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AIBU to feel deeply unsettled by the Southampton protest scenes?

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HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 19:02

Southampton protest against police, huge crowd, Tommy Robinson whipping everyone into a frenzy and saying "this IS about race"

Other speakers declaring that England is a Christian country. The Lords Prayer chanted by every speaker. The leader of UKIP saying he will deport all migrants and make government Christian. The leaders of the protest saying they are being pushed by the police cordon, while the camera angle shows the police haven't moved. The leaders of the protest mocking the female police officer who are taking over a shift from another police officer in the cordon "They're replacing all the men with women!"

This is awful. It feels like the start of civil war. Maybe human beings just aren't supposed to go decades without a fight.

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JHound · Yesterday 20:38

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 20:33

I'm actually so glad that the US police all wear bodycams now. Every time peole have tried to stir up another BLM/Floyd situation, they just release them and problem solved.

Oh I agree bodycam footage but especially smartphones (as police frequently “lose” bodycam footage) have been great for capturing the truth of police brutality and ensuring, at a minimum that police bad behaviour is properly investigated and, where necessary prosecuted. As we just saw with Sandra Massey. Great stuff.

Jellox · Yesterday 20:38

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 20:23

The white police officers weren’t heavier handed or delayed medical treatment because they were systematically racist to white people.

But that's exactly what they were. They automatically believed the non-white person who had said the magic r-word, over the stabbed white boy.

And unlike Floyd, he wasn't a fentanyl addict with a criminal record, either.

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How is believing the non-white person got anything to do with George Floyd being arrested and ultimately dying?

It literally has no correlation.

I have not heard of multiple white dying whilst being arrested and so your point is completely invalid.

The police officers were white and the man that died was white - there was no racism towards the young man at all, so I’m not sure why you’re implying that there is.

And why does it matter if someone has a criminal record or a drug addiction issue - does that mean it’s ok for police to not seek medical assistance when needed?

Anyone who tries to compare this to George Floyd or BLM protests are dumb as fuck and have no other argument than to say “but what about…..”

LoopyLoo1991 · Yesterday 20:39

WaryCrow · Yesterday 19:12

Maybe human beings men just aren't supposed to go decades without a fight.
fixed it for you.

But yes, it’s deeply worrying how far reason has dropped in this country. Britain was once known for fairness. Now we are just prey for demagogues that the Greeks always talked about. The watch has indeed failed, thanks to the greed of superyacht owners and their sycophants.

My BF has studied history extensively and mentioned 80+ years without a major war involving the whole or parts of the British Isles is practically unheard of since the Romans were in Britain.
Korea was for professional military mainly, National Service ended, Falklands, Gulf Wars I & II, Afghanistan and peace keeping also professional army etc.
The 'masses' not experiencing it just isn't the norm. Few countries had over 50 years with no conflicts. Almost none over a hundred years iirc.

Greenwitchart · Yesterday 20:39

PinkPonyAnonymous · Yesterday 20:27

A dreadfully sad case. Awful to see the likes of Tommy Robinson capitalising on it. That poor boy deserves peace.

Exactly.

His poor parents have made it clear they want to grieve in peace and not to have their son's death politicised.

Farage and Robinson are vile individuals who are using this tragic death to push their agenda of hate and division as well as disrespecting the bereaved family.

Flyingintotheunknown · Yesterday 20:40

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 20:38

Nothing to see here folks. It's only a young promising white boy who's the victim. Just like the shit the Jewish community have to put up with. You wouldn't mind but the very people who tell everyone else they are racist have shown fk all empathy over 3 threads today.

This!!

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 20:40

The taking the knee business was preposterous.

When the police felled the recent stabber in Golders Green, Zack Polanski immediately waded in to complain about the manner in which they apprehended someone potentially booby-trapped as I’m convinced he thought he could lead a George Floyd moment.

Hhmph, actually our Green friends have been pretty quiet about Henry Nowak - except to mount a protest against a vigil. Lovely kind people…

youalright · Yesterday 20:41

TrampleOnTheRoses · Yesterday 20:38

Please will people stop saying this. HN told the police he had been stabbed. His words matter, not just the other people’s.

And they looked for stab wounds and called an ambulance.

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 20:41

Owlsintheforest · Yesterday 20:35

You’ll be fine. I doubt your neighbours are running around with machetes and getting their families to cover up their brutal crimes for them.

That's true, I think I'm realising that this is what protests of any 'wing' persuasion are like and I've just never seen it live streamed or in somewhere I know before. It's an eye opener.

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olivepicanto · Yesterday 20:41

Dollymylove · Yesterday 20:29

So we, the British people have to shut up and tolerate it do we? Those little girls at Southport could be anyone's daughters, Henry could be the son of any one of us.
Get off your high horse FFS

Tolerate what?

one British man murdered another. It happens all over the country

why is this case the red line

by the way, I'm British and I think these "protests" are pathetic. An excuse for thugs to thug

MistressoftheDarkSide · Yesterday 20:41

Owlsintheforest · Yesterday 20:30

What’s wrong with Christians? There’s another thread on here with people defending Sikhs and Muslims yet you’re demonising Christians!

There's nothing wrong with any religion until it starts being co-opted and leveraged for both financial and ideological reasons in largely politically secular countries and adds a layer of extra tension mired in mythology to real world problems that need addressing with cool heads for the overall well-being of real people and not to appease whichever beardy big Daddy in the sky you want to pick.

Christian Nationalism is surging in the US and Farage is chums with a good few, including staunch pro-lifers. If people want to scoff against those of us old enough to have heard from our grandparents the lessons of history, so be it. But there are very disturbing parallels in the evolving zeitgeist.

And this case is utterly appalling in so many ways it utterly beggars belief and breaks my heart.

Ihatetomatoes · Yesterday 20:42

Albuhup · Yesterday 20:38

Nine times he told the police he couldn't breathe

Four times he told them he'd been stabbed

The response, "i dont think you have mate"

This.

Unbelievable. They believed the racism claim over everything the white lad said. He was grey, dying in front of them. Two tier policing.

TrampleOnTheRoses · Yesterday 20:42

youalright · Yesterday 20:25

No id be mad at the murderer they already made it clear Henry couldn't of been saved no matter what anyone did

Are you saying that if someone is fatally injured it doesn’t matter how he is treated as he is dying? Because that seems to be what you are saying.

JHound · Yesterday 20:42

Whatifitallgoesright · Yesterday 20:37

And there is zero evidence of systemic police racism towards white people in the UK. None.

I think there is growing evidence that there is systemic racism towards white working class girls who've been dragged into large family and community-run rape gangs all across the country.

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Systemic class bias? Absolutely. Fear of being seen as racist? Maybe (although stop and search figures suggest otherwise). But not empirical evidence of anti-white systemic racism in the police force. But happy to stand corrected if any posters have access to data I don’t.

DontBuyAnotherBook · Yesterday 20:42

TeaCupTinsel · Yesterday 20:31

We have had some incidents of antisemitism, yes, but that was perpetrated by those affiliated with a horrible group called 'Patriotic Alternative' (well, presumably their parents and the kids just copied), so not 'left' leaning as they are a far right organisation.

I know both the Synagogues and Mosques where we live employ security guards and there have been instances of abusive graffiti both antisemitic and islamophobic in various places (ramped up when 'protests' or marches were taking place).

We are a long way away from the capital though and the only religious schools we have in the area are C of E or Catholic.

Interesting to note on BBC reports of anti-Semitic attacks most or all the perpetrators were Muslim. Just an observation. Even the recent attacker was Muslim.

Ihatetomatoes · Yesterday 20:43

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 20:40

The taking the knee business was preposterous.

When the police felled the recent stabber in Golders Green, Zack Polanski immediately waded in to complain about the manner in which they apprehended someone potentially booby-trapped as I’m convinced he thought he could lead a George Floyd moment.

Hhmph, actually our Green friends have been pretty quiet about Henry Nowak - except to mount a protest against a vigil. Lovely kind people…

Indeed. The Greens show us who they are so many times.

Solaitt · Yesterday 20:43

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 20:01

Likely, they’ll probably turn up to tell Tommy Robinson to fuck off home.

Wherever his home is.

Spain.

DontBuyAnotherBook · Yesterday 20:43

MistressoftheDarkSide · Yesterday 20:41

There's nothing wrong with any religion until it starts being co-opted and leveraged for both financial and ideological reasons in largely politically secular countries and adds a layer of extra tension mired in mythology to real world problems that need addressing with cool heads for the overall well-being of real people and not to appease whichever beardy big Daddy in the sky you want to pick.

Christian Nationalism is surging in the US and Farage is chums with a good few, including staunch pro-lifers. If people want to scoff against those of us old enough to have heard from our grandparents the lessons of history, so be it. But there are very disturbing parallels in the evolving zeitgeist.

And this case is utterly appalling in so many ways it utterly beggars belief and breaks my heart.

What about radical Islam then? Most attacks on Jews recently have been by Muslims.

PinkPonyAnonymous · Yesterday 20:43

Greenwitchart · Yesterday 20:39

Exactly.

His poor parents have made it clear they want to grieve in peace and not to have their son's death politicised.

Farage and Robinson are vile individuals who are using this tragic death to push their agenda of hate and division as well as disrespecting the bereaved family.

It takes his dignity to use his name as a banner for Robinson and Farage’s cause.

I think there are questions to be asked about police brutality but that doesn’t have to be done in a racially charged atmosphere on the streets. It’s for his family to dictate that.

Tableforjoan · Yesterday 20:43

Lying there dying handcuffed. Your pleas ignored while your murderer has a chat with the police about your racist attack on them. An attack that did not happen. Your last words heard being that you wasn’t believed.

Being so let down by the people meant to protect and serve. All in the name is racism. Fake lies racism at that.

Hurty words should never ever take precedence over an alleged attack. Because as proven the words were fake while the attacked died with no dignity.

whatifs1 · Yesterday 20:44

youalright · Yesterday 20:41

And they looked for stab wounds and called an ambulance.

After telling him he hadn’t been and dragging him to the ground in handcuffs 🙄

where is your empathy for the poor boy?

HopelessPessimist · Yesterday 20:44

LoopyLoo1991 · Yesterday 20:39

My BF has studied history extensively and mentioned 80+ years without a major war involving the whole or parts of the British Isles is practically unheard of since the Romans were in Britain.
Korea was for professional military mainly, National Service ended, Falklands, Gulf Wars I & II, Afghanistan and peace keeping also professional army etc.
The 'masses' not experiencing it just isn't the norm. Few countries had over 50 years with no conflicts. Almost none over a hundred years iirc.

That's really interesting thank you for sharing! It makes sense, the relative peace we've lived through in the West has been an anomoly. I am just recoiling at what that means for us now. I think I'm going to need to get a bit more resilient, that's for sure.

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Teethyblinders · Yesterday 20:44

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 20:30

Disgusting - George Floyd was a violent criminal. He should not have been restrained in the manner he was, but he was a piece of s**t unless you think holding a gun to a pregnant woman’s stomach is worthy of having a street named after you, or indeed David Guetta during his set rapping, “A shout out to George Floyd and his family!” Boom boom boom…

Do you remember when the English football team kneeled for him? A violent criminal who died in America? We’ve got the World Cup in a few weeks do you think they’ll kneel for a British teenager?

Dollymylove · Yesterday 20:45

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 19:58

You feel deeply unsettled. Bless. Take a moment to think how Henry Nowak's parents are feeling right now. A dog whistle thread if ever I saw one.

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Wow isnt the empathy just pouring out of you 🙄

WhatOnEarthBritain · Yesterday 20:45

Broccolish · Yesterday 19:07

I feel far more unsettled as a parent of white young adults in a country where police are more concerned about being called racist than protecting people against violence.

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As the parent of two young kids of Asian ethnicity I can relate to your worry for them but I can't relate to your racism.

Just a short while ago a young Sikh woman was raped because the perpetrator thought she was Muslim. I still wouldn't agree with a protest against white people or glibly state that they are all racists.

Flyingintotheunknown · Yesterday 20:45

whatifs1 · Yesterday 20:44

After telling him he hadn’t been and dragging him to the ground in handcuffs 🙄

where is your empathy for the poor boy?

Honestly, people who are making excuses for how this poor lad was unfairly treated make me sick! They literally have no empathy at all

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