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AIBU to feel deeply unsettled by the Southampton protest scenes?

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HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 19:02

Southampton protest against police, huge crowd, Tommy Robinson whipping everyone into a frenzy and saying "this IS about race"

Other speakers declaring that England is a Christian country. The Lords Prayer chanted by every speaker. The leader of UKIP saying he will deport all migrants and make government Christian. The leaders of the protest saying they are being pushed by the police cordon, while the camera angle shows the police haven't moved. The leaders of the protest mocking the female police officer who are taking over a shift from another police officer in the cordon "They're replacing all the men with women!"

This is awful. It feels like the start of civil war. Maybe human beings just aren't supposed to go decades without a fight.

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Whysnothingsimple · Yesterday 22:14

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 22:10

You’d like me to answer the notion that the monstrous army of Christianity is awakening?

I’m sorry, but I can’t. Not with any seriousness.

It’s giving “the crusades” and last I checked this isn’t the 11th century.

if we’re talking history, which crusades are you referring to?
But the far right are using the mechanisms in Christianity to draw people together to fight an enemy. It is literally what Christianity has been used for for nearly its entire existence. It’s clear you know nothing about Christianity or religion more widely or history. - can you actually formulate an argument?

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 22:15

TriesNotToBeCynical · Yesterday 22:12

This is absolutely irrelevant to what the poster was referring to - the woke training of her husband.

PurpleAxe · Yesterday 22:15

Well, you can't say you were not warned.

This anger has been building for years.

Menopausalsourpuss · Yesterday 22:16

Jellox · Yesterday 22:09

I’m telling people to believe in statistical analysis and factual data - surely everyone should be telling everyone to do the same?

I tend to prefer to base my opinions on facts and not something Dave on Facebook has decided to spout.

You do know the difference between fact and opinion don’t you?
Even primary school children are taught this.

For someone with such a superior tone, none of what you posted with regards to stop and search mentions whether black men are disproportionately involved in street crime which I think they are. One of your pieces of "evidence" mentions that in 48% of cases no further action was taken which means in the majority it was. And since stop and search was reduced in London, knife crime has increased significantly. I personally think reducing knife crime is much more important than hurt feelings and sure the victims who are disproportionately black feel the same.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 22:17

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 22:14

I’m aware of that, thank you.

We don’t need to draw parallel arguments.

The argument about an 18 year old dying is absolutely argument enough by itself.

You’re dragging in other things you disapprove of, and doing so minimises the conversation about him.

Today, his death is what counts.

I can draw whatever argument or parallel I want so long as it's within community guidelines. Yes his death is what counts, as are all the circumstances surrounding it and its impact on the larger community.

footbeds · Yesterday 22:17

youalright · Yesterday 22:08

Because if 10 people are telling you the exact same thing it makes sense to go with the majority and then unfortunately Henry died before anyone could investigate properly and ask questions.

But if you have eyes, you can see one person is on the floor & not looking too well…it might be worth doing a proper h&s check

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 22:17

One things for sure, things are going to change now..

IdBeLionIfISaid · Yesterday 22:17

HumunaHey · Yesterday 19:39

What are the other cases?

I honestly don't get people saying "can you imagine if it was the other way around, there'd be uproar". There IS uproar and, yes, there should be. People need to be held to account. This shouldn't happen again.

The whole reason there is also uproar when minorities are on the receiving end, is because it has happened time and time again. Fortunately, I can't provide a shopping list of names of white boys who have died at the hands of police. I can name a fair few black though.

This country is in a terrible state. People can be willfully ignorant to wrongdoing until it happens to their own.

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This. All of it. The politicisation of pain is awful.

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 22:18

Whysnothingsimple · Yesterday 22:14

if we’re talking history, which crusades are you referring to?
But the far right are using the mechanisms in Christianity to draw people together to fight an enemy. It is literally what Christianity has been used for for nearly its entire existence. It’s clear you know nothing about Christianity or religion more widely or history. - can you actually formulate an argument?

You’re not a serious person.

The right are forming a Christian army to fight “an enemy.”

To be clear. Is that enemy Muslims, or Sikhs? Because until.. I don’t know, today, I wasn’t aware the Sikhs were on their list.

Maybe they’ve written a new enemy list. Not sure, I’m not invited to their meetings.

Flyingintotheunknown · Yesterday 22:18

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 22:17

One things for sure, things are going to change now..

I’m not sure it will. All we hear is “lessons will be learned”. Then the same thing happens again.

Roomonthe3rdfloor · Yesterday 22:18

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 22:17

One things for sure, things are going to change now..

How so?

ilovebrie8 · Yesterday 22:19

TriesNotToBeCynical · Yesterday 22:14

Possibly so. But possibly he was just lying to support a political agenda. It happens.

He was a retired cop telling as it is…
So he’s a liar now, I very much doubt it.

ForGreenHiker · Yesterday 22:19

Dollymylove · Yesterday 22:12

Oh well I'm sure thats a great comfort to Mr and Mrs Nowak

My point is. It’s an anomaly, it’s not the norm.

I mean, his family has specifically asked for his death not to be used to create further division. Yet here is Tommy Robinson and his bunch of pseudo-Christian roundabout painting, flag draping thuggish mates trying to weaponise his death to create further division. The OP is right to be unsettled.

TriesNotToBeCynical · Yesterday 22:20

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 22:15

This is absolutely irrelevant to what the poster was referring to - the woke training of her husband.

So it is irrelevant to the statement the poster made that "ethnic minorities WERE given leniency by the courts"? I don't think so - it contradicts her husband's impression!

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 22:20

Roomonthe3rdfloor · Yesterday 22:18

How so?

DEI initiatives and anti racist policing strategies being revisited, for one.

footbeds · Yesterday 22:20

Flyingintotheunknown · Yesterday 22:18

I’m not sure it will. All we hear is “lessons will be learned”. Then the same thing happens again.

Agree, same old same old

NeuroticGingerCat · Yesterday 22:20

Dollymylove · Yesterday 21:43

Some people are very selective about the causes they support over others who are equally oppressed. No Jews, No News seems to be the mindset.
Say what you like about Tommy Robinson but at least he acknowledged Rhiannon Whytes family, unlike Starmer and his cronies. Not a bloody peep out of them

So true re poor Rhiannon (I think that was a migrant hotel? the sort of hotel that is never in the vicinity of the middle class marxist warriors we encounter on MN).
And Southport barely merited a footnote in the PMs day- he later called protesters there bigots- is it any wonder these people are angry? I'm angry and I'm comfortable in my middle class enclave (just don't tell anyone around here I voted Tory at the last election- I'll be lynched by the bekinds!)
Kemi is so much better on all this- she absolutely wiped the floor with an Islamist Jew-Hater on a recent walk-about- I trust her in terms of Jewish safety, not that wanker Starmer!
We have Iranian friends who are big fans of Tommy Robinson and are completely bewildered by the apathy in this country towards the deaths meted out by the Islamic Regime- both very recently and historically (not to mention outright support for the IRGC by middle class muppets in this country)
Selective causes, indeed.

I will say that I don't view the killer as being in any way representative of Sikhs and I sincerely hope there are no repercussions for Sikhs. The killer is just some weird, probably racist little shit who knew he could use his colour to elicit police sympathy even when he'd stabbed a white boy- that is the problem.

Pearl69 · Yesterday 22:21

I’m “unsettled” because the poor boys parents expressly said they didn’t want this to happen in his name. But I guess Farage got his riot after all then.

And in among it, the wrong policeman was named as involved so had now had to go into hiding with his family. It’s a total mess but we can do without these goons spreading division and hate. My thoughts are with Henry and his poor family.

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 22:22

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 22:15

This is absolutely irrelevant to what the poster was referring to - the woke training of her husband.

What they've also not mentioned is it's just for 2024, whereas for the prior five years "there is no consistent pattern of significant differences in the odds of receiving a custodial sentence by ethnicity".

A possible cause is this: ": In the UK, pleading guilty early grants a sentence reduction of up to one-third. Statistical data shows White defendants consistently register the highest early guilty plea rates. Black and Asian defendants are statistically more likely to plead "not guilty," meaning they lose this automatic sentence reduction if convicted, driving up average sentence lengths"

The document also doesn't actually break down by crime.

TriesNotToBeCynical · Yesterday 22:22

NeuroticGingerCat · Yesterday 22:20

So true re poor Rhiannon (I think that was a migrant hotel? the sort of hotel that is never in the vicinity of the middle class marxist warriors we encounter on MN).
And Southport barely merited a footnote in the PMs day- he later called protesters there bigots- is it any wonder these people are angry? I'm angry and I'm comfortable in my middle class enclave (just don't tell anyone around here I voted Tory at the last election- I'll be lynched by the bekinds!)
Kemi is so much better on all this- she absolutely wiped the floor with an Islamist Jew-Hater on a recent walk-about- I trust her in terms of Jewish safety, not that wanker Starmer!
We have Iranian friends who are big fans of Tommy Robinson and are completely bewildered by the apathy in this country towards the deaths meted out by the Islamic Regime- both very recently and historically (not to mention outright support for the IRGC by middle class muppets in this country)
Selective causes, indeed.

I will say that I don't view the killer as being in any way representative of Sikhs and I sincerely hope there are no repercussions for Sikhs. The killer is just some weird, probably racist little shit who knew he could use his colour to elicit police sympathy even when he'd stabbed a white boy- that is the problem.

The Southport killer was a Christian - does that aid your narrative?

Edit wrong seaside

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 22:22

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 22:17

I can draw whatever argument or parallel I want so long as it's within community guidelines. Yes his death is what counts, as are all the circumstances surrounding it and its impact on the larger community.

Okay.

You carry on using Henry Nowak’s death to make points about Palestine and anti-Semitism, and we’ll all carry on talking about the actual situation.

Quokkas · Yesterday 22:24

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 22:08

He's not the only much-loved, promising young person who has lost their lives due to fuck-ups around people not doing their jobs properly due to fears of racism accusations - look at the Nottingham inquiry.

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What does the Nottingham inquiry have to do with this?

According to this article, doctors said race was not a factor in their decision not to detain the Nottingham killer:

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cj94x23l0gro

BMW58 · Yesterday 22:24

OP I live within 10 minutes walk of where Henry was murdered and my street is very multicultural - well I'm an ethnic minority - and its really quiet here.

Don't throw fuel on a tiny fire.

Whysnothingsimple · Yesterday 22:24

TriesNotToBeCynical · Yesterday 22:22

The Southport killer was a Christian - does that aid your narrative?

Edit wrong seaside

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That’s completely irrelevant, which you know already

Quokkas · Yesterday 22:25

TriesNotToBeCynical · Yesterday 22:22

The Southport killer was a Christian - does that aid your narrative?

Edit wrong seaside

Edited

Do you mean the Southport killer?

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