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How did Tyson Fury’s daughter get married at 16?

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Wouldcou · 17/05/2026 13:08

I thought they changed the law and you had to be 18 in the UK?

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Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:29

I think Venezuelas life sounds nice.

She has the added benefit of her father being a millionaire to fall back on.

She is with someone she loves.

If it all goes tits up , her dad will bail her out. She knows that

takemetosnurch · 17/05/2026 14:29

QuintadosMalvados · 17/05/2026 14:06

What's the standard 'dream life' for most girls these days?
School, university- which unless it's a really good university to do proper subjects like STEM is going to get them a middling job.
Have 'fun' with hot guys (maybe a frigging pointless gap year first) then settle down at 30 with Mr Unexciting- But -Stable in a wedding that is way too expensive and leaves them in debt.

Work a taxing job while paying through the nose for childcare.
Each day a treadmill of work, children and housework.
Coming to sites like these to complain that 'dh' doesn't do this or that, that the new guy in accounts is 'hot', that dh is playing around before getting divorced at 40.
Single motherhood follows then complaining that men only want sex.

Yep that's the standard existence of the average woman in the UK.
Yes, yes not every woman of course but a heck of a lot.

Yet this young lady is going to have a horrible life? Pull the other one.
Blessed life more like.
Good luck to her.

Impressed you managed to type that out one-handed

Perrygreen · 17/05/2026 14:30

Her dreadful parents seem to think it's acceptable. That poor girl should be doing her GCSE's instead of being married off to another teen.

I have zero patience for patriarchal cultures.

Lifeomars · 17/05/2026 14:30

hahabahbag · 17/05/2026 13:47

@Lunarlightning

protecting the vulnerable is everyone’s business, and legislation should be in place to ensure no communities are allowed to deprive their children of and education and childhood in the name of tradition or “our culture”. The boys are taken out of school too. The age of marriage should be risen to 18 urgently in all jurisdictions

The city I live in has a Roma population who have a tradition of taking girls out of education at age 11 (just before they are due to start secondary school), early marriage and very young mothehood. A family who I assume lived near me actually used my address to register their daughter at one of the local schools ( I assume they used their real address for the intial registration where they would have had to show proof of where they lived and then told the school they had "moved" to my house) . The child was then taken out of school and I had a visit and letters from the attendance officer. This was not the only thing that they had used my address for and i had a period of time when I was getting a lot of letters about various monies owed but the missing girl was the thing that really concerned me

QuintadosMalvados · 17/05/2026 14:31

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:17

People on here knocking the traveller community. Who says our way of life is better than theirs?

Honestly if I had to choose between going to school + then working all my life,

Or choose the traditional traveller lifestyle which was for women to stay at home while the men work, I definitely would not mind the traveller lifestyle. At 41 i am exhausted from constant work

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I agree. If a woman is married to a man she respects and loves, he takes care of things financially while she takes care of the house and children, I can very well imagine that she's happy.

Nanny0gg · 17/05/2026 14:34

Lunarlightning · 17/05/2026 13:15

Are you a traveller? If not then do not comment on other cultural traditions.

Why not?

PinkyFlamingo · 17/05/2026 14:35

MandyMotherOfBrian · 17/05/2026 14:11

Weird way to make a point, but yes you’re correct, thankfully the Westminster government acting for both England AND Wales is not backwards enough to still not be protecting children from marriage, in 2026.
Other devolved UK governments seem to have not yet managed to safeguard children, in their jurisdictions, against it though. That is what you meant, right?

I think the point is you get used to some posters on here just assuming England means the UK. Yes it's the biggest by far by population but Scotland for example has an entire different education and law system.

QuintadosMalvados · 17/05/2026 14:35

takemetosnurch · 17/05/2026 14:29

Impressed you managed to type that out one-handed

Oh I see the standard MN response that I'm a man to think this way.
(Assuming, of course, that this is a crude reference to maturbation.)

Oh maybe the crude reference and no actual considered reply means I've struck a nerve with you?

Nanny0gg · 17/05/2026 14:36

InstantlyBella · 17/05/2026 13:21

Not everybody around the world lives their lives according to your own personal beliefs. Some cultures practice arranged marriages and if it works for these cultures, who are we to judge? Stop looking at things through a western colonial lense.

Some cultures 12 is ok

And I'm going to judge

Arynaa · 17/05/2026 14:36

IPM · 17/05/2026 13:47

Have you any idea how many women Tyson Fury has fucked after he made those vows to Paris?? 👀

A quick Google suggests 500 but he regrets it, so that's ok. I can't imagine he'd be quite so forgiving if it was his wife sleeping around.

AquaLeader · 17/05/2026 14:36

In 2023, the law in England and Wales was changed from 16 to 18. Prior to 2023, 16 and 17-year-olds were permitted to marry with parental consent.

Lunarlightning · 17/05/2026 14:37

The amount of women on here judging Traveller traditions but use childcare while they work.
We judge you too. We think you are shit parents and lead terrible lives.

ThreeTeam · 17/05/2026 14:38

The couple looked so much older than they are. I feel a bit sorry for them really, they’ve not got a clue have they!

ThatPeachQuail · 17/05/2026 14:38

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:17

People on here knocking the traveller community. Who says our way of life is better than theirs?

Honestly if I had to choose between going to school + then working all my life,

Or choose the traditional traveller lifestyle which was for women to stay at home while the men work, I definitely would not mind the traveller lifestyle. At 41 i am exhausted from constant work

Edited

That's one of those comments that are so uneducated and just stupid.

The same as you see from people who don't understand feminism and think it forced women to work and not be SAHM.

The point is rights and choices.

If you have the right and choices to do whatever you want and you choose to not work and raise kids, fine.

It's very different when you don't have the right and you don't have the option.

That's what a lot of the feminist work movement was about and what is usually lacking in these communities and sociities.

Don't be a dumb-ass saying well 'if I was given the choice to not work, I'd choose not to' is missing the point. It isn't a choice for these women.

Not having a choice and not being able to be educated, earn your own money, have your own profession/career and make decisions about your own life is actually really shit and dangerous if you happen to have married someone who's abusive or just lazy.

Or he might be alright. He might just be fine but he doesn't make you happy or you're unfulfilled but you spend up to 50 years married living a half-life because you don't have the money, education or skills to leave and live your own life.

And that's what these communities depend on.

Most people if given the choice of working or not, would choose not to. The complexity is in what that means.

TheEighthDwarf · 17/05/2026 14:38

MsGreying · 17/05/2026 13:26

The government wants to give them the vote!

The government (the Scottish one) already has.

lottlecat · 17/05/2026 14:38

Lunarlightning · 17/05/2026 14:37

The amount of women on here judging Traveller traditions but use childcare while they work.
We judge you too. We think you are shit parents and lead terrible lives.

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Nobody is judging traveller for choosing to be SAHMs though, are they?

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:38

Lunarlightning · 17/05/2026 14:37

The amount of women on here judging Traveller traditions but use childcare while they work.
We judge you too. We think you are shit parents and lead terrible lives.

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Are you a traveller? Im one of the ones that didnt judge. I think many travellers have designed easier lives and thats ok.

A lot of women are suffering from burnout trying to do everything

Sartre · 17/05/2026 14:38

BridgetJonesV2 · 17/05/2026 13:11

Sadly very normal in the traveller community. Women aren't valued, not allowed to be educated past age 11, and taught to be slaves to men cooking and cleaning, and other things that would get me banned from talking about. It's horrific.

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The boys don’t typically stay in school past 12 either. I went to school with travellers and all were pulled out after year 7. The boys get taught to work and girls to cook and clean. I agree it seems regressive and sad.

Okiedokie123 · 17/05/2026 14:39

Lunarlightning · 17/05/2026 13:25

Would you make the same comment sbout an arranged marriage at 16 within the muslim community?

Yes I would. I think the majority of us would agree that getting married at 16 (in whatever circumstances, for whatever reason reason) isn’t a good idea.

ExOptimist · 17/05/2026 14:39

ThejoyofNC · 17/05/2026 14:00

Because the UK school system is an absolute pit.

Cooking and cleaning are important.

Why shouldn't they be celebrated?

You don't want anyone to "enlighten" you. You just want to share your prejudiced views.

So the whole traveller community, the vast majority of whom are uneducated, has decided that every school in the UK is" an absolute pit"? Surely you can realise that cannot be true across the whole sector.

What alternative schooling do children get? The answer's none isn't it?

Cooking and cleaning are important for basic hygiene and for health obviously, but they shouldn't be the be all and end all of anyone's life( unless they're a chef).

But it's traveller women who do it isn't it? You don't see many traveller men making a song and dance about it and making it central to their whole lives. They think their wives should do it, because they have rigid ideas about roles and believe that cooking and cleaning are secondary roles and therefore only suitable for women to do, because females are less important.

I would like enlightenment but your comments so far haven't shed much light on the culture.

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:39

lottlecat · 17/05/2026 14:38

Nobody is judging traveller for choosing to be SAHMs though, are they?

No but they were judged on here for leaving education which is the natural first step to being a sahm

myislandhome · 17/05/2026 14:40

I do think it's hilarious that some are romanticising the traveller lifestyle for women as some kind of trad wife dream

Sartre · 17/05/2026 14:40

Lunarlightning · 17/05/2026 14:37

The amount of women on here judging Traveller traditions but use childcare while they work.
We judge you too. We think you are shit parents and lead terrible lives.

Edited

I’m sorry but I think someone who sends their DC to nursery is a better parent than one who pulls them out of education entirely at 12 and lets them get married at 16.

Conkersinautumn · 17/05/2026 14:40

Lunarlightning · 17/05/2026 13:15

Are you a traveller? If not then do not comment on other cultural traditions.

I absolutely will comment on cultural practice when it restricts people, particularly the young who have perhaps not had the opportunity to make an objective choice. My own cultural background is restrictive, damaging and allows for grooming with everything 'unsaid'.
Until cultural tradition is a genuine choice there is always the risk of abuse.

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:41

Sartre · 17/05/2026 14:38

The boys don’t typically stay in school past 12 either. I went to school with travellers and all were pulled out after year 7. The boys get taught to work and girls to cook and clean. I agree it seems regressive and sad.

Not more regressive than the absolutely corrupt education system in England.

Mostly, Only people with money/circumstnances get a good education, then get a good job and a good life. Its not fair in any way.

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