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Heatwave water deaths - campaign required

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aurpod1980 · 29/05/2026 06:56

I saw the tragic news of two more lives lost in the heatwave, in water.

I believe there needs to be some sort of National campaign to warn people of the dangers of open water on hot days - or any day.

so many lives lost.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cn0p7j3lwepo

Search and rescue teams at the side of a pond

Teenage boys die in Kent and Oxford in latest heatwave water deaths

The body of a boy is recovered from a pond in Kent, while another teen dies in the River Thames in Oxford.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cn0p7j3lwepo

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canuckup · 29/05/2026 22:16

It's not the youth of today. It's just youth.

aurpod1980 · 30/05/2026 15:11

I noticed today our local council has done a Facebook post and referenced our local open waters - but teens don’t look at Facebook but parents can pass it on

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rrrrrreatt · 31/05/2026 09:53

StephensLass1977 · 29/05/2026 08:52

My partner grew up in a coastal town in the 90s and 2000s. Everyone managed to swim and enjoy the sea without getting into any trouble. People today seem to have an "I'll do what I like, the rules don't appy to me" attitude.

I do think some ego comes into play, here. Rules don't apply to them, etc. There are plenty of warnings, and parents should also provide education.

In the 80s we had the terrifying public information films (adverts) and they shocked (most of) us into behaving, but our parents had already done the groundwork with us.

Im the same generation as your partner and grew up in a small coastal town but not everyone managed to swim safely where I was. I remember one lad dying and another suffering life changing injuries tombstoning in separate incidents.

We did all get taught a huge amount of sea/water safety though so that was stupidity rather than ignorance. I spent most of the summer in the sea and being safe in water was drummed into us constantly. I can’t even remember when we started learning because it’s so engrained in me now.

I think all children should be taught from reception about staying safe in the sea and inland water. They’re genuinely skills for life; I did a basic lifesaving course and used that recently to fish someone struggling out of a very busy pool at a holiday park.

godmum56 · 31/05/2026 10:16

canuckup · 29/05/2026 22:16

It's not the youth of today. It's just youth.

this. I think also, as with lots of things, increasing media coverage makes it seem like its a new and growing problem. The boy I knew who broke his neck never even made it into the local paper.

floatinginacoolpool · 31/05/2026 10:18

godmum56 · 31/05/2026 10:16

this. I think also, as with lots of things, increasing media coverage makes it seem like its a new and growing problem. The boy I knew who broke his neck never even made it into the local paper.

Agreed
The breathless tally of deaths is a bit grim.
Previously people might have known about local deaths

My husband's grandfather lost a dear friend through drowning when they were swimming together as boys. 70 years on he still went over the events often, it was clearly a profound trauma.

HelenHan67 · 31/05/2026 10:37

aurpod1980 · 29/05/2026 07:23

but where might these teens see/hear something? Like something hard hitting to stop them. It’s so so sad to wake up to hear more news like this and it seems it’s more than ever before.

There are lots of things teen boys don’t do wrong - there has to be something they they’ll see or hear?

I'm not disputing this is really sad, I agree, but I'm not sure what can be done about it. As there's campaigns every year. I think they're ignored or not listened to. And I'm not blaming the teens or the parents at all because teenagers barely listen - that's what they are like! I was like that as a teen. I think most people don't really develop the same awareness of risk until they're older.

Zov · 02/06/2026 13:42

This is getting bad isn't it? 17 now! And I think they've nearly all been in the last month!

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rwalker · 02/06/2026 18:10

There’s a beauty spot near us with medieval bridge
notices every about it’s illegal and prosecution and even a notice about deaths and people being paralysed
they still jump off it

NameChangeMay2026 · 03/06/2026 03:49

Zov · 02/06/2026 13:42

This is getting bad isn't it? 17 now! And I think they've nearly all been in the last month!

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It's really terrible. 😢

NameChangeMay2026 · 03/06/2026 03:51

rrrrrreatt · 31/05/2026 09:53

Im the same generation as your partner and grew up in a small coastal town but not everyone managed to swim safely where I was. I remember one lad dying and another suffering life changing injuries tombstoning in separate incidents.

We did all get taught a huge amount of sea/water safety though so that was stupidity rather than ignorance. I spent most of the summer in the sea and being safe in water was drummed into us constantly. I can’t even remember when we started learning because it’s so engrained in me now.

I think all children should be taught from reception about staying safe in the sea and inland water. They’re genuinely skills for life; I did a basic lifesaving course and used that recently to fish someone struggling out of a very busy pool at a holiday park.

It's pretty bad that the lifeguards didn't see.

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