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How did Tyson Fury’s daughter get married at 16?

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Wouldcou · 17/05/2026 13:08

I thought they changed the law and you had to be 18 in the UK?

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Sartre · 17/05/2026 14:41

ExOptimist · 17/05/2026 14:39

So the whole traveller community, the vast majority of whom are uneducated, has decided that every school in the UK is" an absolute pit"? Surely you can realise that cannot be true across the whole sector.

What alternative schooling do children get? The answer's none isn't it?

Cooking and cleaning are important for basic hygiene and for health obviously, but they shouldn't be the be all and end all of anyone's life( unless they're a chef).

But it's traveller women who do it isn't it? You don't see many traveller men making a song and dance about it and making it central to their whole lives. They think their wives should do it, because they have rigid ideas about roles and believe that cooking and cleaning are secondary roles and therefore only suitable for women to do, because females are less important.

I would like enlightenment but your comments so far haven't shed much light on the culture.

And I don’t think anyone needs an education in cleaning. Cooking maybe but you can just follow YouTube videos nowadays and get pretty good. I value literacy more.

WhatMe123 · 17/05/2026 14:42

In the travelling community this is the norm

ThejoyofNC · 17/05/2026 14:42

ExOptimist · 17/05/2026 14:39

So the whole traveller community, the vast majority of whom are uneducated, has decided that every school in the UK is" an absolute pit"? Surely you can realise that cannot be true across the whole sector.

What alternative schooling do children get? The answer's none isn't it?

Cooking and cleaning are important for basic hygiene and for health obviously, but they shouldn't be the be all and end all of anyone's life( unless they're a chef).

But it's traveller women who do it isn't it? You don't see many traveller men making a song and dance about it and making it central to their whole lives. They think their wives should do it, because they have rigid ideas about roles and believe that cooking and cleaning are secondary roles and therefore only suitable for women to do, because females are less important.

I would like enlightenment but your comments so far haven't shed much light on the culture.

Are traditional gender roles a new concept to you? They've been around a long time.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 17/05/2026 14:42

It wasn’t so long ago that settled people married young, granted society has swung in a completely different direction, not necessarily a better place.

Travelling girls at 16 are far more mature than the average 16 y.o. They’ve a lot of responsibility from a young age, unlike my 17 y.o.

Nanny0gg · 17/05/2026 14:42

ThejoyofNC · 17/05/2026 13:47

Such ignorance.

So? Explain.

What else will she do?

FernFaery · 17/05/2026 14:42

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:41

Not more regressive than the absolutely corrupt education system in England.

Mostly, Only people with money/circumstnances get a good education, then get a good job and a good life. Its not fair in any way.

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As sure as day follows night, Scarlettjune is back to have a pop at England (where she oddly chooses to live and pays taxes)

TotalBaloney · 17/05/2026 14:43

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:39

No but they were judged on here for leaving education which is the natural first step to being a sahm

Why is it? Why can’t they stay in education until they’re (at least) 16, and then become a SAHM?

Zov · 17/05/2026 14:43

Married at 16?! FGS. No need for that at all in the 2020s. I agree. It's wrong on so many levels. I wonder who she has married/who he is/how she met him?

Afraid I agree with @BridgetJonesV2 Sad

ObelixtheGaul · 17/05/2026 14:44

QuintadosMalvados · 17/05/2026 14:31

I agree. If a woman is married to a man she respects and loves, he takes care of things financially while she takes care of the house and children, I can very well imagine that she's happy.

Really? I would be bored to tears. Each to their own, but it's nice to have a choice. Nothing wrong with making that choice as long as it IS a choice, not cultural pressure.

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:44

FernFaery · 17/05/2026 14:42

As sure as day follows night, Scarlettjune is back to have a pop at England (where she oddly chooses to live and pays taxes)

Awww. Poor Fernfaery is so sensitive that she can't take one single bad thing written about England.

How immature.

Can I write "the weather is bad here". Is that too harsh for you to read?

I have contributed to threads where I have written nice things about England. You dont seem to mention those.

Hmmm

66babe · 17/05/2026 14:45

BridgetJonesV2 · 17/05/2026 13:11

Sadly very normal in the traveller community. Women aren't valued, not allowed to be educated past age 11, and taught to be slaves to men cooking and cleaning, and other things that would get me banned from talking about. It's horrific.

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This is not strictly true
I am a gorger but work with several traveller girls who are all educated to at least finishing senior school , integrated into society and tell me things are definitely changing
If they want to go down that route , marry young , stay home and look after the home , they can , but no one forces them to .

FernFaery · 17/05/2026 14:46

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:44

Awww. Poor Fernfaery is so sensitive that she can't take one single bad thing written about England.

How immature.

Can I write "the weather is bad here". Is that too harsh for you to read?

I have contributed to threads where I have written nice things about England. You dont seem to mention those.

Hmmm

Edited

I feel a bit sorry for you. As somebody who loves a rant and has a few red button topics, you carry an awful lot of resentment and anger in you and I hope one day you can let it go.

Liberancho · 17/05/2026 14:46

ThejoyofNC · 17/05/2026 14:00

Because the UK school system is an absolute pit.

Cooking and cleaning are important.

Why shouldn't they be celebrated?

You don't want anyone to "enlighten" you. You just want to share your prejudiced views.

I remember your user name because you are vociferously against vaccination.

Many challenged you, but you remain steadfast in your beliefs.

So what gives you the right to now call people ignorant? You are simply being asked legitimate questions - that I imagine are mostly in good faith.

Why not answer reasonably, instead of being so combative.

ShowOfHands · 17/05/2026 14:47

I worked with traveller families for years before changing roles. I met teenage girls who begged to stay in education, didn't want to marry/find a boyfriend or found a boyfriend outside their community, and I witnessed the emotional and occasionally, physical abuse meted out in response. I saw young women coerced and bullied and I saw young men with mental health and SEND needs denied appropriate support by their families.

So people on here can defend a lifestyle which they think they chose but I've seen the damage caused to some of those young women and men first hand. They didn't choose it. Nor did they want it.

I still see one of those young women, now much older of course. She had to leave her family behind to have the life she wanted. She exists. Many like her exist. Denying her experience is futile.

Controlling and abusive behaviour towards children is everybody's business.

Zanniey · 17/05/2026 14:47

I’m so sick of “open minded”, middle class women condoning shocking behaviour. No it is not okay that traveller women are taken out of education at 11 and heavily socialised to become house slaves. Just because it’s culture does not make it acceptable. Your virtue signalling as wokists perpetuates harm. Not every cultural practice is good. Some need to be stamped out.

I say this as a poc. Paris is largely protected because of her dad. Thousands of traveller girls are not so lucky.

Shame on anyone condoning female oppression

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:48

FernFaery · 17/05/2026 14:46

I feel a bit sorry for you. As somebody who loves a rant and has a few red button topics, you carry an awful lot of resentment and anger in you and I hope one day you can let it go.

Now you are just being weird. Why are you obsessed with me? Jog on love.

A lot of posters on this thread have expressed negative viewpoints

How strange that you don't think that they are "full of resentment and anger". Only me. Hypocrite.

Ottersideofthebridge · 17/05/2026 14:48

SnappyQuoter · 17/05/2026 13:37

@Wouldcou
Do you think that the UK is only England? You realise there are other nations and islands with their own laws, yes?

And the Isle of Man isn't in the UK regardless.

RancidRuby · 17/05/2026 14:49

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:17

People on here knocking the traveller community. Who says our way of life is better than theirs?

Honestly if I had to choose between going to school + then working all my life,

Or choose the traditional traveller lifestyle which was for women to stay at home while the men work, I definitely would not mind the traveller lifestyle. At 41 i am exhausted from constant work

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Choosing to be a SAHM as opposed to it being the only option available are very different scenarios. I’ve been a SAHM so clearly I don’t see it as being a bad thing per se, but if I was expected to be a SAHM and given no choice then that’s a different matter.

Zov · 17/05/2026 14:49

ObelixtheGaul · 17/05/2026 14:44

Really? I would be bored to tears. Each to their own, but it's nice to have a choice. Nothing wrong with making that choice as long as it IS a choice, not cultural pressure.

Yep, I very much doubt she is 'happy.'

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Anonemousse · 17/05/2026 14:49

He is 19, she is 16. They've been together a year so in other words he was 18 and dating her at 15.

I dont really pay that much attention to them but from what I saw Tyson Fury seemed quite progressive regarding girls/womens eg didnt he want her to stay in education?

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:50

Zanniey · 17/05/2026 14:47

I’m so sick of “open minded”, middle class women condoning shocking behaviour. No it is not okay that traveller women are taken out of education at 11 and heavily socialised to become house slaves. Just because it’s culture does not make it acceptable. Your virtue signalling as wokists perpetuates harm. Not every cultural practice is good. Some need to be stamped out.

I say this as a poc. Paris is largely protected because of her dad. Thousands of traveller girls are not so lucky.

Shame on anyone condoning female oppression

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Im sick of posters like you writing "middle class". Don't you know that class is an offensive term?

FernFaery · 17/05/2026 14:50

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:48

Now you are just being weird. Why are you obsessed with me? Jog on love.

A lot of posters on this thread have expressed negative viewpoints

How strange that you don't think that they are "full of resentment and anger". Only me. Hypocrite.

😂

EmeraldShamrock000 · 17/05/2026 14:51

Travelling girls are no longer leaving education young. There is travelling teenagers in every secondary school across Ireland and colleges including universities.
Many of the women who weren’t educated work in care roles and cleaning jobs, things have changed.
There is 3 girls in my DD year sitting there leaving certificate. It’s possible to get married in have a job.
There is a long way to go but that road is open.
They’ve faced a lot of discrimination over the years, their children removed from centuries by authorities drove them in secrecy too.

MaidOfSteel · 17/05/2026 14:51

ThejoyofNC · 17/05/2026 14:05

Usually at 11/12 years old for both.

We simply don't value formal education in the way you do.

Those who want schooling, get it. The percentage of those who do has increased since I was that age. But the vast majority don't.

Yes housework is a female responsibility. Earning money is the men's job.

When a child is prevented from receiving an education, their personal growth is absolutely stunted.

They are stopped from learning about the outside world and the opportunities they have, the choices and options that are available to them. Their rights & responsibilities. Their life is severely limited. Yes, this happens in many parts of society, but it is very deliberate in traveller culture.

What I don’t know is whether traveller parents who remove their kids from school at, say, age 11 are pursued by education authorities and social services in the same way that non-traveller parents would be. I would certainly hope so.

Leftrightleft · 17/05/2026 14:51

Do we even know if they are legally married? It could all be a show, the photos etc will make them ££££s. I assumed the kids would follow Paris and Molly, and become influencers etc. The wedding gives them content for their Netflix show.

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