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AIBU to feel deeply unsettled by the Southampton protest scenes?

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HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 19:02

Southampton protest against police, huge crowd, Tommy Robinson whipping everyone into a frenzy and saying "this IS about race"

Other speakers declaring that England is a Christian country. The Lords Prayer chanted by every speaker. The leader of UKIP saying he will deport all migrants and make government Christian. The leaders of the protest saying they are being pushed by the police cordon, while the camera angle shows the police haven't moved. The leaders of the protest mocking the female police officer who are taking over a shift from another police officer in the cordon "They're replacing all the men with women!"

This is awful. It feels like the start of civil war. Maybe human beings just aren't supposed to go decades without a fight.

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frindolion · Yesterday 20:58

@HopelessPessimist is your thread going as expected?

hay5689 · Yesterday 20:58

Jellox · Yesterday 20:52

You think the white police officers were racist towards the white male?

Do you know what racism means?

They racially profiled Henry and the consequences mean an 18 year old lost his life.

JHound · Yesterday 20:58

mydaughterisademon · Yesterday 20:47

What I don’t understand is why the police are only being investigated now, or the police officer resigning happens after it becomes public knowledge. Did no one see the footage and ask questions at the time? Think ‘hmm why did no one believe him, weird, wonder why’

im not sure how they could live with themselves knowing this poor boy died, and he might have been saved (no one knows now).

Because it takes protests for action to be taken against police wrongdoings. No investigations are ever launched against police without protest. As we have seen time and time again.

TrampleOnTheRoses · Yesterday 20:58

WhatOnEarthBritain · Yesterday 20:45

As the parent of two young kids of Asian ethnicity I can relate to your worry for them but I can't relate to your racism.

Just a short while ago a young Sikh woman was raped because the perpetrator thought she was Muslim. I still wouldn't agree with a protest against white people or glibly state that they are all racists.

@Broccolish has not indicated they are racist in any way. It is not racist to care about white young men.

Flyingintotheunknown · Yesterday 20:58

Quokkas · Yesterday 20:56

@LuckyHazelFox why are you comparing Henry Nowak’s murder to the antisemitism that Jewish people faced? What are you trying to say?

Just another example of how certain incidents are being dismissed.

JHound · Yesterday 21:00

hay5689 · Yesterday 20:58

They racially profiled Henry and the consequences mean an 18 year old lost his life.

You think white officers racially profiled white Novak? Racially profiled as what exactly? I think it’s more likely they racially profiled the Sikh man and decided a “peaceful, law-abiding Sikh man) would never do such a thing.

PenelopePinkerton · Yesterday 21:00

youalright · Yesterday 19:30

So a couple of officers make a mistake and 100s of other officers should get attacked and assaulted for it because thats exactly what's going to happen. If one of your colleagues made a mistake would you be OK with 1000s of people to come after you for it

Unfortunately far too many mistakes are made by the police. They need to clean their act up.

Lmnop22 · Yesterday 21:00

frecklejuice · Yesterday 19:22

People should be protesting against this, can you imagine the scenes and the uproar if it was the other way around? As the poster above said I have zero problem with people protesting against st the police, they behaved disgustingly and deserve to never work a single day in the police force again.

Absolutely agree with this. It’s just as egregious when it’s a white person or any other colour person in the context of police failures.

The policing here was incredibly poor, the empathy non existent, the level of disbelief palpable and shocking. Those are the features of this case that make it deplorable.

Albuhup · Yesterday 21:01

fairydustt · Yesterday 20:54

Are you all right?

Unbelievable isn't it?

He was only dragged across the ground - so that makes everything ok 🙄

Zoopet · Yesterday 21:01

Going forward I really do think that Keir Starmer and his government should call time on the allowed carrying of ceremonial weapons.
It is absurd that anyone is permitted to carry a ceremonial knife given the huge influx of knife crime in this country.
Double standards.

goingback · Yesterday 21:01

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 19:53

To me that was different, in that and the other US protests the victims had actually been murdered by a police officer. I'm not saying the police in Henry's case shouldn't be prosecuted, but that there crime was extreme negligence perhaps manslaughter. Also, the US cases happened in US and didn't directly affect my country. This is unsettling because it is being tied into a larger movement around Christianity and old fashioned ideas about women and I find that unsettling.

No excuse for violent protests, but when people have ongoing legitimate concerns over policing and other societal issues and the powers that be label them as racists, bigots, far right, etc. Having Starmer take the knee for George Floyd - an American criminal- and say nothing until recently about Henry Novak, an innocent 18 year old man murdered in this country, it will inevitably lead to protests and worse as the feeling is that no one is listening except the Farages and Robinsons.

frindolion · Yesterday 21:01

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 20:58

Well black police are called traitors.

If one or some of the police officers on the scene had been BAME, the outcome for Henry would have been likely different. The white cops are petrified of being accused of racism. The unconscious bias training has gone too far.

Quokkas · Yesterday 21:02

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 20:54

They certainly were expected to comply. If they didn't agree with the riots they were called racists. If they said politics had no place in football they were called racist. If they said all lives matter, you've guessed it.

Who is ‘they’?

You’ve mentioned football in your post, so by ‘they’, I’m guessing you mean the England football team.

They discussed taking the knee and they really wanted fo do it because it was important to them, and lots has been reported on this. No one made them do it.

fairydustt · Yesterday 21:02

JHound · Yesterday 20:56

You mean the white police?

I’m confused why people think that white people can’t be racist towards white people? Anyone can be racist towards anyone, even if they’re the same race. Women can be misogynistic, gay people can’t be homophobic etc

The race of the officers and victim doesn’t automatically rule out racial bias. The question is whether race or ethnicity influenced how the people involved were perceived or treated.. which clearly it did

DontBuyAnotherBook · Yesterday 21:03

Zoopet · Yesterday 21:01

Going forward I really do think that Keir Starmer and his government should call time on the allowed carrying of ceremonial weapons.
It is absurd that anyone is permitted to carry a ceremonial knife given the huge influx of knife crime in this country.
Double standards.

The one he stabbed him with is not the one they are allowed to carry.

Forrdige · Yesterday 21:03

Albuhup · Yesterday 21:01

Unbelievable isn't it?

He was only dragged across the ground - so that makes everything ok 🙄

This person is on the wind up. Suggesting they wouldn’t be upset about the police disrespecting and mocking their dying child sealed it for me.

youalright · Yesterday 21:03

Albuhup · Yesterday 21:01

Unbelievable isn't it?

He was only dragged across the ground - so that makes everything ok 🙄

How do you help someone you can't get to if they are between a car and a wall

JHound · Yesterday 21:03

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 20:58

Well black police are called traitors.

Source?

Although what does that have to do with white police officers apparently profiling a young white man?

youalright · Yesterday 21:03

Forrdige · Yesterday 21:03

This person is on the wind up. Suggesting they wouldn’t be upset about the police disrespecting and mocking their dying child sealed it for me.

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Again never said that

EasternStandard · Yesterday 21:04

youalright · Yesterday 21:03

How do you help someone you can't get to if they are between a car and a wall

How did they help him? They handcuffed him, ignored his pleas and he died.

youalright · Yesterday 21:04

Can someone explain to me how throwing glass bottles at the police which is currently whats happening, help this situation

RubyGoose99 · Yesterday 21:04

Forrdige · Yesterday 21:03

This person is on the wind up. Suggesting they wouldn’t be upset about the police disrespecting and mocking their dying child sealed it for me.

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I've reported and suggest others do too.

No one can be that inhumane.

TeaCupTinsel · Yesterday 21:04

DontBuyAnotherBook · Yesterday 20:42

Interesting to note on BBC reports of anti-Semitic attacks most or all the perpetrators were Muslim. Just an observation. Even the recent attacker was Muslim.

I'm not any authority on the matter, especially as we live over the other side of the country from where these incidents took place, but I presumed that many of the attacks and incidents between those from the Muslim and Jewish communities in London were due to increasing tensions because of the Israeli/Palestine conflict which had then spilled over to the UK because of family members/ supporting those of the same faith. (Only presumed that as we had been warned in safeguarding briefing to be aware of potential tensions between students of different faiths...although, thankfully, nothing has happened so far on that front as yet.)

Aside from any tensions between any faith community (such as the antisemitism or islamophobia) racist and misogynistic abuse has also been on the rise so there has been a definite 'shift' towards aggressive and hateful abuse towards others. I don't know what it will take for the tide to turn again, so I do understand why the OP feels 'unsettled' as I feel it too. Just the constant undercurrent of tension in society and local communities.

hay5689 · Yesterday 21:04

JHound · Yesterday 21:00

You think white officers racially profiled white Novak? Racially profiled as what exactly? I think it’s more likely they racially profiled the Sikh man and decided a “peaceful, law-abiding Sikh man) would never do such a thing.

They assumed because he was white that he had to be guilty of the racism accusations. They saw a young white man and decided he was the problem.

JuliaBraverman · Yesterday 21:04

Broccolish · Yesterday 19:07

I feel far more unsettled as a parent of white young adults in a country where police are more concerned about being called racist than protecting people against violence.

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