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The Left have a become a snivelling self-righteous mob, busy bodying around, trying to shame others

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Northermcharn · 09/05/2026 18:17

I read this quote and it encapsulates exactly how I feel

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones giving the finger to the establishment, and the Left became the snivelling self-righteous ones going around shaming everybody'

AIBU to think this is what many people think these days? We didn't leave the left, the left left us.

*the quote is from John Lydon aka Johnny Rotten. He's deliberately provocative in lots of ways, but he meant this one. I fully expect some people to come on the thread to tell us all how he's a horror and said he likes Donald Trump. That would be them missing the point.. but.. Let Them..

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 10/05/2026 15:17

Ed Milliband being responsible for Brexit is one of the more outlandish claims that I've heard on MN, I must admit.

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:18

AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 15:16

Ed Miliband's responsible for Brexit? Not Cameron, Johnson or Farage?

Nurse, the restraints!

😂😂😂😂😂

Lovely, as always ❤

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cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:18

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:17

Wow.. 'Gaslighting? You don't know what gas lighting is!' ...

Which bit of what I’ve posted is gaslighting? I gave you my opinion abput what you had said and pointed out that it was the exact behaviour you accuse the left of - you were self righteous and shaming of Miliband (and me). Where is the gaslighting please?

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:19

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 10/05/2026 15:17

Ed Milliband being responsible for Brexit is one of the more outlandish claims that I've heard on MN, I must admit.

Not a claim a root cause. But you do you, you're good at that 😘

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Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:20

cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:18

Which bit of what I’ve posted is gaslighting? I gave you my opinion abput what you had said and pointed out that it was the exact behaviour you accuse the left of - you were self righteous and shaming of Miliband (and me). Where is the gaslighting please?

Where was I 'shaming' of you?

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AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 15:20

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:18

Lovely, as always ❤

Sorry, but if you're going to post things like 'Ed Miliband is responsible for Brexit', people are going to take the piss.

I'm happy to be polite and respectful, on the whole, but at this point, you've made yourself a laughing stock. There's a level below which you stop deserving even cursory respect.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 10/05/2026 15:21

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:19

Not a claim a root cause. But you do you, you're good at that 😘

Thank you, I appreciate the compliment.

I'd far rather do me than do you. For obvious reasons.

cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:22

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:19

Not a claim a root cause. But you do you, you're good at that 😘

It’s nonsense though, isn’t it? You blame him for losing the election at which Cameron got in, therefore you blame him for Cameron’s actions. He’s not a root cause of Brexit. Cameron trying to appease the Reformistas in his party is. Plus his arrogance in not framing the referendum in the way one for constitutional change should be framed - needing a supermajority. Then leaving the minute he didn’t get the answer he thought he would. Blaming the defeated party for the actions of the winner is just odd.

AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 15:23

cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:22

It’s nonsense though, isn’t it? You blame him for losing the election at which Cameron got in, therefore you blame him for Cameron’s actions. He’s not a root cause of Brexit. Cameron trying to appease the Reformistas in his party is. Plus his arrogance in not framing the referendum in the way one for constitutional change should be framed - needing a supermajority. Then leaving the minute he didn’t get the answer he thought he would. Blaming the defeated party for the actions of the winner is just odd.

Honestly, pal, it's not worth it...

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:24

Ha ha - I see the utterly nasty side of the left has been awoken now. Poor things, it's been a tough old few days. They must be inconsolable behind closed doors.

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cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:25

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:20

Where was I 'shaming' of you?

This, for a start: ‘Of course you try to gaslight, it's what the left do’.
But also by implication. I suggested the Tories weren’t paragons of virtue for the last 14 years and got a whole tirade about the left and how all the bad things are our fault.

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:26

cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:22

It’s nonsense though, isn’t it? You blame him for losing the election at which Cameron got in, therefore you blame him for Cameron’s actions. He’s not a root cause of Brexit. Cameron trying to appease the Reformistas in his party is. Plus his arrogance in not framing the referendum in the way one for constitutional change should be framed - needing a supermajority. Then leaving the minute he didn’t get the answer he thought he would. Blaming the defeated party for the actions of the winner is just odd.

Yes Cameron leaving Was shameful.

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cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:27

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:24

Ha ha - I see the utterly nasty side of the left has been awoken now. Poor things, it's been a tough old few days. They must be inconsolable behind closed doors.

You have been way, way more nasty than those (with one exception) on the left of this discussion. It’s odd. Why aren’t you happy? It’s not been tough for me. I’m a Plaid voter in Wales as it happens. We won. And as for the Labour losses, they weren’t a surprise and they don’t magically make the nasty racism and misogyny of several Reform candidates cool or good.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 10/05/2026 15:36

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:24

Ha ha - I see the utterly nasty side of the left has been awoken now. Poor things, it's been a tough old few days. They must be inconsolable behind closed doors.

It's ironic to complain about nastiness from the left, given that you've started a whole thread that's inspired by nastiness yourself. But whatever.

I certainly wouldn't say I'm inconsolable. I'm frustrated but resigned.

It's sad to watch a country that you love take the wrong direction, and there is something rather pitiful about people who are already disadvantaged being manipulated into voting for people who are going to make their lives much worse. But increasingly, my sympathy is waning, and there is a growing part of me that thinks fuck them, let them have what they think they want and they can then stew in a cesspit of their own making. People ultimately get the governments that they deserve.

I am fortunate in that I have money and options, so I won't be too badly affected by the worst of it. I do feel incredibly sorry for those who don't want Reform and don't have the privileges that will enable them to weather the storm, but I am gradually starting to accept that there isn't actually much that I can do to help them at this point.

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 15:39

InstantlyBella · 10/05/2026 11:18

I just want to clarify by the way that when I stated that they could be safely ignored, I meant the anti-immigration and pro-patriotism aspect of the white working class. Not every person from that particular community. Don't take me out of context please.

eh? We can read your post. That is the 'context!' You havent been taken out of context at all.

Somerford · 10/05/2026 15:43

cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:01

I’m not required to respond to every post. Another poster was in discussion with that poster and doing an excellent job at refuting her. I sent her thanks and agreement responses. But obviously I’m a horrible person because I chose not to weigh in myself. What was that about the left being self righteous and shaming people again?

I didn't say you were required to respond to every post, I just pointed out that you hadn't felt the need to reply to this particular poster's awful posts but you jumped on mine within minutes. As I said, interesting.

Dragonscaledaisy · 10/05/2026 15:54

People ultimately get the governments that they deserve.

Very true. We're certainly seeing this with the current Labour government.

cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:56

Somerford · 10/05/2026 15:43

I didn't say you were required to respond to every post, I just pointed out that you hadn't felt the need to reply to this particular poster's awful posts but you jumped on mine within minutes. As I said, interesting.

Not at all unless you are looking for offence. What are you accusing me of, exactly? Disdain for the working classes? Absolutely not. As I said, that poster was being dealt with effectively by another person. When I came on, you had just attacked everyone by saying we were all like that, so I was pointing out we weren’t. You got deleted for that attack, I see.

summerchild82 · 10/05/2026 16:11

Northermcharn · 10/05/2026 15:24

Ha ha - I see the utterly nasty side of the left has been awoken now. Poor things, it's been a tough old few days. They must be inconsolable behind closed doors.

You sound like you're only here to bait people - and that's a very unpleasant trait.

HappyMamma2023 · 10/05/2026 16:11

A old friend from school has 3 close family members who are Labour councillors. At the weekend one of them received some aggro from Reform supporters when they were canvassing, which is uncalled for. She then posted on FB and the replies and comments suddenly became vicious with her FB friends stating Reform supporters should be deported and locked up in a cage like Trump. Now I'm not a Reform voter, but it was eye opening and sad to see these Labour supporter's replies. All sounded pompous and several suggested Reform supporters weren't as intelligent. You can't win a debate when you argue this way.

Gallowayan · 10/05/2026 16:12

Yawn.

AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 16:15

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 10/05/2026 15:36

It's ironic to complain about nastiness from the left, given that you've started a whole thread that's inspired by nastiness yourself. But whatever.

I certainly wouldn't say I'm inconsolable. I'm frustrated but resigned.

It's sad to watch a country that you love take the wrong direction, and there is something rather pitiful about people who are already disadvantaged being manipulated into voting for people who are going to make their lives much worse. But increasingly, my sympathy is waning, and there is a growing part of me that thinks fuck them, let them have what they think they want and they can then stew in a cesspit of their own making. People ultimately get the governments that they deserve.

I am fortunate in that I have money and options, so I won't be too badly affected by the worst of it. I do feel incredibly sorry for those who don't want Reform and don't have the privileges that will enable them to weather the storm, but I am gradually starting to accept that there isn't actually much that I can do to help them at this point.

Same here. I'll be fine, I'm a few years of retirement, when I die, my kids will be loaded. A conservative government works fine for me personally. Reform, who knows.

My mum still lives on the estate I grew up on. I won't say exactly where but it's faintly notorious, and there have been riots on a few occasions that have made the news. There's a cliche that 90% of people who live there are decent, and it's the other 10% that ruin it, and from what I've seen that's true.

Anyway, throughout my long adult life, I've been able to see that things have got better for the decent, (mostly) hardworking, but disadvantaged people on that state when there's been a labour government, and things have gone to shit when the Tories have been in power. It's that more than anything else that informs my views - the government should seek to reduce the worst excesses of capitalism, we should pay more money for better public services, there should be a safety net for the poorest, and the best off (which includes me at this point) should bear a disproportionate share of the burden.

It's almost as if there right can't believe that people care about anyone other than themselves.

Somerford · 10/05/2026 16:15

cardibach · 10/05/2026 15:56

Not at all unless you are looking for offence. What are you accusing me of, exactly? Disdain for the working classes? Absolutely not. As I said, that poster was being dealt with effectively by another person. When I came on, you had just attacked everyone by saying we were all like that, so I was pointing out we weren’t. You got deleted for that attack, I see.

I'm accusing you of saying and doing nothing to refute that poster, which is true. You replied to me in a heart beat saying that she (i presume) is only one person and not representative of the left, so I pointed out that you weren't at all motivated to reply with refutation or condemnation. You had the time and opportunity to refute that person's posts if you found them abhorrent, as evidence by how quickly you responded to me. I simply pointed out which posts get you animated you and which ones seemingly don't.

AStonedRose · 10/05/2026 16:16

Somerford · 10/05/2026 16:15

I'm accusing you of saying and doing nothing to refute that poster, which is true. You replied to me in a heart beat saying that she (i presume) is only one person and not representative of the left, so I pointed out that you weren't at all motivated to reply with refutation or condemnation. You had the time and opportunity to refute that person's posts if you found them abhorrent, as evidence by how quickly you responded to me. I simply pointed out which posts get you animated you and which ones seemingly don't.

For the avoidance of doubt, Somerford, and unlike the PP, I don't give a monkeys what you think.

I hope I've made that clear.

cardibach · 10/05/2026 16:20

Somerford · 10/05/2026 16:15

I'm accusing you of saying and doing nothing to refute that poster, which is true. You replied to me in a heart beat saying that she (i presume) is only one person and not representative of the left, so I pointed out that you weren't at all motivated to reply with refutation or condemnation. You had the time and opportunity to refute that person's posts if you found them abhorrent, as evidence by how quickly you responded to me. I simply pointed out which posts get you animated you and which ones seemingly don't.

Ok. So you are just looking for offence. Fine.