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The Left have a become a snivelling self-righteous mob, busy bodying around, trying to shame others

584 replies

Northermcharn · 09/05/2026 18:17

I read this quote and it encapsulates exactly how I feel

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones giving the finger to the establishment, and the Left became the snivelling self-righteous ones going around shaming everybody'

AIBU to think this is what many people think these days? We didn't leave the left, the left left us.

*the quote is from John Lydon aka Johnny Rotten. He's deliberately provocative in lots of ways, but he meant this one. I fully expect some people to come on the thread to tell us all how he's a horror and said he likes Donald Trump. That would be them missing the point.. but.. Let Them..

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SleeplessInWherever · 12/05/2026 16:14

InstantlyBella · 12/05/2026 16:11

Why don't you just disassociate with these people? If I had a member of my family who was right wing or talked about reducing immigration or reading books about their 'Anglo Saxon heritage' then I would very thoroughly let them know what I thought about them and then cut them out of my life completely.

We should have zero tolerance for bigotry no matter what class we come from.

Why don’t I stop speaking to my own mother because she likes Nigel Farage?

We’re talking about different backgrounds. My mother couldn’t read a book about Anglo Saxon Heritage, she gets me to proof-read her important emails. She has functional literacy and that’s about it.

If a member of my family committed a racist crime, then they’d be cut off. While they’re still saying words, that to be clear don’t incite violence, I’m of the view we’re all entitled to an opinion.

Freedom of speech does work both ways.

InstantlyBella · 12/05/2026 16:20

SleeplessInWherever · 12/05/2026 16:14

Why don’t I stop speaking to my own mother because she likes Nigel Farage?

We’re talking about different backgrounds. My mother couldn’t read a book about Anglo Saxon Heritage, she gets me to proof-read her important emails. She has functional literacy and that’s about it.

If a member of my family committed a racist crime, then they’d be cut off. While they’re still saying words, that to be clear don’t incite violence, I’m of the view we’re all entitled to an opinion.

Freedom of speech does work both ways.

I appreciate you taking the time to answer my questions, I hope I have not been too probing and made it look an interrogation! 😲

That said I think I understand the situation a little better. Perhaps if working class people were a touch more ruthless in policing the intolerable behaviour of their peers, then it would go a long way towards improving sentiment towards parties that hold their interests more favourably like the Greens.

38thparallel · 12/05/2026 16:34

Perhaps if working class people were a touch more ruthless in policing the intolerable behaviour of their peers, then it would go a long way towards improving sentiment towards parties that hold their interests more favourably like the Greens.

Yes, that’s true. I think the best way of doing this is if there is any suspicions that family, neighbours and friends may be right wing, then install secret surveillance and recording equipment. This will be quite easy - I mean, look how well East Germany and other Soviet states managed with far less sophisticated technology - and then a group of volunteers can man the listening-in stations.
That way, right wingers can be identified and publicly shamed and punished by losing their jobs, having children removed and so on.

Papyrophile · 12/05/2026 16:47

Where is the eye roll emoji when you need it!

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 12/05/2026 17:43

38thparallel · 12/05/2026 16:34

Perhaps if working class people were a touch more ruthless in policing the intolerable behaviour of their peers, then it would go a long way towards improving sentiment towards parties that hold their interests more favourably like the Greens.

Yes, that’s true. I think the best way of doing this is if there is any suspicions that family, neighbours and friends may be right wing, then install secret surveillance and recording equipment. This will be quite easy - I mean, look how well East Germany and other Soviet states managed with far less sophisticated technology - and then a group of volunteers can man the listening-in stations.
That way, right wingers can be identified and publicly shamed and punished by losing their jobs, having children removed and so on.

I was thinking @InstantlyBella was a parody account but if people didn't think like her then we wouldn't have authoritarianism. It always starts with ' why don't people know what's best for them?' and moves onto 'voting will just get in the way of us achieving our aims- we just need a bit longer' to 'People who exercise wrong think are subhumans who need to be eliminated'. Didn't her hero Zack Polanski say that right wingers should be excluded from society? A bit like that. Scary if they get to choose who is ' right wing' (anyone not voting Green according to InstantlyBella)

38thparallel · 12/05/2026 17:51

It always starts with ' why don't people know what's best for them?' and moves onto 'voting will just get in the way of us achieving our aims- we just need a bit longer' to 'People who exercise wrong think are subhumans who need to be eliminated'.

I think this view is quite widespread. I’ve seen on mn a number of times after Brexit and when right wingers parties do well, posts saying voters should have to pass a test before they are allowed to vote. It’s remarkable how few posters object.
InstantlyBella said that there should be no more secret ballots, eg how people vote would be made public. I realise she was probably taking the pee but there wasn’t that much pushback.

Lovingapeacefulgarden · 12/05/2026 17:59

I think the left for years have had it there own way but gone far to far in a lot of cases. This has resulted in a lot of normal people becoming frustrates, fed up and disillusioned. It's also resulted in many voters voting Reform who are more to the right. However the left seem to be throwing there toys out of the pram right now but that tends to happen when spoilt kids who always got there own way suddenly get told no. Personally I am not convinced Reform holding so much power is a good thing but it was inevitable after years of goverment failures and Keir stammer seeming determined to destroy the country.

BIossomtoes · 12/05/2026 18:21

You think “the left” had it their own way during 14 years of Tory government? Seriously?

Lovingapeacefulgarden · 12/05/2026 18:50

BIossomtoes · 12/05/2026 18:21

You think “the left” had it their own way during 14 years of Tory government? Seriously?

I dont mean jsut from the government i mean in the sense of those who shouted the loudest and because of this were heard. In scotland the left have definitely had to much of a say in politics as they shortest the loudest and labour seem to have quite a few left back benches. These people are put in power to do what is best for the country which means looking at what is right not just who screams the most. I think the silent majority are now speaking up and did ao via there vote.

dottiehens · 12/05/2026 18:57

Bringemout · 09/05/2026 21:59

I vaguely remember seeing a tweet Zarah Sultana threw back at JK Rowling the other day. She basically went something along the lines of “why do you have a problem with a brown, socialist, muslim woman”. I thought it was really interesting, she didn’t say why she thought Rowling was wrong, she went straight to a list of identities to paint herself as a victim who has moral authority due to her victims status over Rowling.

In this world view JK Rowling should not challenge her because she’s oppressing someone who is already “oppressed” and that basically makes Rowling a Nazi.

See, I’m a brown woman and I think Sultana’s a bellend, I also don’t like being forced teamed with other brown people for causes that are antithetical to my own values yet this happens around discussions about brown and black people being right wing. People actually try to shame them with their own skin colour.

Any discussion around welfare degenerates into a “why don’t we just eat the poor” hysteria. Theres a lot of “you are doing this because you are just a terrible person”. I hear it most from the left tbh, it’s a lazy way of winning an argument just strawmanning people. Where that doesn’t work people try to use no debate or shut down speakers (saw so much of this happening to GC women). Theres a fragility at the heart of it, it communicates to those of us who don’t mind having someone disagree with us that they have no argument, was it Julie Burchill who coined the phrase “crybully”? Thats what a lot of left wing activism looks like now.

I think it’s an utter pity, ideas get better when they are challenged and tested, it makes the world function better. QT used to be so much better than it is now. Anyone who’s older than 40 can probably remember political debates on TV being authentic, useful and thoughtful, I miss those days.

Yes, I agree. Thankfully there is not enough people who would support Zarah Sultana. Those types are just super irritating but I choose to not give space to any of them.

AStonedRose · 12/05/2026 19:03

38thparallel · 12/05/2026 17:51

It always starts with ' why don't people know what's best for them?' and moves onto 'voting will just get in the way of us achieving our aims- we just need a bit longer' to 'People who exercise wrong think are subhumans who need to be eliminated'.

I think this view is quite widespread. I’ve seen on mn a number of times after Brexit and when right wingers parties do well, posts saying voters should have to pass a test before they are allowed to vote. It’s remarkable how few posters object.
InstantlyBella said that there should be no more secret ballots, eg how people vote would be made public. I realise she was probably taking the pee but there wasn’t that much pushback.

in fairness, instantlybella took an initial pasting from both sides for their nonsense. There’s also a point after which people have largely ignored their siblings. I don’t think you can draw much from that

the ‘IQ test before you can vote’ this is obviously not cool, though I do understand people getting frustrated at some people’s total incapacity for critical thought. As that noted massive lefty James cleverly has noted, ‘Nigel Farage is not a policy. Being angry is not a policy’

38thparallel · 12/05/2026 19:21

There’s also a point after which people have largely ignored their siblings

@AStonedRose sorry I don’t understand this sentence.

38thparallel · 12/05/2026 19:26

the ‘IQ test before you can vote’ this is obviously not cool, though I do understand people getting frustrated at some people’s total incapacity for critical thought

Yes that’s true but it always seems to be a reaction to right wing supporters - though I’m happy to be corrected on this and I know Brexit wasn’t voted for exclusively by the right.

AStonedRose · 12/05/2026 19:27

38thparallel · 12/05/2026 19:21

There’s also a point after which people have largely ignored their siblings

@AStonedRose sorry I don’t understand this sentence.

Apologs, autocorrect. It should have been ‘wibblings’. Ie Bella pasta (or whatever they’re called)’s posts are wibblings ie.
Meandering arrant nonsense

hope that’s clearer

38thparallel · 12/05/2026 19:29

hope that’s clearer

Got it - thanks!

5128gap · 12/05/2026 19:45

InstantlyBella · 12/05/2026 16:00

I know not everyone from a working class background votes for right wing parties but I have to ask, what exactly are you and people like you doing to stop people from your fellow council estates voting for these charlatans? I'm not pointing fingers, I am just trying to understand what is going on in these communities and why they continously vote against their own interests just to spite people like me.

No ones voting to spite people like you. I don't actually think there are any people like you. Because you're either a right wing fever dream, a charicature, parody of the left stooge for Reform, or if you're genuine, when they made you they broke the mould.

Northermcharn · 13/05/2026 09:07

38thparallel · 12/05/2026 17:51

It always starts with ' why don't people know what's best for them?' and moves onto 'voting will just get in the way of us achieving our aims- we just need a bit longer' to 'People who exercise wrong think are subhumans who need to be eliminated'.

I think this view is quite widespread. I’ve seen on mn a number of times after Brexit and when right wingers parties do well, posts saying voters should have to pass a test before they are allowed to vote. It’s remarkable how few posters object.
InstantlyBella said that there should be no more secret ballots, eg how people vote would be made public. I realise she was probably taking the pee but there wasn’t that much pushback.

playing chess with a pigeon etc

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Northermcharn · 13/05/2026 09:09

AStonedRose · 12/05/2026 19:03

in fairness, instantlybella took an initial pasting from both sides for their nonsense. There’s also a point after which people have largely ignored their siblings. I don’t think you can draw much from that

the ‘IQ test before you can vote’ this is obviously not cool, though I do understand people getting frustrated at some people’s total incapacity for critical thought. As that noted massive lefty James cleverly has noted, ‘Nigel Farage is not a policy. Being angry is not a policy’

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I did like that quote from him. People forget.

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Northermcharn · 13/05/2026 09:10

38thparallel · 12/05/2026 19:26

the ‘IQ test before you can vote’ this is obviously not cool, though I do understand people getting frustrated at some people’s total incapacity for critical thought

Yes that’s true but it always seems to be a reaction to right wing supporters - though I’m happy to be corrected on this and I know Brexit wasn’t voted for exclusively by the right.

There was a significant 'Lexit' block of voters - conveniently forgotten by the raging mob.

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Northermcharn · 13/05/2026 09:14

AStonedRose · 12/05/2026 19:27

Apologs, autocorrect. It should have been ‘wibblings’. Ie Bella pasta (or whatever they’re called)’s posts are wibblings ie.
Meandering arrant nonsense

hope that’s clearer

Thanks. Last time I heard 'wibble' was on Blackadder I think, when he was pretending to be mad (catch 22 etc). Anyway, 'wibblings' fits well with bella pasta.

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InstantlyBella · 13/05/2026 09:23

I see you all talking about me and I have to say I am rather flattered darlings. You all make wonderful punching bags in the gladiatoral arena that is public discourse on the Internet.

Bravo 👏

💘

Northermcharn · 13/05/2026 09:24

InstantlyBella · 13/05/2026 09:23

I see you all talking about me and I have to say I am rather flattered darlings. You all make wonderful punching bags in the gladiatoral arena that is public discourse on the Internet.

Bravo 👏

💘

You're welcome Bella 😘

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MaturingCheeseball · 13/05/2026 09:53

I seem to remember there was some Twitter warrior (never been on Twitter myself) called I think Titiana McGrath who was the wokest of all wokesters, either riling people up or getting huge support - and it turned out the account was a parody.

Dragonscaledaisy · 13/05/2026 10:06

InstantlyBella · 13/05/2026 09:23

I see you all talking about me and I have to say I am rather flattered darlings. You all make wonderful punching bags in the gladiatoral arena that is public discourse on the Internet.

Bravo 👏

💘

Why have you written 'Internet', i.e. using a capital I?

38thparallel · 13/05/2026 10:58

Titania McGrath is still going - she’s hilarious.