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How did Tyson Fury’s daughter get married at 16?

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Wouldcou · 17/05/2026 13:08

I thought they changed the law and you had to be 18 in the UK?

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Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:00

Nanny0gg · 17/05/2026 14:58

A 16 year old girl has just married.

That's the point

Fair play to her i say. We don't all have to follow the exact same trodden path. Which at the moment for many is : school, uni, work, maybe marriage in 30s, kids in late 30s. Be grandparents.Life done.

What if someone wants to do something different with their 80 years.

When someone dies, no one remembers how many degrees they had

ShiftingSand · 17/05/2026 15:00

Lunarlightning · 17/05/2026 13:12

It's normal within the traveller community.
It's also none of your business.

Classic 😂😂

Sartre · 17/05/2026 15:00

pinkyredrose · 17/05/2026 14:57

She's probably just about to leave if she hasn't already. It still doesn't mean she's a child.

Unless she defies the laws of biology she is a child for another two years.

lottlecat · 17/05/2026 15:01

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:55

They are not two very seperate things. If you leave education early you are more likely to become a SAHM.

Every minimum wage job in my city asks for GCSEs

Im still not sure why that makes leaving education early ok.

Zov · 17/05/2026 15:01

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:57

Exactly. It should be everyone's choice.

As I always say: we wouldnt make an animal work for fifty years. Why do we make humans do it

And what if EVERYone decides to 'not go out to work?'

Nanny0gg · 17/05/2026 15:01

Badbadbunny · 17/05/2026 13:51

@GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing

This thread has taught me something I didn’t know - that child marriage (ie 16) is still legal in parts of the UK.

The IOM isn't part of the UK, hence it's own laws and why it's an international tax haven.

The Scots allowing it is surprising

Zov · 17/05/2026 15:02

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:00

Fair play to her i say. We don't all have to follow the exact same trodden path. Which at the moment for many is : school, uni, work, maybe marriage in 30s, kids in late 30s. Be grandparents.Life done.

What if someone wants to do something different with their 80 years.

When someone dies, no one remembers how many degrees they had

Edited

Do something different with their 80 years like what............?

NOT WORK you mean?

Batshit.

Dandelyon · 17/05/2026 15:02

Lunarlightning · 17/05/2026 13:25

Would you make the same comment sbout an arranged marriage at 16 within the muslim community?

I would, yes. Why not?

PhaedraTwo · 17/05/2026 15:03

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 17/05/2026 13:09

They got married on the Isle of Man where you can still get married at 16.

And in Scotland without parental consent.

kscarpetta · 17/05/2026 15:03

Sartre · 17/05/2026 15:00

Unless she defies the laws of biology she is a child for another two years.

I wonder how many Mumsnetters with sons sitting GCSEs this week think they are fully grown adults who should be working full time and getting married.
It's only girls who are viewed as so mature and not needing any protection...

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:03

Zov · 17/05/2026 15:02

Do something different with their 80 years like what............?

NOT WORK you mean?

Batshit.

Do anything outside what is seen as the 'norm' for women.

We are socially influenced to follow the same rigid path in life.

I was just reading an article where a woman in her 60s decided to go and work on a summer camp in the USA. She used a visa that was traditionally used for students. She said people advised her not to go as she was too old. She went anyway

If I really did what I really wanted to do in life, I would buy a van, put a bed in the back, get a remote job and travel around Europe constantly.

However I am heavily socially influenced that I should stay in one place, and that living in a van is not a "normal" life for a woman in her forties. I am , at the moment, too scared to do it

pinkyredrose · 17/05/2026 15:03

kscarpetta · 17/05/2026 14:59

School girls are literally children and deserve society's protection.
They're entitled to an education.
They're entitled to protection against child labour.
They shouldn't be getting married.

The 'good old days' without those rights weren't so good for women.

Given that you can be at school 'till you're 18 I'm not sure I'd agree that all schoolgirls are literally children.

I don't ascribe to the idea that all under 18's are children. It doesn't seem right that you're a child then on your 18th birthday suddenly you're an adult.

In my eyes you're a child, then a teenager then an adult with some overlapping, ie. an 18 or 19yr old is a teenager but also an adult.

ThejoyofNC · 17/05/2026 15:03

Liberancho · 17/05/2026 14:46

I remember your user name because you are vociferously against vaccination.

Many challenged you, but you remain steadfast in your beliefs.

So what gives you the right to now call people ignorant? You are simply being asked legitimate questions - that I imagine are mostly in good faith.

Why not answer reasonably, instead of being so combative.

You are not entirely correct. I'm against vaccinations for me and my family. I am happy for anyone to get them if that's their wish.

And I'm calling people on here ignorant because that's exactly what they are. They are spouting views like they're facts when they are simply not true.

Perhaps if you'd faced a small percentage of the prejudice and racism faced by a gypsy woman, you'd be combative too.

MyFellowScroller · 17/05/2026 15:03

the photos etc will make them ££££s. I assumed the kids would follow Paris and Molly, and become influencers etc. The wedding gives them content for their Netflix show.

Unlikely to be pitching camp on our local cricket ground then?
One small mercy.

ObelixtheGaul · 17/05/2026 15:04

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 14:53

I would like it!

One time I had a canadian boyfriend. I went to stay in canada for the summer. I couldnt work on my visa. Its the only time i have been with a man , where he went out to work and i stayed at home. It was great! Very relaxing.

I

Edited

As I said, we're all different.

ExOptimist · 17/05/2026 15:04

ThejoyofNC · 17/05/2026 14:42

Are traditional gender roles a new concept to you? They've been around a long time.

The last hundred years seem to have completely passed you by.

If traditional gender roles were so great for all women, and all women are good for is to stay at home, cook, clean and reproduce, why on earth do you think millions of women died to get the vote, fought for equal opportunities in the workplace, fought for equal pay for the same jobs, fought to be allowed to go to university and get a degree, etc etc?

Because they did not want a life of drudgery and being reliant for money on men. Because they wanted to use their actual intelligent brains and do something more. Because they wanted to choose what life they lead. Because they are equal to men.

Condemning a community's girls to a life of dependence on men, depriving them of education and opportunity is criminal in my view. It takes away women's choice of how to live their lives.

myislandhome · 17/05/2026 15:05

I think, reading some of the posts on this thread, that it's very clear that encouraging education for women is a priority.

flagpolesitta · 17/05/2026 15:05

At least her husband is only 19, I used to love watching the ‘gypsy wedding’ programme years ago (I was a teenager and obsessed with the dresses!) and many of the brides were 16/17 and marrying men in their early 30s.

kscarpetta · 17/05/2026 15:06

pinkyredrose · 17/05/2026 15:03

Given that you can be at school 'till you're 18 I'm not sure I'd agree that all schoolgirls are literally children.

I don't ascribe to the idea that all under 18's are children. It doesn't seem right that you're a child then on your 18th birthday suddenly you're an adult.

In my eyes you're a child, then a teenager then an adult with some overlapping, ie. an 18 or 19yr old is a teenager but also an adult.

School girls of compulsory school age. Year 11 pupils. GCSE students.

Dandelyon · 17/05/2026 15:07

myislandhome · 17/05/2026 15:05

I think, reading some of the posts on this thread, that it's very clear that encouraging education for women is a priority.

Absolutely. I find the comments about other women’s rights not being any of our business sad, too.

Without making other women’s rights all women’s business, we would not have the right to vote or the ability to have our own bank account and mortgages, among other things. I have the uneasy feeling that some of the comments on this thread would be OK with that, though. None of our business indeed…

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:08

Dandelyon · 17/05/2026 15:07

Absolutely. I find the comments about other women’s rights not being any of our business sad, too.

Without making other women’s rights all women’s business, we would not have the right to vote or the ability to have our own bank account and mortgages, among other things. I have the uneasy feeling that some of the comments on this thread would be OK with that, though. None of our business indeed…

So if education should be a priority.

Do you think that the same level of education should be accessible for all?

As a country, we are behind other countries in this regard

myislandhome · 17/05/2026 15:09

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:03

Do anything outside what is seen as the 'norm' for women.

We are socially influenced to follow the same rigid path in life.

I was just reading an article where a woman in her 60s decided to go and work on a summer camp in the USA. She used a visa that was traditionally used for students. She said people advised her not to go as she was too old. She went anyway

If I really did what I really wanted to do in life, I would buy a van, put a bed in the back, get a remote job and travel around Europe constantly.

However I am heavily socially influenced that I should stay in one place, and that living in a van is not a "normal" life for a woman in her forties. I am , at the moment, too scared to do it

Edited

But we (women) were indeed forced to take the path you are suggesting is the one that is against "the norm" . In fact it was bloody awful for women and we fought to gain our freedom from it.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 17/05/2026 15:09

Fair play to her i say. We don't all have to follow the exact same trodden path. Which at the moment for many is : school, uni, work, maybe marriage in 30s, kids in late 30s. Be grandparents.Life done.
Exactly, often the same people miss out on things that they really wanted as life doesn’t align with their plan.
16 is very young. If she was my daughter I’d want her to wait until she was 18.

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:10

myislandhome · 17/05/2026 15:09

But we (women) were indeed forced to take the path you are suggesting is the one that is against "the norm" . In fact it was bloody awful for women and we fought to gain our freedom from it.

Did we really gain our freedom, if we don't have freedom to do it anymore?

The ultimate freedom is to have a choice if we want to work or not.

myislandhome · 17/05/2026 15:11

Scarlettjune · 17/05/2026 15:10

Did we really gain our freedom, if we don't have freedom to do it anymore?

The ultimate freedom is to have a choice if we want to work or not.

I have choice. You know what gave that to me?
Education.

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