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AIBU to feel deeply unsettled by the Southampton protest scenes?

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HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 19:02

Southampton protest against police, huge crowd, Tommy Robinson whipping everyone into a frenzy and saying "this IS about race"

Other speakers declaring that England is a Christian country. The Lords Prayer chanted by every speaker. The leader of UKIP saying he will deport all migrants and make government Christian. The leaders of the protest saying they are being pushed by the police cordon, while the camera angle shows the police haven't moved. The leaders of the protest mocking the female police officer who are taking over a shift from another police officer in the cordon "They're replacing all the men with women!"

This is awful. It feels like the start of civil war. Maybe human beings just aren't supposed to go decades without a fight.

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Flyingintotheunknown · Yesterday 21:29

Quokkas · Yesterday 21:27

I don’t think anyone covered it up? It’s just it’s taken this long to get to court.

It was covered up. I lived in one of these towns at the time. It may not have reached national news but it certainly reached local news about certain police officers and local councillors covering it up. It’s been mentioned many times that the police were sometimes complicit. Please stop dismissing what those poor victims went through. They were failed by everyone including the police

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 21:30

bafta16 · Yesterday 21:27

What the hell is a Palestine march? If you mean people opposing the most hideous torture and killing in Gaza say so.

Well, you immediately knew what I meant.

bafta16 · Yesterday 21:30

Remember Rotherham, and Rochdale and all those other towns. It keeps happening

Please enlighten us all as to the link between abuse of young by men of mostly Pakistani heritage and the murder of a young man?

OneTealShaker · Yesterday 21:30

Quokkas · Yesterday 21:27

I don’t think anyone covered it up? It’s just it’s taken this long to get to court.

Of course they try and cover it up. If Henry’s family hadn’t been resourceful or pursuant, do you think this would have got out.

Why do you think grooming gangs were covered up.

OneFunBrickNewt · Yesterday 21:30

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 21:25

Do you approve of Palestinian marches etc?

For the most part, yes as they are protesting against events that have been legally classified as genocide.
Not the minority of protestors who carry anti-semitic messages. I'm the grandson of an Orthodox Jew who had Eastern European Jewish relatives die in the Holocaust...whenever I've been on pro-Palestinian marches I've not seen anything problematic. Can't say the same about the coverage of Far Right protests over the last few years.

Quokkas · Yesterday 21:30

Livelovebehappy · Yesterday 21:28

I’m betting the poster does, and approves of the weekly anti semitic (racist) marches taking place in London. Some think racism is a one way street unfortunately…

The marches in support of Gaza are NOT antisemitic. They do attract a lot of antisemites, which is awful, but in themselves they are absolutely not antisemitic.

olivepicanto · Yesterday 21:30

Dollysleftnip · Yesterday 21:06

The police need to make a public apology on behalf of their officers
Everyone in attendance made a complete pig ear of the situation and unless they acknowledge that we won’t move forward

Some of the adults in the room don't need to "move forward"

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 21:30

AppleDumplingWithCustard · Yesterday 21:25

I’m still waiting for Keir Starmer to take the knee in memory of Henry Nowak.

Do you understand why it was specifically a knee?

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 21:31

Best to ignore the couple of posters trying to dilute the direction the thread has taken. There have been more subtle attempts today.

Flyingintotheunknown · Yesterday 21:31

Quokkas · Yesterday 21:29

No they weren’t. And you know it. They were comparing antisemitism to Henry Nowak’s murder. That’s comparing apples and pears. It’s so offensive. How about you get over yourself and do some antisemitism awareness training?

omg now you’re just arguing back for the sake of it! Can’t be arsed with you!

Grammarnut · Yesterday 21:31

fantamol · Yesterday 19:11

Things are getting very ugly all over Britain, it's not very nice is it? It's one cause this week and another next week.

Protests may have to be banned from outside public buildings or on streets and roads. Confine them to a cordoned off area of a park or something. But that wouldn't be enough to work off the anger of rent a crowd would it.

It would also be deeply undemocratic. Why do you think it is rent a crowd rather than concerned, and angry, citizens?

Didntask · Yesterday 21:31

youalright · Yesterday 19:38

They looked for stab wounds and couldn't see any there wasn't a puddle of blood. They called an ambulance for him. It all happened quickly and every piece of information they had been given was wrong

Bollocks. Have you seen the footage? The FIRST THING the police were told was that he had 'a mouthful of blood'. They did NOTHING to check him over apart from look at his face amd when he said he'd been stabbed the male office said 'I dont think so mate'. They didn't even ask for an ambulance until after they'd cuffed him - whilst he was lying immobile on the floor, just about to die.

https://x.com/i/status/2061555027261497774

OneTealShaker · Yesterday 21:31

Flyingintotheunknown · Yesterday 21:29

It was covered up. I lived in one of these towns at the time. It may not have reached national news but it certainly reached local news about certain police officers and local councillors covering it up. It’s been mentioned many times that the police were sometimes complicit. Please stop dismissing what those poor victims went through. They were failed by everyone including the police

Its in record that the abuse is Oldham was covered up by local officials and the police. And ex councillor blew the whistle on this.

JHound · Yesterday 21:32

Spacestory · Yesterday 21:29

Yes the white police. The white police are terrified of being called racist. They let a man die because of it.
do try to keep up!!

The white police are terrified of being called racist? Even when disproportionately strip searching black and brown children, disproportionately stopping and searching black and brown people are disproportionately releasing to media criminal mugshots of black suspects?

Yeah…the data suggests it’s not so straightforward.

Jellox · Yesterday 21:32

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 21:21

I am not in favour of marches or protests but…

Why were BLM protests and chucking statues into the harbour GOOD or weekly Palestinian marches GOOD but this protest is BAD ?

Also it’s funny how the usual anti-police brigade are suddenly defending them here. Weasly hypocrites.

Oh dear 🤦‍♀️

If you cannot see the difference between the examples you have given then my mind boggles.

Why not do some research into it all before commenting.

Or simply question how many white men have died at the hands of white police officers due to them disbelieving he was not a racist?

Flyingintotheunknown · Yesterday 21:32

OneTealShaker · Yesterday 21:31

Its in record that the abuse is Oldham was covered up by local officials and the police. And ex councillor blew the whistle on this.

Exactly, meanwhile in another town a councillor knew about it and covered it up. They were all complicit. The police mainly turned a blind eye for fear of being racist but it’s well known some of them even took part in the abuse themselves!

Quokkas · Yesterday 21:33

Flyingintotheunknown · Yesterday 21:29

It was covered up. I lived in one of these towns at the time. It may not have reached national news but it certainly reached local news about certain police officers and local councillors covering it up. It’s been mentioned many times that the police were sometimes complicit. Please stop dismissing what those poor victims went through. They were failed by everyone including the police

How was i dismissing what Henry Nowak went through? And who are the other victims?

All I said it’s not appropriate to compare his murder to antisemitism and I didn’t think it was covered up on purpose, because often with cases, you don’t hear about them until they get to court. That’s it.

TrampleOnTheRoses · Yesterday 21:33

youalright · Yesterday 21:19

They absolutely shouldn't have handcuffed him. They absolutely should of checked him over better for stab wounds and not just his back and then get distracted by the blood on his face. But i am understanding to the fact that we are talking about turning up to a scene with completely wrong information with 10 people standing there wrongly telling you the exact same version of events, no puddle of blood and only about 2 minutes before the poor lad died. I think its unfair to expect anyone to act perfectly im this situation. Yes police are trained but their still human.

I dont know why I’m bothering but it seems disrespectful to HN not to point out that Henry Nowak was a person who was there and gave information. For some reason you are STILL saying that what he said doesn’t matter. PLEASE STOP

Sonato · Yesterday 21:33

Jellox · Yesterday 21:27

I don’t think he was racist.
Where have I said that?

There has been absolutely no evidence that he was ever racist and even his family have condemned any form of making this into a race issue.

People claiming that they were racially profiling him are frankly just dumb and repeating something that they must have heard from someone else.

This would not have happened if the person he was supposed to have attacked was white or if it was a woman etc.

Therefore it was not Henry they were racially profiling because their treatment of him was dependent on the ‘victim’s’ race and not of his own.

Not you personally

The collective you

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 21:33

bafta16 · Yesterday 21:30

Remember Rotherham, and Rochdale and all those other towns. It keeps happening

Please enlighten us all as to the link between abuse of young by men of mostly Pakistani heritage and the murder of a young man?

Stop being disingenuous. The link, if you’ve missed all the tv coverage, newspaper articles and long MN discussion, is that the police, due to DEI and/or fear of racism accusations, failed to act properly.

bafta16 · Yesterday 21:33

The KS take the knee thing for that poor young man is just sheer stupidity. Well done whoever came up with it though.

BeMellowAquaSquid · Yesterday 21:33

I don’t understand personally how Tommy Robinson is allowed this sort of platform. The family of Henry didn’t want this irrespective of anyone’s thoughts their feelings should rightfully be respected. Any respectful protest should come from their direction. Yes people are angry, I am furious myself but our feelings are nothing in comparison to a Mother who has laid her son to rest.

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 21:33

Noodledog · Yesterday 21:27

The place society is going is towards a Reform government, I'm afraid. And every incident like this makes it a bit more likely.

That’s backward, not forward.

Whysnothingsimple · Yesterday 21:33

Jellox · Yesterday 21:15

The white police officers racially profiled a white person??

Make it make sense.

If that was the case, they would assume that they themselves were racist because they were white too and therefore wouldn’t even worry about arresting the white male.

They were not racist towards Henry.
They did not racially profile him.

It invalidates people’s arguments when they claim the white police officers were being racist to the white victim.

Look I’m going to help you because you probably think that you have a clever argument but you really don’t.

Many white British people have been trained to think that being white British is some kind of thing to be ashamed of, that our history is evil, that they have some kind of racist default unless they cede to every belief and demand of non-white groups. We have been trained via educational establishments and the media together with many state and cultural institutions too believe white people are bad. Two tier policing exists, people have been pointing it out for years yet white people have just been shouted down by the white people who have been brainwashed to self flagate over their own race, culture and history.

Ihatetomatoes · Yesterday 21:34

Emilesgran · Yesterday 21:05

Barely: when he said he'd been stabbed, the murderer (or a family member) said "No he hasn't" and the police woman said "I know, but we have to check don't we" and then barely lifted up his shirt to take a glance - because she had already decided that he was the bad guy.

That "I know..." is horrifying, the more I think about it.

This
But the other poster is defending the indefensible. Or on a wind up.

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