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How did Tyson Fury’s daughter get married at 16?

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Wouldcou · 17/05/2026 13:08

I thought they changed the law and you had to be 18 in the UK?

OP posts:
Silvers11 · 17/05/2026 15:11

Wouldcou · 17/05/2026 13:08

I thought they changed the law and you had to be 18 in the UK?

You can still get married at age 16 without permission in Scotland ( although that may change).

The Isle of Man is not part of the UK. Also, the Laws in the 4 parts of the UK are not all the same.

Asunciondeflata · 17/05/2026 15:12

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:10

Did we really gain our freedom, if we don't have freedom to do it anymore?

The ultimate freedom is to have a choice if we want to work or not.

If you don't work, how do you earn money and pay into a pension?
Everyone has the right not to work, it's the consequences which are the problem.

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:12

myislandhome · 17/05/2026 15:11

I have choice. You know what gave that to me?
Education.

Let me ask you a question. Did you go to state school or private school? And what were your circumstances at home?

Good circumstances or struggling circumstances?
They all affect your life at that age as much as an education does

likelysuspect · 17/05/2026 15:12

It really is quite remarkable that in any other circumstance, if a poster was worried about their 16 year old daughter a) going out with a 19 year old and b) wanting to marry him, replies to the OP would be all over SAFEGUARDING ALERT, call the police, dont let her out, etc etc etc

But because this is apparently 'cultural', it gets a pass

Really?

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:12

Asunciondeflata · 17/05/2026 15:12

If you don't work, how do you earn money and pay into a pension?
Everyone has the right not to work, it's the consequences which are the problem.

We are talking about the traveller lifestyle right. Traditionally, the man works and gives the woman money

ShesRunningOutTheDoor · 17/05/2026 15:13

I think it’s grim.
I think most traditional things (especially those rooted in religion) are definitely not right.
again, it’s grim

IPM · 17/05/2026 15:13

Arynaa · 17/05/2026 14:36

A quick Google suggests 500 but he regrets it, so that's ok. I can't imagine he'd be quite so forgiving if it was his wife sleeping around.

It seems wedding vows meant nothing to his dad either.

myislandhome · 17/05/2026 15:13

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:12

Let me ask you a question. Did you go to state school or private school? And what were your circumstances at home?

Good circumstances or struggling circumstances?
They all affect your life at that age as much as an education does

How is this relevant? You have been saying all school and education is bad.

ThejoyofNC · 17/05/2026 15:15

Asunciondeflata · 17/05/2026 15:12

If you don't work, how do you earn money and pay into a pension?
Everyone has the right not to work, it's the consequences which are the problem.

We don't do pensions.

Many gypsy women work.

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 17/05/2026 15:15

Seriously, why are the suicide and domestic abuse rates in the Traveller community so high, if the life is so good? Why is the miscarriage and still birth rate for the women much higher than the general population?
Do people not think child marriage and lack of education is at least part of the cause of these things?

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:16

myislandhome · 17/05/2026 15:13

How is this relevant? You have been saying all school and education is bad.

I never wrote "all education is bad".

I wrote that "many schools are horrendous".

And I wrote that there is an unfair system.

Those that can afford to pay for private education - receive a better education.

I was just talking to a teacher recently who worked in private and public schools. He said thar the difference in education is absolutely huge between the schools.

Asunciondeflata · 17/05/2026 15:16

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:12

We are talking about the traveller lifestyle right. Traditionally, the man works and gives the woman money

The post didn't refer to the Traveller lifestyle. It was about "the right not to work". Everyone in the UK has that right.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 17/05/2026 15:16

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:12

Let me ask you a question. Did you go to state school or private school? And what were your circumstances at home?

Good circumstances or struggling circumstances?
They all affect your life at that age as much as an education does

I wonder about these posters backgrounds too, passionate about education, yet 10,000’s of working class people attend school and leave school without an education due to their home life.
You would think travelling girls where the only group that formal education wasn’t beneficial to in society.
Again as a society we’re progressing.

MandyMotherOfBrian · 17/05/2026 15:16

SnappyQuoter · 17/05/2026 14:14

I was referring to the OP’s use of “UK.” When she didn’t mean the UK.

Not sure if you’ve noticed but, particularly on mumsnet, English users will constantly say UK when they are talking specially about something English. Even in the scotnet board, they’ll pop up and say “well actually, that’s not how it works in the UK” because to you English lot, it’s only the UK if it’s England. Nothing else matters.

You English lot - I’m not English.
Ironic though, considering the rest of your post.

And yes, I have noticed that. And I have also noticed how, when someone pops up to point it out, they’re often going to go on to mention Scotland, completely ignoring the fact that Wales, for example, not only exists but also, often, has the same law as England.

Again, ironic…

Samysungy · 17/05/2026 15:16

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:12

We are talking about the traveller lifestyle right. Traditionally, the man works and gives the woman money

But she isn't a woman.

Alliod40 · 17/05/2026 15:17

BridgetJonesV2 · 17/05/2026 13:11

Sadly very normal in the traveller community. Women aren't valued, not allowed to be educated past age 11, and taught to be slaves to men cooking and cleaning, and other things that would get me banned from talking about. It's horrific.

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Stop it now.. this is bullshit ..I live in ireland and loads of travellers there and i can assure you they attend school until they're 18 and do A levels..and I don't know what else you think happens but please bloody educate yourself

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 17/05/2026 15:17

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:00

Fair play to her i say. We don't all have to follow the exact same trodden path. Which at the moment for many is : school, uni, work, maybe marriage in 30s, kids in late 30s. Be grandparents.Life done.

What if someone wants to do something different with their 80 years.

When someone dies, no one remembers how many degrees they had

Edited

Except plenty of people don’t follow that exact path. I would agree with school/work being usual. The rest of it is up to the individual. (I know it’s a shock for MN but not everyone goes to uni or married/has babies)

Do you honestly think it’s better to do school for a limited time, marriage at 16, cleaning, babies by 17, train the girls to clean and marry, grandmother by mid 30s, great grandmother by 50s?

What part of that is living rather than existing?

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:18

Samysungy · 17/05/2026 15:16

But she isn't a woman.

In the Isle of Man, you can vote and pay taxes at 16.

MandyMotherOfBrian · 17/05/2026 15:18

SnappyQuoter · 17/05/2026 14:17

And since you think the English and Westminster are oh so much better than the rest of us, how do you feel about England still not making it illegal to hit your children? We’ve made that illegal. You lot still smack, and it’s totally fine in the eyes of the law.

Again with the ‘you lot’ - I’m not English, which rather makes the rest of your post laughable.

viques · 17/05/2026 15:18

Lunarlightning · 17/05/2026 13:25

Would you make the same comment sbout an arranged marriage at 16 within the muslim community?

Why not, unless you have evidence that Muslim girls brains mature earlier.

Read an article the other day about the new laws the Taliban have just introduced in Afghanistan about child marriage ( has to be approved by a father or grandfather) and sanctions against domestic violence ( a woman has to appear before a panel of men, she is not allowed to show any injuries or bruises, and oh , and she has to be accompanied by her husband while she describes the abuse). There was also a condition I can’t quite remember about how when you are asked about something in your relationship ( in front of your husband) and your response is silence then it is assumed you have consented to whatever it is you have been asked about . Also applies only to women of course.

Not all cultural practices are valid, and morally acceptable, and it is surprising how many of them negatively impact womens lives and how few negatively impact mens lives.

Fizbosshoes · 17/05/2026 15:18

kscarpetta · 17/05/2026 15:03

I wonder how many Mumsnetters with sons sitting GCSEs this week think they are fully grown adults who should be working full time and getting married.
It's only girls who are viewed as so mature and not needing any protection...

I was thinking the same. DS is 16, doing GCSEs. He plays in an adult sports team but he cant be part of their WhatsApp group because of safeguarding, and DH is the contact for him. Unless I'm paying for a flight I dont think of him as fully adult yet

Asunciondeflata · 17/05/2026 15:18

ThejoyofNC · 17/05/2026 15:15

We don't do pensions.

Many gypsy women work.

You seem to have the wrong poster.
I never referred to Gypsies or Travellers.

Nemorth · 17/05/2026 15:19

MsGreying · 17/05/2026 13:26

The government wants to give them the vote!

In Scotland for certain elections, including the recent Scottish Parliament elections, 16 year olds can vote.

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:20

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 17/05/2026 15:17

Except plenty of people don’t follow that exact path. I would agree with school/work being usual. The rest of it is up to the individual. (I know it’s a shock for MN but not everyone goes to uni or married/has babies)

Do you honestly think it’s better to do school for a limited time, marriage at 16, cleaning, babies by 17, train the girls to clean and marry, grandmother by mid 30s, great grandmother by 50s?

What part of that is living rather than existing?

I don't think its BETTER. But I think she should be able to do it withiut causing shock and controversy. Look at the amount of shock on this thread.

The same - if a woman doesnt want to get married or have children at all, she should be able to do it with no judgement.

busyd4y · 17/05/2026 15:20

QuintadosMalvados · 17/05/2026 13:44

She has a wonderful father in Tyson Fury.
Never have to worry about money.
Always be protected. Lucky girl.

Can't help but think this is some kind of bitterness because somebody of his background should not be rich.

As for her husband being an adult, he's 3 years older not 30!

You don't seriously think that a view that 16 year olds arent mature enough to be getting married is bitterness that one of them happens to be from a wealthy family do you?

What a ridiculous notion

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