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Heatwave water deaths - campaign required

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aurpod1980 · Today 06:56

I saw the tragic news of two more lives lost in the heatwave, in water.

I believe there needs to be some sort of National campaign to warn people of the dangers of open water on hot days - or any day.

so many lives lost.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cn0p7j3lwepo

Search and rescue teams at the side of a pond

Teenage boys die in Kent and Oxford in latest heatwave water deaths

The body of a boy is recovered from a pond in Kent, while another teen dies in the River Thames in Oxford.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cn0p7j3lwepo

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viques · Today 10:01

Wolmando · Today 07:13

There are a lot of warnings, sadly mainly young teenage boys, alway has been.

Agree. If ever you go to Postmans Park in London ( near the Barbican) there is a gallery of plaques commemorating people who have lost their lives trying to save others. A lot of them are young people who died trying to save others when swimming.

Young people, hot weather, cold water. Fatal combination.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · Today 10:03

There are signs at a lot of these places saying no swimming allowed. But kids, who unfortunately think they know better, just ignore them. Learning to swim isn't the issue as that isn't always the problem - it's cold water shock.

ChalkOutlines · Today 10:04

EmeraldShamrock000 · Today 09:58

It’s awful, tragic. Many of these people would consider themselves good swimmers, the water is extremely dangerous. Pool only for me.

Often , that’s part of the issue. We tell kids they’re a good, competent swimmer , at stage whatever, good form, excellent stamina etc. Those all apply (mostly) to a controlled environment. Heated pool, no tides, no currents, nothing underwater, clear water , no waves , no dips etc.

viques · Today 10:04

viques · Today 10:01

Agree. If ever you go to Postmans Park in London ( near the Barbican) there is a gallery of plaques commemorating people who have lost their lives trying to save others. A lot of them are young people who died trying to save others when swimming.

Young people, hot weather, cold water. Fatal combination.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Memorial_to_Heroic_Self-Sacrifice

Wiki link to Postmans Park memorial. Well worth a visit.

Memorial to Heroic Self-Sacrifice - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Memorial_to_Heroic_Self-Sacrifice

Worralorra · Today 10:08

In a world where people are ignoring very clear warning signs, such as those at Hampstead Heath model boating pond, where “no swimming” and “nesting waterfowl” is clearly marked, I think something similar to the road safety campaign, showing the number of deaths last year on a sign shaped like a pedestrian (in this case, a swimmer) might do the trick…

itsgettingweird · Today 10:09

JustAnUdea · Today 09:44

Its an odd place... you arent allowed to swim, but you can paddleboard, kayak etc (wearing a PFD). Plus you are allowed tobfall off said craft. But you arent allowed to swim...

You must be allowed to swim at some point.

The best OW swimmers in the country do a 7.5k race there each July!

Maybe only organised swimming is allowed?

Bloozie · Today 10:12

Campaigns CAN reach teenage boys. This one was quite successful, targeting the same group:

But there's no one single organisation that would fund it like there is on the railways. We need to go back to the good old days of public information films.

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KnickerlessParsons · Today 10:13

We need something like the ~"Charlie says" safety warnings of the 1960s/1970s but where the young will see them. I was terrified of going near a pylon because Charlie said it was very dangerous.

Maybe big bill boards along roads by schools, or roads anywhere.

JustAnUdea · Today 10:15

itsgettingweird · Today 10:09

You must be allowed to swim at some point.

The best OW swimmers in the country do a 7.5k race there each July!

Maybe only organised swimming is allowed?

I meant just randomly.
Tge last time we were there (last sumner) tgere were patrols stopping people without PFDs and being too far fron shore without a craft.

We stopped going because of too many family groups (and teens) drinking and nkt supervising small children.

Skybluepinky · Today 10:16

aurpod1980 · Today 07:23

but where might these teens see/hear something? Like something hard hitting to stop them. It’s so so sad to wake up to hear more news like this and it seems it’s more than ever before.

There are lots of things teen boys don’t do wrong - there has to be something they they’ll see or hear?

Go back to the old style videos they use to show at schools that warned everyone of what would happen if they did certain behaviours.

ApplebyArrows · Today 10:18

fairydustt · Today 09:24

I don’t think that’s a fair conclusion. Most of the incidents weren’t in cities at all, they happened at places like Ribchester, Pickmere, Kingsbury and Angle, which are villages, as well as lakes and rivers near small towns. And I don’t think it’s been said where the individuals were from.

And suggesting the parents were “ignorant” seems quite harsh when we know nothing about the families involved. Open water can be dangerous for anyone, regardless of where they live or how experienced they are.

There are loads of urban areas with a lot of water about. (Towns tend to be built around rivers and big cities will often still have a lot of canals; also urban lakes are not uncommon.) And most inland rural areas do not have as ready access to open water as the Lake District! So I don't think it's fair to suggest it's a town vs country thing anyway.

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 10:19

Dollymylove · Today 09:52

The 80s was a completely different world from today's world. There was still discipline by parents and in schools. Crime was taken seriously, if you got caught shoplifting you were arrested and taken to court.
Knife culture was rarely heard of. Drugs were frowned upon and only hippies smoked weed.
Now its a free-for-all. Its all me me me, im entitled to kick your door off its hinges and harrass your grandparents if I want to and nothing will be done about it. Although use some "hurty wordz" and off to jail you go..Respect for your environment and your neighbours went down the toilet years ago

What dya what? Talk about rose tinted glasses. i was caught shoplifting in the 80s. Nothing was done. Rave culture was drugged addled, not to even touch on the heroin epidemic!

noblegiraffe · Today 10:19

Skybluepinky · Today 10:16

Go back to the old style videos they use to show at schools that warned everyone of what would happen if they did certain behaviours.

When something bad happens involving kids, people always say 'they should be taught about this at school'.

We have endless assemblies where people come in to talk about the dangers of drugs, fire, water, traffic, knives, punching people.

Because schools see the dangers and don't want it happening to their kids.

People assume that these things happen because kids haven't been told, when often they have.

Mummyoflittledragon · Today 10:23

cauliflowercheeseplease · Today 07:19

Sadly the youth of today are a law unto their own. I live near a big lake and constantly see teenage boys going to it everyday at the moment. There are more than enough signs and warnings surrounding it to tell them how dangerous it is but obviously they know best. I genuinely don’t think it’s the parents fault here either, I live in a lovely area with great schools.. it’s teenager boys entitled, defiant don’t care behaviour.

It was no different in the past wrt swimming. Just we didn’t have signs up. My uncle used to swim in the Thames regularly apparently.

BlackeyedSusan · Today 10:23

Bring back Charlie. Scare the shit out of them young.

Gloriia · Today 10:28

Maybe there's nothing you can do. As a pp said they know the risks and do it anyway.

MolkosTeenageAngst · Today 10:37

There are warnings and campaigns. I have been to one of the lakes where a death happened last week, there is a big, prominent sign which says danger, no swimming but every time the sun comes out it is packed with people swimming in the water literally right next to the sign.

MrsClattenburg · Today 10:38

StillAGoth · Today 09:23

I hear Andrew Tate is quite popular with teenage boys. Perhaps he could teach them.something useful!

Unfortunately Andrew Tate was the first person who sprang to mind (awful as that is!) 😫

Locutus2000 · Today 10:42

NameChangeMay2026 · Today 08:36

I do always wonder how people drown if they can swim. It's not like the Thames has big waves and tides. Did they get cold-water shock?

I came incredibly close to death in my late teens, I was in with the hippies and went skinny-dipping in the local 'pits' - ex quarries.

It went fine - I was a very strong swimmer back then - until I went just an extra metre and the water turned ice-cold, I had reached a huge drop in the depth of the floor and it literally took my breath away. Somehow made it back to shore and nobody had any idea I was in trouble. I will never forget it and my kids are well-educated on the risks of open water.

susiedaisy1912 · Today 10:50

My grandmother who would have been 95 if she were still alive told me that a boy drowned whilst they were all swimming in water back when she was a teenager. They all knew not to swim there because it had reeds in the bottom but they went anyway. She said the boy jumped in and just didn’t come back up. He got caught up in the reeds and drowned. She got a right bollocking when she got home and her parents found out.

Feastsbaby · Today 10:54

Gingernaut · Today 07:10

  1. People are so locked in their own social media/media bubbles, that they often miss important messages
  1. Too many people overestimate their ability to swim
  1. Too many people can't grasp simple physics - very large bodies of water are very cold, even in warm weather, cold shock is deadly and even if one becomes accustomed to the cold, trying to swim in cold water is very tiring

If you jump into large bodies of cold water, especially on hot days, death is more likely

Bring on Donald Pleasance and the rest of the water safety ads

Which brings us to point number one again

Yes bring back the service announcement.

Dollymylove · Today 11:06

Mochudubh · Today 10:00

For the under 50s:

Public Information Film voiced by Donald Pleasance as referenced by pps above.

Omg I remember this!! It scared the living daylights out of me!!

Lastqueenofscotland2 · Today 11:22

There are so many different sources now, when I was a child you had terrestrial TV.
The issue is now for every good warning/announcement you’ve got some idiot on TikTok/YouTube with “beginners hike in the Lake District - striding edge” making people think they can do whatever.
Im a pretty keen hiker/fell runner and I’ve seen people out and really struggling in completely inappropriate gear (wellies on rough ground, hoodies and jeans in wet weather etc). The issue is social media and until the outdoors influencer types actually start posting about how dangerous jumping into a giant body of cold water is, not just “oh look at this fab wild swimming spot” it will continue to happen

LetsMakeThisMomentLast · Today 11:39

LaliqueSaltGrinder · Today 07:13

Teenage boys do not heed warnings.

I agree with this. Most of them think they’re invincible. And that they know better than everyone else. I think there should definitely be a huge effort to get the information across to them, but sadly I believe most of those who want to take the risk won’t let a wagging finger from some boring adult put them off.

I look back with horror at some of the utterly stupid risks I took as a teenage girl and I would call myself pretty risk averse overall.