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AIBU to feel deeply unsettled by the Southampton protest scenes?

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HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 19:02

Southampton protest against police, huge crowd, Tommy Robinson whipping everyone into a frenzy and saying "this IS about race"

Other speakers declaring that England is a Christian country. The Lords Prayer chanted by every speaker. The leader of UKIP saying he will deport all migrants and make government Christian. The leaders of the protest saying they are being pushed by the police cordon, while the camera angle shows the police haven't moved. The leaders of the protest mocking the female police officer who are taking over a shift from another police officer in the cordon "They're replacing all the men with women!"

This is awful. It feels like the start of civil war. Maybe human beings just aren't supposed to go decades without a fight.

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Sparklybutold · Yesterday 22:09

This has been brewing for a long time. Silencing and censorship has now lead to uncontained bigots to control the narrative. I don’t agree with the likes of TR and NF, but I have seen how damaging concepts like unexamined and unchallenged concepts such as white privilege and the inbuilt hierarchy which places race and trans issues above all else means it has lead to dangerous influence of many of our institutions. Unfortunately this influence now runs deep - even with changes in actual law, such as the meaning of sex, it still has to fight against policies entrenched with narrow minded and dangerous narratives.

Renphoaddict · Yesterday 22:09

Posterpant · Yesterday 22:05

The interesting point about Tommy Robinson and his ilk adopting Christianity is that they’re about as far removed from the teachings of Jesus as it’s possible to be. The Church really needs to call them out; their religion has been hijacked.

I grew up in N Ireland - religion is a convenient weapon - the churches need to condem
the use of religion to fuel hatred

MsJinks · Yesterday 22:10

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 22:05

Who are you to tell people what to believe?

Someone who brought facts to the table instead of ‘feelz’ - but no one can tell you what to believe of course, I’d just say blind faith can be a terrible thing and not always justified especially when it’s placed in random strangers or hostile actors.

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 22:10

Whysnothingsimple · Yesterday 22:08

What are you laughing at? Which particular point I have made do you find ridiculous, try answering the points and debating them. Show some knowledge and reasoning maybe?

You’d like me to answer the notion that the monstrous army of Christianity is awakening?

I’m sorry, but I can’t. Not with any seriousness.

It’s giving “the crusades” and last I checked this isn’t the 11th century.

Dollymylove · Yesterday 22:10

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 22:08

He's not the only much-loved, promising young person who has lost their lives due to fuck-ups around people not doing their jobs properly due to fears of racism accusations - look at the Nottingham inquiry.

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And Southport.
And Manchester arena.

Whysnothingsimple · Yesterday 22:10

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 22:06

About as far removed as the Green party is to the environment then.

To be fair Christianity as made popular by the establish church is pretty far from the teachings of Jesus.

ForGreenHiker · Yesterday 22:10

Broccolish · Yesterday 19:07

I feel far more unsettled as a parent of white young adults in a country where police are more concerned about being called racist than protecting people against violence.

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I mean statistically if your children are white they will be treated better by the police than if they are non white.

https://yjlc.uk/resources/legal-updates/racial-disparity-stop-and-search-new-report-calls-greater-scrutiny-self

So although this was an undeniably horrific instance, and terrible policing. The fact that your children are white puts them at an advantage with the police over ethnic minorities.

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 22:11

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 22:07

Oh. Welcome back.

There is only one version, it’s just the way it’s being used that is controversial. And I’d agree it’s controversial.

But it’s not religious, is it.

This boys death is nothing to do something with Palestine. The debate doesn’t need expanding, the actual death of a teenager is bad enough.

Clutching at angry straws won’t help anyone.

The boy has a name. I know some find it uncomfortable talking about anti-semitism, as much as they do about the taking of Henry's life. Anti-semitism is parallel to Henry Nowak because both make useful idiots uncomfortable. That's a good thing.

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 22:11

Deadlykitten · Yesterday 22:06

You’re more agitated by the protest than you are about the treatment of that boy. You are the problem, you are why the police acted the way they did.

Nope, it's both. I am just as devastated about Henry's death. But linking it to remigration, and insisting that Britain is Christian, and smashing up residential streets is too much. I felt the same when I saw a BLM protest in London and the police had brought in horses and protestors were hurling projectiles and hurting the horses. It's unrestrained aggression and I find that unsettling.

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Flyingintotheunknown · Yesterday 22:11

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 22:07

You just insulting random posters now? Stay classy.

They’re just another gaslighting fuckwit making a fool of themselves. It’s quite laughable really. I think they’re on here just looking for an argument.

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 22:11

Jellox · Yesterday 22:09

I’m telling people to believe in statistical analysis and factual data - surely everyone should be telling everyone to do the same?

I tend to prefer to base my opinions on facts and not something Dave on Facebook has decided to spout.

You do know the difference between fact and opinion don’t you?
Even primary school children are taught this.

I think you need to stop trying to insult everyone that doesn't agree with you, and why do you keep banging on about Facebook who even goes on that anymore?? Grow up.

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 22:11

Dollymylove · Yesterday 22:10

And Southport.
And Manchester arena.

That's very true actually. The security guard who saw something amiss but didn't want to be seen profiling, in Manchester.

Wonderfulstuff · Yesterday 22:12

JHITRM77 · Yesterday 21:57

I've no time for the likes of Robinson or Farage etc but as the mother of 2 young white boys I am very concerned. I can't get out of my head the pain and fear of his last moments and if it was my son the rage would burn very brightly.

It's what the Mums of young black boys have been living with for years. Perhaps we can now all have empathy and understanding with each other and unite to combat knife crime.

Quokkas · Yesterday 22:12

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 22:06

About as far removed as the Green party is to the environment then.

Shall we focus on the topic of this thread?

MsJinks · Yesterday 22:12

Notsandwiches · Yesterday 22:09

They are too quick to presume that someone has been racist when we all know the race card is used by certain sectors to deflect attention/blame.

Do we all know this? I don’t have that knowledge.

Can you pull up some facts please and tell us which sectors you are profiling as using the ‘race card’?

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 22:12

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 22:11

Nope, it's both. I am just as devastated about Henry's death. But linking it to remigration, and insisting that Britain is Christian, and smashing up residential streets is too much. I felt the same when I saw a BLM protest in London and the police had brought in horses and protestors were hurling projectiles and hurting the horses. It's unrestrained aggression and I find that unsettling.

Shame you couldn't have introduced that balance in your OP.

Jellox · Yesterday 22:12

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 22:07

I bet you are the type to judge everyone that doesn't agree with you.

No of course not but I do judge people who stupidly believe opinions over facts.

I would hope everyone would feel the same.

If I said that I don’t believe water is wet because some random, anonymous poster said it on MN - you would think I was pretty stupid and judge me.

That is how I feel about people who are gullible and believe opinions over factual data.

Dollymylove · Yesterday 22:12

ForGreenHiker · Yesterday 22:10

I mean statistically if your children are white they will be treated better by the police than if they are non white.

https://yjlc.uk/resources/legal-updates/racial-disparity-stop-and-search-new-report-calls-greater-scrutiny-self

So although this was an undeniably horrific instance, and terrible policing. The fact that your children are white puts them at an advantage with the police over ethnic minorities.

Oh well I'm sure thats a great comfort to Mr and Mrs Nowak

TriesNotToBeCynical · Yesterday 22:12

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 21:58

What statistics? I definitely believe her, why would her husband make that up! Its common knowledge that shit is going on.

Black men get higher sentences for the same offences. Government statistics:

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/ethnicity-and-the-criminal-justice-system-2024/statistics-on-ethnicity-and-the-criminal-justice-system-2024-html

Statistics on Ethnicity and the Criminal Justice System, 2024 (HTML)

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/ethnicity-and-the-criminal-justice-system-2024/statistics-on-ethnicity-and-the-criminal-justice-system-2024-html

Livelovebehappy · Yesterday 22:12

MsJinks · Yesterday 22:05

There are quite a number of Jewish groups marching for Gaza/Palestine you know.

I would say that the majority are not Jewish though. Of course in a march of thousands there might be some Jewish people who disagree with Israel defending their country from terrorists, for various reasons. But I would bet an huge majority aren’t.

ilovebrie8 · Yesterday 22:13

pinkstripeycat · Yesterday 21:53

My DH is retired police (was in up til end 2025). He was an inspector. This IS how they are forced to behave. DH was glad to finish after 25yrs. He said it was SO woke they couldn’t do their jobs properly and ethnic minorities WERE given leniency by the courts. Whites ARE discriminated against.

An ex police officer very senior said exactly the same thing on TV this morning. The police are so woke and has been that way for the last 20 plus years.
it’s a huge problem. Whites discriminated against.

Emilesgran · Yesterday 22:13

LimpysGotCancer · Yesterday 21:59

I think that when someone calls 999 to report that they've been attacked, officers arriving at a chaotic violent scene under high levels of stress are likely to go with that as an initial working assumption. It's not right that they do that, but human psychology is what it is.

(I believe that's the case because statistical evidence shows that it's the case.)

I believe that, if the perpetrator and a number of his family and friends conspire to all tell the same lie to the officers as they arrive, get their story straight, hide the weapon, and claim the perpetrator was attacked and defended himself, it's not inconceivable that the officers would be fooled initially until more evidence is gathered.

I can well imagine this happening whatever the colours of the victims, in fact I've witnessed it (with minor assault, not murder, of course). Police aren't perfectly rational robots, they are turning up to a scene with no idea what to expect, and make mistakes.

Neither of us knows what actually went on in the mind of those officers. The difference is that you've already decided the reason, and assert without evidence that it must therefore be true. Your argument appears to boil down to "I can't imagine it happening for a different reason, so it must be this reason." It's the thinking process of a toddler.

Lastly, I don't really need to "think about what would happen if he was black or brown", because (in reality, not in the imagination of people who have already made up their mind) there continue to be countless instances of such people being treated badly by police and other authorities. Nigel Farage and Tommy Robinson don't tend to mention them, though, so they probably don't take up much space in the minds of people who make statements like yours.

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Isn't that the point of training? To enable them to remain calm and NOT be overly influenced by jumping to assumptions?

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 22:14

ForGreenHiker · Yesterday 22:10

I mean statistically if your children are white they will be treated better by the police than if they are non white.

https://yjlc.uk/resources/legal-updates/racial-disparity-stop-and-search-new-report-calls-greater-scrutiny-self

So although this was an undeniably horrific instance, and terrible policing. The fact that your children are white puts them at an advantage with the police over ethnic minorities.

But "ethnic minorities" aren't even a minority in London any more. Also it's a fact that knife crimes are disproportionately committed by black youths, so not targetting that more likely demographic actually leads to more deaths of other black youths, but hey at least we weren't racist?

TriesNotToBeCynical · Yesterday 22:14

ilovebrie8 · Yesterday 22:13

An ex police officer very senior said exactly the same thing on TV this morning. The police are so woke and has been that way for the last 20 plus years.
it’s a huge problem. Whites discriminated against.

Possibly so. But possibly he was just lying to support a political agenda. It happens.

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 22:14

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 22:11

The boy has a name. I know some find it uncomfortable talking about anti-semitism, as much as they do about the taking of Henry's life. Anti-semitism is parallel to Henry Nowak because both make useful idiots uncomfortable. That's a good thing.

I’m aware of that, thank you.

We don’t need to draw parallel arguments.

The argument about an 18 year old dying is absolutely argument enough by itself.

You’re dragging in other things you disapprove of, and doing so minimises the conversation about him.

Today, his death is what counts.

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