few Jewish groups marching alongside, so you can’t say everyone on a Palestine March is anti-semitic.

I appreciate there are some difficult aspects within this/these marches, but being factual helps.

Im not sure what relevance this has to Nowak’s death - unless it’s we should recall Farage - the great defender of the white person and inciter of riots against Nowak’s family wishes - definitely has voiced some revolting anti semitism.

MaidOfSteel · Yesterday 22:42

youalright · Yesterday 19:39

A whole thread of blaming the police instead of the actual murderer

Yes. The only person who made this about race was the perpetrator himself. He used his own race & religion to try to get away with murder. Absolutely deplorable actions and I think the 21 year tariff he got is nowhere near long enough. He is the racist in this awful situation.

I do believe the Police have some serious questions to answer, too. I do worry about their training and whether it prioritises trying to prove there isn’t any institutional racism over fair policing.

thesecretteacher · Yesterday 22:42

OneTealShaker · Yesterday 22:33

And therein lies the madness of this woke batshittery.

they don’t mind young black men killing each other and being statistically over represented in knife crime, because calling it out would be racist, apparently. Woke is a cult. They sacrifice human life at the altar of this madness.

Excactly . It’s like ‘The Emperor’s New Clothes’.
the time has come to rise up and call it out!

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 22:42

NameChangeForTheWeek · Yesterday 22:35

Was he definitely disbelieved because of his race though or because people can claim to be injured when they're being cuffed? I watch a lot of cop shows and they're always yelling that they can't breathe.

Well obviously because of his race, because how else would Digwa have been able to play the police with the racism thing if he hadn't bee white?

JHound · Yesterday 22:43

BMW58 · Yesterday 22:39

You need to sort out your muddled thinking.

Consider that he need not be handcuffed in the situation he was in.

He is scum, as is anyone who claims Victim when they are in fact the aggressor.

He has disgraced his family, faith and community. He has set back their Social Standing by years. Decades

He may be responsible for more deaths as time goes on - not least their own.

I'm glad at least one officer has resigned. I cannot imagine the awful guilt those dealing with Henry must endure.

Why has his action set back an entire ethnic group’s “social standing” for years? Is collective punishment going to be your standing for everybody?

Menopausalsourpuss · Yesterday 22:44

BeanQuisine · Yesterday 22:28

Go back to those medieval Christian times, and you will find in many respects they are even worse than the worst Islamic states of today.

Which is hardly surprising given a society "built on" ancient Abrahamic superstition, which is what Christianity essentially is.

The modern West, in contrast, is built on secular democracy, liberal humanism, rational philosophy and science. We have largely managed to push Middle Eastern religion into the realm of "personal belief", and progress in that secular direction can be expected to continue.

We need to be just as wary of those who would re-impose Christianity as we are of those who would impose Islamism - there's little actual difference.

What a load of ignorant rubbish. Our whole law system (equality), architecture, schools (which were started by the Church are all grounded in Christianity. Islamic societies are totally different from ours as are those based on other religions. You are right that medieval times weren't great though. A total deflection from the subject though.

JHound · Yesterday 22:44

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 22:42

Well obviously because of his race, because how else would Digwa have been able to play the police with the racism thing if he hadn't bee white?

If he had been anything but Sikh he could have “played the racism thing” too.

Twisterlollies · Yesterday 22:45

JHound · Yesterday 22:43

Why has his action set back an entire ethnic group’s “social standing” for years? Is collective punishment going to be your standing for everybody?

It currently is for the Jewish and Israeli community. A very 2026 trend.

JHound · Yesterday 22:45

Twisterlollies · Yesterday 22:43

The Daily Echo is running a live update page, looks like a full scale riot has broken out.

https://www.dailyecho.co.uk/news/26157394.hundreds-protest-henry-nowak-murder-arrest---live-updates/

I think it’s find to protest outside the station. The police have a lot to answer for here.

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