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Is Andy Burnham reasonable to say only a small minority of women object to men being in their toilets? YABU he's right, YANBU he's wrong *titled tweaked by MNHQ at OP's request*

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 20/05/2026 09:39

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-15830845/Andy-Burnham-men-identify-women-use-female-toilets.html

'I don't think that's a majority view. I think it's a minority view and quite a small minority view, actually. But it is a view so you can't completely ignore it. Possibly they might be women who have experienced male violence at some point in their life. I don't know, that's one way of looking at it.'

Andy Burnham backs men who identify as female using women's toilets

The Greater Manchester mayor said the idea that single sex spaces like toilets should be protected for biological women was a 'minority view'.

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-15830845/Andy-Burnham-men-identify-women-use-female-toilets.html

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spannasaurus · 20/05/2026 15:39

Beer3000 · 20/05/2026 14:53

I don't think that Andy Burnham likes women. He is a man's man, and I think when he thinks of how he appeals to "voters" he is not even thinking about women.

He completely talked down to Yvette Cooper during a previous leadership campaign debate, which put me off him for life. Regardless of what you think about Nicola Sturgeon, he was completely disrespectful to her position during covid, also.

I have to admit though - I can't get worked up about public toilets. I would far rather share female toilets with transwomen than unisex toilets with men, which is where the alternative is heading. The two incidents I can think of locally with attacks in public toilets were 1) a woman being raped by a man in female toilets - the sign on the door didn't stop him. 2) a young boy being raped in male toilets. It just doesn't seem safe for women, transwomen, transmen or children to have to share toilets with men. In an ideal world, there would be ample unisex "other" facilities, for families, trans people, accessibility issues not covered by a blue badge, etc in additional to male and female only, but it's just not pragmatic in the short term at least.

Why would you prefer to share female toilets with men rather than share unisex toilets with men?

Gillydoller · 20/05/2026 15:40

AlcoholicAntibiotic · 20/05/2026 15:31

I’d definitely have preferred Yvette Cooper over Jeremy Corbyn.

But Jeremy Corbyn was a misogynist dick so that’s easy to say. It’s not saying Yvette Cooper would be any good.

DrBlackbird · 20/05/2026 15:41

Easytoconfuse · 20/05/2026 15:25

Are women who've been the victims of male sexual violence pearl clutchers then? What happened to 'be kind?' Could it be that it actually means 'give me what I want and get out of my way you stupid woman?'

Besides, it doesn't matter what Andy Burnham thinks about the law. It is and remains the law until someone changes it, and that means biological women are the only ones who are allowed in spaces marked for women.

None of the "I’m a progressive liberal and you’re a lot of pearl clutching Karen’s" ever respond to comments like these to say the quiet part out loud… ie that they don’t care about other women who have been subjected to male violence and who do not want to share toilets with men who say they’re women. They’re okay with transwomen, so that’s that.

EasternStandard · 20/05/2026 15:43

NetZeroZealot · 20/05/2026 15:28

he Made these comments before the Supreme Court ruling.

and it is possible to agree with both.

I do.

Which part of what he said do you agree with?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 20/05/2026 15:43

CraftySeal · 20/05/2026 13:00

I wouldn't care if a trans woman, or for that matter, a man, was using the women's toilets as long as they weren't behaving inappropriately. And then the issue would be that they were behaving inappropriately rather than that they were trans/a man.

What's the point of having men's and women's loos in the first place then?

As soon as you go from simple split by sex to "women plus someone else" , you are making a weird statement about what women are "like" and how some men are enough "like that" to count as women as well

Women plus people of any sex in dresses
Women plus people who don't behave inappropriately
Women plus people who have womanly minds

It makes no sense and it's really offensive to women (and indeed men!) to decide some men are more like women than other men are.

Easytoconfuse · 20/05/2026 15:45

Bridgertonisbest · 20/05/2026 10:46

I have experienced all manner of sexual and non sexual violence from men. No, not an ex sex worker but merely grew up working class!

I couldn’t give a toss who’s in the next cubicle of the loos to me. None of the men who have assaulted me were dressed as a woman. Men have never needed to dress as women to attack them. Almost all the men that attacked me were known to me/family.

i would suggest that the ons figures are vastly under represented. Amongst my friends, it’s more like 1 in 6 NOT assaulted.

I respect your right to choose but I don't think you should make decisions for all women Why can't we have either biological male, biological female and unisex or unisex loos that are kept clean and have separate wall floor to ceiling cubicles, sinks and sanitary disposal facilities? Oh, and people who leave loos in a mess should have hornets put in their underwear.

Easytoconfuse · 20/05/2026 15:48

simpsonthecat · 20/05/2026 11:05

I'm curious. On the continent, there are a lot of toilets in public spaces (airports etc) with cubicles and both the man and woman sign on the outside, i.e. they are unisex. Doesn't worry me at all.
Just to add, I don't know anyone who is concerned about this.

What does bother you? How would you feel if you were dismissed like this when it mattered to you? This is a serious question because I'm trying very hard to understand why people have this 'I'm all right, Jack' attitude about so many things.

Easytoconfuse · 20/05/2026 15:50

NetZeroZealot · 20/05/2026 11:07

Of all Andy Burnham’s beliefs this is the one that matters least to me.

How would you feel if your beliefs were dismissed like this?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/05/2026 15:52

Gillydoller · 20/05/2026 15:40

But Jeremy Corbyn was a misogynist dick so that’s easy to say. It’s not saying Yvette Cooper would be any good.

It wasn’t that easy to say at the time. All the non-Corbyn cohort came across badly at the time, personally speaking. For my sins, I had a vote and I voted for him in the leadership election when he won. I wouldn’t do it in hindsight! And I still dislike all the others, Cooper, Burnham etc, they haven’t grown on me. It’s just that Corbyn has shown his true colours.

Easytoconfuse · 20/05/2026 15:53

moto748e · 20/05/2026 11:31

The response in the OP is pretty awful. Has Burnham been asked again recently? Is he prepared to disassociate himself from them now?

According to the Telegraph, he's not commenting. (As of half an hour ago. He might have U-turned by now.)

BasiliskStare · 20/05/2026 15:53

At the last GE I had a man canvassing for the Labour Party - he was lovely in the face of me telling him I would not vote for a party where the leader obviously had a kip during biology lessons. Anyway - I apologised to him & he said - don't worry I get worse from my wife. I am not sure AB speaks for the whole Labour party.

NetZeroZealot · 20/05/2026 15:56

Easytoconfuse · 20/05/2026 15:50

How would you feel if your beliefs were dismissed like this?

Many of my beliefs are. Check out my user name. I accept it as part of political discourse and the price of living in a democracy.

Gillydoller · 20/05/2026 15:57

Easytoconfuse · 20/05/2026 15:53

According to the Telegraph, he's not commenting. (As of half an hour ago. He might have U-turned by now.)

He’s too much of a weasel. Not wanting to upset the crazed blue haired loons, not wanting to upset 51% of the voting public. He’s totally gutless.

This should be a clear, unequivocal “of course women deserve for their own single sex spaces to be protected”. What’s so hard? Unless you don’t agree.

NetZeroZealot · 20/05/2026 15:58

EasternStandard · 20/05/2026 15:43

Which part of what he said do you agree with?

That it is a minority of women who think trans people should be banned from women's toilets.

mrshoho · 20/05/2026 15:59

"So why are we allowing everyone to get into this really polarised and terribly hateful debate about these issues?
'I am going to make it really plain: I support trans rights and I want that to be known.'"

Andy Burnham's words from 2022. He made it very plain, that he wanted no debate on the matter. What a stupid arrogant man. I do hope he is now respecting the law of the land.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/05/2026 15:59

NetZeroZealot · 20/05/2026 15:58

That it is a minority of women who think trans people should be banned from women's toilets.

You’re wrong. I believe it’s already been refuted with evidence upthread. And it’s not “trans people”, it’s men. Men who identify as women.

BIossomtoes · 20/05/2026 15:59

Northermcharn · 20/05/2026 15:25

This is rather poetic. Thanks @Blossom , for mirroring the ingrained Labour party arrogance that has allowed Burnham to believe he could use the people of Makerfield to make him PM.

That’s an interesting interpretation of my pointing out that polling professionals who conduct research all the time are more likely to have a handle on the current mood than someone who lives there. Unless of course you too have held focus groups and polled the local population?

NetZeroZealot · 20/05/2026 16:00

TheKeatingFive · 20/05/2026 15:34

Agree with both what?

I agree with the Supreme Court ruling and I agree with Burnham that it is a minority of women who think trans people should be banned from women's toilets.

Gloriia · 20/05/2026 16:02

NetZeroZealot · 20/05/2026 16:00

I agree with the Supreme Court ruling and I agree with Burnham that it is a minority of women who think trans people should be banned from women's toilets.

Even if it's a minority of women so what? The fact that some women feel unsafe with men in dedicated women's only areas is enough for me to support them.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/05/2026 16:03

BIossomtoes · 20/05/2026 15:59

That’s an interesting interpretation of my pointing out that polling professionals who conduct research all the time are more likely to have a handle on the current mood than someone who lives there. Unless of course you too have held focus groups and polled the local population?

Does that include the “polling professionals” who have produced the figures showing the downward trend for support for men in women’s spaces? Of course MN is so skewed etc bla whatever.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 20/05/2026 16:03

NetZeroZealot · 20/05/2026 16:00

I agree with the Supreme Court ruling and I agree with Burnham that it is a minority of women who think trans people should be banned from women's toilets.

Yet the verifiable statistics prove you very very wrong. So why believe it?

Also it is a fact, not a belief, that a majority of females in the UK do not support males accessing their sexed spaces. Fact. Not belief.

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Ihatetomatoes · 20/05/2026 16:04

Boomer55 · 20/05/2026 09:43

Well, I’m one if the small majority. 🙄

Me too.

So again biological males come first, ignore real women and their concerns in favour of men in frocks. Pathetic.

UtopiaPlanitia · 20/05/2026 16:04

Bridgertonisbest · 20/05/2026 10:46

I have experienced all manner of sexual and non sexual violence from men. No, not an ex sex worker but merely grew up working class!

I couldn’t give a toss who’s in the next cubicle of the loos to me. None of the men who have assaulted me were dressed as a woman. Men have never needed to dress as women to attack them. Almost all the men that attacked me were known to me/family.

i would suggest that the ons figures are vastly under represented. Amongst my friends, it’s more like 1 in 6 NOT assaulted.

I've always found this to be a very powerful piece of writing, it's giving a perspective from the class of women who are too often ignored:

https://4w.pub/you-meet-more-perverts-when-poor/

As for Burnham, the man has allied himself with so many different factions and groups within the Labour Party over the years that I don't trust him to have anyone's interests in mind except his own.

You Meet More Perverts When You're Poor

The pampered activists running our institutions have no idea what they're unleashing on women.

https://4w.pub/you-meet-more-perverts-when-poor/

NetZeroZealot · 20/05/2026 16:04

Gloriia · 20/05/2026 16:02

Even if it's a minority of women so what? The fact that some women feel unsafe with men in dedicated women's only areas is enough for me to support them.

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Well I think I agree with you and I don't think he said that, did he?

Gloriia · 20/05/2026 16:04

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/05/2026 16:03

Does that include the “polling professionals” who have produced the figures showing the downward trend for support for men in women’s spaces? Of course MN is so skewed etc bla whatever.

No no not those 'polling professionals' silly just the ones who love our Andy, obvs.

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